If you have to play games then you are not right for each other. You may do these things not on purpose and they do get his attention but consciously do it is toxic.
In a good compatible relationship you don't really need to work hard. It just fits
This is the most cancerous thing I've read today. I hope it's satire. This is the sort of advice you get from a chronically single girl in high school. If I could set this post on fire I would. I'm dumber for having read this.
This is usually shit I read in a sarcastic article or BuzzFeed video with a girl acting like a complete dipshit to prove that girls who say this shit are dumbasses.
No, no, no! You shouldn't make someone cry. I don't care if it's a male or female. Don't play games with someone's feelings and heart like that! If you have a man who actually makes time for you, follows through on his commitments, shows up to dates with you instead of blowing you off, loves, and cares about you then appreciate what you have because that seems to be rare these days. Jesus, I am so unimpressed with the dating scene and dating advice these days.
I have been married to the one and only man I have been with since I was 17. These are childish games. I personally hate when people play games. You don't keep a man for 25+ years playing that crap. My husband cries every time I leave him to have another surgery. I hate to see him cry because I know it's coming from the heart. He fears losing me and I fear losing him. You keep someone by communicating and showing each other your vulnerabilities.
Please don't do any of this. These are all childish games and I would break up with you for playing them (and you would probably break up with me for playing them as well).
Okay maybe some of the points in here aren't breakup-level. Like if you post about a promotion at work on social media? That's cool. But why would the author above think that's a way to make me cry and miss you?
Do you want to ruin a great relationship? Because that's how you do it. Trying to manipulate someone on purpose is a really really immature and bad thing.
This is fucked up. If the roles were reversed you'd lose your shit. If you do this to anybody, whether you're the girl or the guy in the relationship, then you are not deserving to be with. It's just fucking cruel, why would you do those things on purpose knowing it's going to hurt them? This whole post was about how to mentally and emotionally abuse someone. Who hurt you so bad in the past? Ladies if you're reading this, please be better. No one deserves to be treated like that.
This is such crap!! If you're acting like how could he like you for who you really are? This will only bring chaos and nothing will work out just fine acting like a bitch who doesn't care. Just be youself already? Is it THAT hard to be ourselves, or society really want you to be something else? My god this post is disgusting.
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA You are retarded. DON'T DO THIS, trust me. I would break up instantly :D. There was few girls that tried things like this and played hard to get and it was done, i ended things immediately.
This is dumb. Thus is why girl girls cancel dates at the last second. Most guys just move onto the next girl. I had a girl that started making excuses to noy go on another date like saying she thought she responded then realized she didn't. Then I gave up and the next girl did the same thing! It's like you girls get together and rehearse what games you're going to play on a guy.
This is so fucked up. This is not love. If you’re in a relationship where you want to make the other person cry, you don’t really love each other you just want to play power games with each other. I understand feeling under appreciated, but if it gets to the point where you got to play these mind games, I say end it. Find someone who will actually appreciate you. At the end of the day, in a relationship you’re supposed to wish happiness for the other person.
This goes to an extreme but the basic principle is complete truth. Good men want to put in effort for a woman. He craves a woman who doesn’t put him at the center of her universe.
Although I wouldn’t suggest deliberately making him cry, but getting him to miss you by making yourself scarce once in a while is absolutely necessary.
That just sounds like a choice towards poor communication. I wouldn't recommend it.
Put it this way for example, if I want you enough, there's nothing that will deter me from wanting to be with you. Maybe try being more desirable? If your partner isn't happy to be around you, he's not going to miss you.
I don't know what to say other than I'm sorry to hear that. I dont know anything about your relationship so it's not like I'm in any position to give my opinion about it, what I say shouldn't have any real value to you. But perhaps in your case, he might not know what he really has till it's gone, so that's why maybe? Making yourself scarce shouldn't have to be a necessity, that sucks.
What I mean by that is, don’t be afraid to have your own life. That is the part that is necessary. No man likes or respects a woman who is clingy, besides other unhealthy clingy dudes.
I am not sure if she is simply saying don't be clingy. I agree with that, but it does sounds like she is trying to have us being the clingy ones by giving us as little attention as possible. And that can backfire really fast. I might be misinterpreting her...
@ThisIsMyOpinion Any woman who agrees with this take is the same type of woman that will flirt with other guys and probably eventually cheat on you. These are attention seeking women. They love drama and they love to make a man miserable. She probably takes 'breaks' from her partner and goes to live alone or with her friends every 6 months.
@ThisGuyDucks One thing is like @MzAsh said just have a life besides her man. No one, men or women, should have nothing more in life besides their partner. You know have friends, hobbies, a career, etc. This is not only right it's also sexy.
Another is to completely neglect her boyfriend hopping that for some miracle he will chase her forever.
If she is the second kind then yes, not the best kind of girl.
One of the reasons why mine has lasted so long is because we give each other space.
Sometimes I’ll go and visit my family for a couple weeks and I’ll go by myself.
If you assume someone’s going to cheat on you just because they’re away from you then that isn’t a healthy mindset to have. That mentality will cause you to behave jealously and controlling and the relationship won’t last long. There’s zero room for thinking “oh but they might cheat!” In a healthy, loving relationship. Once that is there then the relationship is a goner.
Don't understand all this game playing. If someone genuinely cares for you, they do miss and think about you when you're not together. If you want to make someone cry over you, you're being cruel. This sounds like high school nonsense.
This sounds extremely manipulative... why not just be yourself and have a man love you for you are without all the games? Are you that insecure to think no man is capable of missing you without fucking with his head? You sound very toxic to date. Literally the worst type of woman lol
If you have to do all these things just to make him want you, then he doesn't really love you. It's just manipulative tricks an insecure person would use. Why would you want to have to play games and try so hard? It's kinda sad.
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I mean this nicely. I don’t know how rude to say it but I don’t mean it as an attack.
Why is he supposed to be chasing you you guys areIN a relationship..
Half of this is just being a human being with a life. The other half is craziness..
None of this is going to make a guy love you.
If he needs to feel you slipping away in order to want you, he doesn’t love you he loves drama.
( rude) was a typo
So to wrap it up; mentally abuse your partner and treat him like shit and he will love you forever! Woooow, such good advice 🤦🏻♀️
If you have to play games then you are not right for each other.
You may do these things not on purpose and they do get his attention but consciously do it is toxic.
In a good compatible relationship you don't really need to work hard. It just fits
This is the most cancerous thing I've read today. I hope it's satire. This is the sort of advice you get from a chronically single girl in high school. If I could set this post on fire I would. I'm dumber for having read this.
This is usually shit I read in a sarcastic article or BuzzFeed video with a girl acting like a complete dipshit to prove that girls who say this shit are dumbasses.
No, no, no! You shouldn't make someone cry. I don't care if it's a male or female. Don't play games with someone's feelings and heart like that! If you have a man who actually makes time for you, follows through on his commitments, shows up to dates with you instead of blowing you off, loves, and cares about you then appreciate what you have because that seems to be rare these days. Jesus, I am so unimpressed with the dating scene and dating advice these days.
I have been married to the one and only man I have been with since I was 17. These are childish games. I personally hate when people play games. You don't keep a man for 25+ years playing that crap. My husband cries every time I leave him to have another surgery. I hate to see him cry because I know it's coming from the heart. He fears losing me and I fear losing him. You keep someone by communicating and showing each other your vulnerabilities.
Please don't do any of this. These are all childish games and I would break up with you for playing them (and you would probably break up with me for playing them as well).
Okay maybe some of the points in here aren't breakup-level. Like if you post about a promotion at work on social media? That's cool. But why would the author above think that's a way to make me cry and miss you?
I feel you brother. There are heartless women like this nowadays, sad but true.
Do you want to ruin a great relationship? Because that's how you do it.
Trying to manipulate someone on purpose is a really really immature and bad thing.
This is fucked up. If the roles were reversed you'd lose your shit. If you do this to anybody, whether you're the girl or the guy in the relationship, then you are not deserving to be with. It's just fucking cruel, why would you do those things on purpose knowing it's going to hurt them? This whole post was about how to mentally and emotionally abuse someone. Who hurt you so bad in the past? Ladies if you're reading this, please be better. No one deserves to be treated like that.
This is such crap!! If you're acting like how could he like you for who you really are? This will only bring chaos and nothing will work out just fine acting like a bitch who doesn't care. Just be youself already? Is it THAT hard to be ourselves, or society really want you to be something else? My god this post is disgusting.
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA
You are retarded. DON'T DO THIS, trust me. I would break up instantly :D. There was few girls that tried things like this and played hard to get and it was done, i ended things immediately.
This is so bad! Manipulative mind games don't make a good relationship.
This is dumb. Thus is why girl girls cancel dates at the last second. Most guys just move onto the next girl. I had a girl that started making excuses to noy go on another date like saying she thought she responded then realized she didn't. Then I gave up and the next girl did the same thing! It's like you girls get together and rehearse what games you're going to play on a guy.
This is so fucked up. This is not love. If you’re in a relationship where you want to make the other person cry, you don’t really love each other you just want to play power games with each other. I understand feeling under appreciated, but if it gets to the point where you got to play these mind games, I say end it. Find someone who will actually appreciate you. At the end of the day, in a relationship you’re supposed to wish happiness for the other person.
This goes to an extreme but the basic principle is complete truth. Good men want to put in effort for a woman. He craves a woman who doesn’t put him at the center of her universe.
Although I wouldn’t suggest deliberately making him cry, but getting him to miss you by making yourself scarce once in a while is absolutely necessary.
That just sounds like a choice towards poor communication. I wouldn't recommend it.
Put it this way for example, if I want you enough, there's nothing that will deter me from wanting to be with you. Maybe try being more desirable? If your partner isn't happy to be around you, he's not going to miss you.
What men say and what they do are two totally different things.
It's the same for women it goes both ways if we're talking about a relationship. If you want to be missed more, just 👏 be 👏 better 👏
I agree with that but he can’t miss her much if she’s always already stuck up his ass (like many women are way too much).
I go on vacation by myself and he ravishes me when I get home. It’s awesome 😛
I don't know what to say other than I'm sorry to hear that. I dont know anything about your relationship so it's not like I'm in any position to give my opinion about it, what I say shouldn't have any real value to you. But perhaps in your case, he might not know what he really has till it's gone, so that's why maybe? Making yourself scarce shouldn't have to be a necessity, that sucks.
What I mean by that is, don’t be afraid to have your own life. That is the part that is necessary. No man likes or respects a woman who is clingy, besides other unhealthy clingy dudes.
I am not sure if she is simply saying don't be clingy. I agree with that, but it does sounds like she is trying to have us being the clingy ones by giving us as little attention as possible. And that can backfire really fast. I might be misinterpreting her...
@ThisIsMyOpinion Any woman who agrees with this take is the same type of woman that will flirt with other guys and probably eventually cheat on you.
These are attention seeking women. They love drama and they love to make a man miserable.
She probably takes 'breaks' from her partner and goes to live alone or with her friends every 6 months.
Stay the fuck away from these women
@ThisGuyDucks One thing is like @MzAsh said just have a life besides her man. No one, men or women, should have nothing more in life besides their partner. You know have friends, hobbies, a career, etc. This is not only right it's also sexy.
Another is to completely neglect her boyfriend hopping that for some miracle he will chase her forever.
If she is the second kind then yes, not the best kind of girl.
One of the reasons why mine has lasted so long is because we give each other space.
Sometimes I’ll go and visit my family for a couple weeks and I’ll go by myself.
If you assume someone’s going to cheat on you just because they’re away from you then that isn’t a healthy mindset to have. That mentality will cause you to behave jealously and controlling and the relationship won’t last long. There’s zero room for thinking “oh but they might cheat!” In a healthy, loving relationship. Once that is there then the relationship is a goner.
Don't understand all this game playing. If someone genuinely cares for you, they do miss and think about you when you're not together. If you want to make someone cry over you, you're being cruel. This sounds like high school nonsense.
Do you want to have a toxic relationship or maybe make him blow you of and go for someone that doesn't pull those games and gives him real love?
Seriously you have some growing to do un less you suffers from personal disorder of some kind.
This sounds extremely manipulative... why not just be yourself and have a man love you for you are without all the games? Are you that insecure to think no man is capable of missing you without fucking with his head? You sound very toxic to date. Literally the worst type of woman lol
... in the end... lose him and see him dating a hotter chick than you who gives him more than you ever did.
Now who're the poor ladies on whom the tables were turned lol?
If you have to do all these things just to make him want you, then he doesn't really love you.
It's just manipulative tricks an insecure person would use.
Why would you want to have to play games and try so hard?
It's kinda sad.