Things I Find Unattractive When Dating

[ninjafemme]

1. Nerds

They disturb me when they talk and I find it annoying.

2. Bad guys ( personality) / criminal

They should be in jail ,why am I there warden.

3. Gym rats/over achiever

Gym is life...gym is your life. When they try to force you to gym.

4. Druggie/ alcoholic/ emotional wreck

I should be the mess in the relationship.

5. Gamers

I have no idea what your talking about. The game is Hella boring.

6. Players

Join the gamers you guys like playing mind games.

What did I miss out let me know in the comments...

[TriggeredChick]

Hmm that’s interesting.
I mostly agree with you except that I’m a hugeee sucker for really intelligent guys. Especially guys with strong opinions, that know how to debate on a subject, and itms definitely a plus if they are good at math too, and then of course I like guys that game a lot too.

But I guess that relates to the fact that I’m similar to what I described above.
I’m very opinionated, and I enjoy discussing my opinions and having someone challenge them, it’s just extremely refreshing to me. I feel like I get to know the person on a deeper level while at the same time working up some chemistry from the debate. I also study maths and economics myself, so I’m attracted to someone who’s like me on that area too.

I actually don’t get gaming at all, and whenever I try to compare a guys gaming experience with my sims 2 experience, they laugh :(( buut while I don’t understand it I find guys that game fascinating because they can teach me stuff about something I’m not very experienced with.

[sawno]

Based on these criteria you don't deserve a guy like me.
I am incredibly loving, super loyal, love deep conversations, love to make someone smile, probably good with children, have a great career path and generally i try to life those up around me and assist those who come on my path. If that sounds like something you would like then know you already ruined it because i am a nerd at heart and i am also a gamer as a result. If you condem me based on that fact alone i am not your match, and in general i'd like my partner to be open towards my passions so you aren't mine either.

[ninjafemme]

And I should believe this😂

[sawno]

Those that know me on here know its probably quite accurate, but if you believe it or not doesn't change the outcome. The point i am making here is that regardless if my statement is true is that your potentially letting great guys go because of some shallow obsessions. If you keep this kind of dating style up i wouldn't be surprised if you get to an age where you start becoming more desperate to find a partner due to your biological clock running short with most of the good guys being taken at that point. Just be open minded, see if you get along despite your differences and don't just flatout condem someone. Alternatively keep up with what your doing but know your going to limit your options.

[WeirdoWerdo]

What do you have to be like to be a nerd just bald and have glasses? Or just be really smart? Because my eyesight is nearly damn perfect and I'm not bald nor anyone in my family. I'm fairly smart? Maybe for my age? Everyone thinks I'm really good at math while I think I'm shit at it but we are all our own worst critic

[ninjafemme]

Nah that's just a joke man some nerds look like this obviously not all.

[Logorithim]

I'd agree that these are turn-offs, but some people would like a nerd or a gamer.

[AmerRestInit]

Hmmm...
1) Cell phone usage
Taking selfies, browsing, texting and making non-emergency calls when you are with someone is disrespectful even when they aren't buying you dinner.

2) Talking about exes
You're there to be with that person, not obsess over someone else. Also, running an ex down makes guys wonder what you'll be saying about us, and waxing poetic over him shows you really are ready to move on.

3) Talking over the other person, changing the subject or not listening
You're there to get to know each other, and communication should be going both ways without derailing. This is usually combined with cell phone usage, but not always. Having someone interrupt, change subjects or not know what you were saying means they not only weren't interested in what you said, they weren't interested in you enough to show you basic courtesy.

4) Bad manners
Being polite and respectful not only to your date, but to those around your date, is a must as we are known by the company we keep and therefore we reflect upon our date. Using cell phones or electronics in movies, cussing, or otherwise being a disturbance to others is just embarrassing. Your date should not have to apologize for you.

5) Being rude
People who treat others poorly to impress someone or because they feel it is acceptable not only reflect poorly on their company, they also tend to inevitably unleash their behaviors on their company once they are no longer trying to impress.

6) Entitlement
Expecting everything without having earned anything is disrespectful of the other person. If someone takes the time to do something for you without strings attached, either take it gratefully or don't take it.

7) Flirting with other people
If you are with someone, be with them. I actually had a girl I dated in my early twenties go sit with another man who she did not know, and then chase me down to ask me why I walked out.

8) Expecting a ride home on the first three dates
Until you get to know someone, you are looking for reasons to weed them out. Nothing is more awkward than sharing an after goodbye forever ride home in the same car.

[AuroraRoseat]

LOL. Not all nerds look like that (I'm sure you know). What do you consider a nerd? A man who talks about something that you have no knowledge or interest in?

Still laughing at the fact that "you should be the mess". I would hope no one is the mess or becomes messy. And I understand how some women are not gamers and not interested at all.

I found this Take to be interesting and I've said it before while doing so again, this should enlighten plenty of men how varied women's tastes are.

[thestarbreaker]

I kind of have to agree with you on all of these points. Obviously no one wants to date a player or an abusive person but also nerds and gamers tend to be very socially awkward, emotionally unstable, lack confidence and they idealize all the stereotypical negative personality traits way too much and wear it like a badge of honor

[ChurchOfIron]

Pffff. Fine. We gym rats don't need girlfriends. The gym is our girlfriend.

Damn, you would hate me. I'm a bad, nerd, gym rat, ex druggie, gamer, and player. lmao.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5kHAhLhd1to

[Nades]

OMG I can't STOP LAUGHING

[ChurchOfIron]

@Nades His music is terrible, but he's hilarious. :P

[Nades]

This is totally me tho. Like I hit the gym everyday sometimes overtrain there. Whenever I sleep I think about going to the gym. Srsly it’s become an addiction and I’m only 18 lmao

[ChurchOfIron]

@Nades Ohhhh, dude, you are so fucking lucky, though. I started at 26. I'll never have the gains you will be able to make if you keep going. I'm old and used up. QQ

You might wanna balance your life some and not *only* go to the gym, lol. Or at least take a rest day or two. But, yeah, gym rat solidarity! hahaha

[Nades]

It’s not about where you start. It’s about how long your willing to go. I’m doing this shit til I die. Always work for the longevity

[ChurchOfIron]

@Nades It is, though, because your body is the most ready for gains in your teens and early 20s. That's when a person can put on the most mass. Starting late means you can't get as far as someone who started early. :/ Check it, in 2 years, my testosterone will start decreasing. After 35, it'll be much, much harder to put on muscle than it is for a 20 year old.

I still love it, and I'm still gonna do it forever. I just wish I would have started when you did, so I could max my gainz. But, of course I'm gonna get as far as I can.

My meaning was just: you should appreciate your youth, gym bro. :P

[Nades]

There is no need to worry about “being behind”. Just because I started early doesn’t mean much. Yea muscle grows and all that but does that mean you can’t stop getting bigger. Put it this way. No matter where the hell you start muscle will always be harder to put on as you go. The law of diminishing returns still applies no matter what age you are. It’s a hard journey for everyone no matter where you’ve started. Don’t worry about not starting early. Focus on working hard and keep going. Bodybuilding is all genetics. You never know you might have better genetics than a teenager who starts early. So don’t be down and keep working hard 👍🏻

[kespethdude]

1, 2 and 3 contradict each other.
5 is the most petty of all.
4 & 6 I kinda agree with.

You pretty much eliminated all guys here, you might as well declare yourself undateable.

[ninjafemme]

Well it's what I don't like can I help that no.

[RetroAlpha]

It sounds like you don't like men. I have been shades of all of those, as are most of the men I know, from say 15 to 50. Better go buy yourself some toys...

[redpanda_]

'nerds' are probably the nicest men out there. They'll go out their way to make you feel special, to help you out if you need it. I'd take a nerd any day.

[thestarbreaker]

not really, most of them tend to be "nice guys" in disguise. You can be nice and normal and polite and not be a nerd

[demonics]

>Various medical professionals
>Still plays Donkey Kong
>Works out
>Surrounded by hot nurses, NP's, and MA's

Well shit guess you're screwed with me and my friends.

[Eternallylucky]

lol... your preferences will change in hte next few years

[zagor]

May we assume then that you are a lesbian? Or asexual?

[ninjafemme]

Assume its up too you

[AdmiralBailey]

I don't like girls who can't differentiate between their, there and they're

[ninjafemme]

Haha English is not my first language.

[AdmiralBailey]

oh I apologize then

[Anonymous]

Bad guys turn a lot of women on unfortunately. They mistake their deviant behavior as alpha. They enjoy the challenge of “changing” him. Otherwise good women fall for this stupidity.

It’s insane how much action guys on parole pull.

[Thot_Exterminator]

ya cunt, I'll bet 99% of the guys on this site are gamers are nerds. Don't be so against a guy thinking about something besides YOU!

[ninjafemme]

l like what I like can I help it

[abundantlyrich]

Lol ok gymrats are scary

[SirRexington]

So basically you are asexual then?

[ninjafemme]

What's that...

[SirRexington]

You aren't attracted to anything

[SirRexington]

I guess you could like artistic people.

[ninjafemme]

No I don't like them either... I forgot that one.

[SirRexington]

Then what else are you possibly attracted to? What is left?

[ninjafemme]

See my other myTake and like it 😉

[SirRexington]

Link.

[kojikurac]

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[BigShaq321]

Hmmm... I agree with most of these.

[hindril]

Well, I guess I am out. hahah.

[ninjafemme]

Either 4 or 1.

[hindril]

Kinda a mix of 1 and 5, but also a mix of many things. I hate drugs, I only drink once in a great while like it has been about 10 months since I had 1 beer. I'm not a player. People say I am too nice, and I don't go to the gym though I have a membership. lol. I do almost everything that is helpful.

[hindril]

by the way, I might be smart, I'm not blind and I have hair and no beard. lol

[ninjafemme]

Lol okay... when you gonna do your myTake so I can see if I match

[hindril]

How do I?

[ninjafemme]

Post... share myTake.

[hindril]

Ok. I will try it. lol. Give me a bit.

[hindril]

Ok. I did one. Not sure if I did it right.

[deugeul74961]

Count me out of all this

[RedRobin]

Nice take