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Women exept you to pay for the first restaurent. Not ALL of them. Jeez
True. All is click bait. Most women I've dated split checks. Then again they are feminist women typically.
I have to fight my boyfriend not to pay for me, he still wins but I'm not forcing him to do shit and when he doesn't have any money, I pay
My husband paid for most of our dates
Exaclty lol and if he didn't you wouldn't be with him right cause you wouldn't feel he cared lol
Imagine that... money over love
@TripleAce Not at all m8.
I really liked him, we split the bill on our first two dates. He wanted to take me to a really nice restaurant and I said yes.
We went back to the same restaurant for our tenth wedding anniversary.
And then he what? Just paid for every other date and you somehow forgot you have a wallet too lol
@TripleAce no I didn't forget my purse, that's just the way that he wanted it to be.
I've had girls make fun of my engagement and wedding rings because they are small, seriously no fucks given when it comes to bitchy comments.
I had a boyfriend for around 2 years and he never had any money so I paid for almost everything.
I didn't break up with him because of that it was whole load of problems like he'd go out with his mates but he didn't want me going out my friends. Basically I wasn't allowed to have a life.
I believe what you say. Sounds genuine š¤
Do you think the guy should let the woman pay for it if she insists though?
@Billybob46 I think yes... and that's an interesting question to ask her... if the girl insists on paying all the time... is that ok too?
@TripleAce Yeah I would think so. Especially if a rich woman dates a middle class man.
All women are whores. Some are just more honest about it than others.
Whomever invites, pays the bill. That's the way I see it.
Absolutely. Women only care about equality when it benefits them, but will quickly switch when they want to leech off a man lol
This post was such a downer, so much negativity.
Im surprised to see how many cheap, selfish guys are on here smh
@bronzergirl Really? It's not selfish. It's smart. If you want a stupid guy, go find one! It's pretty easy. Enjoy! ;)
@bronzergirl I'm surprised how many entitled women are on here. You just feel entitled to free meals. How easy it must be to be a girl. Apply some make-up, get guys to ask you out, free meal. If you don't like him, goodbye and thanks for the free meal. These guys are so selfish smh! I'm honestly disgusted by your attitude. This isn't the 20th century anymore, where women aren't making any money, which is exactly why men paid women's meal in the first place during that time. You can't just cherry pick all the benefits of a time where women weren't equal, while still reaping all the benefits of a time where women are equal. It makes absolutely no sense, but it is still happening to this day. I'll never understand why we're equal in everything in our society, except when it comes to dating.
You sound bitter dude
On behalf of all single Gents. Yes. Im bitter. there's nothing wrong with that. Women talk slim pickings all the time and get supportive response. But when a guy does its "bitter".
I love women. Got invited for drinks again tomorrow with 4 of them. But when they flirt I brush it off. Best to be friends. I just dont see quality anymore. Nothing deeper than mayerialistic positioning. Nothing soulful. Just talk of gossip, jenna marbles, Netflix, and begging me to get drunk with them.
Most nice guys have given up. Theyre tired of 2 dayes and quit while the lady shows up for their free drink and moves on.
You might be a nice, deep, soulful gal tho. Maybe you give these poor guys i talk to a chance beyond alimony and child support.
apope, I agree, the value has gone down but there are some rare girls out there who do not fit this description but just harder to find. OP, being bitter with the cards he has been dealt is reasonable under any sense.
my point is, the dating game is really bad right now. Its best to stay away from those apps and find a girl outside of the dating scene because a lot of them may just be looking for a meal lol
Thank you @Apope16. I agree with lots of what you say. Very in line with MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) if you've heard of them. Although it is a bit problematic in all they say so only bits and pieces do I spot on agree with them. I wouldn't say for nice guys to give up though. But, I will say they have a right to not give chase anymore unless it's REALLY worth it and 100% proven. If guys as a whole agreed that they are tired of being used, then maybe more women would chase after men and it'd be easier. But the assholes of guys have done the opposite and that's why girls are super selective and careful in many cases. Men have scared many of them into being forever single. And vice versa in some ways. It's not necessary to have a girlfriend or wife to be happy though. It makes it nicer maybe, but it's not mandatory. The focus should be on career, philosophy, wisdom, and the like regardless of having somebody special to share with. If no women like that, it's THEIR loss, not ours.
What kind of messed up thinking is this?
The type of thinking that wants dating not to be prostitution
Just imagine reversing the gender roles: Women have to pay for everything, and women complain that they shouldn't pay for everything anymore. Men reply: 'What kind of messed up thinking is this?'
Sounds, 'messed up' right?
No it is chivalry
Can't have it both ways.
It's prostitution
This is just more MGTOW nonsense.
Kinda. I dont completely agree with the movt. I do consider the article feminist. Not expecting a woman to split is to me misogynistic.
I know MGTOW when I see it and this is just pure complaining. The multiple downvotes from guys is proof of that.
I don't care about how many votes something gets and it proves nothing. In the early women's rights movement even the majority of women didn't support having the right to vote. Just a few years ago Gay Marriage was opposed and now its the law of the land.
All I said was "this is just more MGTOW nonsense" and I get tons of down votes from guys. Clearly those are from guys who are part of the MGTOW movement. Just like you.
I thought I was clear that I am not a part of the MGTOW movement. Because of you I made my latest mytake as a clear opposition to it. The latest mytake is how I am opposed to the movement. I am a feminist, not anti-feminist. I simply view women as equal and have an opinion that checks should be split evenly. I think it is more a result of living years in poverty.
You sound classist. You sound as if you are saying that people who are in poverty or flip burgers are not deserving as love simply because they want to split checks while being respectful of women. 4 dates at $20 is $100. That is about 20% of the income of a McDonalds worker. You don't even care if they are a good and decent man. You only care to label a man based on whether he pays the full bill?
just because you call yourself anti-MGTOW doesn't mean you are. I can call myself a strong black woman, but that doesn't make it true.
Tl;dr. But nope. Wrong.
In my culture, men pay for everything
WHY?
A culture derived from Islam.
In "Islam", husband must pay for all expenses even if his wife is a billionaire. there is nothing like split the bills, husband must pay all of them.
It's forbidden to the husband to use his wife money without her consent, and if she gives consent it will be considered charity.
50/50 is a nice option i think
Thanks for sharing!
I disagree, i think you should take it in turns
on some level I agree with you
Kinda... well more of an investment
I am here for the points but men must always pay
I am not able to adx comnent as this looks like closed so I will add an opinion here. In my experience mostly POOR MEN complain the most about how women want them for their money. Men that make good money enjoy paying for their woman. Also I have not met a single men who had an idea that he is purchasing sex for a bowl of soup.
@Megalyssa I think it is not hard to gather 20 dollars at least to take your girl once in a while out. McDonalds and things like that are good too. The thing is not that they don't have money, the thing is that they don't want to spend money which is very selfish to me. They all have money for their beers and cigarettes but not paying 10 dollars at least for their partner's meal.
Complaining a man doesn't want to spend money on you isn't him being selfish. It is YOU being selfish. And you think chics want to date at McDonald's? Just one and done? Lol. Oh boy.. people in this post just dont get it. I was poor. You are saying that love is a classist enterprise. Poor men are not allowed to have it.
Nice take and informative