My 9 Major Turn Off's

[Anonymous]

These are my major turn offs

1. SMOKERS

I don't like people who smoke cigars or cigarettes most my family smokes and I don't like it I don't like to be around it the constant hacking and what every it is they hack up its gross and its not a pleasant smell stains the walls.

2. HOT-HEADED

Ok everyone gets angry from time to time but when you get angry all the time its a major turn off if your one of thous people who get angry at every little thing your just not for me I'm pretty calm and go with the flow so I don't do well with people who start yelling and screaming all the time.

3. DONT LIKE MY DOG

Don't even waste your breath with the its me or the dog thing you might as well just walk out that door the convo is over. I'm not saying I carry my dog around with me or that I have to be with her all the time or she has to sleep on the bed or be on the couch but I won't get rid of her me her grand ma her mother and now her have been through a lot together she is how I keep the feeling of my past dog lucy and I will not lose her for you and besides who couldn't love that face.

4. DRUG ADDICT/DEALER

I don't care what it is crystal, pot, lithium,opiumI don't care unless your going to quite its not going to happen I don't and won't do the drug seen

5. ALCOHOLIC

Look i dont care if you have a drink from time to time but if you have to have a glass of whiskey or whatever every night of the week or get so drunk you pass out on the floor with bottle no thank you im not going to deal with it both my parents are alcoholic I know what its like to be around and i don't want it.

6. TIGHTY WHITES

I'm sorry i dont care what you look like i just really dont like tighty whites just no.

7. HATES ANIMLS OR KIDS

If you hate eather of the 2 dont even bother talking to me.

8. WANTS TO ONLY LIVE IN THE CITY OR SUBERBS

Yah sorry but thats not going to work with my goals in life your cool though go rock your dream just not with me.

9. CLINGY

I'm sorry if you have to hang off my hip your not for me i dont do clingy i need my space my mom is really clingy and i dont like it so sorry

[Anonymous]

Holy shit, glad I'm not dating you.

[myTake Owner]

Don't worry I would say no anyway I like being alone.

[LadyTerror]

I agree with most of these

[PlacentaSalad]

In the case of #9, one of my major turn-offs is a woman who uses astrology to decide compatibility and personality of the guy she's dating. I can't help but to roll my eyes when they talk about how they get along best with a Sagittarius or whatever. Are you going to avoid all pisces, cancer, libra, and leo signs because the stars somehow dictate they're "high-key clingy?"

[myTake Owner]

Um that picture was a mistake dude I find zodiac signs amusing but that's about it my x boyfriend was Leo.

[Greek_God]

Unless you have a pussy made of gold, I doubt you will find many guys. You sound quite bitchy and annoying. 15 secs into reading this and I already knew I would never date you, no matter what you look like. Reasons: Im a smoker, I act like a hot head sometimes, the only thing I hate more than dogs is dog owners, I have friends who do drugs, I drink A LOT, I also hate kids, and I hate bitches who think they are Gid's gift to men so they can put a billion different standards. Either way, good luck finding somebody dumb and desperate enough to date you

[myTake Owner]

Who said I wanted to date anyone I never said I was better than anyone I don't prance around acting like Queen sheba. Y'all seem to like to jump to the conclusion that I'm immediately a spoiled bitchy diva wich is interesting sence I'm the opposite so at least I'm not quick to judge like yourself. And just an FYI I wouldn't ask to date you to start your vary up tight and bitchy your also 20 something.

[Greek_God]

Im not sure abput what you exactly wanted to say, your grammar is terrible. Either way, you actually do sound like a bitch. And if you don't want to date anybody, why the fuck did you write about your turn offs? Who gives a fuck what a bitchy little brat doesn't want in a guy?

[myTake Owner]

Again your quick to judge and I know mine is bad so back off it OK dude and you shouldn't judge people when you know nothing about them at all. Just an FYI people like me just fine in real life I have met vary few people who actually hate me.

[myTake Owner]

By the way most of the stuff on that list is preference so I'm not being shallow it's a preference or my opinion I never said you had to like it for instance some people's opinion is they might like brunettes better than blondes

[Greek_God]

"know nothing about"? Well I know what you wrote about yourself in the take, and thats enough for me and a lot of other guys to never want to be even friends with you, not to mention dating.

[myTake Owner]

Like I said you like what you like and you dislike what you dislike and I don't know why you think I would ever want to be with or friends with someone who is bitchy and uptight like u

[Greek_God]

"Bitchy and uptight"? You realize you are the one who wrote a full post bitching about shit she doesn't like? As for uptight, you don't drink, smoke, do drugs, you are 16 and instead of having fun you write whiny posts on the internet, and I am "uptight"? Wow

[myTake Owner]

I'm not bitching and I don't need booze cigarettes or drugs to be happy And what I do with my free time is my concern. This is the only my take I made like this the rest are much different and yes you are uptight

[Greek_God]

Based on what? Because I am against boring retarded lifestyle like yours?

[myTake Owner]

Nope because you sound angry

[Greek_God]

Im not angry. But even if I was, being angry has nothing to do with being uptight

[myTake Owner]

And I didn't say I care if people drink I said if they have to drink every night I didn't say I'd reject someone because they smoke I said I didn't like it

[Greek_God]

See now that, thats what "uptight" means

[myTake Owner]

Why because I don't want to date an alcoholic

[Greek_God]

No because your life sounds boring as fuck and you want your partner to be boring as fuck too.

[myTake Owner]

My life is not boaring I have been to the ocean SeaWorld the San Diego Zoo I go bowling and roller skating I play video games I go hiking I go horseback riding I like to teach my dog new tricks I like to go to the shooting range and blow up Tannerite with my rifle I like to practice with my bow and throwing my knives and tomahawks my Uncle Pat used to be in a band till he had his hemorrhagic stroke I go swimming I wrestle my cousins

[Greek_God]

Yeah, its as boring as I thought

[myTake Owner]

Maybe to you but I'm from the country I left out skinny dipping at the Creek and swimming in the river

[vonasaurus]

i agree with some of these, esp. the one about animals.

why? well, i don't trust a person who doesn't like animals. but i sure as hell trust an animal when it doesn't like a person; our four-legged friends have ways of picking up on things that we humans can't see.

i once dated an alcoholic and will never repeat the experience. involvement with drugs is a recipe for disaster, and i also dislike being tied down- a clingy person is going to lose major points with me.

[myTake Owner]

What about animals

[vonasaurus]

i thought i'd covered that, since 'hates animals' and 'doesn't like my dog' are kinda the same thing. i don't have pets yet, but i still don't trust people who dislike animals (see above).

as for kids, i don't want them, so it doesn't really bother me if someone hates them.

[natured]

You seem a bit picky, i agree with most of them, but smoking cigarettes honestly? I don't know, i smoke cigarettes and i smoke outside, never inside the house, and i never stink... and i just smoke because i want to.. the rest is ok... I don't know you ARE PICKY THOUGH LOL !

[myTake Owner]

I'm not picky dude it's not like I'm in capable of compromising in real life I can hate you with every bone in my body but you wouldn't know that IL spend time with you and help you when you ask and even if I was picky it's OK because I fully plan to be alone my whole life anyway we'll other than my dog

[Kytb0405]

Aries, love animals (have a bunch and I'll probably spend too much time with your dog), don't smoke, drink, or do drugs and never will, never really get mad ever, don't wear briefs (too constricting), and plan on living in a big house out away from everything (no neighbors or HOA).

[myTake Owner]

Ummmm OK...

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for sharing

[dragonfly6516]

Ok this guy here was sharing to show you that guys like you want do exist. Your response to him seems annoyed and irritated. Now I don't feel so bad about the guy who commented after.

[myTake Owner]

@dragonfly6516 I wasn't mad or irritated

[Anonymous]

The most surprising thing in this take is that judging by his pic Neil Patrick Harris is packing big junk down there lol

[myTake Owner]

MH I just picked a random pic

[TMWLOP]

Dude as i was skimming the question and got to that pic i was like " dang good for you" XD

[Opinion Owner]

I would wear tighty whities if I looked like that lol

[TMWLOP]

SAME dude! But mines not that impressive so ill stick to my baggy boxers

[Opinion Owner]

@TMWLOP... Haha same. I'm in the small club too baggy boxers for me as well 😅

[myTake Owner]

@TMWLOP omg you 2 it was just the first picture I saw when I looked for a picture

[TMWLOP]

XD COME ON! its a funny picture XD

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha OP you should've added insecure guys to your list 😂

[myTake Owner]

@TMWLOP I'll give you that thats why I stopped with that pic

[myTake Owner]

Why would I put insecure guys on the list

[Opinion Owner]

Because I think it would be a turnoff to girls.

[myTake Owner]

I don't really care if he's a bit insecure it bugs me when they are argent and think they are always right and that they are invincible because they ware thare damn hat backwards wear their pants low or have the chain in their pocket I really don't have a problem with them being insecure

[PancakeFury]

When I saw this for a recommended myTake and saw the picture, I thought one of the turn offs was going to be necromancy.

[myTake Owner]

Lol 8 just like the picture

[FusionGuy]

Whats wrong with bud? It's legal in some states and districts

[john335]

My one turn off is someone that hates weed :)

[myTake Owner]

@john335 I don't like it and Will have nothing to do with it. It destroyed my family's life and I will not bring it back

[FusionGuy]

@soulbabe, it's destroyed my families life aswell, infact two strongly related members them. But just because it has affected certain people like that, doesn't mean it becomes a turn-off. Try thinking a little more on a broad minded level, you're going to miss out on a lot this way. perhaps your thinking like this cause your only 16

[myTake Owner]

I'm 17 and no it's a turn off for me I won't have anything to do with it I don't want it near me ever I want nothing to do with it not even in the in the same room as me I hate it I hate it I hate it. IT HAS NOTHING NOTHING TO DO WITH MY AGE.

[FusionGuy]

Just think about this for a moment.. you had a brother and he used to drink pepsi, but after a while he had some kind of stomach cancer and it was proven to have relationship to the pepsi. However there were plenty of other humans also drank pepsi and had no problem with it.
Would you still not even look at pepsi again, or see someone else drink pepsi?

[myTake Owner]

U didn't say you couldn't have your drugs I said I wouldn't date people who do or be around drugs and yeah I'd probably stop drinking it besides I like Dr pepper better anyway

[FusionGuy]

huh i don't smoke anymore, but my family issues is unrelated to that, i still hang out with other people that do. But if you truly think drinking Dr Pepper is being open-minded go for it

[myTake Owner]

I said I like Dr pepper my dad used to drive a simi for Dr pepper. i used to have a friend who did pot and I did stop hanging out with her not because she did drugs but because she was fucking crazy and was stalking me.

[Mrwoo99]

An yeah also don't forget the turnoff universal ones; being good, caring, loyal, providing and all round nice guy.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah yeah I knew I was going to be harped at for this my take go ahead vazio

[Mrwoo99]

I will leave the conversation as it stands before even bothering to start or continue one as I don't take anybody under the age seriously anyways, especially at 16 when your hormones are raging on turbo. All I got to say is; the truth must be said and written in blood until women's bad behavior improves.

[myTake Owner]

Um one I'm 17 in March and I'm probably the most well behaved kid you have met and I wasn't going to fight. And I don't have bad behavior because I intended to be alone my whole life so even if I'd have bad behavior it wouldn't matter

[myTake Owner]

And y'all seem to like to jump to the conclusion that I'm a spoiled vane drama mama child

[myTake Owner]

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[Nuala]

@Mrwoo99
Someone's gonna have a lonely life...

[Brooke_1713]

Strongly agree with you, especially on the smoking thing... tbh I don't even understand why teen girls even think that smoking is attractive and cool while it's not

[myTake Owner]

I don't know why all it does is clowed your lungs and fuckup your teeth

[Brooke_1713]

exactly

[myTake Owner]

The closest I get to smoking breathing in winter

[myTake Owner]

Or maybe eating something with liquid nitrogen

[Ghassan2]

I'm fine with all but #3. Dogs are nasty and their tongues have more germs and bacteria than the toilet. I'm a cat person.

[Rosieliver]

like cats are any better?

[myTake Owner]

I have cats to and you got your facts mixed up cats are the one's with the dirty mouth proven science I have a. Cat named night fury and butter cup and one named Dixie I have butter cup because we couldn't find the poor baby a home. I'll have you know my dog is vary well behaved she doesn't drink from the toilet or get in the trash she tracks and dose tricks.

[Ahmed_Sy15x]

Cats are worse, I'm allergic to cats but not to dogs, at least dogs have some loyalty (They can be even more loyal to you than all your friends and family), but what about cats?

Cats: he feeds me, I must be his God.
Dogs: he feeds me, he must be God.

[Pyrofox]

Cats have a history of eating mice and rats as well geting bitten by them and becoming the next most lethal carrier forms of all the rodent diseases.

I love cats but be careful of generalizations. The worst dogs get are fleas and they mostly scare off a rat before they have a chance to lash back.

As far as bacteria go cats have less overall bacteria species but the bacteria they do carry are easily end up infected with rodents and even birds infections.

I own a cat, dog and rabbit and they all live under one roof. xD. Its though a house cat and its as lazy as my niece's other pet the rabbit they mostly just sit and be lazy while she's at school.

[Pyrofox]

As cats can get toxoplasmosis and tape worms from eating mice and birds.

[myTake Owner]

@Pyrofox you forget some cats get stomatitis my dog actually kills mice don't eat um but kills them

[YourFutureEx]

Even cats take your hand or foot into their mouth. (Biting)

[myTake Owner]

@YourFutureEx that they do my cat bites well not bite she doesn't break skin chewing or love nip or something she does it my wrist when I do something she likes

[YourFutureEx]

Obviously, they do that for playing or something (not to hurt you). The point I was making that they also transfer germs and bacteria from their mouth to your body.

[Pyrofox]

Cat teeth are thin and sharp like their more powerful African cousins. Pet cats just lack the muscles for tearing.

Plus they dont have to puncture all the way through the skin to infect it. As humans typically have 1-4 layers of skin plus what ever ammount of fat you have on your body. Unless you have some extreme version of eating disorder.

[Ghassan2]

Come on people, it's an argument about cats and dogs. Easy people. I still believe dogs are much much dirtier than cats, but why so much heat?

[myTake Owner]

I'm fighting you because you said my dog is dirty and I have cats and love the same as my dog but she is not dirty

[Ghassan2]

OMG I am sorry.

[Pyrofox]

Dogs have more bacteria but very few actually carry infectious strains much less virus's lol.

[TMWLOP]

Hey, so would you consider a flamer to be the same as a hot heat?

[myTake Owner]

I'm not sure what you mean by that

[TMWLOP]

It means im rude to people over the internet

[myTake Owner]

Not sure if you are pretty normal temperd in real life I don't care

[TMWLOP]

Ey i get that dude

[myTake Owner]

Besides I did say everyone gets mad I just said I don't like it if you're mad all the time

[cavmanier]

You pretty much want a country guy that wears boxers

[myTake Owner]

Did i say I wanted a guy at all?

[CT_CD]

I'm a hot-headed, alcoholic drug dealer who lives in the suburbs. I hate animals especially your dog and I love to wear tighty whites and smoke.

[myTake Owner]

And your point

[CT_CD]

We're not compatible

[myTake Owner]

I already new this your 21😂

[CT_CD]

you're*

[CT_CD]

knew*

[Dog19]

I love you

[CT_CD]

@Dog19
I love you more

[bloodmountain1990]

Clinginess is annoying but it's also not good when someone's super distant either.

[myTake Owner]

I didn't say don't care just don't be clinging

[bloodmountain1990]

I know you didn't. Just adding onto your point

[myTake Owner]

I'm OK with distention people my dad and uncle are

[ayylamo]

I'm 2, 3, & 7
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[myTake Owner]

My dog doesn't leave my yard. Good for you.

[reixun]

All cept 6 & 8, agree about the rest though. Would leave a guy if he hated my pet and I don't even have a pet.

[Smarter]

Pisces are not clingy they are loners. you better come up with a different number 9 for high-key clingy

[myTake Owner]

One that picture was an accidental and 2 no most pisces are clingy as hell not sure ware you read they are not trust me I know that's my mom's and my cousin sign

[Smarter]

they are sensitive but not in a clingy way. They feel other people feeling and take it on, not something you might not understand. They dream a lot but need to be balanced.

[Smarter]

are they introvert or extrovert?

[myTake Owner]

Extroverted why

[dragonfly6516]

Pisces are extremely romantic and sensitive, and very much dreamers. They can be very sensual and touchy-feely. But they do tend to be more introverted and prefer quieter space. I can easily see why people see them as clingy.

[myTake Owner]

@dragonfly6516 my mom is temperamental and clingy trust me there is no mistaking the clingy

[dragonfly6516]

Yeah, but as someone who has studied astrology for over 10 years, I can tell you, the science is NOT accurate. Besides, you said many time that image was a joke, but here you are defending it. I was born Capricorn, but my personality is 100% Gemini, and they're not sequential.

[myTake Owner]

@dragonfly6516 it wasn't a joke it was an accident I didn't mean to put that picture. And my mother and cousin are clingy.

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 they are not clingy which people mistake for being openly open-minded and feel or take on others feeling.

[myTake Owner]

No she's not open minded at all she's clingy trust me

[dragonfly6516]

@Smarter
What? How does one mistake clingyness for open-mindedness, and how does one feel or take on others feeling? What the heck are you trying to say?

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 because they are at a deeper level of sense and feeling of those around them. Example: in a room filled with people.

[dragonfly6516]

Oh you mean they're empathic. While this may be true, that's more reason for them to want to act in ways that are or could be perceived as clingy.

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 How about empathy?

[dragonfly6516]

They are empathic; they posses an ability for empathy. They have the ability to feel and sense the emotions of those around them. This is not just a special magical power, lots of people are capable of sensing emotions on a very every day mundane level.

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 people do not sense emotion like we do or it. They also can't control it like us either. Empathy is a gift because not everyone has it. They are sympathetic. empathetic empathy is a gift. you use the word mundane meaning they lack empathy. we Pisces have a deeper sense than most around us.

[dragonfly6516]

I'm empathic on both a non-mundane level and a mundane, so I do understand the difference. I have a personality disorder, and I've had to learn to read people. In that way, I have learned to read emotion on a mundane level, but it doesn't work that way if I don't actually know the person, so in those cases I have to rely on the non-mundane abilities to sense the emotions.

It can be very frustrating "feeling" an emotion that is not my own, that I am not currently experiencing myself. Empathy isn't something that you can easily control or switch off, we get overwhelmed by feeling it all the time, and need to get away from people and take solace in our private spaces.

This give people the impression that we are introverted, but on the flip side, we understand emotions on a much deeper level and can discuss complex concepts that people with more shallow emotions don't get, which can also give the impression that we are over emotional, or clingy.

[dragonfly6516]

Pisces are more likely to truly empathic, and to give people these impressions, so really this just confirms my original point. They tend to be seen as introverted and clingy.

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 only because they can't relate to the type. it is them not us. they get overwhelmed by the person's inability to comprehend what is going on. reality is they are heartless as in those who are mundane... they think they know you but know nothing of you on a personal level.

[Smarter]

@dragonfly6516 seen means nothing.

[Anonymous]

Tighty white is a turn off. May I ask why? :/
If it's tighty black or brown then it's sexy? :)
And you didn't mention a hairy male as a turn off in your list. What did you leave that major turn off stuff from the list?

[myTake Owner]

I just don't like that style of underware litterly all thare is to it. And sence you started talking about hair I have a pretty good idea who you are and I think I told you at least 20 a guys body hair doesn't bother me

[Opinion Owner]

It's the underwear colour or the style that turns you off and why? Because is almost exposes the male genitalia?
Maybe a super hairy chest abs and back does turn you off?

[myTake Owner]

I just don't like the style I just don't and for the 22 time I really do not care about a guy's body hair

[Opinion Owner]

Boxer briefs underwear is best for men?
O well you are counting!! Where will you want your man to shave if he was super hairy man?

[myTake Owner]

I like boxers or boxer briefs or something. Dude I really really really really really really really really really really don't care if he shaves or not if you don't like your body hair shave it if it makes you happy OK

[Opinion Owner]

OK thanks for it

[NightOwl8801]

I agree but I would say that bad manners can be added to the list.

[myTake Owner]

I got board so stopped there