Do you know that old phrase: "Opposites attract"? Yeah.. it's real. It's something I hadn't realized until now, but it's better late than never. Knowledge is power, after all.
What I'm going to discuss pertains specifically to attracting significant others, based off of a combination of experience and observation.
Something I've learned is that if you have a nurturing personality and a healing aura, you will attract a lot of damaged people. Sometimes these damaged people don't want to be fixed, and the trials and tribulations you go through with them will end up with you becoming broken yourself. Sometimes. It really depends on how you interpret what you've found during this journey. I have this type of personality, and having relationships with broken people caused me to learn how to grow a thicker skin. So hey, every cloud has a silver lining.
Although I will admit something. I've seen a post on Facebook, where this one woman uploaded screenshots of a text conversation between her and her (now) ex-boyfriend. What basically happened was that her ex was a college student, and was paired with a female student for a project. She got angry with him when he told her about this, and accused him of cheating. Her ex, however, tried to calm her down by offering to take her on a date so that they could talk about this. She wasn't having it though, and kept throwing insults at him and saying that she was done with him. That was when he decided that he had enough. He called her abusive and controlling, and said that he didn't think their relationship was going to work anymore. The woman got upset about this, and uploaded this post asking who was in the wrong in that scenario.
Personally.. I think it's her. I became a little annoyed when reading that post, because I would have loved to have a boyfriend who was as chill and rational as that guy was. I felt a little bitter that someone as crazy as her managed to attract such a good guy, but I guess I have no place to judge, since I don't know them personally. Plus this goes back to what I've said, about the Law of Attraction. I believe that often times, crazy women attract decent guys, and crazy men attract decent women. Maybe altering the frequency I give off will allow me to find a significant other who is level-headed and a good person.
Does anyone else have an experience where the Law of Attraction is in effect?
Image credited to Huffington Post.
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