Subtle Tips for Shy Girls - Being a Good Indian.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Just being a shy girl itself can do wonders for your love life. But if you want to use your shy side as an #advantage and appear even more desirable, use these subtle and yet obvious tips.

Don’t #change.

Don’t try to behave like you’re bold when you’re talking to a guy you like. He already likes you for who you are. You may end up sounding rude or giving mixed signals.

You don’t have to #talk.

Don’t try to please others constantly by #mumbling anything that comes to your mind. At times, it’s better to just play to your #strength. Stay quiet and answer when required. You’ll make any guy work harder to impress you.

#Confidence.

Being shy doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be confident. While having a conversation with a guy about something you’re well aware of, speak confidently while making your point. A #sudden #burst of confidence always makes a shy girl more #attractive.

#Learn to say #no.

If you don’t like something, just say no. You don’t need to #explain #yourself. It’ll make the guy #work #harder to please you because he’ll be #afraid to offend you.

Try to #relax and don’t be #aloof.

You know the guy is trying to impress you, so help him out without feeling #nervous or #awkward. Just #smile warmly during the conversation and he’ll fall for you in no time. You don’t even have to say too much as long as you smile to reassure him that you’re having a nice time with him.

#Dress in a #cute way.

It’ll accentuate your #personality. Having a shy personality may make you appear #cute and #appealing. But nothing accentuates it better than #attire and behavior. Learn to behave in a cute way all the time, and you’ll truly be a cute girl who’s worth taking a bullet for.

Ask for #help.

You may be shy, but now and then, work your #courage up to ask a cute guy for some #help. Guys #love #assisting girls they’re interested in. It’s their way of pleasing the girl they like. So give a guy you’re interested in a chance to play the #knight in #shining #armor in your life, and he’ll spend a lot of time thinking about you.

Hope it helps. 😊

Being a GOOD INDIAN. 😊

Hope Girls stop blocking us.

#India

#Shy

#Introvert

[Quintessence]

Being shy is not cute. That cute, innocent, shy, school-girl thing you see going on in movies is all ACTING. Being shy IN REALITY is terrible. It's heart palpitations and feeling nauseous when you're surrounded by a group of people or approached by a random stranger; it's shaky fingers and getting your words mixed up; it's not knowing what to say, therefore looking at a guy like you want to say something, making him wonder if there's something wrong with you, mentally; it's awkward and it's cringey. That picture you have in your head of what shy girls are like is what people who are actually very extroverted and outgoing make it look like when they get on the big screen.

[DairyCow]

I have never related more to a comment in my life. #socialanxietyclub

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@Quintessence

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion.

Let me share few #assumptions which people have about shy people.

Shy People Lack Social Skills. 🙃
Shy People Want To Be Left Alone.

In reality.

Shy people know that the habits they form aren't just because they're aloof -- it's because they approach life with a different thinking pattern than their more outspoken counterparts. And their signature personality trait isn't all bad.

They have good observation. This habit often makes shy people great listeners, and as a result, more considerate friends, co-workers and partners.

They always think before speaking.
I can understand your concern.

You've lived through this scene what feels like a thousand times: You're giving a presentation in class when some commenter from the back of the room pipes up, "Can you talk a little louder?" It's a shy person's worst nightmare -- no matter how many times it happens.

There is merit in a shy person's soft-spoken nature.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

It makes them cute for few people.

"Social ambiance and silence can be a real strength, particularly when you need to be in a #leadership role."

#nopersonalattacks

[saudiguy1]

Downvote. You're just socially retarded... a girl can look cute and be shy, I've met plenty.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@saudiguy1

Please buddy. No personal attacks.

👍👍

[Quintessence]

@saudiguy1 I don't think you've ever met a truly shy girl, then. Or you've simply fallen for the acting.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

NO PERSONAL ATTACKS. ✋

[Quintessence]

I've done no such thing, my good sir.

[ThatonehO]

Agreed. Well put, I must say

[CubsterShura]

Why so many hashtags tho

by the way I'm like, super bold and outgoing when it comes to guy FRIENDS but once I start growing interested in them or they let me know they like me, I try to be a friend and pretend like nothing ever happened and end up causing problems.

Like literally I wouldn't even mind dancing with a guy friend. But if one of us or both of us want to be more than friends? I'm the most bashful human being ever in that case.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your opinion. 😊

Hashtags? 🤔🤔

Good suggestion. 😊

[sedrftvgyhujik]

probly makes it hard for them find shy guys though or them you ie gema and fitz from agents of shield being just friends for years.
and 2 shy pepole can make a good couple

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah.

Love between two introverts can provide a refreshing oasis in an increasingly loud world. It is a love formed on mutual acceptance with little need for compromise; a partnership with fewer words, but greater understanding; a safe place where both people have enough space to blossom. 😊

[sedrftvgyhujik]

definitly

[BellaIsQueen]

Nice MyTake. ❤
"Learn to behave in a cute way all the time." What if I don't want to, all the time? What are different alternatives?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Shy girls almost always appear innocent and sweet. When a guy has a conversation with a shy girl, he’ll feel more drawn towards her innocence and fragility.

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Don't try to be what you're not. If you're nervous, be nervous. If you're shy, be shy. It's cute.

A shy girl’s awkwardness makes her more attractive to few guys. 😊

Thanks for sharing your opinion. 😊

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[BellaIsQueen]

“Shyness is simply a human difference, a variation that can be a form of richness.” - Marco Battaglia 🤓

[innocent_]

nice :)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@BellaIsQueen

Well said.

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It depends how you interpret. 🤓
👏👏👏😊

[MikeydeeCT]

I don't agree with this guy... Not everyone likes shy... Some people like to loud have fun have adventures be spontaneous. To each their own. I like freaks and geeks ;-)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@MikeydeeCT

Yeah. We cannot generalize. It is individual choice. 😊

I had never said that #everyone likes shy.

[RachelleDraws]

My girlfriend is shy and I think that's adorable. I love her so much!

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Aww !!! 😊😊

That's the distinctive feature of lipstick lesbian relationships.

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[innocent_]

awe that's so cute ^^

[RachelleDraws]

Thankies~

[innocent_]

np :)

[LovingLoverReturned]

Do shy people think little because they are consumed by anxiety... or is it only confidence they lack and they think a lot? Are shy people shy with their siblings and parents?

I used to be shy. Now I'm selectively quiet until I get comfortable with a person. And it still depends on what we are doing and situation like how appealing the person is. I still get anxious depending to situation.. but in debates that are not about me, and are about general topics I'm mostly brave

[nbbn5]

Some things in this take like confidence part goes also for a shy guy like me :) lol

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for giving me idea. 😊

My take for #Introvert guys? 🤔🤔

WIP. 😊

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[nbbn5]

:) :) :)
Jai HIND 🇮🇳🇮🇳

[anewgirl]

Nice! I definitely am on the shy side with people I don't know. With my crush, I've really tried to talk more and be more confident. 👍

[MikeydeeCT]

No need to be shy... Most guys are just as nervous as you he won't ever turn you down either

[SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ]

Being shy is good I reckon. You're more observant, reflective and a better listener.

[sovetskii13]

What does "Play to your strength" mean?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Shy people have cautious thinking and Meekness. They can appear to others to be innocent or good. Their quietness leads to a calming effect on others.

They should do what they are able to do well rather than trying to do other things.

[Anonymous]

Especially girls from Asia are introverts (Japan, South Korea, Vietnam, India). I don't like rebel girls with the big mouth I am sure most don't. Shy girls are cute :).

[Nice222]

I love cute shy women but they are hard to get to know.

[Malaya]

I hate being shy but thank you for the tips

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[Malaya]

Aww that was pretty

[Malaya]

Thank you for the flower saying your welcome

[Being_a_good_Indian]

No problem. 😊😊😊

[ArabianPwincess197]

Good Take, thanks for the tips :)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[Michaelchris225]

How are you doing

[HesaidShesaidNO]

awesome take! thanks! :)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[HesaidShesaidNO]

:) :)

[404filenotfound]

Thanks for the insight

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[John_Doesnt]

Everybody needs to change.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Exactly !!!

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.

In case of shy people "Don't change" is one of the biggest change in their life.

[Player9606]

Very informative take, keep going on and on!!!

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. 😊🤔😊

[Player9606]

Well Said Bro

[Anonymous]

Shyness isn't appreciated in this world

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks.

Why?

My take idea. 👍👍👍

[innocent_]

what exactly do you mean?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@ Anonymous

Thanks.

Why?

👍 = Sharing opinion.
👍 = Speaking the truth.
👍 = Giving me idea. 🤐

[Daniel_James]

Not if you're a male, but a lot of guys will find shyness cute and their primal instincts to protect will kick in.

[Keonisha]

I like being shy but I just wish I had more to offer

[walkietalkie1990]

Nice and Interesting take

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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