Guys: Why you should pick the average-looking girl over the pretty girl in the room! (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

Well I believe I deserve a pretty girl. I make a decent amount of money, I'm confident and I have a good body. I have things to offer a pretty girl and rejection is part of life. It doesn't affect me at all. Most of the people who complain about rejection have nothing to offer a girl and were probably only rejected 10 times in their life.

[Reaperbot666]

beautiful or very attractive people often seem like they are entitled. because they know they are attractive and can get almost anything they want from others or in life.

personally I aim for more average or cute looking girls to date. they are typically less shallow minded. when it comes to feeling entitled.

[ask4any]

I disagree whole heartedly. Men know their worth, it's the" pretty one's" as you call them, who have lost their sense of self and think they are more than they really are. Why do you think we walk away from you gold-diggers? What, your pretty and have a great ass!!! Big fuk'n deal, y'all act like you deserve the keys to the kingdom becuz you look good. I take the plain janes any time!!

[Sunshine_1985]

Interesting article but I think it’s a little over-analyzing things. Different people have different opinions of what is attractive to them. Maybe instead of analyzing the issue everyone just be nice and say “hi” to someone they don’t know.

[latinabutterfly96]

If you know enough men, and actually listen to their issues, you’ll know it’s not that simple.

[Anonymous]

I’m not entirely sure this is fair or accurate. I was always told I was good looking even though I’d always say average. And in my experience it was often the guys trying to get something from me; sex instead of a relationship (which I wanted). So I learned to avoid being pulled into that and just kept them as friends until I eventually found one who wanted the same thing as me (which I was only able to confirm through friendship first).

[Opinion Owner]

It’s ironic because you talk about manipulation... while this actually sounds manipulative. Tell us more about projection...

[discobear]

To be honest, they are both average looking girls although the opne on the right is a bit more attractive for she has longer hair and and skin complextion is better. In the end for me it doesn't matter wheter a girl is pretty or not, I value the most her character and the fact I feel good with her.

[lernulo]

I always do something which is very valuable when I'm dating or chatting, something really incredible which women loves a lot... I m sincere and talk as I feel and think without matter what the judge thinks, instead of it, I'm interested into who the girl is.
Much better that all those games you recommend to play.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So who's that guy who rejected you for being average?

[Sleeptalk]

I swear I have been saying this all my life to my guy friends or people in general, but they just won't listen. Fully agree

[CharmyCat]

I don’t agree with this. Looks have no real bearing on personality. It’s just as possible for an unattractive person to be manipulative, uncaring, and high maintenance. The worst, meanest partner I’ve had also happens to be the most unattractive. Sexual attraction is very important, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be attracted to your partner, just make sure there’s more to them than looks.

[BrittBratt2416]

Men already do that when they been rejected to many times or can't get the women they want. Also you want a man to choose you cause he wants to be with you and sees as beautiful in his eyes, not a second choice.

[itsmatty]

yeah women make their decision, then complain to everyone else when it doesn't work out well for them. ugly women are often bitter and resentful. beautiful women are often arrogant and manipulative. you can't win with women, despite what they say.

[UncleJessieRabbit]

I might say the latter is less bad than the former.

[itsmatty]

@UncleJessieRabbit true. i believe this girl is making an argument that a woman with a toned down appearance is better than a woman that focuses a lot on her appearance. i could be mistaken...

[IlyaTheImpaler]

I've been dating pretty girls but after reading this I've decided to date average girls, thanks 👌

[omgjassy]

Lmao

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I don't think it depends on looks so much as personality. Looks don't determine personality, and there are great girls who also happen to be beautiful, and average girls with shitty personalities who try to use and manipulate guys. Just my opinion, but choose less based on looks and more on the type of person she is.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

@aWes0MeNeSs I approach based on looks + my experience of non physical aspects associated with the looks, then adjust my initial preference based on evidence and data, to eventually arrive at the decision to date or not 👨‍🔬

[aWes0MeNeSs]

That's completely your decision, but just remember that attractiveness doesn't directly correlate to personality, and that one can no more help being conventionally attractive than one can being homely or average, so it's really more dependent on upbringing and morals than physical features they were born with and cannot reasonably change without extreme measures.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

@aWes0MeNeSs I know, that's why in my approach personality isn't assessed until I have talked to the person, and understand them somewhat ☺

[aWes0MeNeSs]

That's good!

[pervertedjester]

Girls: Why you should pick the fat guy over some skinny prick...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/wxYg151urLo

[the_____dude]

2011 - before iPhone. Times have changed

[kespethdude]

You should do a counter mytake for this one. Yours would be more accurate anyway.

[Anonymous]

Average girls are not into average men. Attractive girls are way more nicer to average men , but most average girls I have seen only want attractive guys. They get easy sex also

[UncleJessieRabbit]

That's an interesting thing that I heard attractive girls are even nicer to average men than average girls.

[jwblue]

@UncleJessieRabbit It is true.

[razzamatazzp01]

Well the pretty girl might worship her smartphone, and Starbuckshave really ignorant points of view on things. Sometimes being pretty doesn't automatically make you attractive.

[kespethdude]

Only if the girls would do the same thing, but you know that will never happen. Didn't bother to read because it's the same hypocrisy it always is.

[jss123]

I attract women who want to use me. The rest ignore me. It doesn't matter how attractive the women are either. I'm either very unlucky or most women are in it for selfish reasons.

[latinabutterfly96]

I'm sorry

[latinabutterfly96]

People suck honestly lol

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I understand this, as I've attracted a couple of guys and had many friends who only wanted to use me as well. You just have to teach them from the start how to treat you, which means not allowing manipulative behavior, for them to walk all over you or use you. If you have a big heart and feel bad about telling people no this can be very hard, but it's really the only way to protect yourself from being used, at least long term.

[Anonymous]

Looks have nothing to do with an individual or theyre motives who's intentions are ulterior.
Women are deceptive in nature and aren't loyal , just interested. Always running a game on a dude in lieu of money.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I agree that looks have nothing to do with an individual and their motives, but not that all women in general are deceptive or disloyal. It really does depend on the person. Unfortunately there are quite a few crappy people out there, but there are plenty of good ones, too.

[tiajoka]

Dude I have the short hair and long hair with makeup pictures side by side xD
Still have boy short hair since growing it takes years, was actually confused when a guy hit on me the other day.

[Somethingwittty]

Nothing wrong with women with short hair. Rock it