Funny and useless take! Men don't approach intimidating women for the same exact reasons women don't approach intimidating men. And this take is too opinionated. People have different preferences in attracting a mate.
I'm glad you found this entertaining, but that doesn't make it useless
Neither men nor women like to approach genuinely intimidating people because sexual tension doesn't survive when you're scared for your well-being
Women generally approach men less than men approach women. There's plenty of men willing to approach attractive women, so an attractive woman who never receives attention is doing something to prevent it
While I have plenty of opinions on this MyTake, I base them off personal and second-hand experiences along with scientific facts
And yes I have mentioned that people have different preferences in mate selection
Not at all, actually. I purposely do things to prevent attention like using closed and angry body language, only dancing with girls in public, avoiding eye contact with men, and I still get approached whether I want to or not. I've basically given up at trying to avoid getting approached and just tell guys to leave me alone if they do
I wrote this MyTake for the attractive girls who unknowingly prevent themselves from getting approached (such as my one friend who I wrote about getting her crush to dance with her after I taught her how to use better body language)
No I just don't want players and fuckboys to bother me. I want a serious relationship, so acting like I don't want to be approached sometimes helps get rid of them. Right now I'm not interested in anything because I'm still getting over my ex, so I ignore men even more when I'm in public. But I've found that acting like a lesbian with my bi friend actually helps a lot with keeping people from approaching me, so I've been going out with her to clubs instead of my other friends
I certainly haven't incurred the wrong opinion of men. My ex was a cheater who thought sex was more important than our relationship, proving everything science says
I don't claim everyone is the same, but for the sake of MyTakes, I use the general consensuses that science and society has agreed on. People are a lot more alike with each other than they are different. Women are much more like other women than men; men are much more like other men than women. With 7 billion people in the world, there's a lot of people who are aren't different
True. But I believe there are ZERO sexual, visual and emotional differences between the sexes, but rather many differences among individuals. Those findings are biased and overanalyzing samples. And you either like those statistics or are merely a victim of them.
Just because you disagree with the facts doesn't falsify them. They are facts because they are founded in science and as a majority
I neither like statistics nor am a victim of them. Facts explain why people do things and explain how the world works. Individuals have the choice to go against science's predicted actions, but most of the time they do not
Well I've read quite the contrary as well. What will you say now? You only tend to post the links which suggest men as being more desperate, visual, sexual, etc. But not the countless links that suggest that the average man and women are alike sexually. I wonder why.
You read articles that take studies out of context a d cater to your delusion with individual outliers. I don't post incorrect assumptions that misuse context and content, so you can stop wondering. Men and women are not alike sexually and the counless links that "suggest otherwise" have no accurate or scientific data to back up their insignificant claims
"People" are not alike sexually. Otherwise theie wouldn't be sexually compatible couples lol. Which happens to be plenty of them. And it's actually the opposite. Your findings have inaccurate data.
You keep saying that, but it doesn't matter. This is about generalizations and the average person, not individuals. Yes people are alike when you put them into groups and try to find what they all have in common
Men are like men and women are like women, sexually speaking. Men are not like women in this sense
Sexual compatibility has nothing to do with being visual or not
I use accurate data backed by multiple sources. You're the one using unfounded hypothesis that misinterpret the studies that back up what I'm saying
At this point you're just choosing to be in denial or are in fact delusional
You need to grow up and move on with your life. Spewing lies is only going to make you more depressed and pathetic. I've backed up everything I've stated
I'm 22, so not old at all. I get approached constantly, usually once or twice a day. If I go out on the weekends, I generally have no less than 5 guys or girls approach me
I wrote this for girls who complain about being too pretty to be in relationships when they really just have bad personalities or sit on their phones and do nothing to socially interact with people
Oh okay. I thought you were older. But I do agree that many girls won't for the life of them admit that maybe there's something wrong with them and not the entire male gender
I find that the law and false accusations of assaults to be an important factor as well. This is mostly relevant to the women who are mentally unstable when it comes to intimidation though.
Most women who falsely accuse men of assaulting them are women whose advances have been rejected by men. Women don't falsely accuse men of assaulting or harassing them when men do the approaching. If men take rejection well and don't assault or harass women, they will not be falsely accused of anything, but if men do assault or harass women, then they are deserving of the accusations
That's because some men view intimidating women as assholes or douche bags.
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I don't approach women at all, but it's not really because of how they are. Initial interest is mostly due to looks and body. I'm just realistic about my chances, and how women view me. I'm not tall, handsome, or well built. I also have a small, thin penis which is the number one turn off for women. Why would I embarrass myself, and waste a woman's time? We all know what the opposite sex really wants, why play games or try to be "confident" when you know you have nothing to be confident about?
First off, your idea of the "#1 turn off for a woman", is not even always a turn off let alone #1. Second, if you haven't heard, dad bods are in; there are plenty of girls out there that don't mind a guy not being well built. Third, your confidence really helps with your looks, just seeing someone happy with themselves can really help them out when they are trying to be attractive to a girl. Everyone has something to be confident in themselves about. Lastly, DON'T make assumptions how women view you!
@foodtv I couldn't agree with you more. Guys obsess waaay too much about their penises when that has nothing to do with attraction, personality, or compatibility, and the adult toy industry can make up for any issues a woman may have with your size. Confidence is key and I go for confident average guys over insecure hot guys because personality is vastly more important than looks. And yeah, it's getting annoying how many guys on this site assume women aren't interested in them before even giving it a shot. Seriously, that girl you think is out of your league might not care because she's had a crush on you for 3 years too, but you're sitting there moping because you hate yourself. If you want someone to love you, you have to be able to love yourself first
@foodtv nice pep talk, but that is a lie. There is a reason why millions of white women flock to Jamaica, Domincan Republic, Zanzibar, Kenya, Ghana, Gambia etc. for "Romance Holidays" and it is not for small dick.
@Margillard Not a lie at all. Many women prefer average guys because they have average or small vaginas and having sex with above-average men is extremely painful and unpleasant for them. Most women don't care what size you are as long as you love each other, support each other, and respect each other enough to find ways to please each other despite your anatomy. You can't judge all women by the preferences of sluts
@Margillard She's totally right about every thing she just said. Especially with the, "You can't judge all women by the preferences of sluts". I really wish some of the guys on here would stop making assumptions about all the women on here or women in general; there are still, believe it or not, some genuine girls in the world that HONESTLY, don't mind the physicality of a partner.
I was not lying. I was speaking from experience, what I've learned from family and friends, along with what I've observed from the people Adobe me
Yes you are right, there are some girls with a shallow cervix, which is better matched with an average dick. Vaginas do come in small, medium, large and extra large sizes, just like penises do. A good genital match is imperative for sexual enjoyment. When a vagina is fully aroused and tented it expands up to 3x its unaroused state. Even a small vagina can accommodate a gentle 9" penis. The most popular dildo size bought by women is 8" by the way. And yes, women with larger vaginas do often seek the big bamboo in the Caribbean and East Africa, for over 150 years, as only 5% of white penis is over 7", while the African penis averages 7" and has more girth (whites = 4.9" average circumferance, African 6" average). African males also have 20% more testosterone coursing through their veins which generally makes them better athletes and lovers. This is the reason so many knowledgable, white girls are opting for interacial relationships with black guys,
Women only care about looks and body. Don't give me that confidence bullshit, what a load of shit. If you are a 400 pound ugly deformed person, all the confidence in the world isn't going to get you a relationship. People are shallow, it's a fact of life. I'm just tired of women lying to people's faces in an effort to make them feel better, when they know the blunt truth but don't want to admit it because they want to sound like a "nice" girl. Women care about height, looks, body, and dick size. It's the only 4 things a girl looks for in a man. Some women yes, lower their standards or neglect physical aspects to get other things, such as financial security or entertainment or even companionship. Often times, it's just temporary, until something better comes along. Women also cheat, and try to pass off another man's kids onto other men, etc. If a woman is against paternity testing because she feels you don't "trust" her, it means she's fucking around and isn't sure if the kid is yours.
@foodtv Without sex in a marital relationship, the relationship is frankly doomed. One of the basis for a divorce before the no fault divorce, was "mental torture", irregardless whether you were male or female. If you can't consumate your marriage you are out of there, since the dawn of time. Why change it now?
This negative mentality is why you're single. Women care much more about personality than looks when it comes to serious relationships. Sluts who want to sleep around only care about looks. If you're 400 lbs then you are repulsive because you don't take care of yourself--losing weight is the #1 way to make yourself more attractive if you're morbidly obese like that--and also because overweight people tend to be poor role models to children because they don't have healthy eating habits and often sit around watching TV most of the day. Therefore it isn't just being fat that is repulsive to women, but also the poor eating habits and negative traits you'd pass onto children. Women don't care what your body looks like as long as you're healthy. Women looking for commitment don't care about dick size. Women don't care about height as long as you're an inch or two taller than her. And women only care that you're good with the money you do have, not about how much you make
@Margillard that's sad that people view it like that. Call me old fashion but this, "There was a time when wives respected their husbands. There was a time when wives took care of their husbands as they expected their husbands to take care of them.", is all I've ever thought about, with the husband's respect in return as well. I hope they realize there are still some girls out there like that. I wish this world didn't make things so complicated and extra dramatic nowadays.
@foodtv There was a sex question on here for women, and the guy asked ladies what would be your number one turn off before sex? The majority answered a small dick. This is not a figment of men's imaginations, women are very selective when it comes to dick size, they prefer larger ones. The majority care about penis size, very few are willing to overlook the "problem" as they refer to it with sex toys and oral sex. Just stop lying to men so they can know the truth and move on with their lives if they are not what women are looking for. If anything it saves women headache and from being harassed.
@foodtv There are some old fashioned girls true, but it is not the norm anymore, the same with guys. Most guys are realizing the actual divorce rates are up to 90% in some areas, and to sacrifice yourself at the marital alter, is quite frankly foolish.
@ opinion owner what are your stats for that question? I'm not lying. Maybe some of the sluts of the world or women that aren't confident enough to share their real opinion are lying and for that I'm sorry but, I'm not included. I wish I could change more women's views for you.
Men don't marry because they're like you and don't respect women or the sanctity of marriage
Only sluts care about penis size, but they're also the least likely to enter long term relationships and marriage. Virgins who wait until marriage don't care about size because they have nothing to compare it to and care more about the relationship than sex
That article is right about casual sex making men not want to marry, but it also makes women not care about men either, especially if they're self-sufficient
Marriage is especially beneficial for men. Men are happier in marriage than women and married men live a decade longer than those who aren't. Marriage is directly linked to mental health for men as well with never married men having much higher likelihood of depression and alcohol and drug abuse
Marriage is better financially for both men and women, especially if both partners work
Currently 70% of people 18-40 are single. 90% of marriages fail with financial ruin for men, due to the misandy that skews divorce courts against men. How does that make you live longer... the unavailabilty of disposable income to purchase alcohol?
Expecting divorce is why people get divorced. Divorce courts rule in favor of women due to the history of men walking out on their children, having addiction problems, and not paying child support or taking care of their children. If men want to make divorce courts more even, they need to step up to the plate and actually raise their kids. If men want to avoid divorce in the first place, they need to love and respect their wives and put the proper effort into their marriages
Lol you're so deluded. Marriee couples have the highest incomes of any single or second-married or never-married couples and have the best mental health. Married men live ten years longer than bachelors because m n are happiest in marriage. Men are also happier in marriage than women, so they put in less effort. That is when their wives get fed up and divorce them. Bachelors and divorced men have the highest rates of depression
It is great tou can speak for the male population, and tell them how to think. Single men are by far more focused and financially solvent then married simps. The high failure rate of marriage is not the product of men's lack of faith in it, there you go, blaming men for all your problems again. Men are realizing the cost/benefit analysis of marriage... it is a deficit for men. Marriage has gone the way of the dodo bird. No thank you Ma'am, we pass.
Most women initiate divorce due to being dissatisfied because their husbands don't put effort into marriage or care about them. When men are unhappy in marriage, they are more likely than women to do absolutely nothing about it or cheat. This is why to e majority of men end up divorced. Another large percentage are men who abuse their wives
According to the US census, married men have a much higher income than single men. You can't argue with the census
@Idonthaveausername Trust me, some men just are not physically built to get married. I've been rejected enough times, and know enough about what women really look for in a man. Everyone is shallow, I just accept it and move on. It's life, and life isn't always fair. I just respect them, and leave them alone. Why is that such a bad thing?
Unlike you girls, I am not driven by money, and that is the #1 turn off for women, #2 is small dicks. So like the Fox and the Grapes fable, I say to my self THE GRAPES ARE SOUR ANYWAYS! Pussy is far too much of a hassle... you can keep it. Driven by hunger, a fox tried to reach some grapes hanging high on the vine but was unable to, although he leaped with all his strength. As he went away, the fox remarked 'Oh, you aren't even ripe yet! I don't need any sour grapes.' People who speak disparagingly of things that they cannot attain would do well to apply this story to themselves.
Women aren't drven by money anymore than men are. Marriages in poverty are much more likely to end up in divorce than Middle-Class or wealth couples. Desiring financial stability isn't being driven by money, it means a marriage is stronger. Women care about financial stability--it's men who make a huge fuss over wealth
Women looking for serious relationships don't care what size you are. The only ones who do are sluts looking for nothing more than sex. Since it's like minded people who attract each other, it's no wonder these are the kinds of girls you attract
If pussy is the only thing you're interested in, you don't deserve it. Relationships are based on mutual love, respect, and wanting to fulfill each other's needs. You're too selfish for a relationship
Men aren't marrying anymore and we don't care how much you shame us on it, with all your name calling. No it is you that will not have a relationship as with most girls today. Feminism has hogged all the blankets. www.foxnews.com/.../why-men-wont-marry.html
"Marriages are stronger with more money" 😂😂😂money equals love. Go sell your snake oil to a gynocentric simp, beta male.. he'll obey you. I have gone Mgtow, like millions of other young men today. Pussy is not as valuable anymore like you think it is. The difference between "Free pussy" and "Paid Pussy" is paid pussy is cheaper in the long run and the girls are much more attractive.
Plenty of men marry. There have always been men that don't want to and will be, but there are still plenty of men who do want relationships and marriage. The fact that you're not interested in marriage just means you have no weight on opinions about relationships. You've excluded yourself from the discussion because you don't like women
Financially secure couples stay together more than those in poverty. That is a fact and therefore doesn't make anyone a gold digger for desiring financial security over divorce
Funny that you prefer actual gold-digging prostitutes who do put a monetary value on their vaginas with talk like that. Since married couples make more than anyone else, no paying for prostitutes isn't cheaper in the long run
The guy pays more after the divorce, at least a prostitute is honest about it, unlike the unhappy housewife that misses all her lovers in the partying days... once you go black you never go back. The 90% divorce rate kills it for most guys. They would never sign a business contract with those odds of financial and emotional ruin, why do you demand and expect men get married? Do you think men are all fools? You really don't respect men in that case. The jig is up.
www.lawcrossing.com/.../ With women earning more now (40% of women earn more than their husbands) that is actually changing. Women and men lose an even amount in divorce now
Using a prostitute is extremely dishonest, selfish, and a man's way of sexually abusing women without being arrested for domestic violence
Well I'm not a slut, so I won't be missing any "lovers" (LOL I've only even had one boyfriend) when I'm a housewife... and I've never slept with a black guy, so you're going nowhere with that
http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/ Less than half of first-time marriages end in divorce and 90 of Americans marry before 50. Stop denying that men want marriage and stop disillusioning yourself by claiming 90% of couples divorce
Well you go on and on like a used car salesman in a high pressured sale on your marriage ideologies and the biased propoganda but the cold hard reality is, the "Sexodus" is happening and gaining momentum fastb, just like the "Grasseaters" of Japan. The west is not far behind. Men are refusing to marry, simple as that. Why in Norway the feminists just passed a law that it is illegal for a man to stand up and pee, because it reinforces violence towards women. They removed all the men's urinals... google it. Men are refusing to marry. www.avoiceformen.com/.../
I am merely pointing out that marriage isn't as bad as all the trolls on this site claim. If you don't want to marry, that's fine, but going around claiming it's the fault of all women is simply wrong. Most divorce stems from the husband cheating, abusing, or not stepping up when the marriage has problems. Women are much more likely to try counseling and work on the marriage before divorce than men. Since 40% of wives are the primary earners, claiming all women want to take half is ludicrous as half of husbands don't have anything to give. Encouraging casual sex increases cheating, so men and women Ned keep it in their pants rather than encourage behavior that causes cheating. If people actually respected marriage and their spouses, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high
You're the one spouting propaganda by making up facts that aren't real and claiming marriage is the problem when it's really people like you who don't value marriage that cause the problems
You can blame who you want, insult me all you want, but the fact of the matter is, men are not marrying anymore... all over the world, including me. Women are going to have to go it alone. Feminism has liberated men, we are free and I thank them for it.
You can believe that delusion all you want, but the truth is plenty of men still want to get married, especially as that get older. Those who don't won't have their genes missed from the gene pool with all the mental illnesses associated with those men
Most women don't care about size. The only ones who do are sluts, and sluts aren't interested in marriage anyway, so they're not really a part of this discussion
Wow lady! Slut shaming, man shaming, blaming men for all societies problems , and never taking on any accountability for your actions. You see this is in fact, that kind of attitude that is exactly what men do not want to be chained down to... bitch slapped, emasculated with all the sanctimony and abuse the rest of his short life. It is women who ultimately decide which genes to pass on in the genepool. Obviously and thankfully it is not me. Being condemned and scorned for exercizing my freedom and rights in this free country, by not marrying women, just as millions of men today choose to do, quite frankly is oppression. You women have to stop intruding. We refuse you plain and simple, get used to it. As Hank Williams once said " If you mind your own business, you sure won't be minding mine" Men have the freedom to choose the life we choose.
I'm not shaming anyone. I'm simply providing facts and opinions based on those facts
If you believe in evolution, you'd understand the purpose of life is to create more life and those who don't create more life and turn against their own kind die without fulfilling any life's purpose. For those who don't wish to procreate, they can still better the next generation by contributing to society in a number of ways. While if you believe in God you'll run into the moral dilemma of your actions and transgressions against women
Women don't want to be with misogynistic, narcissist, depressed guys. Their genes will not be missed from the gene pool and women won't be missing them. This doesn't hurt women in any way, only helps weed out the bad eggs faster
"Women don't want to be with misogynistic, narcissist, depressed guys. Their genes will not be missed from the gene pool and women won't be missing them. This doesn't hurt women in any way, only helps weed out the bad eggs faster" This is precisely why men are not marrying anymore and why you have not found a husband. Men refuse to be subjected to your shit tests and the few passive, teststosterone deficient, small dicked simps that are willing submit to you, are indeed the ones feminists choose to replentish the human genepool with. For the other real men that are refused by the modern woman, we know we are not wanted, we own that fact, we choose to go our own way without woman with our balls intact. You seated at the right hand of God, dictating how men should behave towards women is pretty arrogant to say the least. Men are so much more than that.
I have two friends who would be willing to marry me if I wanted. One is too old and the other makes poor decisions with his life I wouldn't want to marry into. The reason why I'm not married is I haven't found the right husband for me yet, but at 22 I still have plenty of time to find the right one. And yes these guys have plenty of testosterone and a very nice guys
Those men aren't wanted because they're assholes and treat women like shit. Going your own way would mean you wouldn't bother spreading your misery here and would actually go away from me, a woman
Lol no no man is worth more than the respect he gives. A man who doesn't respect women is worth nothing
Your dim veiw on men and the lack of respect you give them, works both ways, it is like looking in a mirror. Respect is given when you show respect is indeed true. I would never subject myself to you as a matter of self respect. Good luck with the old guy.
I respect everyone until they prove they're not worth respecting or show disrespect themselves. I respect real men, not insecure boys who treat women like sex objects or cheat
You've already subjected yourself to me by spending so much time on my thread. You're not going to change my mind because I'm more secure in my opinions than you
I'm not dating or going to marry my older friend. He's a great guy and I'm sure he'll find a good woman in his age range once he settles into his new place and loses a bit of weight
I'm not looking for a relationship right now either. I'm focusing on work at the moment
And that is what society expects of us, I too shall focus on my work and marriage is definitely not in the cards. I respect you decision. Still I wonder why, my decision to opt out of relationships with women would bother anyone, gays do it all the time and are welcomed by the opposite gender, in fact celebrated. Just because hertro males refuse to approach women and opt out of relationships with them, minding our own business, going our own way, we are public enemy number 1. Nocumentum documentum I suppose, the future is changing.
It is not your decision to opt out of marriage that people don't respect. It is the way you demonize women and blame women for your decision rather than accepting your own faults as well that people don't respect. Honestly I don't care that you don't want to get married, but to say you don't want anything to do with women and to then turn around and attack women who haven't done anything to you is hypocracy at its finest. If you want to focus on yourself, then actually focus on yourself and stop blaming other people for your problems
I want to get married to one man and spend the rest of my life with him with the utmost respect, trust, love, and fidelity. I haven't met that man yet and I'm not going to marry someone I know won't work out long-term. The only thing I can do until I meet him is to focus on myself and friends and family
And I'm in the process of buying a new car right now. That is my main concern
Well good luck on finding a mate that will submit to you for a lifetime, the odds are stacked heavily against you, unless feminism strikes a new law against men. Thanks for not caring the fact that me and millions of young men opt out of long term relationships. 70% of males 18-35 are single. Enjoy you new car.
Haha. Well I'm not looking for a submissive man. I'm quite traditional and I want a dominant man who wants to provide for his wife and children and wants a wife to take care of all of them. Men don't have to be submissive to value marriage for a lifetime, and I've seen many more submissive guys give up on the idea. The odds are stacked against me in most areas of life, but I've been able to surpass the expectations statistics give me many times. I have hope that I'll find the right man for me someday. Feminism doesn't affect me or the way I live my life
I am thoroughly enjoying my brand new car! I got it for less than $10K and it has everything I need. This will be my first winter with heat in my car for several years and I actually feel safe driving it on the highway
@Idonthaveausername Congrats on the car. I still don't see relationships happening for everyone. Average is ok, but if someone is seriously below average in any category, then a love life isn't possible for them. I don't need lawsuits, restraining orders, or 100 more rejections to be able to grasp the concept that I'm not physically desirable to the opposite sex. It is not a lack of "confidence", it is called accepting reality.
@Tdieseler It's true. The majority of western women today are far too selfish, unrealistic, narcissistic etc. It's because dumb men pander to them and kiss their asses.
i totally agree. . and when some guy like me comes along and calls them out on their bullshit, they start saying things like he is "bitter" or "heart-broken" or some other stupid shit, to justify their own stupidity. Me? i usually get called a jerk or asshole or some other derogatory name. I don't give a shit. The truth is the truth and just because you have tits and vagina doesn't make you right in all matters. But thats what these bitch ass men are doing now... like you said... pandering to them all the time, and the idiot females are so used to it, that when they are driven back down to reality, they lash out because their befuddled over pampered brains can't believe there is a guy she cannot wrap around her little finger. They can go fuck themselves. I surround myself with real women who know whats up, not spoiled cunts who think having tits is everything they need.
@Tdieseler That's why I always ignore hot women. Their reaction is hilarious. Ignoring them is the best way to hurt them. I once watched a video where an experiment was done. Three hot women were taken to a club full of men. But what these women didn't know is that all the men in the club had been told to ignore them. By the end of the night the women were almost in tears. They could not bare being ignored.
If the majority of men stopped chasing women and made women make more of an effort, I think women today would be more desirable. But because dumb men bow down to them and pander to them, women can get away with being narcissistic bitches.
you are preaching to the choir. I mean, im not trying to "hurt" them, though im VERY good at that... but its like dealing with a cat. if you pamper them and pet them too long, eventually they claw or bite you... but if you play quietly by yourself and seem to be having so much fun, they get curious and wanna see whats up. So called "hot" women are used to getting attention from men, so turning one or ten of them down makes no difference... but when they meet one that isn't even in the slightest bit interested in them... they wanna find out why and because of it... begin to like you. How do you think I've gotten so many good lookers... my current friends with benefits being one of them. They are used to certain things/people... i just am not like that. and they can't resist the urge to find out more.
You're just miserable because women aren't attracted to you. The only reason you feel the need to insult women is because you're insecure and have a bad attitude. No amount of you wining is going to change anything. Men will always approach hot women, couples will always get married, and you will remain miserable and alone
Women call you a jerk or asshole because you're an alcoholic narcissist. I don't know if you remember our discussion, but I do. Women don't like alcoholics because addiction is a terrible thing to live with and women don't like men ruining themselves with vices. Most people don't like being in relationships with narcissists because they always end up feel neglected, like their feelings aren't being understood, and often get abused
I've had many women attracted to me, but I turned them down. Yes, dumb men will always approach hot women, but they usually end up getting screwed over. Staying single has allowed me to save a lot of money and soon I'll be financially secure for life. If I ever crave the urge to have sex I can easily pay an escort to please me. There's no need for me to find a woman. I can just pay for one and use her for sex, while at the same time continue to save more and more money.
There's no real woman attracted to you, only one with too low of self-esteem and respect to deserve better
Dumb and smart men will always approach hot women, and the respectful ones will have happy, long-lasting marriages
Many married couples have even more money than single people, especially if both partners work. Tax breaks allow married couples with children to keep even more money. Financial security comes from good money-saving habits and well-paying jobs, and has nothing to do with being single or married
The fact that you actually pay to get sex shows how few women are actually attracted to you, how poor your morals are, and how you disrespect and abuse women. That's disgusting
So now you're judging these other women lol. Oh the irony. Some married couples are financially secure, but very often the man gets screwed over and the wife takes away his financial assets through the divorce laws. I know of many dumb men who chased after women, ended up getting divorced, and got screwed over. I don't have that worry because I have nothing to do with women. And I don't pay to get sex, idiot, I said I could do if I ever had sexual cravings. No need to settle down in order to get sex. Just pay a whore, use her for sex, then move onto the next one. Job done.
pfft... look at this moron. don't make assumptions about me... you don't know me. talking about women and how they don't like narcissists meanwhile being the biggest narcissists of all. its fine when the woman neglects the man but its front page news when its the other way around... dont come at me you nameless fuck, i'll tear you apart. Stupid ass women always wana talk about how they have it so bad, try being a dude for a day and see what the fuck happens on our end.
"The median household income of married families is twice that of divorced households and four times that of separated households" marripedia.org/effects_of_marriage_on_financial_stability Once again, men who respect and love their wives and put effort into their marriages do not end up divorced. Only men like you who disrespect women and put your own needs first get divorced LOL you just said you pay escorts to get sex like a disgusting pig And you pay me an awful lot of attention for someone who claims to have nothing to do with women
It's fine if you want to act this way in front of other trolls. I still remember when you admitted I was right about our little "expectations" and "requirements" debate, so nothing you say here is valid. You probably don't remember it because you drink too much
I am willing to listen to male perspectives when they're respectful and don't make it a huge pity/sob session
Women divorce good men all the time, but continue to delude yourself :) And I don't pat escorts for sex, I said I could if I wanted sex bad enough. And the reason I'm giving you attention is because I enjoy calling you out on your bullshit.
This proves women who initiate divorce do so because they're dissatisfied with their husbands and marriages. Since unmarried couples breakup equally between men and women, that means there's a breakdown in expectations and commitment when it comes to marriage. Women don't divorce good men--women divorce bad men who don't put the proper effort into their wives and marriages
This article also points out feminism as a problem since men still seem to expect women to do the bulk of the housework despite also expecting her to work. This means women put more effort into marriages than men
This states women divorce men when doing more housework/raising children. Men cite more happiness in marriage, so marriage is more beneficial to men. Men have to put in more effort if they don't want to get divorced
And we both know those studies are bogus. I can easily find other studies that say the opposite, but you have no way of proving them. In reality, women leave good men all the time. Usually for selfish reasons. Women have higher expectations due to their greedy, selfish nature, and when men do not keep up with their wives high expectations, the wife will divorce him, take his children, and most of his financial assets. That's why men should avoid women like the plague.
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...riage_n_5273946.html This proves that women leave men like you who have negative views about marriage, don't put effort into their wives, and have terrible personalities. They leave these bad men for non-selfish reasons
"it’s often the woman who expresses more overt conflict and dissatisfaction about the state of the marriage. On the other hand, the man is more likely to report feeling troubled by his wife’s dissatisfaction, but pretty much “OK” with the way things are; he's content" www.psychologytoday.com/.../women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why Another one that says men don't do anything about their wives being dissatisfied with them yet women bring it up before initiating divorce. Those divorces are preventable if the husband actually cares about his wife
But those statistics are biased and are flawed, as you well know. Women leave good men all the time, no matter how many bogus statistics you quote. Women cheat just as much as men, maybe more. Women are greedy and selfish by nature, which is why women file for divorce a lot more than men.
Women do not leave good men. Good men who treat their wives lovingly with respect do not get cheated on or left. Bad men who abuse or neglect their wives get cheated on and divorced
Women file for divorce more than men because men are content with allowing their wives to be unhappy rather than fix what they're doing wrong while women get fed up with not receiving any change from their bad husbands
That's not proof at all. Any moron can browse the internet and find studies and statistics that agree with them, but in the real world women do often leave good men. Women know that the law usually favors them and they know that they can get most of the financial assets, so it's no wonder why so many women divorce. Women are selfish by nature and will divorce a man for selfish reasons. Women cheat just as much as men, maybe more. They just hide it better. Either way, western women should be avoided.
You know the reason why she feels she can go on? you already stated the legal aspect, but there are so much more but women like her can open their mouths and just let nonsense spew forth because of one reason... They have NEVER been put in our situation before. To them its all about the present, they forget history and the past. She can show her ignorance now... because she's not the one that has to do planning, get nervous, risk rejection just to spend your hard earned money on some chick that will dump you just for saying the "wrong" thing. Now multiply that by the Many women guys go out with... do we ever get refunded for that shit? a girl might not like a guy but if she is enjoying the date.. will endure the whole thing just to reject the guy in the end. I once wrote that it will be so fuckin awesome if when a girl decides after a date that she doesn't want to move forward, the dumb ass should refund EVERYTHING. Lets see how many dates women will want to go on then...
Women don't have to deal with the constant double standards, talking about women don't want men that have negative views on marriage when its a well known fact by all men that between men and women, men know MORE about marriage than women do. thats why we avoid it like the plague for as long as possible. Women jump into it stupidly, just to serve up papers a short while later. Another thing, talking about men don't put in "effort"... that is such HORSE shit. I once wrote that majority of women try to change men, but when the man wants a change, he gets "you should accept me as i am"... so you know what, i hang my hat with myself... if they won't change, i won't either, and they can always fuck off... totally replaceable.
@Idonthaveausername ok, maybe i came in a little hotter than i normally do... but understand, this is not shit that happens like once or twice... before a guy meets a good girl... there are tons he has to wade through.. unlike girls who tend to have em in single digits.
Yes it is proof because it's scientific evidence that proves it. And if any "moron" could could browse through the internet and find statistics to back them up, then you'd be able to find something rather than spewing bitter nonsense that isn't even based in reality
As I proved, men cheat more than women. All the women I know who've cheated were in relationships with cheaters
Women don't leave good men. Women leave bad men who don't appreciate marriage or their wives and who don't put in enough effort
LOL. Wrong again! Laws have nothing to do with love or marriage, only divorce and people who get married for the wrong reasons other than love
And seriously don't pretend like you pay for dates. We all know you expect the woman to pay for her own movie ticket, and if she doesn't, you go and sit in the theater by yourself. There's nothing for you to get a refund on
Nobody should be in a relationship with someone they want to change because that's not love
It's not proof at all. Typical lying feminist searches the internet for studies that back up her assumption and then pretend it is a fact. It isn't. In the real world women cheat just as much as men. Women also leave the good men and stay with the bad men. Something I have witnessed over many years. More men are waking up to this and eventually women will no longer be able to screw men over through divorce. Men are waking up and more women will end up alone living with pet cats.
To be honest... @HandsomeGuy500 you are an older man, so you should know that this will never end, because apparently "women are never wrong"... im tapering off now. I know i'd have better luck convincing a tree stump to do the Mambo, than get @Idonthaveausername to admit that you and I are putting in good real-life points. Love how she keeps saying "as I've proved"... all I've been seeing are links lol. This is why the stupidity goes on, women thinking stupidly and guys refusing to correct them, or the women refusing to admit they are a bit off. And they wonder why They get cheated on more... refusal to ground themselves in reality and only think fantasy. She is right about one thing, and i do remember saying it, that for some women, if we went out, and they can't pay, i'd go on without em. But the question you gotta ask yourself Username is... Did I start out that way? or was it that after paying for 250 movies.. they all turned out to be narcissistic inflexible bitches.
"plays the victim"... my favorite phrase when it comes to dealing with women lol... I mean... why wouldn't they? its like dealing with a baby/toddler... when the baby is quiet... all is good, but when the baby starts to cry, everyone scrambles trying to find out WHAT the problem is. Why won't women play victim, when for every time they open their mouth, there's some idiot guy willing to do their bidding. I wrote in my article "show me your man card", that if men can just for a while, stop assuming that if they are white knights or some shit, the girl will have sex with em. just for a short while.
Lol.. i still laugh till today about a guy (on here i think) who saw another guy slap his girlfriend in a store... and immediately punched the boyfriend in the face. The boyfriend beat the shit out of him, AND still left with the girl... that SJW was left with breaks/sprains and a hefty hospital bill loool... turns out... the woman cheated on her boyfriend and was being confronted.
Im not saying its bad to help another human in distress (notice how i didn't narrow it down to just females?), im saying, know the full story first. I personally won't step between anything unless it seems its gone too far.
saw a video of a woman slap, punch and kick her boyfriend for like 5 mins (close to 60 hits) and no one said/did anything... eventually he had enough and handed out 3 of his own and she fell.. now all these idiots come out of the woodwork, women calling him a coward for hitting a woman, and men telling him that it wasn't cool... victim.
That's a great link that shows 20% of men and 15% of women cheat, proving both my points that men cheat more than women and that most people don't cheat. I'm glad you finally understand
ROFLMAO! Again, I'm a Republican and prefer traditional gender roles. I in no way am a feminist nor do I support the murder of unborn children
You've always been a player and a cheater, so your track record backs up my points. You don't respect women because your mother abused you as a child and you've never gotten over it. You're almost 30, so you either need to go to rehab and get some professional help or you're going to be exactly what your mother made you for the rest of your life and probably die from your excessive alcohol consumption. And since you're more interested in fuck buddies than real relationships, you're not applicable to this discussion anyway
Physical violence of any kind is unacceptable. That guy was doing the right thing by trying to stop it
@Idonthaveausername my playing days are over boo... been over, I've had my fun. My mom didn't abuse me, there is no word to define what she did, i don't need rehab, i just need space from morons. "that guy did the right thing"... you think so? well then, can i send you his email so you can help him with the accrued hospital bills? let me guess... NO.. you won't help. That is why i say he's an idiot. You talk a good game darling, but if you know so much about me, then you know im more of an Action guy... Problem and Solution. all this talk, is bad for my psyche... it won't change you from being an ignorant moron, and definitely won't change me from digging down to the root and maintaining the name "asshole". I do agree with non-violence, but you gotta stop calling those links Your proof... give us a story that YOU lived through.
The fact that you played at all proves my statistics right
"Fear of the name only increases fear of the thing itself" so calling it something different won't change anything for you. You most certainly do need rehab, but you know that more than anybody else here
Doing the right thing isn't always the smartest decision and it may , more often than not, get you into trouble. But doing the right thing gives one integrity, something you both know very little about
If you were n action guy, you wouldn't be laughing at another guy for taking an action
My links prove the same thing as his links, so yes they are proof that what I'm saying is true. Our links prove you're the ignorant morons
Here's a story: my ex cheated on me, so I dumped him, and now he's self-destructing because I was his dream girl and he'll never have me again. I never did and never would've cheated on him nor will I cheat on anyone I date or marry in the future
@Idonthaveausername say whatever you want. The only thing im amazed at, is the fact that I haven't gone back to my old ways. HOPING (keyword) that there is some female out there that actually has a modicum of sense. What you girls don't seem to realize is that YOU bring it on yourselves... and when boys adjust accordingly, you begin to bitch and moan. "The fact you play at all..." what kind of stupid statistics? I was a teen, i discovered girls but all of them wanted the jock, not the nice guy who was a gentleman. So... i became the jock and i had "options" and i fucking used them. Sadly, same shit is still happening today... you sit there and spew bullshit like "ill never cheat..." look, cheating doesn't start when one person porks another. Cheating ALMOST ALWAYS starts BEFORE one person has had enough, and branches out. Thats why i have little sympathy for the morons that cry "victim" because 9/10 times... they cheated first.
You haven't changed anything really. Fuck buddies is the same concept as playing (having sex with one or more people without getting emotionally attached). You're doing the same old thing, just the girls know about it now. You haven't changed until you respect sex and emotional intimacy together
There are plenty of women with sense enough to avoid you
I was clear with my ex about not sleeping with him, so no, I did not bring it on myself. I didn't bitch or moan either--I dumped him and moved on with my life without him
I will never cheat. If my relationship gets that bad where I no longer respect my partner, I will end it. And I don't sleep around, so no guy is attractive enough to tempt me from someone I love. I will never cheat and you're only proving you're too jaded for this discussion by telling me I will
Lol that's ridiculous. Cheaters cheat. If someone doesn't cheat, they couldn't possibly have cheated first
Just like a female... always look at the surface only... "If someone doesn't cheat, they couldn't possibly have cheated first"... no... they cheated first. Let me slice you off a piece of my simple mentality. if im with you... and i want something from you and you deny me... tell me... aren't i right to go searching for it elsewhere? i mean, if we made a pact that we will be there for each other or whatever... then you deny me... who is cheating? me or you (them)... so don't give me that crock... stupid people are the ones that look at infidelity and go..." oh they cheated"... most so-called "cheaters" were PUSHED into cheating by their SO pushing them away...(most of em). so don't give me that crap. as a former cheater, I've been in and out of that shit, you say you won't cheat... just leave... hahahahahahaha... right. funny part, just the way you say it... sound like your love is a little too tight... clingy?
Acting misogynistic towards me is only further proving my point that you're not relationship material. The fact that you're blaming women for your disgusting behavior in cheating on them is a hallmark of your Narcissism. You are absolutely not right to go search for something elsewhere if someone you're dating doesn't feel comfortable with it. That's extremely selfish and proves you don't care at all about the women you use. A woman doesn't sign a contract to date you or owe you anything, and by the logic you use, you owe her the decency of being faithful when she hasn't cheated on you. Cheating is cheating; denial is denial. If you're unhappy with the denial, then talk to her about it and breakup if she isn't willing to work on things. You're twisted in your views on cheating and can't keep blaming women for your selfishness and bad behavior
I'm a virgin and only want to be with one man, so no I will never cheat. I dumped my ex for cheating, so yes I'd dump someone first
@Idonthaveausername cheating is cheating huh... again.. you aren't listening... cheating STARTS before the actual act. And i mentioned that before. i also mentioned i have no sympathy for the "victim"... cuz in most likelihood, they started it. Literally everything you said in that last comment, was stupid and biased. a woman doesn't owe me anything but its ok, for me to owe? its supposed to be a partnership... and guess what... women flake first.
Cheating is cheating. If you aren't happy in a relationship or are unwilling to wait for sex, then you should leave the relationship rather than cheat. My ex was the latter, so it's entirely his fault that he cheated because I was clear from the beginning that I have no intentions of sleeping around. I've never claimed I'm a victim and I've actually prevented myself from being a victim by dumping him and moving on with my life
I never said you owe a woman anything. You're the one who's entitled here in thinking a woman owes you sex. If a woman doesn't want to sleep with you, that's an incompatibility issue you need to deal with like a healthy, mature adult, not an immature, narcissistic alcoholic
You don't enter into partnerships. You use women for sex and don't provide anything in return, especially not love
Women don't flake. Women see you for what you are--not relationship material
Tell that to the ton of them who have tried pressuring me into whatever kinds of relationships... IM the one that turns it down. Oh, and congratulations on not "sleeping around"... lol, you don't have to sleep around to gain experience darling. Like you hinted @Idonthaveausername sex is not the only way to cheat, you might think that but its not. And that is what inexperienced people don't get. Sex is just the OUTCOME of cheating.
Say for example, i keep leaving a candle lit next to a curtain or sleeping with a lit cigarette... when my house burns to the ground, whose fault is it? the lit cigarette (or candle) or the moron who didn't pay attention. Just because the bitch ass men we are breeding today don't let females know when they are in the wrong, doesn't mean i'll conform, i'd rather go sexless than let some female play me like im stupid. I have respect for women, but in relationships? dumber than a bag of rocks.
@HandsomeGuy500 she's a woman, what did you expect? I wouldn't classify her as crazy (yet) just clueless and misguided like other women. and that is what I've been trying to open her eyes up to but she can't see it because she isn't male. that "entitlement" is still blocking her vision. But im trying. I wrote in an article of mine how i hate virgins and was questioned, and i wrote my answer... they act just like this. They don't understand that just keeping a flap of skin doesn't make you a better person, just a trophy. she doesn't get this either. I can sense the obstinate woman behind her words... but she doesn't get that she has to let that guard down in order to learn.
@Tdieseler She's been harassing me for a long time now. She doesn't care about facts or logic. She just plays the victim and continues to parrot her horse shit.
If you don't like my viewpoint, you can stop harassing me. You've replied to several of my threads combatively while I have never posted on any of yours. It's clear you don't understand what harassment is, and I'm sure that's one of your biggest problem with women. You're not going to convince me you're sane with all the delusional blabbering you do. You view of women is completely wrong, your view of marriage is misguided, and your actions and beliefs are unhealthy. You sure spend an awful lot of time harassing me, a woman, for someone who claims to want nothing to do with us
You're still here because you know that in a site full of shit, I'm one of the few people you've admitted respect to. You can claim you never said that all you want, but that just makes you a hypocrite, something you hate above all else
You don't have to agree with my viewpoint to respect me. I respect that men don't want to get married. What I don't respect is the demonization of women who haven't wronged them, are faithful, and not interested in shallow relationships. And I have no tolerance for cheating
Whoa @Idonthaveausername I knew you, and yes you are right... i do respect you.. oh and also feel free to post on mine...
but im not combative towards you... i just want you to admit there is a "divide". most women, i just classify as idiots... You... i think you are smarter than those...
I wasn't saying you were combative. The other guy is combative, you're just condescending which comes off as extremely rude. If I run into one of your posts that I feel strongly about, I'll make sure I let you know
There are many divides between genders, races, cultures... I classify most men and women as idiots, but some of those idiots mean well and are nicer than people twice as smart
I just don't know what to say and don't get a chance to say anything. I'm usually on the go so meeting a girl on the bus or subway would be best for me. Any tips?
That's kind of a difficult one because most women prefer not to be bothered when we have things to do and places to go, so the bus or subway isn't the ideal place to meet a woman. Furthermore, most Millennials prefer to shut out social interaction on places such as subways and elevators, making conversation more difficult. I'd suggest trying to find an hour or so on the weekend to devote to social gatherings with a more relaxed atmosphere. But if you do see a woman on the subway you find attractive and want to meet, make sure she feels safe and comfortable before approaching her and start with a compliment about her scarf or purse or a comment about how the train is taking so long rather than straight asking for her number. Try to create a small conversation first so you know she's welcome to talking to strangers and not in too big of a rush. And as always, be respectful and courteous if she says no or isn't interested
You put the quotes in the wrong place dude. The accusation is real, but the "sexual harassment" is more "minor annoyance" which isn't criminal. Drama queens. You're better off without such high maintenance bitches. It just sucks that we live in a country where men and women really aren't treated equal. Women do have it a shit ton easier, which is why SO many bogus accusations are taken seriously.
"If you approach women respectfully, you won't be accused of sexual harassment. Guys who go around groping girls rightfully deserve it"... no ONE said ANYTHING about Groping.
At a Bar there is "NO WAY" to know if she is looking or NOT. I've seen plenty of Nice guys walk up to a girl/group of girls at a bar/club and offer an drink and they are meet with Rude/negative reaction.
Girls have no Ideal how hard ( insensitive) a public rejection like that is. I say... Women are the ones that say yes/no to hooking up... then they should be the ones to do the asking.
98% of girls at a club aren't looking for a man... so Why would I waste my time? Of that small % a guy has even a smaller chance she would say yes as He doesn't know if he's her type... It's a COMPLETE waste of time. With the internet... there are SO Many girls "Looking" the pressure is on the Girls to make her intentions know or he won't bother wasting his time... as he probably has other girls to choose from.
My Buddy who was 50yrs old at the time.. was a serial dater and had girls 30<35 throwing themselves at him to get another date... make him interested. The tides have turned and there are more single women to men nowadays so the girl has to be aggressive.
I don't live in the UK, so their laws are not taken into consideration when I write. I write for an American audience. If other cultures want to adapt my advice, they're welcome to, but I'm not wrong just because my advice may not apply to your culture
You're wrong in assuming women don't understand how embarrassing a rejection can be. When men approach me in a polite way or try to start respectful conversation, I talk to them and dance with them. The only time I'm rude in rejecting someone is when he rudely approaches me
Again, I don't approve of hooking up and I write for people looking for genuine and committed relationships
And actually more women are interested in committed relationships than men. Most people who engage in casual sex are open to relationships if they meet the right person
Well yes there's more single women than men because there's more men in the world than men
@Margillard talking about girls who are only annoyed that they were approached by a guy who isn't attractive, to them, and then they make fake accusation of sexual harassment. Simply trying to talk to a girl isn't criminal.
You're right about women doing the asking; we wanted gender equality, and that's exactly what is entailed. We women are now 50% responsible for making the first moves, AND PAYING for the first date!! And, last I checked, I'm human, and as such, I enjoy sex. I'm not afraid to tell a guy that I'm DTF, no strings, just fun.
@dragonfly6516 Feminist have deemed talking to a girl in public, misoginistic and in England, the lawmakers drafted the "Misoginist Hate Crime" law, punishable by up to 10 years in prison. If you put the make on a lesbian, or another non welcoming gender or a feminist or a unwelcoming cist female and they decide to press charges, guys are screwed. The law can even be used by any misandrist to "Swat " an innocent guy and have him swarmed and beaten or killed by trigger happy police. No thanks I will not take my chances and jeopardize my freedom or mortal life what is left, thank you very much, for the encoragement... I am not that corageous, sorry to dissapoint you. Hopefully you will find your bad boy.
Most women aren't feminists, so you can't hold all women to the same standards just because feminists want something. I prefer traditional gender roles myself and wouldn't want to be with a guy who supports modern feminism or wants to be with a feminist because we simply would be incompatible. I want to be a stay-at-home mom, at least when children are young, so someone who isn't willing to pay on the first date is showing he has poor capability and no intention of providing for our family. So while acting like you want feminism equality is going to be unattractive to a lot of women who prefer traditional gender roles
@Margillard I live in the US, and I've been dating my Viking for 3 years now. Not a bad boy, a real man. I'm not a feminist, nor do I agree with half of their agendas or ideals. I'm for actual equality, and I'm the one who asked him out.
@Idonthaveausername..."Most women aren't feminists, so you can't hold all women to the same standards just because feminists want something."
The same way Men get Labelled as "ONLY wanting Sex, Dogs". I guess see how Prejudice that is for guys. The big difference is the Guy gets treated worse and... it's accepted.. no one considers it bad.
It's come to the point in the USA... that "IF" a girl wants a GOOD GUY/Husband/Father for her kids... SHE has to be the AGGRESSOR. If she waits fro a guy to hit on her she will ONLY get the guys looking for a ONS/Fuk buddy.
A good example is ALL my female friends... get along with, have fun/laugh... I'm attracted to them but NONE of them want anything more... I have "Complete Strangers (women) asking to FK? Girls HAVE IT MADE... they JUST DON'T HAVE THE COMMON SCENE TO ACT ON IT.
I see SOOO many DUMB comment on how GIRLS don't want to date their BFF because they don't want to lose them?/ WTF... So DO U/ DON'T U waNt to BE WITH A MAN THAT LUV?
"The same way Men get Labelled as "ONLY wanting Sex, Dogs". I guess see how Prejudice that is for guys. The big difference is the Guy gets treated worse and... it's accepted.. no one considers it bad."
Sex is a pleasurable physical act that does not equate love, and I don't get emotionally attached to the men that I have fun with. But if I seek out the exact same unattached sex that men are praised for, I'm looked down on, as cheap, easy, lose, and it's assumed that I have STDs. Every bit of that is false, for me at least.
Maybe if a stop was put to this, it would be easier for men to get laid, because maybe at that point there could be a clear distinction between a man looking for sex, and man seeking a relationship. Those looking for sex would have an easier time of finding women who were willing, without the fear of a ruined reputation hanging over these women's heads.
And that, in turn would make it easier for those seeking relationships, as those looking for sex alone would be able to boldly state their intentions, and not have to worry about leading a girl on, because other women would have no fear of social stigma in stating that they too just want sex.
Men have a prejudice of only wanting sex because a large portion of men do. I told my ex I wasn't going to sleep with him anytime soon because I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex with more than one man (waiting until marriage, yes). He lied to me when he claimed he was willing to wait and then decided to cheat on me instead. If men would't cheat or act like dogs with sex, then women wouldn't make that correlation
Your female friends aren't interested in you due to your personality
It has not "come to a point where women have to be aggressors." I see a lot of guys on this site claim that, but it's not true at all. Men of all different kinds hit on me all the time. I have guys looking for relationships approach me all the time
LOL I would never date a good friend. Good friends are necessary for low points or breakups. Friends are friends because they don't initiate romance or assume attraction
There are just as many women who cheat, two-time, and even play the field, as men. Men just carry the bad rap because of the misconception that women don't enjoy sex the way men do.
The law allows for misandrist to "swat" an innocent guy. Perhaps a bitter and angry girl that just got dumped or what have you, then a ugly guy hits on her and uses him for a scapegoat. There are a lot of women with mental health issues out there. This is why we don't approach girls anymore.
Lol. Women don't go after men for the sake of it. Women don't use random guys as scapegoats. And I really hope you're not trying to insult me with that because I'm not bitter about him cheating on me, especially not now that he's self-destructing without me and trying to get me back
There are a lot of men with mental issues and their external aggression related to mental illness is much worse than women who internalize it www.apa.org/.../mental-illness.aspx
Men still approach women all the time. Just because you don't doesn't stop other men
So how can you tell if you are approching a feminist misandrist, some other non welcoming gender, or a angry heterosexual female. You can't, the chances are slim the risks are high. The cost/benefit analysis is deficit, plain an simple.
Actually, women are more likely to lie about cheating, because they tend to feel justified, and blame the man who is being cheated on.
Women who are caught dead to rights are more likely to just walk away and leave, feeling no guilt or remorse, blaming the man for not trying hard enough to keep her interested.
But men are more likely to feel remorse, and try to win her back, or keep her.
Those statistics are only based on what was actually admitted to, or could be proven.
Those are anonymous statistics. Face to face studies showed only half of the women who cheated admitting it. Yes women are less likely to admit it face-to-face, but so are men. Across anonymous and non-anonymous studies, men cheat more than women
Men cheat for sexual reasons and women cheat for emotional reasons. When either partner withholds either, that is an unhealthy relationship and both partners need to reevaluate or split up. Cheating and abuse or manipulation are not answers to these problems
@Margillard
You can tell if you know someone long enough or get to know them. Having genuine conversation and interactions will give you an idea. Since most people aren't what you're claiming women are, no the risk does not outweigh the reward
Saying all women cheat is ignorant and a huge generalization, so is it saying all men are cheaters. For every man cheater, you need a woman... basic math. Any women definitely do cheat for sexual reasons, this is why millions of women go for "Romance Holidays" on the tropical beaches of Jamaica, throughout the Caribbean and the European girls travel to Zanzibar, Kenya, Ghana, Gambia etc for the big bamboo, mandingo BBC. This a very popular event organized by female swingers in Kingston Jamaica: Mochafest. com
Here's an article that agrees with with you that both men and women cheat about the same amount, (but doesn't offer any legitimate evidence to prove it). If more women cheat with other men in relationships and men cheat with single women, yes this proves men and women have as much sex, but can account for more men than women being cheaters
It also details that women do in fact cheat for emotional reasons and lists the top 5. 56% of women are in love with the men they cheat with and only 27% of men love the women they cheat with. Yes some women cheat for sexual reasons as cheating is a sexual act, but most do it for emotional reasons
Swingers aren't cheating. Those are agreed-upon sexual acts that the other partner is fully aware of. Swingers can cheat in conjunction to swinging, but the swinging itself isn't cheating
Here is an interesting poll, it shows the percentage of women who will cheat if the dick is that good. Only 5% of white dick is bigger than 7", the other 95% of males aren't that much of a temptation. 44% of women dumped their guy because their penis was too small. 50% of white male penises are smaller than 5.1" which may affect the chances of a woman cheating. http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
Lol that's what you get when you date sluts and encourage sleeping around. Women who wait until marriage don't have any other sizes to compare to. Half the women in that poll have slept with over 10 men and it doesn't specify how many men each woman who answered 1-10 slept with. Studies have shown women with less sexual partners have much higher sexual satisfaction and better marriages that last longer while women with more partners are less satisfied and have shorter relationships. So it's no wonder all the sluts in this poll are unhappy with something that is perfectly fine because they're just bitter they lost something better
Simple comparison of number of partners slept with shows this isn't an accurate sample of the general population
I thought it was us misoginist men that were the culprits of slut shaming. And don't tell me you are saving your virginity for the right man at 38 years old,
Lol I'm not slut shaming anybody. I'm pointing out the fact that sluts are the only ones who care about penis size and that virgin girls don't because they have nothing to compare it to. Girls tell me all the time how much they hate the way they lost their virginity to guys who didn't care about them and how they wish they would've waited like me. I'm not even close to 38 yet, but I wouldn't mind dying a virgin as long as it means I'm not having sex with someone who doesn't love me. If I ever get married, it will between just me and my husband
When a man is single after 35, you can pretty much bet he never will ever get married. 40% of men never do get married and carry on their dna, that number is rising quickly. Look at Japan's "herbivore men" or " grass eaters" as they are also called, the west is not too far behind. World wide it is gaining fast. It is written in the bible: "Thus saith the Lord: In that dayso few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying "Let us marry you! We will provide our own food an clothing. Only let us take your name so we won't be mocked as old maids" - Isaiah 4:1
@Margillard , "When a man is single after 35, you can pretty much bet he never will ever get married."...
NOT TRUE, a guy could be divorce (single after 35). Also a Guy that puts his career first... doesn't have to worry about a Biological Clock... like women do.
True and some guys like my uncle get married for the first time in their 40s. Turning 35 doesn't make a man less likely to marry, it's men who want to marry generally do it before 35 so they can have children. Age doesn't affect whether you want to marry or not
Japan has an excess of men due to child number laws. Those men do want women, but there aren't enough women to go around, so they act like they don't want the women they're not capable of marrying
Well considering that 40% of men are proving they have no worth by not respecting women or being able to pass on their genes, I don't think the next generation will feel cheated. And that % is doubtable anyway
Japan has women extremely scared because the is a shortage of men due to the Grasseaters... men that simply want nothing to do with women. MGTOW is not far behind Japan and the birth rate is plummeting in both countries. There is no a surplus of men, get your facts straight and stop making stuff up for your emotional opinions.
Not even close to being true. It seems you're the one who comes up with false emotional opinions. I'm not an emotional person, I use logic and fcts to base my opinions and actions on. Just because you're afraid of women doesn't mean the rest of men are
This was actually much shorter than all of my previous MyTakes. I enjoy writing extensively and prefer to clearly explain my concepts for comprehension even if it takes longer to explain
If you're going to comment, be constructive about the topic at hand
Not all women whom you perceive to be out of your league are going to reject you. Many gorgeous women care more about personality than looks in a partner, especially those looking for genuine and committed relationships
many women you consider out of your league have many insecurities. especially if their looks is the only think they have going on. an ex supermodel was saying that in her circles you'll find some of the most insecure women.
There is no such thing as leagues, only shallowness in people who aren't willing to get to know somebody first. Your problem is that you also have an ugly personality. If you want to be in a relationship, then you need to improve your personality first
You are in denial. There is no delusion here except your own
exactly ugly personality. yeah, if we are realistic most 9s and 10s go after billionaires and world class football players, but even if you found the one 10, that can fall for you, you would indirectly reject her with your personality.
I've met women who thought they were intimidating... no one had the heart to tell her she was: A. Built like a truck. B. Waaaaay too full of herself www.wetpaint.com/.../...162-640x480-1492008905.png C. Not that pretty... like at all.
Not at all. Attractive women get hit on constantly whether they want to or not. If an attractive woman isn't getting hit on, it's because something about her personality is instantly unattractive to men or she comes off as unavailable
Lol, yes, because u said so. pssh. ok, apparently i gave u too much credit so ill dumb it down and using ur latest durr of a sentence as an example. ur opinion will not change because of either vanity or stupidity. saying im not convincing because im wrong proved my earlier point for me. anyways, i originally commented to point out something, but ur responses showed me ur thought process on the original comment which is y im stopping here. u can't teach a potato how to play hockey and im gonna be the 1 who tried
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Funny and useless take! Men don't approach intimidating women for the same exact reasons women don't approach intimidating men. And this take is too opinionated. People have different preferences in attracting a mate.
... nevermind sorry you mentioned that didn't you? Lol
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I'm glad you found this entertaining, but that doesn't make it useless
Neither men nor women like to approach genuinely intimidating people because sexual tension doesn't survive when you're scared for your well-being
Women generally approach men less than men approach women. There's plenty of men willing to approach attractive women, so an attractive woman who never receives attention is doing something to prevent it
While I have plenty of opinions on this MyTake, I base them off personal and second-hand experiences along with scientific facts
And yes I have mentioned that people have different preferences in mate selection
Purposely prevent attention you mean?
Not at all, actually. I purposely do things to prevent attention like using closed and angry body language, only dancing with girls in public, avoiding eye contact with men, and I still get approached whether I want to or not. I've basically given up at trying to avoid getting approached and just tell guys to leave me alone if they do
I wrote this MyTake for the attractive girls who unknowingly prevent themselves from getting approached (such as my one friend who I wrote about getting her crush to dance with her after I taught her how to use better body language)
Yea due to fear/intimidation, probably a defense mechanism. I've done that too, sadly.
No I just don't want players and fuckboys to bother me. I want a serious relationship, so acting like I don't want to be approached sometimes helps get rid of them. Right now I'm not interested in anything because I'm still getting over my ex, so I ignore men even more when I'm in public. But I've found that acting like a lesbian with my bi friend actually helps a lot with keeping people from approaching me, so I've been going out with her to clubs instead of my other friends
You have incurred the wrong opinion of men. No wonder why you keep promoting such research. All men and women are different period.
I certainly haven't incurred the wrong opinion of men. My ex was a cheater who thought sex was more important than our relationship, proving everything science says
I don't claim everyone is the same, but for the sake of MyTakes, I use the general consensuses that science and society has agreed on. People are a lot more alike with each other than they are different. Women are much more like other women than men; men are much more like other men than women. With 7 billion people in the world, there's a lot of people who are aren't different
True. But I believe there are ZERO sexual, visual and emotional differences between the sexes, but rather many differences among individuals. Those findings are biased and overanalyzing samples. And you either like those statistics or are merely a victim of them.
Just because you disagree with the facts doesn't falsify them. They are facts because they are founded in science and as a majority
I neither like statistics nor am a victim of them. Facts explain why people do things and explain how the world works. Individuals have the choice to go against science's predicted actions, but most of the time they do not
Well I've read quite the contrary as well. What will you say now? You only tend to post the links which suggest men as being more desperate, visual, sexual, etc. But not the countless links that suggest that the average man and women are alike sexually. I wonder why.
You read articles that take studies out of context a d cater to your delusion with individual outliers. I don't post incorrect assumptions that misuse context and content, so you can stop wondering. Men and women are not alike sexually and the counless links that "suggest otherwise" have no accurate or scientific data to back up their insignificant claims
"People" are not alike sexually. Otherwise theie wouldn't be sexually compatible couples lol. Which happens to be plenty of them. And it's actually the opposite. Your findings have inaccurate data.
You keep saying that, but it doesn't matter. This is about generalizations and the average person, not individuals. Yes people are alike when you put them into groups and try to find what they all have in common
Men are like men and women are like women, sexually speaking. Men are not like women in this sense
Sexual compatibility has nothing to do with being visual or not
I use accurate data backed by multiple sources. You're the one using unfounded hypothesis that misinterpret the studies that back up what I'm saying
At this point you're just choosing to be in denial or are in fact delusional
We've already discussed your findings. Proven wrong plenty of times. Sorry
You need to grow up and move on with your life. Spewing lies is only going to make you more depressed and pathetic. I've backed up everything I've stated
Lol this is going to sound bad but I have a feeling you wrote this take because you've gotten old and guys aren't approaching you anymore
Um... nope... not at all
I'm 22, so not old at all. I get approached constantly, usually once or twice a day. If I go out on the weekends, I generally have no less than 5 guys or girls approach me
I wrote this for girls who complain about being too pretty to be in relationships when they really just have bad personalities or sit on their phones and do nothing to socially interact with people
Oh okay. I thought you were older. But I do agree that many girls won't for the life of them admit that maybe there's something wrong with them and not the entire male gender
I find that the law and false accusations of assaults to be an important factor as well. This is mostly relevant to the women who are mentally unstable when it comes to intimidation though.
Most women who falsely accuse men of assaulting them are women whose advances have been rejected by men. Women don't falsely accuse men of assaulting or harassing them when men do the approaching. If men take rejection well and don't assault or harass women, they will not be falsely accused of anything, but if men do assault or harass women, then they are deserving of the accusations
Real men aren't intimidated by anyone , let alone a woman. Maybe not interested.
strong women only intimidate weak men whats a weak man
whats a weak man though?
A weak man in this sense is a guy who is too insecure or scared to ask out a woman he is interested in
Basically it means that a woman shouldn't waste her time with a man who finds her intimidating because she deserves better than that
But as I said, most men don't find women intimidating
Tl;dr. Men don't approach intimidating women for the exact same reason they don't approach any other type woman. Fear of being rejected.
That's because some men view intimidating women as assholes or douche bags.
I don't approach women at all, but it's not really because of how they are. Initial interest is mostly due to looks and body. I'm just realistic about my chances, and how women view me. I'm not tall, handsome, or well built. I also have a small, thin penis which is the number one turn off for women. Why would I embarrass myself, and waste a woman's time? We all know what the opposite sex really wants, why play games or try to be "confident" when you know you have nothing to be confident about?
First off, your idea of the "#1 turn off for a woman", is not even always a turn off let alone #1. Second, if you haven't heard, dad bods are in; there are plenty of girls out there that don't mind a guy not being well built. Third, your confidence really helps with your looks, just seeing someone happy with themselves can really help them out when they are trying to be attractive to a girl. Everyone has something to be confident in themselves about. Lastly, DON'T make assumptions how women view you!
@foodtv
I couldn't agree with you more. Guys obsess waaay too much about their penises when that has nothing to do with attraction, personality, or compatibility, and the adult toy industry can make up for any issues a woman may have with your size. Confidence is key and I go for confident average guys over insecure hot guys because personality is vastly more important than looks. And yeah, it's getting annoying how many guys on this site assume women aren't interested in them before even giving it a shot. Seriously, that girl you think is out of your league might not care because she's had a crush on you for 3 years too, but you're sitting there moping because you hate yourself. If you want someone to love you, you have to be able to love yourself first
@foodtv nice pep talk, but that is a lie. There is a reason why millions of white women flock to Jamaica, Domincan Republic, Zanzibar, Kenya, Ghana, Gambia etc. for "Romance Holidays" and it is not for small dick.
@Margillard
Not a lie at all. Many women prefer average guys because they have average or small vaginas and having sex with above-average men is extremely painful and unpleasant for them. Most women don't care what size you are as long as you love each other, support each other, and respect each other enough to find ways to please each other despite your anatomy. You can't judge all women by the preferences of sluts
@Idonthaveausername Agreed! 😃
@Margillard She's totally right about every thing she just said. Especially with the, "You can't judge all women by the preferences of sluts". I really wish some of the guys on here would stop making assumptions about all the women on here or women in general; there are still, believe it or not, some genuine girls in the world that HONESTLY, don't mind the physicality of a partner.
I was not lying. I was speaking from experience, what I've learned from family and friends, along with what I've observed from the people Adobe me
*around me
Yes you are right, there are some girls with a shallow cervix, which is better matched with an average dick. Vaginas do come in small, medium, large and extra large sizes, just like penises do.
A good genital match is imperative for sexual enjoyment. When a vagina is fully aroused and tented it expands up to 3x its unaroused state. Even a small vagina can accommodate a gentle 9" penis. The most popular dildo size bought by women is 8" by the way.
And yes, women with larger vaginas do often seek the big bamboo in the Caribbean and East Africa, for over 150 years, as only 5% of white penis is over 7", while the African penis averages 7" and has more girth (whites = 4.9" average circumferance, African 6" average). African males also have 20% more testosterone coursing through their veins which generally makes them better athletes and lovers. This is the reason so many knowledgable, white girls are opting for interacial relationships with black guys,
@Margillard that's beside the point! A relationship isn't based on sex! There is so much more!!! Why are you only bringing up that aspect of it?
Women only care about looks and body. Don't give me that confidence bullshit, what a load of shit. If you are a 400 pound ugly deformed person, all the confidence in the world isn't going to get you a relationship. People are shallow, it's a fact of life. I'm just tired of women lying to people's faces in an effort to make them feel better, when they know the blunt truth but don't want to admit it because they want to sound like a "nice" girl. Women care about height, looks, body, and dick size. It's the only 4 things a girl looks for in a man. Some women yes, lower their standards or neglect physical aspects to get other things, such as financial security or entertainment or even companionship. Often times, it's just temporary, until something better comes along. Women also cheat, and try to pass off another man's kids onto other men, etc. If a woman is against paternity testing because she feels you don't "trust" her, it means she's fucking around and isn't sure if the kid is yours.
@foodtv Without sex in a marital relationship, the relationship is frankly doomed.
One of the basis for a divorce before the no fault divorce, was "mental torture", irregardless whether you were male or female. If you can't consumate your marriage you are out of there, since the dawn of time. Why change it now?
This negative mentality is why you're single. Women care much more about personality than looks when it comes to serious relationships. Sluts who want to sleep around only care about looks. If you're 400 lbs then you are repulsive because you don't take care of yourself--losing weight is the #1 way to make yourself more attractive if you're morbidly obese like that--and also because overweight people tend to be poor role models to children because they don't have healthy eating habits and often sit around watching TV most of the day. Therefore it isn't just being fat that is repulsive to women, but also the poor eating habits and negative traits you'd pass onto children. Women don't care what your body looks like as long as you're healthy. Women looking for commitment don't care about dick size. Women don't care about height as long as you're an inch or two taller than her. And women only care that you're good with the money you do have, not about how much you make
This is why most men are single these days:
www.foxnews.com/.../why-men-wont-marry.html
@Margillard that's sad that people view it like that. Call me old fashion but this, "There was a time when wives respected their husbands. There was a time when wives took care of their husbands as they expected their husbands to take care of them.", is all I've ever thought about, with the husband's respect in return as well. I hope they realize there are still some girls out there like that. I wish this world didn't make things so complicated and extra dramatic nowadays.
@foodtv There was a sex question on here for women, and the guy asked ladies what would be your number one turn off before sex? The majority answered a small dick. This is not a figment of men's imaginations, women are very selective when it comes to dick size, they prefer larger ones. The majority care about penis size, very few are willing to overlook the "problem" as they refer to it with sex toys and oral sex. Just stop lying to men so they can know the truth and move on with their lives if they are not what women are looking for. If anything it saves women headache and from being harassed.
@foodtv There are some old fashioned girls true, but it is not the norm anymore, the same with guys. Most guys are realizing the actual divorce rates are up to 90% in some areas, and to sacrifice yourself at the marital alter, is quite frankly foolish.
@ opinion owner what are your stats for that question? I'm not lying. Maybe some of the sluts of the world or women that aren't confident enough to share their real opinion are lying and for that I'm sorry but, I'm not included. I wish I could change more women's views for you.
@Margillard why do you consider it a foolish sacrifice?
@foodtv A doomed act of matrimony.
@Margillard i still don't get why you view it as such a bad thing.
@Margillard
Men don't marry because they're like you and don't respect women or the sanctity of marriage
Only sluts care about penis size, but they're also the least likely to enter long term relationships and marriage. Virgins who wait until marriage don't care about size because they have nothing to compare it to and care more about the relationship than sex
That article is right about casual sex making men not want to marry, but it also makes women not care about men either, especially if they're self-sufficient
Marriage is especially beneficial for men. Men are happier in marriage than women and married men live a decade longer than those who aren't. Marriage is directly linked to mental health for men as well with never married men having much higher likelihood of depression and alcohol and drug abuse
Marriage is better financially for both men and women, especially if both partners work
Currently 70% of people 18-40 are single. 90% of marriages fail with financial ruin for men, due to the misandy that skews divorce courts against men.
How does that make you live longer... the unavailabilty of disposable income to purchase alcohol?
@Margillard
Expecting divorce is why people get divorced. Divorce courts rule in favor of women due to the history of men walking out on their children, having addiction problems, and not paying child support or taking care of their children. If men want to make divorce courts more even, they need to step up to the plate and actually raise their kids. If men want to avoid divorce in the first place, they need to love and respect their wives and put the proper effort into their marriages
Lol you're so deluded. Marriee couples have the highest incomes of any single or second-married or never-married couples and have the best mental health. Married men live ten years longer than bachelors because m n are happiest in marriage. Men are also happier in marriage than women, so they put in less effort. That is when their wives get fed up and divorce them. Bachelors and divorced men have the highest rates of depression
It is great tou can speak for the male population, and tell them how to think.
Single men are by far more focused and financially solvent then married simps.
The high failure rate of marriage is not the product of men's lack of faith in it, there you go, blaming men for all your problems again. Men are realizing the cost/benefit analysis of marriage... it is a deficit for men. Marriage has gone the way of the dodo bird. No thank you Ma'am, we pass.
@Margillard
@Margillard
Most women initiate divorce due to being dissatisfied because their husbands don't put effort into marriage or care about them. When men are unhappy in marriage, they are more likely than women to do absolutely nothing about it or cheat. This is why to e majority of men end up divorced. Another large percentage are men who abuse their wives
According to the US census, married men have a much higher income than single men. You can't argue with the census
@Idonthaveausername Trust me, some men just are not physically built to get married. I've been rejected enough times, and know enough about what women really look for in a man. Everyone is shallow, I just accept it and move on. It's life, and life isn't always fair. I just respect them, and leave them alone. Why is that such a bad thing?
Unlike you girls, I am not driven by money, and that is the #1 turn off for women, #2 is small dicks.
So like the Fox and the Grapes fable, I say to my self THE GRAPES ARE SOUR ANYWAYS!
Pussy is far too much of a hassle... you can keep it.
Driven by hunger, a fox tried to reach some grapes hanging high on the vine but was unable to, although he leaped with all his strength. As he went away, the fox remarked 'Oh, you aren't even ripe yet! I don't need any sour grapes.' People who speak disparagingly of things that they cannot attain would do well to apply this story to themselves.
@Margillard
Women aren't drven by money anymore than men are. Marriages in poverty are much more likely to end up in divorce than Middle-Class or wealth couples. Desiring financial stability isn't being driven by money, it means a marriage is stronger. Women care about financial stability--it's men who make a huge fuss over wealth
Women looking for serious relationships don't care what size you are. The only ones who do are sluts looking for nothing more than sex. Since it's like minded people who attract each other, it's no wonder these are the kinds of girls you attract
If pussy is the only thing you're interested in, you don't deserve it. Relationships are based on mutual love, respect, and wanting to fulfill each other's needs. You're too selfish for a relationship
Men aren't marrying anymore and we don't care how much you shame us on it, with all your name calling. No it is you that will not have a relationship as with most girls today.
Feminism has hogged all the blankets.
www.foxnews.com/.../why-men-wont-marry.html
"Marriages are stronger with more money" 😂😂😂money equals love. Go sell your snake oil to a gynocentric simp, beta male.. he'll obey you. I have gone Mgtow, like millions of other young men today. Pussy is not as valuable anymore like you think it is.
The difference between "Free pussy" and "Paid Pussy" is paid pussy is cheaper in the long run and the girls are much more attractive.
@Margillard
Plenty of men marry. There have always been men that don't want to and will be, but there are still plenty of men who do want relationships and marriage. The fact that you're not interested in marriage just means you have no weight on opinions about relationships. You've excluded yourself from the discussion because you don't like women
Financially secure couples stay together more than those in poverty. That is a fact and therefore doesn't make anyone a gold digger for desiring financial security over divorce
Funny that you prefer actual gold-digging prostitutes who do put a monetary value on their vaginas with talk like that. Since married couples make more than anyone else, no paying for prostitutes isn't cheaper in the long run
The guy pays more after the divorce, at least a prostitute is honest about it, unlike the unhappy housewife that misses all her lovers in the partying days... once you go black you never go back. The 90% divorce rate kills it for most guys. They would never sign a business contract with those odds of financial and emotional ruin, why do you demand and expect men get married? Do you think men are all fools? You really don't respect men in that case.
The jig is up.
@Margillard
www.lawcrossing.com/.../
With women earning more now (40% of women earn more than their husbands) that is actually changing. Women and men lose an even amount in divorce now
Using a prostitute is extremely dishonest, selfish, and a man's way of sexually abusing women without being arrested for domestic violence
Well I'm not a slut, so I won't be missing any "lovers" (LOL I've only even had one boyfriend) when I'm a housewife... and I've never slept with a black guy, so you're going nowhere with that
http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/
Less than half of first-time marriages end in divorce and 90 of Americans marry before 50. Stop denying that men want marriage and stop disillusioning yourself by claiming 90% of couples divorce
www.health.harvard.edu/.../marriage-and-mens-health
Marriage is great for men's health, especially their hearts
www.webmd.com/.../only-happy-marriage-is-healthy-for-women
Well you go on and on like a used car salesman in a high pressured sale on your marriage ideologies and the biased propoganda but the cold hard reality is, the "Sexodus" is happening and gaining momentum fastb, just like the "Grasseaters" of Japan. The west is not far behind.
Men are refusing to marry, simple as that.
Why in Norway the feminists just passed a law that it is illegal for a man to stand up and pee, because it reinforces violence towards women. They removed all the men's urinals... google it.
Men are refusing to marry.
www.avoiceformen.com/.../
@Margillard
I am merely pointing out that marriage isn't as bad as all the trolls on this site claim. If you don't want to marry, that's fine, but going around claiming it's the fault of all women is simply wrong. Most divorce stems from the husband cheating, abusing, or not stepping up when the marriage has problems. Women are much more likely to try counseling and work on the marriage before divorce than men. Since 40% of wives are the primary earners, claiming all women want to take half is ludicrous as half of husbands don't have anything to give. Encouraging casual sex increases cheating, so men and women Ned keep it in their pants rather than encourage behavior that causes cheating. If people actually respected marriage and their spouses, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high
You're the one spouting propaganda by making up facts that aren't real and claiming marriage is the problem when it's really people like you who don't value marriage that cause the problems
You can blame who you want, insult me all you want, but the fact of the matter is, men are not marrying anymore... all over the world, including me.
Women are going to have to go it alone. Feminism has liberated men, we are free and I thank them for it.
This what girls really think about dick:
http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
@Margillard
You can believe that delusion all you want, but the truth is plenty of men still want to get married, especially as that get older. Those who don't won't have their genes missed from the gene pool with all the mental illnesses associated with those men
Most women don't care about size. The only ones who do are sluts, and sluts aren't interested in marriage anyway, so they're not really a part of this discussion
Wow lady! Slut shaming, man shaming, blaming men for all societies problems , and never taking on any accountability for your actions. You see this is in fact, that kind of attitude that is exactly what men do not want to be chained down to... bitch slapped, emasculated with all the sanctimony and abuse the rest of his short life.
It is women who ultimately decide which genes to pass on in the genepool. Obviously and thankfully it is not me.
Being condemned and scorned for exercizing my freedom and rights in this free country, by not marrying women, just as millions of men today choose to do, quite frankly is oppression. You women have to stop intruding. We refuse you plain and simple, get used to it.
As Hank Williams once said " If you mind your own business, you sure won't be minding mine"
Men have the freedom to choose the life we choose.
@Margillard
I'm not shaming anyone. I'm simply providing facts and opinions based on those facts
If you believe in evolution, you'd understand the purpose of life is to create more life and those who don't create more life and turn against their own kind die without fulfilling any life's purpose. For those who don't wish to procreate, they can still better the next generation by contributing to society in a number of ways. While if you believe in God you'll run into the moral dilemma of your actions and transgressions against women
Women don't want to be with misogynistic, narcissist, depressed guys. Their genes will not be missed from the gene pool and women won't be missing them. This doesn't hurt women in any way, only helps weed out the bad eggs faster
"Women don't want to be with misogynistic, narcissist, depressed guys. Their genes will not be missed from the gene pool and women won't be missing them. This doesn't hurt women in any way, only helps weed out the bad eggs faster"
This is precisely why men are not marrying anymore and why you have not found a husband.
Men refuse to be subjected to your shit tests and the few passive, teststosterone deficient, small dicked simps that are willing submit to you, are indeed the ones feminists choose to replentish the human genepool with. For the other real men that are refused by the modern woman, we know we are not wanted, we own that fact, we choose to go our own way without woman with our balls intact.
You seated at the right hand of God, dictating how men should behave towards women is pretty arrogant to say the least. Men are so much more than that.
@Margillard
I have two friends who would be willing to marry me if I wanted. One is too old and the other makes poor decisions with his life I wouldn't want to marry into. The reason why I'm not married is I haven't found the right husband for me yet, but at 22 I still have plenty of time to find the right one. And yes these guys have plenty of testosterone and a very nice guys
Those men aren't wanted because they're assholes and treat women like shit. Going your own way would mean you wouldn't bother spreading your misery here and would actually go away from me, a woman
Lol no no man is worth more than the respect he gives. A man who doesn't respect women is worth nothing
Your dim veiw on men and the lack of respect you give them, works both ways, it is like looking in a mirror. Respect is given when you show respect is indeed true. I would never subject myself to you as a matter of self respect.
Good luck with the old guy.
@Margillard
I respect everyone until they prove they're not worth respecting or show disrespect themselves. I respect real men, not insecure boys who treat women like sex objects or cheat
You've already subjected yourself to me by spending so much time on my thread. You're not going to change my mind because I'm more secure in my opinions than you
I'm not dating or going to marry my older friend. He's a great guy and I'm sure he'll find a good woman in his age range once he settles into his new place and loses a bit of weight
I'm not looking for a relationship right now either. I'm focusing on work at the moment
And that is what society expects of us, I too shall focus on my work and marriage is definitely not in the cards. I respect you decision. Still I wonder why, my decision to opt out of relationships with women would bother anyone, gays do it all the time and are welcomed by the opposite gender, in fact celebrated.
Just because hertro males refuse to approach women and opt out of relationships with them, minding our own business, going our own way, we are public enemy number 1.
Nocumentum documentum I suppose, the future is changing.
@Margillard
It is not your decision to opt out of marriage that people don't respect. It is the way you demonize women and blame women for your decision rather than accepting your own faults as well that people don't respect. Honestly I don't care that you don't want to get married, but to say you don't want anything to do with women and to then turn around and attack women who haven't done anything to you is hypocracy at its finest. If you want to focus on yourself, then actually focus on yourself and stop blaming other people for your problems
I want to get married to one man and spend the rest of my life with him with the utmost respect, trust, love, and fidelity. I haven't met that man yet and I'm not going to marry someone I know won't work out long-term. The only thing I can do until I meet him is to focus on myself and friends and family
And I'm in the process of buying a new car right now. That is my main concern
Well good luck on finding a mate that will submit to you for a lifetime, the odds are stacked heavily against you, unless feminism strikes a new law against men.
Thanks for not caring the fact that me and millions of young men opt out of long term relationships. 70% of males 18-35 are single.
Enjoy you new car.
@Margillard
Haha. Well I'm not looking for a submissive man. I'm quite traditional and I want a dominant man who wants to provide for his wife and children and wants a wife to take care of all of them. Men don't have to be submissive to value marriage for a lifetime, and I've seen many more submissive guys give up on the idea. The odds are stacked against me in most areas of life, but I've been able to surpass the expectations statistics give me many times. I have hope that I'll find the right man for me someday. Feminism doesn't affect me or the way I live my life
I am thoroughly enjoying my brand new car! I got it for less than $10K and it has everything I need. This will be my first winter with heat in my car for several years and I actually feel safe driving it on the highway
@Idonthaveausername Congrats on the car. I still don't see relationships happening for everyone. Average is ok, but if someone is seriously below average in any category, then a love life isn't possible for them. I don't need lawsuits, restraining orders, or 100 more rejections to be able to grasp the concept that I'm not physically desirable to the opposite sex. It is not a lack of "confidence", it is called accepting reality.
My advice to men is to avoid women like the plague. Pursuing women is no longer worth the hassle.
amen to this
@Tdieseler It's true. The majority of western women today are far too selfish, unrealistic, narcissistic etc. It's because dumb men pander to them and kiss their asses.
i totally agree. . and when some guy like me comes along and calls them out on their bullshit, they start saying things like he is "bitter" or "heart-broken" or some other stupid shit, to justify their own stupidity. Me? i usually get called a jerk or asshole or some other derogatory name. I don't give a shit. The truth is the truth and just because you have tits and vagina doesn't make you right in all matters.
But thats what these bitch ass men are doing now... like you said... pandering to them all the time, and the idiot females are so used to it, that when they are driven back down to reality, they lash out because their befuddled over pampered brains can't believe there is a guy she cannot wrap around her little finger.
They can go fuck themselves. I surround myself with real women who know whats up, not spoiled cunts who think having tits is everything they need.
@Tdieseler That's why I always ignore hot women. Their reaction is hilarious. Ignoring them is the best way to hurt them. I once watched a video where an experiment was done. Three hot women were taken to a club full of men. But what these women didn't know is that all the men in the club had been told to ignore them. By the end of the night the women were almost in tears. They could not bare being ignored.
If the majority of men stopped chasing women and made women make more of an effort, I think women today would be more desirable. But because dumb men bow down to them and pander to them, women can get away with being narcissistic bitches.
you are preaching to the choir. I mean, im not trying to "hurt" them, though im VERY good at that... but its like dealing with a cat. if you pamper them and pet them too long, eventually they claw or bite you... but if you play quietly by yourself and seem to be having so much fun, they get curious and wanna see whats up.
So called "hot" women are used to getting attention from men, so turning one or ten of them down makes no difference... but when they meet one that isn't even in the slightest bit interested in them... they wanna find out why and because of it... begin to like you.
How do you think I've gotten so many good lookers... my current friends with benefits being one of them.
They are used to certain things/people... i just am not like that. and they can't resist the urge to find out more.
You're just miserable because women aren't attracted to you. The only reason you feel the need to insult women is because you're insecure and have a bad attitude. No amount of you wining is going to change anything. Men will always approach hot women, couples will always get married, and you will remain miserable and alone
@Tdieseler
Women call you a jerk or asshole because you're an alcoholic narcissist. I don't know if you remember our discussion, but I do. Women don't like alcoholics because addiction is a terrible thing to live with and women don't like men ruining themselves with vices. Most people don't like being in relationships with narcissists because they always end up feel neglected, like their feelings aren't being understood, and often get abused
I've had many women attracted to me, but I turned them down. Yes, dumb men will always approach hot women, but they usually end up getting screwed over. Staying single has allowed me to save a lot of money and soon I'll be financially secure for life. If I ever crave the urge to have sex I can easily pay an escort to please me. There's no need for me to find a woman. I can just pay for one and use her for sex, while at the same time continue to save more and more money.
There's no real woman attracted to you, only one with too low of self-esteem and respect to deserve better
Dumb and smart men will always approach hot women, and the respectful ones will have happy, long-lasting marriages
Many married couples have even more money than single people, especially if both partners work. Tax breaks allow married couples with children to keep even more money. Financial security comes from good money-saving habits and well-paying jobs, and has nothing to do with being single or married
The fact that you actually pay to get sex shows how few women are actually attracted to you, how poor your morals are, and how you disrespect and abuse women. That's disgusting
So now you're judging these other women lol. Oh the irony. Some married couples are financially secure, but very often the man gets screwed over and the wife takes away his financial assets through the divorce laws. I know of many dumb men who chased after women, ended up getting divorced, and got screwed over. I don't have that worry because I have nothing to do with women. And I don't pay to get sex, idiot, I said I could do if I ever had sexual cravings. No need to settle down in order to get sex. Just pay a whore, use her for sex, then move onto the next one. Job done.
pfft... look at this moron. don't make assumptions about me... you don't know me.
talking about women and how they don't like narcissists meanwhile being the biggest narcissists of all. its fine when the woman neglects the man but its front page news when its the other way around... dont come at me you nameless fuck, i'll tear you apart.
Stupid ass women always wana talk about how they have it so bad, try being a dude for a day and see what the fuck happens on our end.
"The median household income of married families is twice that of divorced households and four times that of separated households"
marripedia.org/effects_of_marriage_on_financial_stability
Once again, men who respect and love their wives and put effort into their marriages do not end up divorced. Only men like you who disrespect women and put your own needs first get divorced
LOL you just said you pay escorts to get sex like a disgusting pig
And you pay me an awful lot of attention for someone who claims to have nothing to do with women
@Tdieseler
It's fine if you want to act this way in front of other trolls. I still remember when you admitted I was right about our little "expectations" and "requirements" debate, so nothing you say here is valid. You probably don't remember it because you drink too much
I am willing to listen to male perspectives when they're respectful and don't make it a huge pity/sob session
Women divorce good men all the time, but continue to delude yourself :) And I don't pat escorts for sex, I said I could if I wanted sex bad enough. And the reason I'm giving you attention is because I enjoy calling you out on your bullshit.
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../women-more-likely-than-men-to-initiate-divorces-but-not-breakups-study-finds_us_55d61f03e4b0ab468da049bb
This proves women who initiate divorce do so because they're dissatisfied with their husbands and marriages. Since unmarried couples breakup equally between men and women, that means there's a breakdown in expectations and commitment when it comes to marriage. Women don't divorce good men--women divorce bad men who don't put the proper effort into their wives and marriages
This article also points out feminism as a problem since men still seem to expect women to do the bulk of the housework despite also expecting her to work. This means women put more effort into marriages than men
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...d-having-housework.html
This states women divorce men when doing more housework/raising children. Men cite more happiness in marriage, so marriage is more beneficial to men. Men have to put in more effort if they don't want to get divorced
And we both know those studies are bogus. I can easily find other studies that say the opposite, but you have no way of proving them. In reality, women leave good men all the time. Usually for selfish reasons. Women have higher expectations due to their greedy, selfish nature, and when men do not keep up with their wives high expectations, the wife will divorce him, take his children, and most of his financial assets. That's why men should avoid women like the plague.
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...riage_n_5273946.html
This proves that women leave men like you who have negative views about marriage, don't put effort into their wives, and have terrible personalities. They leave these bad men for non-selfish reasons
"it’s often the woman who expresses more overt conflict and dissatisfaction about the state of the marriage. On the other hand, the man is more likely to report feeling troubled by his wife’s dissatisfaction, but pretty much “OK” with the way things are; he's content"
www.psychologytoday.com/.../women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why
Another one that says men don't do anything about their wives being dissatisfied with them yet women bring it up before initiating divorce. Those divorces are preventable if the husband actually cares about his wife
www.divorcemag.com/.../why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men
And another but this also points out men cheat more than women
But those statistics are biased and are flawed, as you well know. Women leave good men all the time, no matter how many bogus statistics you quote. Women cheat just as much as men, maybe more. Women are greedy and selfish by nature, which is why women file for divorce a lot more than men.
No I'm not wrong and my facts aren't flawed
Here is proof that men cheat more than women
www.trustify.info/blog/infidelity-statistics-2017
And this proves men have just as much self-control as women, they just choose to cheat
www.businessinsider.com/why-men-cheat-more-than-women-2013-9
Women do not leave good men. Good men who treat their wives lovingly with respect do not get cheated on or left. Bad men who abuse or neglect their wives get cheated on and divorced
And this proves men are more selfish than women
www.res.org.uk/.../...e-Less-Selfish-Than-Men.html
Women file for divorce more than men because men are content with allowing their wives to be unhappy rather than fix what they're doing wrong while women get fed up with not receiving any change from their bad husbands
That's not proof at all. Any moron can browse the internet and find studies and statistics that agree with them, but in the real world women do often leave good men. Women know that the law usually favors them and they know that they can get most of the financial assets, so it's no wonder why so many women divorce. Women are selfish by nature and will divorce a man for selfish reasons. Women cheat just as much as men, maybe more. They just hide it better. Either way, western women should be avoided.
You know the reason why she feels she can go on? you already stated the legal aspect, but there are so much more but women like her can open their mouths and just let nonsense spew forth because of one reason... They have NEVER been put in our situation before. To them its all about the present, they forget history and the past.
She can show her ignorance now... because she's not the one that has to do planning, get nervous, risk rejection just to spend your hard earned money on some chick that will dump you just for saying the "wrong" thing. Now multiply that by the Many women guys go out with... do we ever get refunded for that shit? a girl might not like a guy but if she is enjoying the date.. will endure the whole thing just to reject the guy in the end.
I once wrote that it will be so fuckin awesome if when a girl decides after a date that she doesn't want to move forward, the dumb ass should refund EVERYTHING. Lets see how many dates women will want to go on then...
Women don't have to deal with the constant double standards, talking about women don't want men that have negative views on marriage when its a well known fact by all men that between men and women, men know MORE about marriage than women do. thats why we avoid it like the plague for as long as possible. Women jump into it stupidly, just to serve up papers a short while later.
Another thing, talking about men don't put in "effort"... that is such HORSE shit.
I once wrote that majority of women try to change men, but when the man wants a change, he gets "you should accept me as i am"... so you know what, i hang my hat with myself... if they won't change, i won't either, and they can always fuck off... totally replaceable.
@Idonthaveausername ok, maybe i came in a little hotter than i normally do... but understand, this is not shit that happens like once or twice... before a guy meets a good girl... there are tons he has to wade through.. unlike girls who tend to have em in single digits.
Yes it is proof because it's scientific evidence that proves it. And if any "moron" could could browse through the internet and find statistics to back them up, then you'd be able to find something rather than spewing bitter nonsense that isn't even based in reality
As I proved, men cheat more than women. All the women I know who've cheated were in relationships with cheaters
Women don't leave good men. Women leave bad men who don't appreciate marriage or their wives and who don't put in enough effort
@Tdieseler
LOL. Wrong again! Laws have nothing to do with love or marriage, only divorce and people who get married for the wrong reasons other than love
And seriously don't pretend like you pay for dates. We all know you expect the woman to pay for her own movie ticket, and if she doesn't, you go and sit in the theater by yourself. There's nothing for you to get a refund on
Nobody should be in a relationship with someone they want to change because that's not love
It's not proof at all. Typical lying feminist searches the internet for studies that back up her assumption and then pretend it is a fact. It isn't. In the real world women cheat just as much as men. Women also leave the good men and stay with the bad men. Something I have witnessed over many years. More men are waking up to this and eventually women will no longer be able to screw men over through divorce. Men are waking up and more women will end up alone living with pet cats.
Oh, here you go. Studies prove that women are the biggest cheats and cheat more than men:
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...st-better-lying-it.html
To be honest... @HandsomeGuy500 you are an older man, so you should know that this will never end, because apparently "women are never wrong"... im tapering off now. I know i'd have better luck convincing a tree stump to do the Mambo, than get @Idonthaveausername to admit that you and I are putting in good real-life points. Love how she keeps saying "as I've proved"... all I've been seeing are links lol.
This is why the stupidity goes on, women thinking stupidly and guys refusing to correct them, or the women refusing to admit they are a bit off.
And they wonder why They get cheated on more... refusal to ground themselves in reality and only think fantasy.
She is right about one thing, and i do remember saying it, that for some women, if we went out, and they can't pay, i'd go on without em. But the question you gotta ask yourself Username is...
Did I start out that way?
or was it that after paying for 250 movies.. they all turned out to be narcissistic inflexible bitches.
@Tdieseler Like most feminists she tells lies, ignores logic, and plays the victim. Yes she is very stupid.
"plays the victim"... my favorite phrase when it comes to dealing with women lol...
I mean... why wouldn't they? its like dealing with a baby/toddler... when the baby is quiet... all is good, but when the baby starts to cry, everyone scrambles trying to find out WHAT the problem is.
Why won't women play victim, when for every time they open their mouth, there's some idiot guy willing to do their bidding.
I wrote in my article "show me your man card", that if men can just for a while, stop assuming that if they are white knights or some shit, the girl will have sex with em. just for a short while.
Lol.. i still laugh till today about a guy (on here i think) who saw another guy slap his girlfriend in a store... and immediately punched the boyfriend in the face. The boyfriend beat the shit out of him, AND still left with the girl...
that SJW was left with breaks/sprains and a hefty hospital bill loool...
turns out... the woman cheated on her boyfriend and was being confronted.
Im not saying its bad to help another human in distress (notice how i didn't narrow it down to just females?), im saying, know the full story first.
I personally won't step between anything unless it seems its gone too far.
saw a video of a woman slap, punch and kick her boyfriend for like 5 mins (close to 60 hits) and no one said/did anything... eventually he had enough and handed out 3 of his own and she fell.. now all these idiots come out of the woodwork, women calling him a coward for hitting a woman, and men telling him that it wasn't cool...
victim.
That's a great link that shows 20% of men and 15% of women cheat, proving both my points that men cheat more than women and that most people don't cheat. I'm glad you finally understand
ROFLMAO! Again, I'm a Republican and prefer traditional gender roles. I in no way am a feminist nor do I support the murder of unborn children
@Tdieseler
You've always been a player and a cheater, so your track record backs up my points. You don't respect women because your mother abused you as a child and you've never gotten over it. You're almost 30, so you either need to go to rehab and get some professional help or you're going to be exactly what your mother made you for the rest of your life and probably die from your excessive alcohol consumption. And since you're more interested in fuck buddies than real relationships, you're not applicable to this discussion anyway
Physical violence of any kind is unacceptable. That guy was doing the right thing by trying to stop it
@Idonthaveausername my playing days are over boo... been over, I've had my fun. My mom didn't abuse me, there is no word to define what she did, i don't need rehab, i just need space from morons.
"that guy did the right thing"... you think so? well then, can i send you his email so you can help him with the accrued hospital bills? let me guess... NO.. you won't help. That is why i say he's an idiot.
You talk a good game darling, but if you know so much about me, then you know im more of an Action guy... Problem and Solution. all this talk, is bad for my psyche... it won't change you from being an ignorant moron, and definitely won't change me from digging down to the root and maintaining the name "asshole".
I do agree with non-violence, but you gotta stop calling those links Your proof... give us a story that YOU lived through.
@Tdieseler
The fact that you played at all proves my statistics right
"Fear of the name only increases fear of the thing itself" so calling it something different won't change anything for you. You most certainly do need rehab, but you know that more than anybody else here
Doing the right thing isn't always the smartest decision and it may , more often than not, get you into trouble. But doing the right thing gives one integrity, something you both know very little about
If you were n action guy, you wouldn't be laughing at another guy for taking an action
My links prove the same thing as his links, so yes they are proof that what I'm saying is true. Our links prove you're the ignorant morons
Here's a story: my ex cheated on me, so I dumped him, and now he's self-destructing because I was his dream girl and he'll never have me again. I never did and never would've cheated on him nor will I cheat on anyone I date or marry in the future
@Idonthaveausername say whatever you want. The only thing im amazed at, is the fact that I haven't gone back to my old ways. HOPING (keyword) that there is some female out there that actually has a modicum of sense.
What you girls don't seem to realize is that YOU bring it on yourselves... and when boys adjust accordingly, you begin to bitch and moan.
"The fact you play at all..." what kind of stupid statistics? I was a teen, i discovered girls but all of them wanted the jock, not the nice guy who was a gentleman. So... i became the jock and i had "options" and i fucking used them.
Sadly, same shit is still happening today... you sit there and spew bullshit like "ill never cheat..." look, cheating doesn't start when one person porks another. Cheating ALMOST ALWAYS starts BEFORE one person has had enough, and branches out.
Thats why i have little sympathy for the morons that cry "victim" because 9/10 times... they cheated first.
@Tdieseler
You haven't changed anything really. Fuck buddies is the same concept as playing (having sex with one or more people without getting emotionally attached). You're doing the same old thing, just the girls know about it now. You haven't changed until you respect sex and emotional intimacy together
There are plenty of women with sense enough to avoid you
I was clear with my ex about not sleeping with him, so no, I did not bring it on myself. I didn't bitch or moan either--I dumped him and moved on with my life without him
I will never cheat. If my relationship gets that bad where I no longer respect my partner, I will end it. And I don't sleep around, so no guy is attractive enough to tempt me from someone I love. I will never cheat and you're only proving you're too jaded for this discussion by telling me I will
Lol that's ridiculous. Cheaters cheat. If someone doesn't cheat, they couldn't possibly have cheated first
Just like a female... always look at the surface only...
"If someone doesn't cheat, they couldn't possibly have cheated first"... no... they cheated first.
Let me slice you off a piece of my simple mentality. if im with you... and i want something from you and you deny me... tell me... aren't i right to go searching for it elsewhere?
i mean, if we made a pact that we will be there for each other or whatever... then you deny me... who is cheating? me or you (them)...
so don't give me that crock... stupid people are the ones that look at infidelity and go..." oh they cheated"... most so-called "cheaters" were PUSHED into cheating by their SO pushing them away...(most of em).
so don't give me that crap. as a former cheater, I've been in and out of that shit, you say you won't cheat... just leave... hahahahahahaha... right.
funny part, just the way you say it... sound like your love is a little too tight... clingy?
@Tdieseler
Acting misogynistic towards me is only further proving my point that you're not relationship material. The fact that you're blaming women for your disgusting behavior in cheating on them is a hallmark of your Narcissism. You are absolutely not right to go search for something elsewhere if someone you're dating doesn't feel comfortable with it. That's extremely selfish and proves you don't care at all about the women you use. A woman doesn't sign a contract to date you or owe you anything, and by the logic you use, you owe her the decency of being faithful when she hasn't cheated on you. Cheating is cheating; denial is denial. If you're unhappy with the denial, then talk to her about it and breakup if she isn't willing to work on things. You're twisted in your views on cheating and can't keep blaming women for your selfishness and bad behavior
I'm a virgin and only want to be with one man, so no I will never cheat. I dumped my ex for cheating, so yes I'd dump someone first
@Idonthaveausername
cheating is cheating huh... again.. you aren't listening... cheating STARTS before the actual act.
And i mentioned that before. i also mentioned i have no sympathy for the "victim"... cuz in most likelihood, they started it.
Literally everything you said in that last comment, was stupid and biased. a woman doesn't owe me anything but its ok, for me to owe?
its supposed to be a partnership... and guess what... women flake first.
@Tdieseler
Cheating is cheating. If you aren't happy in a relationship or are unwilling to wait for sex, then you should leave the relationship rather than cheat. My ex was the latter, so it's entirely his fault that he cheated because I was clear from the beginning that I have no intentions of sleeping around. I've never claimed I'm a victim and I've actually prevented myself from being a victim by dumping him and moving on with my life
I never said you owe a woman anything. You're the one who's entitled here in thinking a woman owes you sex. If a woman doesn't want to sleep with you, that's an incompatibility issue you need to deal with like a healthy, mature adult, not an immature, narcissistic alcoholic
You don't enter into partnerships. You use women for sex and don't provide anything in return, especially not love
Women don't flake. Women see you for what you are--not relationship material
Tell that to the ton of them who have tried pressuring me into whatever kinds of relationships... IM the one that turns it down. Oh, and congratulations on not "sleeping around"... lol, you don't have to sleep around to gain experience darling.
Like you hinted @Idonthaveausername sex is not the only way to cheat, you might think that but its not. And that is what inexperienced people don't get. Sex is just the OUTCOME of cheating.
Say for example, i keep leaving a candle lit next to a curtain or sleeping with a lit cigarette... when my house burns to the ground, whose fault is it? the lit cigarette (or candle) or the moron who didn't pay attention.
Just because the bitch ass men we are breeding today don't let females know when they are in the wrong, doesn't mean i'll conform, i'd rather go sexless than let some female play me like im stupid.
I have respect for women, but in relationships? dumber than a bag of rocks.
@Tdieseler This woman is crazy, I mean big time crazy.
@HandsomeGuy500 she's a woman, what did you expect? I wouldn't classify her as crazy (yet) just clueless and misguided like other women. and that is what I've been trying to open her eyes up to but she can't see it because she isn't male. that "entitlement" is still blocking her vision.
But im trying.
I wrote in an article of mine how i hate virgins and was questioned, and i wrote my answer... they act just like this.
They don't understand that just keeping a flap of skin doesn't make you a better person, just a trophy. she doesn't get this either.
I can sense the obstinate woman behind her words... but she doesn't get that she has to let that guard down in order to learn.
@Tdieseler She's been harassing me for a long time now. She doesn't care about facts or logic. She just plays the victim and continues to parrot her horse shit.
To be honest, this is probably the longest squabble I've had with her. I usually tend to ignore this shit. Dunno why im still on it.
If you don't like my viewpoint, you can stop harassing me. You've replied to several of my threads combatively while I have never posted on any of yours. It's clear you don't understand what harassment is, and I'm sure that's one of your biggest problem with women. You're not going to convince me you're sane with all the delusional blabbering you do. You view of women is completely wrong, your view of marriage is misguided, and your actions and beliefs are unhealthy. You sure spend an awful lot of time harassing me, a woman, for someone who claims to want nothing to do with us
@Tdieseler
You're still here because you know that in a site full of shit, I'm one of the few people you've admitted respect to. You can claim you never said that all you want, but that just makes you a hypocrite, something you hate above all else
You don't have to agree with my viewpoint to respect me. I respect that men don't want to get married. What I don't respect is the demonization of women who haven't wronged them, are faithful, and not interested in shallow relationships. And I have no tolerance for cheating
Whoa @Idonthaveausername I knew you, and yes you are right... i do respect you.. oh and also feel free to post on mine...
but im not combative towards you... i just want you to admit there is a "divide". most women, i just classify as idiots...
You... i think you are smarter than those...
I just like exposing your bullshit and stupidity :)
@Tdieseler
I wasn't saying you were combative. The other guy is combative, you're just condescending which comes off as extremely rude. If I run into one of your posts that I feel strongly about, I'll make sure I let you know
There are many divides between genders, races, cultures... I classify most men and women as idiots, but some of those idiots mean well and are nicer than people twice as smart
But threatening to tear me apart is combative, so you don't get away with that one here
@Idonthaveausername you must not have very aggressive friends... that was actually the nice way.
@Tdieseler
I don't really like aggressive people, so I don't befriend them. I befriend nice people. When people stop being good friends, I find better friends
well... im aggressive. what do you say about me
@Tdieseler
I stand by everything I've already said about you
didn't say you didn't. You should. We still buds.. :) GaG buds lol... i think 🤔
@Tdieseler
Haha. GAG buds for sure. Never hurts to have too many GAG buds
wouldn't say that. be buds with two people that aren't buds and things get messy. I like to keep my circle tight
@Tdieseler
Lol that's true. I've actually rearranged my friend circle lately because of that problem
can't deal with the awkward-ity.
@Tdieseler I see that she has finally wrapped you round her little finger. What a plonker.
There are other arguments to be had on here... can't keep coming back. quench this one, begin anew.
I just don't know what to say and don't get a chance to say anything.
I'm usually on the go so meeting a girl on the bus or subway would be best for me.
Any tips?
That's kind of a difficult one because most women prefer not to be bothered when we have things to do and places to go, so the bus or subway isn't the ideal place to meet a woman. Furthermore, most Millennials prefer to shut out social interaction on places such as subways and elevators, making conversation more difficult. I'd suggest trying to find an hour or so on the weekend to devote to social gatherings with a more relaxed atmosphere. But if you do see a woman on the subway you find attractive and want to meet, make sure she feels safe and comfortable before approaching her and start with a compliment about her scarf or purse or a comment about how the train is taking so long rather than straight asking for her number. Try to create a small conversation first so you know she's welcome to talking to strangers and not in too big of a rush. And as always, be respectful and courteous if she says no or isn't interested
To easy to be "Accused" of Sexual harassment.
You put the quotes in the wrong place dude. The accusation is real, but the "sexual harassment" is more "minor annoyance" which isn't criminal.
Drama queens. You're better off without such high maintenance bitches. It just sucks that we live in a country where men and women really aren't treated equal. Women do have it a shit ton easier, which is why SO many bogus accusations are taken seriously.
@dragonfly6516 I like aggressive girls anyway... so they ask me... I don't have to worry about this situation.
I can't respect a girl that is ONLY submissive... basically they are Maids and Hookers... but not getting paid.
If you approach women respectfully, you won't be accused of sexual harassment. Guys who go around groping girls rightfully deserve it
@dragonfly6516 Not so, look at the laws in the UK punishable for up to 10 years as "Misoginist Hate Crime" ... coming to a lawmaker near you. Take about mixed messages girls send out.
www.returnofkings.com/.../england-set-to-ban-talking-to-women-in-public-as-misogynistic-hate-crime
"If you approach women respectfully, you won't be accused of sexual harassment. Guys who go around groping girls rightfully deserve it"... no ONE said ANYTHING about Groping.
At a Bar there is "NO WAY" to know if she is looking or NOT. I've seen plenty of Nice guys walk up to a girl/group of girls at a bar/club and offer an drink and they are meet with Rude/negative reaction.
Girls have no Ideal how hard ( insensitive) a public rejection like that is. I say... Women are the ones that say yes/no to hooking up... then they should be the ones to do the asking.
98% of girls at a club aren't looking for a man... so Why would I waste my time? Of that small % a guy has even a smaller chance she would say yes as He doesn't know if he's her type... It's a COMPLETE waste of time. With the internet... there are SO Many girls "Looking" the pressure is on the Girls to make her intentions know or he won't bother wasting his time... as he probably has other girls to choose from.
My Buddy who was 50yrs old at the time.. was a serial dater and had girls 30<35 throwing themselves at him to get another date... make him interested. The tides have turned and there are more single women to men nowadays so the girl has to be aggressive.
I see most guys agree as I'm approaching Double digits in LIKES from guy.
I don't live in the UK, so their laws are not taken into consideration when I write. I write for an American audience. If other cultures want to adapt my advice, they're welcome to, but I'm not wrong just because my advice may not apply to your culture
You're wrong in assuming women don't understand how embarrassing a rejection can be. When men approach me in a polite way or try to start respectful conversation, I talk to them and dance with them. The only time I'm rude in rejecting someone is when he rudely approaches me
Again, I don't approve of hooking up and I write for people looking for genuine and committed relationships
And actually more women are interested in committed relationships than men. Most people who engage in casual sex are open to relationships if they meet the right person
Well yes there's more single women than men because there's more men in the world than men
@Margillard talking about girls who are only annoyed that they were approached by a guy who isn't attractive, to them, and then they make fake accusation of sexual harassment. Simply trying to talk to a girl isn't criminal.
You're right about women doing the asking; we wanted gender equality, and that's exactly what is entailed. We women are now 50% responsible for making the first moves, AND PAYING for the first date!! And, last I checked, I'm human, and as such, I enjoy sex. I'm not afraid to tell a guy that I'm DTF, no strings, just fun.
@dragonfly6516 Feminist have deemed talking to a girl in public, misoginistic and in England, the lawmakers drafted the "Misoginist Hate Crime" law, punishable by up to 10 years in prison. If you put the make on a lesbian, or another non welcoming gender or a feminist or a unwelcoming cist female and they decide to press charges, guys are screwed. The law can even be used by any misandrist to "Swat " an innocent guy and have him swarmed and beaten or killed by trigger happy police. No thanks I will not take my chances and jeopardize my freedom or mortal life what is left, thank you very much, for the encoragement... I am not that corageous, sorry to dissapoint you. Hopefully you will find your bad boy.
@Margillard
Most women aren't feminists, so you can't hold all women to the same standards just because feminists want something. I prefer traditional gender roles myself and wouldn't want to be with a guy who supports modern feminism or wants to be with a feminist because we simply would be incompatible. I want to be a stay-at-home mom, at least when children are young, so someone who isn't willing to pay on the first date is showing he has poor capability and no intention of providing for our family. So while acting like you want feminism equality is going to be unattractive to a lot of women who prefer traditional gender roles
@Margillard I live in the US, and I've been dating my Viking for 3 years now. Not a bad boy, a real man. I'm not a feminist, nor do I agree with half of their agendas or ideals. I'm for actual equality, and I'm the one who asked him out.
@Idonthaveausername..."Most women aren't feminists, so you can't hold all women to the same standards just because feminists want something."
The same way Men get Labelled as "ONLY wanting Sex, Dogs". I guess see how Prejudice that is for guys. The big difference is the Guy gets treated worse and... it's accepted.. no one considers it bad.
It's come to the point in the USA... that "IF" a girl wants a GOOD GUY/Husband/Father for her kids... SHE has to be the AGGRESSOR. If she waits fro a guy to hit on her she will ONLY get the guys looking for a ONS/Fuk buddy.
A good example is ALL my female friends... get along with, have fun/laugh... I'm attracted to them but NONE of them want anything more... I have "Complete Strangers (women) asking to FK?
Girls HAVE IT MADE... they JUST DON'T HAVE THE COMMON SCENE TO ACT ON IT.
I see SOOO many DUMB comment on how GIRLS don't want to date their BFF because they don't want to lose them?/ WTF... So DO U/ DON'T U waNt to BE WITH A MAN THAT LUV?
"The same way Men get Labelled as "ONLY wanting Sex, Dogs". I guess see how Prejudice that is for guys. The big difference is the Guy gets treated worse and... it's accepted.. no one considers it bad."
Sex is a pleasurable physical act that does not equate love, and I don't get emotionally attached to the men that I have fun with. But if I seek out the exact same unattached sex that men are praised for, I'm looked down on, as cheap, easy, lose, and it's assumed that I have STDs. Every bit of that is false, for me at least.
Maybe if a stop was put to this, it would be easier for men to get laid, because maybe at that point there could be a clear distinction between a man looking for sex, and man seeking a relationship. Those looking for sex would have an easier time of finding women who were willing, without the fear of a ruined reputation hanging over these women's heads.
And that, in turn would make it easier for those seeking relationships, as those looking for sex alone would be able to boldly state their intentions, and not have to worry about leading a girl on, because other women would have no fear of social stigma in stating that they too just want sex.
Men have a prejudice of only wanting sex because a large portion of men do. I told my ex I wasn't going to sleep with him anytime soon because I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex with more than one man (waiting until marriage, yes). He lied to me when he claimed he was willing to wait and then decided to cheat on me instead. If men would't cheat or act like dogs with sex, then women wouldn't make that correlation
Your female friends aren't interested in you due to your personality
It has not "come to a point where women have to be aggressors." I see a lot of guys on this site claim that, but it's not true at all. Men of all different kinds hit on me all the time. I have guys looking for relationships approach me all the time
LOL I would never date a good friend. Good friends are necessary for low points or breakups. Friends are friends because they don't initiate romance or assume attraction
There are just as many women who cheat, two-time, and even play the field, as men. Men just carry the bad rap because of the misconception that women don't enjoy sex the way men do.
The law allows for misandrist to "swat" an innocent guy. Perhaps a bitter and angry girl that just got dumped or what have you, then a ugly guy hits on her and uses him for a scapegoat.
There are a lot of women with mental health issues out there.
This is why we don't approach girls anymore.
@dragonfly6516
More men cheat than women
www.trustify.info/blog/infidelity-statistics-2017
Of all the people I know who have cheated, either both the guy and girl cheated or only the guy
Men and women do enjoy sex differently because our brains are different. Women mostly receive a hit of oxytocin from sex and men dopamine
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...akes-men-want-MORE.html
@Margillard
Lol. Women don't go after men for the sake of it. Women don't use random guys as scapegoats. And I really hope you're not trying to insult me with that because I'm not bitter about him cheating on me, especially not now that he's self-destructing without me and trying to get me back
There are a lot of men with mental issues and their external aggression related to mental illness is much worse than women who internalize it
www.apa.org/.../mental-illness.aspx
Men still approach women all the time. Just because you don't doesn't stop other men
So how can you tell if you are approching a feminist misandrist, some other non welcoming gender, or a angry heterosexual female. You can't, the chances are slim the risks are high.
The cost/benefit analysis is deficit, plain an simple.
Actually, women are more likely to lie about cheating, because they tend to feel justified, and blame the man who is being cheated on.
Women who are caught dead to rights are more likely to just walk away and leave, feeling no guilt or remorse, blaming the man for not trying hard enough to keep her interested.
But men are more likely to feel remorse, and try to win her back, or keep her.
Those statistics are only based on what was actually admitted to, or could be proven.
@dragonfly6516
Those are anonymous statistics. Face to face studies showed only half of the women who cheated admitting it. Yes women are less likely to admit it face-to-face, but so are men. Across anonymous and non-anonymous studies, men cheat more than women
Men cheat for sexual reasons and women cheat for emotional reasons. When either partner withholds either, that is an unhealthy relationship and both partners need to reevaluate or split up. Cheating and abuse or manipulation are not answers to these problems
@Margillard
You can tell if you know someone long enough or get to know them. Having genuine conversation and interactions will give you an idea. Since most people aren't what you're claiming women are, no the risk does not outweigh the reward
Saying all women cheat is ignorant and a huge generalization, so is it saying all men are cheaters. For every man cheater, you need a woman... basic math.
Any women definitely do cheat for sexual reasons, this is why millions of women go for "Romance Holidays" on the tropical beaches of Jamaica, throughout the Caribbean and the European girls travel to Zanzibar, Kenya, Ghana, Gambia etc for the big bamboo, mandingo BBC. This a very popular event organized by female swingers in Kingston Jamaica:
Mochafest. com
@Margillard
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1936934
Here's an article that agrees with with you that both men and women cheat about the same amount, (but doesn't offer any legitimate evidence to prove it). If more women cheat with other men in relationships and men cheat with single women, yes this proves men and women have as much sex, but can account for more men than women being cheaters
It also details that women do in fact cheat for emotional reasons and lists the top 5. 56% of women are in love with the men they cheat with and only 27% of men love the women they cheat with. Yes some women cheat for sexual reasons as cheating is a sexual act, but most do it for emotional reasons
Swingers aren't cheating. Those are agreed-upon sexual acts that the other partner is fully aware of. Swingers can cheat in conjunction to swinging, but the swinging itself isn't cheating
Here is an interesting poll, it shows the percentage of women who will cheat if the dick is that good. Only 5% of white dick is bigger than 7", the other 95% of males aren't that much of a temptation. 44% of women dumped their guy because their penis was too small.
50% of white male penises are smaller than 5.1" which may affect the chances of a woman cheating.
http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
@Margillard
Lol that's what you get when you date sluts and encourage sleeping around. Women who wait until marriage don't have any other sizes to compare to. Half the women in that poll have slept with over 10 men and it doesn't specify how many men each woman who answered 1-10 slept with. Studies have shown women with less sexual partners have much higher sexual satisfaction and better marriages that last longer while women with more partners are less satisfied and have shorter relationships. So it's no wonder all the sluts in this poll are unhappy with something that is perfectly fine because they're just bitter they lost something better
Simple comparison of number of partners slept with shows this isn't an accurate sample of the general population
I thought it was us misoginist men that were the culprits of slut shaming.
And don't tell me you are saving your virginity for the right man at 38 years old,
@Margillard Slut shaming is Mostly done by other girls... Jealous ones most of the time.
@Margillard
Lol I'm not slut shaming anybody. I'm pointing out the fact that sluts are the only ones who care about penis size and that virgin girls don't because they have nothing to compare it to. Girls tell me all the time how much they hate the way they lost their virginity to guys who didn't care about them and how they wish they would've waited like me. I'm not even close to 38 yet, but I wouldn't mind dying a virgin as long as it means I'm not having sex with someone who doesn't love me. If I ever get married, it will between just me and my husband
When a man is single after 35, you can pretty much bet he never will ever get married.
40% of men never do get married and carry on their dna, that number is rising quickly.
Look at Japan's "herbivore men" or " grass eaters" as they are also called, the west is not too far behind. World wide it is gaining fast.
It is written in the bible: "Thus saith the Lord: In that dayso few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying "Let us marry you! We will provide our own food an clothing. Only let us take your name so we won't be mocked as old maids" - Isaiah 4:1
@Margillard , "When a man is single after 35, you can pretty much bet he never will ever get married."...
NOT TRUE, a guy could be divorce (single after 35). Also a Guy that puts his career first... doesn't have to worry about a Biological Clock... like women do.
True and some guys like my uncle get married for the first time in their 40s. Turning 35 doesn't make a man less likely to marry, it's men who want to marry generally do it before 35 so they can have children. Age doesn't affect whether you want to marry or not
Japan has an excess of men due to child number laws. Those men do want women, but there aren't enough women to go around, so they act like they don't want the women they're not capable of marrying
Well considering that 40% of men are proving they have no worth by not respecting women or being able to pass on their genes, I don't think the next generation will feel cheated. And that % is doubtable anyway
Japan has women extremely scared because the is a shortage of men due to the Grasseaters... men that simply want nothing to do with women. MGTOW is not far behind Japan and the birth rate is plummeting in both countries. There is no a surplus of men, get your facts straight and stop making stuff up for your emotional opinions.
@Margillard
Not even close to being true. It seems you're the one who comes up with false emotional opinions. I'm not an emotional person, I use logic and fcts to base my opinions and actions on. Just because you're afraid of women doesn't mean the rest of men are
This went on much too long...
This was actually much shorter than all of my previous MyTakes. I enjoy writing extensively and prefer to clearly explain my concepts for comprehension even if it takes longer to explain
If you're going to comment, be constructive about the topic at hand
OK, I agree with the part that men don't approach women in groups.
There you go. It's always better to engage with the discussion rather than to comment at it from afar
I wouldn't approach a woman out of my league for the same reason I wouldn't apply for a job I'm under-qualified for: I know I'll get rejected.
Not all women whom you perceive to be out of your league are going to reject you. Many gorgeous women care more about personality than looks in a partner, especially those looking for genuine and committed relationships
many women you consider out of your league have many insecurities. especially if their looks is the only think they have going on. an ex supermodel was saying that in her circles you'll find some of the most insecure women.
@levantine99 you're both delusional about the real world.
here is the talk dumpazz
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KM4Xe6Dlp0Y
@levantine99 TED talks are boring as it is, but they're especially boring when the speaker isn't hot. That was terrible.
There is no such thing as leagues, only shallowness in people who aren't willing to get to know somebody first. Your problem is that you also have an ugly personality. If you want to be in a relationship, then you need to improve your personality first
You are in denial. There is no delusion here except your own
exactly ugly personality. yeah, if we are realistic most 9s and 10s go after billionaires and world class football players, but even if you found the one 10, that can fall for you, you would indirectly reject her with your personality.
blonde girl with glasses tho
Never met an intimidating woman to be honest.
I've met women who thought they were intimidating... no one had the heart to tell her she was:
A. Built like a truck.
B. Waaaaay too full of herself www.wetpaint.com/.../...162-640x480-1492008905.png
C. Not that pretty... like at all.
@demonics I really wouldn't know.
@demonics. Stop telling the truth , LMAO!!
@Djaaay I can't help it lol.
Most of the time it's because they're very attractive, actually.
Not at all. Attractive women get hit on constantly whether they want to or not. If an attractive woman isn't getting hit on, it's because something about her personality is instantly unattractive to men or she comes off as unavailable
Men are stupid that's the reason 😏
I'm not intimidated by other humans, they're just flesh and bone like me
I guess I'm not intimidating after all
Ur mistaking confident w intimidation.
I'm not mistaking anything here and your lack of explanation proves you've put no thought into this false statement
Proof? if a statement can't ignite the flames of thought, no amount of convincing will keep ur imagination simmering.
Well you're not convincing at all because you're wrong
Lol, yes, because u said so. pssh. ok, apparently i gave u too much credit so ill dumb it down and using ur latest durr of a sentence as an example. ur opinion will not change because of either vanity or stupidity. saying im not convincing because im wrong proved my earlier point for me. anyways, i originally commented to point out something, but ur responses showed me ur thought process on the original comment which is y im stopping here. u can't teach a potato how to play hockey and im gonna be the 1 who tried
*not... had to put that in there because, well, potato.