It is ok to stay Single, and wait for the right person.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Recently, I have seen a lot of people go through tough breakups, and almost immediately get someone else. I think that it is utterly disgusting to see, using people as rebounds is unacceptable. It is nasty enough if you cheat, but to break-up with someone, and in a blink of an eye you are with someone else? That's insane, especially if your dating some who is similar to your ex. Also, that's another thing that I see, people dating the same kind of people, I jokingly related it to going to the yogurt shop, and getting the same kind of yogurt, and expecting it to taste different, like no, its going to be the same result as the previous times. I have a friend who has been in a relationship for almost 2 years, with a guy that I frankly think she can do better than, but I feel like she is lonely without a boyfriend. It is tough, because you do not want to disrespect anyone, but I know that she can do better than him, and I am not saying that he is a bad guy, I just think that he should get his s*** together before he dates her. Which is the reason why I'm not dating right now. I kind of want to, but I do not think I am qute ready to handle that responsbility just yet. Even when I am ready, I am still not going to just be willing to go out with anyone, I am going to go out with someone who will respect me, be honest, being caring, sweet, intelligent, etc. I am going to put my all into the relationship, I want to make the first relationship that I have the only one that I have. I just wanted to remind everyone that you do not need a man/girl to function, you have a ton of people that care about you. I care about everyone's well-being, and I promise you that you will be fine without having a significant other. Of course we all kinda want one, but you will be ok. Some of you will find someone that your compatible with, and so much fun with, and some of you may stay single for a little while longer, either way, Just remember that you are an outstanding individual.

[JDavid25]

Underrated Mytake.. This is really true.. I recently went through that with a girl over a month ago.. Just broke up with her abusive ex, and tried to rebound basically.. She still missed him a lot and that's why it didn't and probably wouldn't have worked out between us.. She wanted somebody similar to him without the abusive side, and couldn't get into me.. It wasn't right, but I understood it.. Good take!

[strateguy632]

i disagree about rebounds but liked the title kuz sometimes find lover without searching.