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Lol I'm too old to pull the "not allow to date" in college.
Tried it and the guy suggested i run off with him since apparently my mother is controlling... no thanks, I'll just keep saying "No sorry, I'm not looking to date. I wanna get closer to Jesus and focus on school. "
Works like a charm and guys respect it. Some say "we could be friends" I tell em "I don't want any distractions"
This mytake is written for girls who dont want to feel bad about rejecting a guy, it was never about the guys feelings.
hope not bit care-less then
or you can just say
'If you like and respect me! then understand this that currently its a no,
but give me your number if scenario changes i will let you know'
wowo good one haha. will rememeber!
@FlorandFauna also it would be nice to let him know, expected time of change of scenario, i mean guy like me can wait 1 yr max.
Every time I think maybe women ARE capable of honesty, all it takes is a quick visit to this site to remind me of the truth.
I'd rather she gave me oral after to soften the blow.
You can't. So just end it quickly and move on. In the old days, men liked certainty. The men in of this generation, if they don't appreciate it, they must be learn to.
It's best to be honest with him than lying to him and he needs to be a man to accept that and move on with his life
Yeah I said once My dad does not approve me messing with guys" I was like 43 at that time. It hepled tho. He froze on spot unableto comprehand
I think there are always some hurt feelings when someone rejects you, so i would like the girl to be straight up and told me rather than using some these "non hurtful" advices..
Just say 'I'm sorry not interested'. Girls you're sweet to care about are feelings but saying anything but no makes it seem like there's still a chance.
No. Just say the truth. It's better a hurtful truth than a smooth lie.
Or, in one simple step, explain exactly why you are breaking up with him and never date him again. I've met these guys before and emotion is inexistent to them.
Just give me the honest truth. Women do soft rejections for themselves and themselves only. So that they dont have to feel bad about it. All i want is the truth.
You can do whatever you want. If you reject someone he or she will be hurt. No matter what you say, what's he or she is gonna hear is "I don't like you" and that's it.
The only important part is to be honest without being mean.
Lol guys already know these tricks.. and by the way,
Im the master at smelling bullshit in people. So if you're gonna reject me you better say "im not interested" otherwise im fully right to continue pursueing. Im not obligated to know or respect how you feel unless you speak.
You can say no and still be friends, honesty is the key word.
Why be friends with a girl who rejects him? He owes her nothing. Not a GODDAMN thing !
why sugar coat it though? he's putting himself out there.. why do his feelings matter?
Because Karma will bite your ass.
Even it hurts him, be CLEAR. You can still be nice but above all, don't let him hope. Eventually tell him you have personal reasons , not to date.
or "That's really sweet/flattering/nice but I have a boyfriend"
I'd say, "Fine, I'm not surprised, Call me if things change". Then turn, walk
away and never, ever acknowledge her presence, Ghost her ass ! I've done
this and most women can't take being ghosted or ignored. A guy is risking
his ego and feelings to ask you out. You're not interested, Cool, no need to
say yes when you're not interested. That said, don't get upset if he never speaks
to you or acknowledges your presence, Guys are hurt when rejected. And you
want him to be friends? My ass ! Dream on. If he's a good, strong man, he'll
walk away and never look back. Or at some point you might become interested in him,
Then he has every right to blow you off. And you can't blame him. I've seen this happen.
@Marinepilot possibly the most immature thing I've ever heard a 65yo man say. Sad.
I always just say that i am not ready to date yet...