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Why I Will No Longer Date the 'Nice Guy' (Page 5)
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Oh look she dated shitty men now she thinks all men are trash yeah totally not a sexist take bashing men. TL;DR written by a misandrist.
1. Wtf is a misandrist?
2. Not sexist in the slightest. Matter of fact, I'm anti-modern day feminist. They make women look like entitled trash.
3. Not bashing all men.
I'm saying all men, even the nice ones, CAN be assholes. Just sick of hearing, "you need to settle down with a nice guy". I've been screwed over more by nice ones than assholes.
You are part of the problem. You get pumped and dumped then bash all men for your bad choices in guys. I'm not going to waste my time explaining how a sexist is sexist.
Bye!
Chow
Oh no, 2 whole nice guys and now you'll never date one again.
I no longer know what a nice guy is.
It seems more and more as, when a man, you're classified either as a nice guy or an asshole.
This is the kind of girl thoughts that makes me give up and resign.
I'm not done with nice guys necessarily. I'm just done believing people are who they say they are, and I'm going to view every possible suitor as an asshole. Not treat them as such, but if I view you as an asshole, stupid stuff I say, "well he must be genuine, he's a nice guy" won't happen. If i view you as an asshole, I'll be able to detect bullshit so much faster. That's what I meant.
Well, that's definitely something I expect to consider in adulthood: differentiate between what people claim to be and what they one judges they are.
Many people genuinely believe what they claim being without realizing the huge perception gap from outside. Thing is, I don't get to meet many people aware of this (and its huge impliances), let alone constantly checking everything what others claim to be in contrast with their actions, subtle or not. It's one neurotic hell.
You played yourself hun. And I don't feel sorry for you. The second guy treated you like a booty call and that was about it. Girls do the same with guys but get less shit from it.
well l am a very honest and loyal guy and l have been cheated on by 3 girls it makes me so sick l am still looking for my miss nice girl x
A lot of nice guys are just fuckboys that take a different approach. Real, good men are kinda dicks. You have to get used to it.
If you need a lot of male friends... YOU are the problem... We all know how people watch each other
I do not need a lot of male friends, I have (had, actually) a lot of male friends. Girls have never liked me, at any point in my life. My first best friend was a neighbor boy when I was 5. In my entire life, I've had 2 girl friends. One is a mean girl who tries to fight everyone and I've had to bail her ass out of jail several times. The other was cool, but she's married with kids now and were not on the same path.
I'm friends with guys because that's how my life happened. My best friend. A 64 year old gay dude, is my best friend because we are the two workers from my company who got paid to travel. Spend enough time with someone, friendship happens.
I literally joined cheerleading in high school in hopes to make girl friends. And I didn't. Made the team, hated it because girls are bitches who dislike me at first glance.
Would you like your boyfriend to have 50 girlfriends? I don't think so.
I've dated one with a few, didn't bother me much. I say much because obviously everyone can be jealous under circumstances. As long as they don't hangout solo and he has shown me no reason to be jealous, I'm cool with it. Meet the people, understand their level of friendship, how they interact, if there's flirting. If you do and this is a problem, understandable. At least you've given it a chance and have reason to dislike the situation.
Lol women will still continue to date the assholes anyway more than the average dudes or nice guys. They like the mystery and being used. Chad is irresistible to them. They always come back to him.
Your initial logic is flawed cause those guys aren't nice guys.
Most women don't want to anyways, so thanks for letting us know.
You don't have to date nice guys, and you don't have to complain about breaking up.
Deception is deception. Forget nice, bad or otherwise. We either represent ourselves honestly or we deceive our love interests. The challenge is figuring out who is who and which is which.
What is the common denominator in all of these relationships?
Stop complaining and do a better job picking your partners hun
This is why I dont deal with humans. Humans are fake as FUCK
for we all have fallen short of the glory of GOD all are sinners
NICE GUYS OR GIRLS DO NOT EXIST
what you described isn't a "nice guy" at all.
That's manipulative behaver which most assholes have
True, but they were nice guys, until they weren't. When people tell you to settle down with a nice guy, there really isn't a way to tell who is actually a nice guy and who is pretending to be, sometimes for years. I'm just saying, I'm not going to pick the seemingly nice guy over the seemingly asshole guy anymore. They could be the opposites of what they're portraying, very hard to tell.
Don't let 2 bad apples spoil the bunch
Whatever, date jerks then.
oh that's just depressing