Guys and Communication 101.

amandaschwartz

I've dated my fair share of men between the ages of 18 all the way down to 42. If there are some things that I've learned in dealing with the male species... communication from the start, will determine how he is gonna treat you, and whether or not he is going to commit. So here are a few signs to help out the ladies out there, that might need some advice:

Guys and Communication 101.

1. Texting

If a guy takes a very long time to respond to your text message, you're not on his mind, and you certainly are not a priority. Trust me when I say, "where there is a will, there is a way". Now sure, if he texts back within a few minutes, and along the way he gets caught up in work- his responses may be delayed- but for the most part a man that is into you, will want to speak to you as much as he can, even if it is something impersonal as a text message.

As well, text messages that state "good morning" or "good night" are very good indicators that he is thinking about you when he wakes up, and goes to sleep.

2. Calling

If a guy likes you, he is going to want to hear your voice. There is no doubt about that. If a guy makes effort to call you on a daily basis, and want to hear how you're doing he is clearly invested. All too often you hear that guys don't really like to talk as much as ladies do, so if a guy is willing to chat- he is definitely a guy that is good for you.

3. Frequency of dates

The more he wants to see you, the more he likes you. A man won't invest time, effort and energy into someone that he doesn't care about nor want to see. This is especially true if the guy is more interested in getting to know you and taking you out on dates, rather than back to your place or his for some fun in the sack. If a guy is always making excuses for why he is so busy, don't waste your time and move on.

Guys and Communication 101.
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