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Oh boy the hate you got. :D
I don't get why most of girls comments are so hateful. It's a known fact that EVERYONE only dates people who they find attractive. We don't all have same preferences and thoughts on what attractive is, but it's a criterion for everyone.
Good take, I agree with you 100%. And I too only date men that I find attractive.
This is an awesome take! What's even better is all the negative responses tou're getting from women on here. Why? Because you're being honest. I think every guy can relate to what you're saying. We have to have muscles, have good hair, smile, dress well, have good social status, be smart, make a good income. On top of all that we have to endure all of her shenanigans. Why is it asking so much that we at least find her attractive?
I only see one wrinkle in your plan though. Say you find this 11 on a scale of 1 to 10. And then she gets into a huge car accident and ends up with half of her face scraped off. Do you throw her back?
Mate, steroids are not any good for anybody. I see what your saying ofc about attractive body attracts attractive woman. But your far too self-conscious to think about living with regret with someone who is unattractive sweetie. Who gives a shit what the rest of the world thinks? Don't let them get to you like t h at honey. Yes everyone wants an attractive perdon as their partner ofc they do. But I feel or get this vibe that you dare waaay too much like its the 60's mindset n letting people influence your judgement. I know because I had this myself on a very rare few occasions hun. Don't let those thoughts bother you to li e in regret honey, it's just not worth it. Just being my brutally honest self here with you sweetie lol. You just need to be told the truth n I really hope this helps you out
I know it will. Xxxx
i think its good that you know what you want and you plan to work hard to achieve that. When i was a teenager i was small and skinny and everyone were saying despite my huge talent to play soccer ill never be pro cos of my fragile physique.
Guess what? I proved them all wrong with hard work, now iam professional soccer player.
I think many people are hypocritical in the comments, we all have all kind of standards including beauty standards when we are looking for a partner. I bet no one would date some homeless, poor, 1/10 looking guy. Good take mate and gl on your mission!
You can do what you want with your life. Although is possible you end up attracting an attractive girl, you will surely not attract a valuable one.
Then you will realize you need more, and probably meet an even more attractive girl than the one you got, and she'll probably will not want to give you the hour.
Being attracted to someone is important, but looks are not the only criteria.
Never said that looks were the only criterion.
You won't be able to get any girls if you're dead from steroids, bro. I respect your dedication. But you can obtain a plenty good physique to attract women while staying natty and healthy. Steroids will fuck your skin up, make you lose hair, shrink your balls. Overall man, does that sound attractive?
Good luck with that, I hope it works out for you. I have never considered myself extremely attractive and somehow I ended up with a 10/10. Just work hard, be confident, and always improve upon yourself. I've realized that looks matter much less than you would think.
Not judging, just curious, what will you do when you get old and the girls around your age get old? Chances are you’ll no longer find them insanely attractive and no amount of exercise or surgery will make them find you attractive. Will you just not be with anyone in old age?
Yeah, who do you think I am. R. Kelly?
Who’s R. Kelly?
Famous R&B singer that was accused of being a pedo
I’m not saying that, but I’m assuming you aren’t going to be attracted to wrinkly old women based on your MyTake.
Oh I probably will at that age, but I can’t be certain because i’m not old.
Lol, fair enough.
Diversity makes this world what it is today. Just because your mindset is different than most doesn't mean it is wrong. Just don't sacrifice your self importance just to please someone else though. This world is full of traitors... but I'm happy for you and wish you all the best! Just don't ever overlook personality with glam. Do you❤
Have you ever dated an unattractive girl or any girl before? Your post says why you only date attractive women, not why you WILL only date attractive women, but your post kind of leaves the impression that you haven't dated an attractive woman or anyone yet. And it might be interesting if you documented your journey lol but you're anonymous so perhaps that wouldn't work.
lol hahaha
I’ve had flings with girls before but not an official relationship. I could date an unattractive girl if I really wanted to, they flirt with me pretty often on dating apps.
Was your fling unattractive? so you use unattractive girls for sex? Pathetic
@Hiopdtgy Actually, she was attractive. And we never had sex...
Do you approach women in person, if so are you successful at getting numbers? And have you ever had an unattractive fling?
No because it’s not worth it. Approaching women while ugly is bothersome to them.
what? that literally makes zero sense, please explain.
@over_it Would you want to be approached by an ugly dude?
And @myTake Owner you shouldn't say something was a fling if there was no sex involved. Because most of the time people will assume that means sex.
@Jamie05rhs What I meant was that we kissed, went on dates and stuff, but weren’t in a real relationship.
Did you want it to be a real relationship?
@Jamie05rhs
I understood what he meant by fling, it's just like a flirtatious relationship for a period of time, not serious relationship and often does not include sex.
Interested. I thought flings did include sex.
I meant to say "Interesting."
looks are 70% important yes, but alone they aren't enough. you expect that person to have other good traits too, such as understanding and compassion and empathy and humor and some wisdom, without these qualities their beauty will only keep you interested till you've had enough, like having a tasty meal, when you're full eventually you'll get sick of it.
Yeah sure. I’m not one to be all emotional though
70% Try 90%
I mean.. I think its normal to want to date someone you're attractive to.
I find it concerning that the attractiveness of your girlfriend defines if you "lost at life" and that fact you'd still be thinking about a stranger a week later that passed by you once just because they're attractive..
I doubt you date short men
@Armourdillo I'm 5'3.
I prefer 5'1 and up.
I don't know what that has to do with anything though.
I've been attracted to attractive women, BUT it just gets to the point that beauty is ALSO on the inside. :(
-Some "attractive" women are as ugly on the inside as they are beautiful on the outside. It's the main reason why I'm still single I think.
I hate this whole if you're considered pretty you can't be nice, or even halfway intelligent.
A person can be one, two, or all three of those things.
Chances are if someone has dated people who've only been interested in what they look like on the outside, and this happened over and over, they probably became more than a little wounded on the inside, and then comes the hostilty and sometimes bitterness... which then has a knock on effect to the next person they meet and the cycle goes on.
Eventually all that girl's self esteem is in her looks, and she won't let anyone see what's really on the inside because no one cared before...:. every hostile person is just a hurt person with their guard up.
Regardless of gender.
All it takes is one person who makes them feel like it's ok to be who they are completely to change that.
@AperolSpritz Perhaps. Most pretty girls who most men in general think are pretty are kind of screwed in my opinion. How many of them are my age and have never dated? Probably none, lol. Better yet, how many of them are virgins? How many of them want to have sex only when married? Not many if any.
-I would like to meet a woman that is like me, is a real Christian, is a virgin, nice, hasn't dated before (LOL!!!), and of course that I'm attracted to. I have to yet meet a woman like that.
you're 36 years old and you expect most women to be virgins? my friend, most beautiful women are happily married with kids at that age.
@DianaWest lol, yeah, so true. Its why I virtually dont care about dating anymore.
In school there were an unlimited about of girls to date, but... that's a long story. I didn't care as much back then as I do now to say the least.
school as in HS and college days.
@DianaWest is right. A lot of good Christian girls are married already. But not all of them. Don't give up, Sean! I hope you find her, man.
And by the way, I'm looking for the same thing, so if I find any great girls who are too old for me I will send them your way!
@Jamie05rhs LOL To old for you. thanks
Lol. You're welcome!
@Jamie05rhs I swear to you though. I feel as if may 2018, was literally yesterday. It's extremely scary. I feel as if I'll be 46 tomorrow and still single. No matter how many times I think I've gotten over this I keep on asking myself... Why did I have to be ignored by girls that I liked that liked me back several times in a row? Why couldn't I be like literally everyone else and just have a normal easy relationship whether it ended with the 1st date or not? I mean PLEASE, call me ugly, insult or make fun of me severely, physically injure me, but don't ignore and forget me, there's nothing worse than that.
-I just see that with every girl I come across and lose interest almost instantly.
We don't find features attractive just because we have some weird fetish for those features. Those features usually communicate health, youth or fertility. And if you ever wanna have kids the most you can do for them is select someone with the less trashy DNA. On the other hand if you have any other reason... Well... you are fucked. You won't get the high end girls if you want them to make you feel whole. Making those girls love you takes a whole person by himself. It is a catch 22.
Why would anyone date someone who are not attractive? I also exclusively date women i find attractive and thats actually a very wide range of women. The thing that makes it narrow is the compatibility on a personal level as its hard to find a girl who apprechiates a geek.
It is good to have goals. And it is good to be physically fit. But you should probably try to be a little more accepting of your own flaws. It is not a crazy idea that you could find a beautiful woman who loves you without you needing steroids and plastic surgery.
I've dated both ends of the attraction scale.
One long term girlfriend was in fhm magazine. The high Street honeys.
What I've found is the more attractive the woman, the more trouble she is.
If you think happiness lies with the hottest girl you are in for a rude awakening
Amen
Dude, you need to get over your body obsession.
But beyond that, yeah have standards, just know that good looks in a woman often come with other problems
Its not about finding a woman who matches you, but has the same vision and will help you accomplish your goals.
I respect you for being true to yourself and what you actually desire. I think too many men feel what you feel deep down inside but they lie to themselves and end up marrying someone they don't really like because they think it's the "Christian" thing to do or some dumb bullshit like that.
I find that interesting since God always blessed His servants with very attractive spouses, for example, Solomon and his beloved both spoke of how irresistible they found eachother, and that is just one of many examples.
So it is very clear that a beautiful wife or handsome husband (with a good personality) is from God.
Solomon isn't really a great example, because he was polygamous.
And Rachel was hot, but Jacob was also polygamous, because he married her sister, too.
Having said that, I'm not saying that God isn't good or that he doesn't provide blessings. My commentary is more on the social expectations that I see in the modern church today.
I just used him as an example because of what is in the Song of Solomon, but I know what you are saying though.
Also, I was not saying you felt that way, I was mostly talking about people in modern day "churches", I personally tend to agree with you.
Okay. So you've observed the same thing?
Good luck finding an attractive girlfriend when you're ugly. Us attractive girls have high standards.
And I will train my body, reshape my physical face, and shape my personality in order to fit those high standards.
Good luck with that lol
Lauren, no offense, but you're only a 7.
Girl what is your issue? Stop calling everyone ugly, you think you’re all that but you’re not.
Physically you're pretty n when I look at u, I'd say u r beautiful but then I think of what u wrote n u just quickly became eww to me. 🤦🏽♀️
Us attractive girls? I don't think you're in that category.
you are a 6 at best... high standards, lol
this was the most egotistic comment ever unless it was a joke and it really sounds like one
@morrowlow it wasn't a joke, she goes around calling everyone else ugly while considering herself as some divine beauty
@laurenok
Your such a bitch you make me look humble 😂
@laurenok
"Us attractive girls"
I would not go that far...
@ShadowofRegret 😃😃😃
Okay, okay. No need to pile on. I think she's been punished enough.
@Jamie05rhs I will stop but, you don't shake unless your ready to get shook
Lol. I understand.
im my sister sister but uh im her little sis so imma just say now so guys like differnet girls i know i can't spell and they like girls that are nice and pure some are so wholesome they dont even care if you're ugly or fat nah they dont care my sister she will do her very best to shape up to her liking but she dot care what the haters say she bes her slef.