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Why I only date attractive women (Page 2)
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Wow... That's a really sad mytake.
It almost sounds like you just want to be seen with attractive women in public to compensate for your own ugliness and to show the world that despite your unattractive looks you can still get attractive women. However, you could probably never get a deeper connection with a human being because what keeps people around isn't a pretty face, it's their thoughts and their personality.
You are on your way to become one of these bitter dissatisfied souls who claim all women are shallow and just wanna screw you over while ignoring your own shallow actions and attitude.
Yeah yeah yeah i’ve heard the same spiel over and over again. You’ve also ignored the fact that I said personality counts too. Why are you so disheartened by this?
I just find this very sad as a fellow human being. You obviously have some inferiority complex. Maybe you should go see a therapist for this. Could definitely help you.
Good luck
Inferiority complex? Because I want an attractive girlfriend more than other people want one? Therapy does nothing if I don’t want help, and I don’t want help. Why would I sit there and listen to some old people, who haven’t experienced such a thing since Woodstock, tell me the same spiel that every triggered woman has told me on here.
Of course you don't want help. That's what ignorance does to people.
Anyway, I believe we are done with this little conversation here. Have fun.
Being rich and having the perfect physique won't get you a decent lady. You cannot ''simply become rich"... And a great body definitely would attract me to a person but only for a short time. If I don't like your personality, which I can say I don't seem to like your at the moment, I wouldn't stick around.
"For the next week, I would probably be thinking about the girl I saw in that public place. with an attractive girl, I wouldn't have that mindset because I would know the girl I'm with is attractive." ... you actually will still have hat mindset. You'd see a woman even more attractive than your current girl and then you'll still feel like you've "lost at life."
How certain are you that you'll get rich, a hot bod and a girl that isn't with you for your looks or money?
No offense but your mentality is just... shocking lol.
You do you though.
Well, no it won’t be “simple” to become rich. I would have to create a business with an applicable market, find a way to get money to create the business (crowd funding, finding a rich investor, or through my own payment), then find a manufacturer, a distributor, and a website designer. Not to mention that I would have to invest in advertising and probably marketing as well. So no, it wouldn’t be simple.
What you don’t understand is that I need you to be attracted to me in the short term to even consider having a long term. So yes I need muscles to attract you in the short term so I can be able to converse with you and possibly have a long term. Without that initial attraction, there is no attraction.
To that public place situation, that’s not really the truth. I would see that my girlfriend is attractive and I really have no reason to go for another attractive women if my girlfriend is already attractive. I wish to achieve an Instagram model-type woman and doing so means that i’ve beaten most of the competition already.
How certain am I that I’ll be rich? Pretty certain, I have many ideas as to how I’ll achieve my income, get a hot bod? Also pretty certain. A girl that isn’t into me for my looks or money? Not so certain.
My mentality is needed in order for me to win. Losers can stay average if they want, but i see no reason to live on this earth if I cannot achieve what I want out of it through blood, sweat, and tears.
Everyone dates people that are attractive. Noone can force themselves to be attracted to an ''ugly'' person. The thing is that everyone is attracted to something different. The hot girls you describe believe me there are people who dont find them attractive. Everyone dates who they are attracted to. You just want the popular girl, the girl who gets a lot of attention. Usually the ''hot'' girls you describe that are out of your league are the one who show off their figure with revealing clothes or use a lot of beauty procedures. You will end up with someone as vain as you and obsessed with appearance, so I say that's a good thing since I wouldn't want the ''hot'' vain girl to get a guy who has a better than her personality.
I was consistently told I was ugly in school. I genuinely believed it for a while. Senior year I realized people would do anything for clout even if it means making others laugh by creatively calling someone else ugly. Those same girls drop their jaws when they see me now. My point is, whatever your peers were telling in high school should just be ignored. It should not be a reason for vengeance, especially one you're obsessed with.
That being said, there's nothing wrong with wanting an attractive girl that takes care of herself. You spent 4 years to craft a healthy attractive looking body. Personally, I think that alone entitles you to a good looking girl. No need to inject roids, no need for plastic modifications, and no need to be obsessed.
Listen it’s a nice dream, but wake up! There is way more to life than finding a model. These women on here make some good points listen to them. If I said: “my life goal is to find a rich man and only marry him for his money” would you find me shallow? I would. I appreciate the effort you put into writing your mytake but personally, I take offense to this even though you had a disclaimer. I consider myself to be attractive but if a guy just wants a relationship with me for my looks, it won’t work out. I don’t know if that really helped or if it will ever... have a nice life 👍
Yeah that’s shallow, but so am I. What’s wrong with that? I don’t get the stigma behind being shallow.
Nothing is wrong with being shallow and if that is what you got out of it, I don’t know what more I can say. I just don’t agree with you and that is totally fine! You were the one who asked the question and I’m sure that you expected some people to disagree with you.
🤔 I think you may need to talk to someone about this... like a therapist. One point that stood out to me was your ‘buyers remorse’ if you saw a more attractive girl.
Unfortunately, there is ALWAYS going to be a more attractive woman. Someone who has better boobs than your girlfriend, has a better body, more attractive face etc. Unless you decided to date Miss universe, but even then... next years winner probably will be more attractive, compared to last year. I think you need to learn loving acceptance. Especially of yourself. You don’t need all these things (surgery etc) to find an attractive and compatible mate.
Yeah go see a therapist. And sit there while an elderly lady tells me how guys got her in her time. Sounds productive.
I understand there is always going to be a more attractive woman. That isn’t what i’m getting at. I’m saying that if I were to have a hot girl, seeing a hotter girl wouldn’t matter because my current girlfriend would pass the base criterion. It’s up to her personality to keep me.
The problem with your strategy is that it isn’t long term. My point was that hotness fades. Do you plan to keep upgrading? 🤔 because if this is the case, at some point, you will need more than looks and personality to get that hot girl. E. g. funds and assets. I don’t think there is anything wrong with your strategy, ( everyone has a right to live the way they want, as long as it doesn’t harm others) but you need to think it through to completion.
This is how it starts , take a good look this is how the elites that live off of the rest of us view the world and view people. Anger, jealousy greed , disregard and hatred. To them , people are little paper dolls to be played with or discarded at their pleasure. Look at this view of what success is money, looks, being seen with attractive women. Nothing deeper than that and every ounce of wit and muscle dedicated to achieving it. How far would you trust someone like this?
Haven’t you ever wanted what the rich have?
Not in a way that would destroy me, no.
You’ve never wanted to live in a beautiful home? Drive a Ferrari? I will achieve that dream. Doesn’t matter who I put out of business.
I've wanted similar things more power than money I think but not to destroy or for selfish reasons. What you want will ruin you like its ruined others before you. Its shallow, soulless , selfish and laughable. What a child wants. Nothing in here is about anyone but your self and it will come back on you in unimaginable ways. You will suffer because of this.
Well, yeah of course it’s for myself. Helping others who don’t have the IQ to get out of the situation they are in is not my problem. I can only help myself so I can move forward with my dreams.
You can help society in general. Even low IQ people can be helped by advocating eugenics programs such as time off of prison sentences for sterilization. Also advocating for grants or loans for high IQ couples who have children. That's doing a lot more for society and in the end for yourself than chasing hot women or owning a yacht or some such child's toy. You do have to live in society surrounded by those who can not do what you can. Why live in a cattle pen full of manure, grab a shovel and help clean it up.
It's nothing wrong to like beauty and people coming with negative comments probably have standards themselves that they doesn't want to admit that they've. Almost everyone have standards.
I would only date people I finds attractive and I'm fine staying single if I've found none. I'm an average person myself; not particularly nice looking, but not ugly either. It's possible to find someone attractive and being average. Especially if you're going to date women who doesn't want to be single since they've no other alternative options since handsome men are rarer than pretty women from my experience. It's more common for old average men to date young cute women than the other way around. Not all of them are rich either. There's not enough handsome men for everyone. Even not for the pretty girls.
There are some really beautiful women who are attracted to men's personalities instead of looks. I have seen some really beautiful women going for less than average guys, not because of the guys' money but because the guy treats them well.
That being said, you are entitled to your preferences when it comes to looking for that special someone. Good luck.
He is shallow lol don't have good personality
@Hiopdtgy You’re on every comment
Yes because shallow people like you need to know how shallow they are
@Hiopdtgy That didn't make a lick of sense.
@Hiopdtgy I already know how shallow I am. I don't care about it. You are the only person that cares about me being shallow.
That's ladies and gentlemen is the 21st century young gen and we only care about the FACE (that will suck the dick), Boobs (we will play them), Ass (for spanking) and Vagina (we will fuck)
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The woman is just small sex object in modern times and they can be replaced by new-one when her skin looses her beauty.
Its the result of the feminism which were trying to free the woman form social norms that want her to fuck as She wish without realizing the Guys are masters at Playing with emotions.
I know you guys will try to point OHHHH WE DON"T WANT THAT but every decision have consequences and these are the one for your idiocy to break the system and let the both genders do as they wish.
You can try to be bitch about it... like you don't care but unlucky for you. I have dated a lot of feminist to know that... You will put up with everything as long as we stay with lady.
I feel like plastic surgery is taking it a little to far, but do what you want. As someone who isn't that great looking I wouldn't go as far as you. I've been hitting the gym at gained about 12lb of muscle, but I'm not just doing it for looks. I want to get out and back into sports and other stuff, and hopefully make some friends and maybe a girl friend. Some girls that I find attractive aren't conveniently attractive, so I could have a shot with them or even conversationally attractive girls if they happen to find me attractive. Wanting to improve yourself is great, but you seem to be focusing to much on looks. There are more important things in life. Focus on having fun and making friends, because there is no guarantee you will find someone that meets your criteria.
If that is what you wish to do then I respect it. For me, I realize that I cannot get attractive women without having them find me attractive. Plastic surgery might be the way. But like i’ve said, i’ve only researched it I haven’t actually done it yet.
Just so you know there was a small public pole that I read. It showed that girls find guys who use makeup and/or get plastic surgery less attractive.
Yeah that’s what I’m weary of. Doing too much plastic surgery whether it depletes my SMV. It’s why i’ve been holding off for the time being.
I think if that’s your goal in life so be it. You are not harming anyone by chasing after attractive woman. Just don’t be a dick and be horrible to woman who does not meet your standards. I feel people need to have common decency. Our society shove such high standards of beauty through our media, social circles, daily living, etc that people who feels ugly have it rough as it is. they don’t need people who only chase after looks to point it out. If a unattractive woman fancy you in the future just be civil. Please don’t say I only date attractive woman. I have no other issue with your post otherwise. I hope you find your attractive girlfriend and obtain happiness.
TLDR: Because I'm shallow and I don't even know why I exist if I can't wake up to a perfectly geometrically symmetrical sex doll babe on my arms in the morning and my life revolves around my shallowness so much that my every action revolves around the motive of being with an attractive girl who finds both my looks and personality ugly.
Damn. You’re projecting as if I am thinking that. Why do you hate attractive girls so much?
I don't hate attractive girls. I hate shallow guys. 😊
And fine if that's what you didn't mean then let's hear from you what you meant by all that crap
So you hate the dudes that go after these shallow guys because unattractive girls don’t get a chance? Life isn’t fair, that’s just how it is
Well you went in on a description that I didn’t think of. You’re acting like she has to be perfect
First of all, there is a HUGE difference between having preferences in physical appearance, and thinking that looks matter over all other things. Unattractive girls don't stand a chance? You probably mean that unattractive girls don't have to deal with shallow men that dump their attractive wife once she gained weight or gets older. 😊
Also you are the one who clearly implies that you chase perfection, not me baby!
Listen, looks are great, no denying in that. Take care of your skin and hair, exercise and be fit, wear good clothes, it's all good. But anyone who obsesses over things that are beyond one's control needs to rethink their whole personality.
Amen, sister! 😆
I personally see no issue in what you are saying about wanting to date attractive women. In reality, looks are a factor in terms of dating/relationships but attractive is subjective to every person. For example some men are attracted to shorter women and some like taller.
People act like things such as looks, education level, status, income/occupation and so on aren't factors that people look for in a partner. (Surprise: Those things play a role too, ask a lot of girls if they would be in a relationship particularly a long term/marriage with someone who had no job, no education and was just sitting in his mom's basement- probably not)
Now, as long as its not the ONLY thing you care about its fine.
Mhhh, well I find normal for people to desire an attractive partner according to what they think it's beutiful, though you have an obsession, or at least it sounds like that. It feels like you just want a doll, not a person. I mean looks are important too, but personality is more important in the end... and it feels like you care more about looks than personality. But it's your life so do as you please.
On the other hand if I were one of those girls you find beutiful and I was naturally born that way I wouldn't like to be with someone whose beauty is due to plastic surgery (lying about it would be a worst option if they find out). However many girls do plastic surgery for same reasons you do, so maybe you can find a beutiful plastic girl, or an unattractive girl who wants to do surgery too and is obsessed with having a handsome man. Anyways, good luck.
As hilarious as I found this to be at first, this actually made me respect you a little... because at least you’re not a blabbering, woman hating incel unlike 95% of the men on G@G.
I hope you reach your goals and achieve success in every corner of your life ☺️💕
I would recommend therapy. Your obsession with physical appearance and self image isn’t healthy.
If I don’t obsess over my looks, I will never get the girl I want. The only way to not obsess over my looks is if attractive girls lower their standards, but obviously that won’t happen, so I will have to work to become attractive at all costs.
Yeah, like I said. Seek therapy.
And I will simply tell the therapist that attractive women want attractive men, then they will agree with me and we will be at a standstill. Trust me, i’ ve already tried. Therapy doesn’t distort reality. Can you really sit there and say that attractive women don’t want attractive men?
Attractive women want to be treated like human beings- not a trophy that must be won.
Ok? When did I say they didn’t want to be treated as humans? I said that in order to get an attractive girlfriend, you most likely have to be attractive yourself. You can’t virtue signal me, I know the truth. I know what I must do to achieve the facial structure, body physique, and personality that matches what these attractive girls want.
You’re treating attractive women like a trophy.
You also obviously don’t know what virtue signaling is
No. I recognize that they are human, but most humans have standards is all i’m saying and i’m not afraid to tear myself apart to achieve it. Why are you wearing makeup in your pfp? To look pretty correct? Why do I have to “go to therapy” if I want to look better so I can attract better looking women, because I damn sure know that you don’t wear makeup for ugly guys. You’re virtue signaling by saying “go to therapy”, indicating that you are trying to take the moral high ground and enforce the PC awareness of “it’s ok to go to therapy” and enforce that I should date unattractive girls by you’re belief of everyone is beautiful.
It’s okay to want attractive women- but your obsession with it is not healthy. I blame being bullied as a kid, which isn’t your fault.
And I’m wearing makeup in my profile photo because it was taken the day of my dads birthday, where we went to a nice restaurant and dressing up was required
Ok, here’s how to cure my obsession. Date me. Therapy won’t do jack shit. The way to cure my obsession is to date me. So why don’t you? I just admitted that i’m ugly, so I already know the answer. If I posted a pic of a good looking guy, you would be trying to slide in my dms as we speak. Just because it was that one occasion doesn’t mean you don’t do it all the time. You wear makeup to look nice in fancy restaurants and impress other guys. You would have never posted that pic of yourself if you didn’t want people to look at you.
Just because you find me attractive does not mean I will date you, you know that. I’m in a long term, committed relationship.
I wear makeup and take care of myself because I like feeling attractive- but I’m also completely confident without it. Please learn to love yourself
My point was that you wouldn’t date me ever (even if you weren’t in a relationship) because i’m unattractive. This bullshit concept of “loving yourself” is said to ugly dudes who can’t get laid because their ugly. People say that to them so that they can feel better about theirselves, when in reality the will achieve the same result, so stop with the virtue signaling.
This is not virtue signaling. Virtue signaling is done by a man trying to get women by claiming to be completely amazing and morally righteous.
I wouldn’t date you because I don’t know you whatsoever. Not physical reasons
I’m not sure if you’re implying that i’m virtue signaling or if you’re sexist against men in general, but that made zero sense
The definition is:
“the action or practice of publicly expressing opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue.“
Which is exactly what you’re doing. You’re saying that I have a chance at getting any woman I want if I believe in myself, go to therapy, and love myself. These are all concepts of virtue signaling by enforcing our culture of “everyone is beautiful” which is flat out wrong. The truth is that looks count more than personality for BOTH genders, therefore it would be in my best interest to worry, research, and act upon my physical looks. Also, you’re meaning to tell me that you would date any looking guy if he were to mesh with your personality? Does that mean you date your male friends as well?
In theory, your example would be virtue signaling, but it came completely out of left field
The problem I have with you telling me to work on self love is that you’re selling me a lie. It won’t help me get the girls I want. If I love myself, I will still get rejected by beautiful women. It’s more about the looks than it is about someone’s personality.
I love howit was only men who disliked this comment. Just because your sexist doesn't mean your allowed to throw a fit, little fuckboys.
@IRISHPOTATOCAPRICORN How is the trolling working for you? I’ve always been interested in how it’s done
the way you text makes me think of how retarded people try to act smart.
@IRISHPOTATOCAPRICORN How am I trying to act smart?
@IRISHPOTATOCAPRICORN Actually, an even better question, how does one act smart?
the exact way you talk rn. I can just tell. Sounding smart can be a sign that you are actually not as smart as you seem.
@IRISHPOTATOCAPRICORN how am I talking? I’m not trying to sound smart at all. Am I using too big of words for you to comprehend or something?
@IRISHPOTATOCAPRICORN you’re trying to belittle me and my intelligence. You started it in the first place. No one is trying to sound smart, if you think i’m trying to “sound intelligent” then that tells me more about you than me.
@mytakeowner attractive womens won't date you because you are shallow
I ❤️ this!.
Just know you will recieve tons of negative feedback but dont listen to it.
I actually know guys who were unnattractive but got the bod, huge corporate job and became hot. Not just because he was rich but had a new found confidence from achieving it.
Good read☺️👍👏
Thank you! And yes I know I will get tons of negativity. Most people do not understand my mindset
I completly understand it and see nothing wrong with it. can't force yourself to like ugly women because someone says there in your league, your doing the right things to achieve the ones you want.
UGLY women? You went TOO far. You don't let other girls down because you think your so much better.
um isn't that something that most people do? Date someone they are attracted to.. i mean this isn't a secret, everyone does this lol
Apparently not according to some of the women on here.
Because he doesn't just want to be with someone he finds attractive, he is obsessed with the idea that everyone else find her attractive too so they can say he ''won at life''. He wants a trophy.
@Porcelaine Interesting theory, however false. I don’t care what others think of her. She just has to be attractive to me. It just so happens that the girls I find attractive are found attractive by a lot of dudes
you care what others think of you though. so if you found a girl attractive but others kept telling ''she's ugly af'', ''she's a dog'', ''what the f do you see in her''... and so on... you'd quickly lose interest in her seeing how insecure you seem. at least you are working towards improving yourself and being attractive to look good next to them. there are a lot of lazy no good boys thinking they deserve a girl who takes care of herself. but looks aren't everything. I know a lot of guys who obsess over how they look, how they appear to others, they are very brainwashed by allowing media and stupid beauty standards to rub off on them, and no matter how much muscles they grow or how well they dress, they still are not attractive. the day you will be attractive to those women that you want is the day when you truly feel attractive and confident in yourself. you should take a good look at all those pretty girls boyfriends. most of them will be average in looks but I guarantee they will be confident guys who are sure of themselves.
@Porcelaine looks aren’t everything but they make up the majority of attraction. Most attractive girls don’t want to date bridge trolls. If my friends don’t find her attractive, then so be it, but generally the girls my friends find attractive i also find attractive so i’m not sure if that will happen.
"what I am afraid of most is being with them in a public place, then seeing a really attractive girl walk by and instantly realize that I've lost at life and live in regret."
I had similar experience. I was chatting with this not so good looking and overweight girl but we had fun talking and she had nice personality so I didn't care. When I met her in person and was at her apartment, I looked out of the window and saw this teenage skater boy grabbing the perfect ass of his hot girlfriend and making out with her. At that moment I felt exactly that failure in life and I just knew I couldn't stay with this girl.