I've never paid for the 1st date and always split it. I think I will pay the next time to see if there's a difference in how things turn out down the line or how it makes me feel. Most women want to split.
I think, whoever asked the other out should be the one to pay.
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It’s an equal world, or at least we’re actually trying to make it equal. If women want equal pay, equal respect, equal everything, isn’t paying for their meal a step backwards?
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I like the implied chivalry in a guy paying for the first date with me. it makes me all feel all giddy inside, like he can almost have his way with me!!
You should pay for the first date, unless you know there will be a second and she'll pay. Otherwise you're just a free meal for a girl who will then move on to the next milk cow.
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sorry dude. but as long as there's a group of women out there accepting dates and using men to get free stuff, they can pay for themselves. Nothing is wrong with that.
No. First date should be both paying unless specifically stated otherwise. The first date is about trial and error, so to have the best and most fair experience both the man and woman should have to pay.
I went out with a girl the other day and she insisted on splitting it, i told her no that i got it the first time and she said she hated when people pay for her, so i told her i could respect that so she didn't feel like she owed me.
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you shouldn't be splashing out and spending money on the 1st date, 2nd or even 3rd.
don't spend money on women until you get to know them, trust them and they're a serious girlfriend.
I've never paid for the 1st date and always split it. I think I will pay the next time to see if there's a difference in how things turn out down the line or how it makes me feel. Most women want to split.
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Nice take but i don't like the guy paying all the bills
1) It Makes Your Intentions Clear
so it's like legal prostitution right?
if we went on a date 2opaz i know you'd pay for me.
@PrincessPie it's like you know me
yes i would, anything for the princess
I am not even gonna read this. A big fat thumbs down. Never pay a woman because she won't pay you back in a good way. Men are not an ATM machine.
I think, whoever asked the other out should be the one to pay.
It’s an equal world, or at least we’re actually trying to make it equal.
If women want equal pay, equal respect, equal everything, isn’t paying for their meal a step backwards?
I like the implied chivalry in a guy paying for the first date with me. it makes me all feel all giddy inside, like he can almost have his way with me!!
ya lol... and I bet he does lol
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wow lol
You should pay for the first date, unless you know there will be a second and she'll pay.
Otherwise you're just a free meal for a girl who will then move on to the next milk cow.
sorry dude. but as long as there's a group of women out there accepting dates and using men to get free stuff, they can pay for themselves. Nothing is wrong with that.
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No. First date should be both paying unless specifically stated otherwise. The first date is about trial and error, so to have the best and most fair experience both the man and woman should have to pay.
I think the asker should pay because I've always seen a date as you 'treating' the other person to drinks/food/movies etc..
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I agree 100%! Like you said, it’s not about the money or sexism and it’s just the first date.
I don't pay. I used to do it before I realized it's stupid.
I went out with a girl the other day and she insisted on splitting it, i told her no that i got it the first time and she said she hated when people pay for her, so i told her i could respect that so she didn't feel like she owed me.
I have no problem with paying on a first date, but understand it's not going to be some $90 dinner - just drinks and appetizers.
Agreed but that doesn't mean the girl should purposely order something pricey, just get something you'll actually enjoy eating
The idea of someone paying for me is not romantic in the slightest, if I have to i'll try to fight with him to pay at the counter.