For all those men out there, that finally manage to get the girl of their dreams, knowing that they won't put in sufficient effort and treat her right in the relationship, please leave!
1. Sooner or later we will realize it
We are not blind. If you refuse to do the little things, and slack off from being a real boyfriend- we will realize it. So playing deceptive games and pretending like everything is not your fault, or you're doing your very "best", is only going to last so long. Which brings me to my next point.
2. Waste of time?
Why waste everyone's time? If you're not gonna man up and ensure that you're treating the other person with kindness and respect, then you are certainly just on the cusp of when she is gonna walk away. This sort of illogical behavior is a big waste of time for everyone.
3. No, we won't settle
Hoping that we don't notice or get used to your lazy ass behaviors is quite pathetic. No, we really know what we deserve and what we are worth, so settling for a guy that won't put in effort while there are 10 guys lining up to be in your spot, isn't the way to go.