It's not even necessarily because people from my community and hers will judge me, it mainly comes from the historical precedent of the racial dynamic between our two respective groups. Because I grew up skateboarding with regular exposure to white people, I don't feel this way about having white friends but dating feels different. Of course she or her family or whatever have never trespassed against me but as I get older and more jaded in this science experiment gone wrong called planet Earth, in my head it feels ridiculous to smash someone who descends from people that owned mine as property, subjugated them and just done so much general harm and malfeasance to the community holistically. And the bigger indictment in this whole thing I'm trying to understand but can't really make sense of(which also expands passed just dating white chicks, it applies to any interracial relationship) is that the black American community has been so disadvantaged that as I'm starting to accrue wealth and could quite possible attain a lucrative financial future, it feels wrong to not share that with a woman who came from the same circumstances as me, to not fully invest it back into and fully contribute to my community, it's hypocriticaacoulto some extent to say you want to build up your community but at the same time not fully doing it by marrying or procreating outside of it.
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