Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Why I Will No Longer Date the 'Nice Guy' (Page 4)
Ask to an AI Persona
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Laura
Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
95Opinion
same i'll never date "goodgirls" anymore...(dun wanna turn em bad lol)
guess back to them "bad girls" :)
If you don’t want jerks or nice guys, who’s left? (You’ll have no better luck with women, by the way.) Those guys sound to me like jerks that were only pretending to be nice. There are truly kind guys out there. They can just be hard to find.
Definitely not into women lol. Not planning on switching sides. Basically, I'm gonna treat all men I date as if they were an asshole guy. Not rudely, objectively. When it's a nice guy, it's so much easier to believe that they won't do the bullshit to you. But they do. So if I see all men the same, asshole or nice guy, it'll be easier to weed through and not waste more of my life on losers.
Well, however you go about it, I hope it works.
Guys get what they want when they don’t give a fuck. Well at least when we’re younger. Be selfish when you’re young unless you actually fall in love with a girl. If that’s the case then treat her well.
so what you are saying is these "nice guys" weren't so nice.
i think the nice guy title has gotten misconstrued.
people should date "good" people
Why is the dating pool so full of imbeciles? That's what I'd like to know. These guys you're talking about are idiots, that's for sure.
Not all nice guys are good guys. Don't underestimate a nice guy, some can be just as sour as sweet. And same goes for an assholes, maybe it's just his shell and he's a softie inside
That's no definition of a nice guy that definition of an insecure guy.
Guess what? They were never nice guys in the first place! Lol. You should change your Take title. Anyway... don’t date nice guys... date guys who will be good to you. Easier said than done.
I want to and truly can't figure out how to edit anything on here lol
LMAO. No worries, I got everything you said :). You'll meet someone great, it just takes time.
You have the wrong idea of what nice is. They weren’t nice you were just easily manipulated. There are guys out there like myself who have honest and true intentions but we get lost in the sea of bullshit because when women experience these kinds of situations it makes her think that all nice guys are just actors.
Yup. They never believe you're actually just treating them right.
People who pretends to be nice 24*7 aren’t actually nice. They are faking it. The problem with some nice guys that they don’t get enough attention and sex in earlier life and when they do in later, they take that as granted.
But sometimes check yourself also for compatibility. Sometime she in a relationship we are the problem but we fail to acknowledge that. ☺️
Yeah, those are not nice guys.
I think you left out a lot of the story about these guys. My bet is these "nice guys" were actually just popular, loud, obnoxious, idiots from the start.
"Now excuse me while I keep on respecting women."
Ha! Ha! Ha! That was good. Thanks, I needed a good laugh!
@Bluemax Hahaha :) No problem!
This is why I'd sooner claim to be Hitler reborn than any sort of "good guy."
Reverse psychology is a very powerful reality in this situation.
If a nice guy breaks your heart and does it in a douchey way, is he really a 'nice guy'?
Every guy is a jerk and the “nice ones” are just phony’s. Just find the jerk that isn’t abusive lol
Sounds like those guys weren't actually nice. There are kind men out there, don't give up!
Go to church and find yourself a good honorable Christian man that you guys can have a proper bright future together. You're meeting the wrong kind of guys
What if she’s not religious?
I was given the same advice as in finding a nice girl from church but I’m agnostic. I mean I don’t care if someone’s religious or even atheist as long as they don’t shove it down my throat, but at the same time given my views and morals, I don’t think I’d be a good match with a conservative Christian woman.
Make an effort and I'm sure things will go a lot differently for you in your life.
You didn’t date a nice guy you dated an asshole in disguise stop downing the nice guys
I don't know where you get this nice guy idea from. They all sounded like major assholes to me. The first guy was tooooo possessive. I can understand the friend thing but not the rest of it. And the second guy was just a complete asshole period. Undercover assholes or not - just like most girls you're attracted to assholes. But like attracts like I suppose.
I call bullshit as nice guys don't put themselves up on a pedestal. They put women up on a pedestal.
preach, a guy can be nice to woman lol newsflash
They weren't nice guys obv, they just acted like it. You can't know who someone truly is until you've spent enough time with them to find out. These were the guys portrayed as being really good guys. Turns out, nope.
well i am and other are