Hello and welcome everyone! Do you like a guy and not sure regarding things you should and things you shouldn't do? Well I'm here to solve the latter. If you're a guy, you can check a previous take written by me- 5 Things Guys Should Keep in Mind While Handling Their Crush!. This one is mainly for girls but boys, you're gonna relate to it. So let's start...
1. Mixed up signals
One of the biggest problems of a guy's life since existence lol. Girls tend to give hints to their crushes but guys are pretty bad at reading signals and following hints. We don't really understand those gestures and things rather we appreciate the girls who openly admit things. It might be hard especially for a shy girl but please for God's sake, STOP GIVING MIXED SIGNALS!!
Fix it but don't mix it!
2. Behavioural Changes
Girls sometimes change their persona and behaviour around the guy they like. While this thing can give him a direct message that you like him, on the other hand, this can make things worse for you. The guy might find you crazy and weird because girls generally become nervous around their crush and become too emotionally imbalanced and end up messing things and speaking either too much or not speaking at all. This all combined can kill your chances.
Just because your pain is understandable doesn't mean that your behaviour is acceptable
3. Fake Cake
Some girls brag too much around their crush, trying to prove them superior around him especially outgoing girls. They tend to fake themselves and glorify their achievements etc. If you do this, STOP!! No one likes it when you're just boasting about your achievements. They also start talking bout fashion and clothes and we guys literally don't know anything bout female fashion sense. So kindly spare our lives girls. Try to be authentic.
If you're not perfect, don't fake up of being one.
4. Insecurity
This is the thing that you should avoid even when your crush isn't around. You shouldn't be insecure. You should accept yourself. You are you and you don't freaking need anyone. Who gives a damn? You don't need to be like others and you're unique in your own way. So stop being insecure. You gotta be more confident regarding yourself.
Nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities!
5. Jealousy Game
I've seen many girls trying this trick and believe me, it's crap and doesn't work at all. It just complicates and ruins everything. The guy might even stop taking interest thinking that you don't even like him. Jealousy always hurts in a relationship. Even if you two would get together, this factor might keep bugging your relationship now and then. So it's better to not even think about it!
Jealousy is a disease without a cure!
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