I have been single for a year, been putting myself out there almost from day 1, there have been plenty of girl that have caugh my eye, thing is, apparently i can't give them what they want, god knows i tried, but apparently im below their standard.
Whats is this standard? only god knows, what i do know is that it dosnt involve being a well read, athletic, tall introvert, that dosnt cut it anymore.
Maybe im boring, maybe i would be more succesful if i started smoking weed or drinking, maybe i need to stop treating women like human beings, maybe im shooting myself in the foot by being polite but fuck it, i was raised like that, im not going to change that so the party girls give me the time of day and i shouldn't.
Im no different that my dad, a nerd with a good sense of humor, by no means the soul of any party but you can bet your ass i can make people laugh their asses off or talk about deep interesting shit.
And yet, here i am, after a year of putting my balls in the chopping block or how girls magazines would say ''Putting myself out there'' with only a couple of french kisses with moderatly attarctive girls to show for my blood swear and tears.
Girls i know you want a guy that makes your tummy tingle, its great that you have standards but for fuck s sake even the chads are going thirsty.
Jokes aside, i think the sexual market place is really unbalanced, there are plenty of decent, honest, and yeah, good lookig guys who are missing out because the girls they like have ridiculous standards, as things are, you can't show any weekness, you can't be a little nerdy or awkward because any girl whos is slighly above average or even average looking will loose any attraction for him.
There is nothing wrong with having standards but for fucks sake, we can't be Tyler Durden all the time.
Pictures included just to make emphasis in the fact that im not some salty ugly incel, just an average guy who feels the game has become an uphill battle for guys.