I'm Fat, But That Doesn't Mean I Have To Lower My Dating Standards (Page 3)
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YOU GO GIRL! I use to weight 350# I had a drastic surgery to just be accepted by society and my husband at the time. Lots of major medical problems from it. Then I didn't feel good enough so tummy tuck, nose job, and boob lift followed. I have selfworth and self esteem now, I just Wish I would have found it before the surgery
Nobody has to lower their standards but do not expect that hot guys are gonna like you 😂
If some do, they probably have a fetish or wanna jerk around.
You should lower your standards, cause high quality men have to date fat women if they don't want to. You're only setting yourself up for unhappiness if yyou're u feel like Prince Charming is just gunna come and pick you up because of your personality. Trust me, people don't have such amazing persoanliyea that can make up for a simple lack of sexual characteristics that make up the majority of your SMV.
guys who are lower than her standards aren't entitled to her. i would rather be used than be stuck with someone i don't want.
Wow, this is happening. Fat women trying to convince people that fat is hot. Yup... fuck science...
But don't fit military personnel get married to fat women? And they become dependas?
@WW2Aviatrix Why do you think there's so much divorce and cheating in the military?
Well, on both sides, they can't see each other often and that's why they cheat. Neither is there for each other physically when needed.
they're not trying to convince people that fat is hot.
This is the equivalent to nerdy men dating models and shaming the models as shallow if they aren't attracted to them.
Why don't you start exercising and eating healthy instead of thinking being fat is okay. Being fat is NOT okay
A fat girl can get laid by a good looking guy who's down for some hogging. In other news, water is wet.
Even this isn't true.
I know very few guys that would actually bone women they find unattractive, even when they're super horny.
@Deathcore_Rulez_D00d -- Then you and I travel in different circles.
Probably then.
I mean if a hot guy is REALLY horny, he could settle for an average looking girl. He would literally have no reason to settle for someone unattractive
not saying I have anything against fat women (just as long as they look good) but luckily we are in 2017 because if you would of writing this mytake in the 1950s or before you would of been doomed by now. probably would of gotten more laughed at than The 3 Stooges.
If you're fat... do something about it. Go to the gym and work out and eat healthier. I'm not trying to be an asshole. I always see fat people complain about not being able to find someone. Well, just go to the gym and make some changes in your life. Stop being a victim.
This take is the exact opposite of that...
I don't know what to think of your post.
When you say fat and post those pics, I don't imagine chubby but practically obese. Why would an obese woman feel entitled to only date the hottest guys?
I get you're mainly talking about sex and not real relationships, hence probably the high number of guys lining up, but is this really okay?
I'm fat, but think this reeks of entitlement.
Fat people should date other fat people or lose weight, imho.
fat people aren't entitled to other fat people
@afnabe That's a Hasty Generalization
Nobody is entitled to anyone. I just meant that's the most plausible and frankly, fair, course of action.
" If he doesn't like me then he is just shallow. You shouldn't be judged only by the way you look. "
Troll confirmed
You seem in total denial. The probability of you finding a hot guy that finds you attractive is slimmer than an anorexic chick.
In the Western world it's absolutely true. But if you lives in Mauritania, a country where overweight is the ideal for women then it's easier to get a partner if you're a fat woman.
@curiousnorway Yeah but your ideal partener has to be Mauritanian.
If you're into tall brown guys with African features, then it's a huge advantage for a overweight woman.
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@curiousnorway Yeah but you have to factor in all the culture and education differences.
That's true as well. Most people there are Muslims and people there are on average poorer than the Western world. I doubt they've welfare there too.
that's a hasty generalization
All I have to say is good luck because others won't lower their standards either.
The last pic is annoying, there's a huge difference between CURVY and FAT honey ( the girl in the image is curvy not fat but you're saying you're fat sooooo that doesn't relate to you) i agree fat people don't have to lower their standards but they should kind of be aware also being fat usually isn't healthy so 🤷🏻♀️
I agree that different body types can be paired together but this take seems like a bit of a double standard.
it's not a double standard. you are just upset that this fat girl isn't attracted to fat guys.
Don't be ridiculous you can't expect to pull a tall hot muscular guy if you're fat and sloppy. You're delusional.
I can and I have.
Yeah whatever. Stay fat and ugly.
you have but I bet only for sex... not as a boyfriend
That Is normal and happens with every girl..
that's a hasty generalization
I think it's wonderful that girl in the purple top took a homeless guy to get clothes at Old Navy and then bought him a frappuccino.
Lol man
Everyone has their own preference be it fat/skinny, short/tall etc. I don't think it's about anyone lowering standards but going for what you like. There's someone for everyone
I'm fat, and I'm not the slightest bit bothered by it! I have no trouble finding men, and I know it's because I'm confident, blunt, and real.
I've got a sexy as hell Viking man! @TheTrueLordJ
I can confirm this comment. Dragonfly does not have the "hot girl" body type, but that doesn't matter to the majority of people that I know. Her personality is what makes her desirable to guys.
I could be with a big girl or a tiny girl. White, black, yellow, or red. It doesn't matter, as long as they have a certain personality type and intelligence. It's all about WHO a person is, not what they look like.