I agree with it all... but, if that's how they think, instead of swiping left, I'll swipe right and teach em a lesson... Big or small, short and tall... ill fuck em all...
Shit noooooo!!! Who knows what kind of diseases that they are carrying. Yeah sure you can use protection but still ewww. I have a rare immune condition, and if I were to pump and dump strangers (I wouldn't though) I feel that I would need to take a very long shower as well as overdosing on anti biotics.
Excuse me my brother and his now wife met on a dating site (christian mingle) they were both virgins and stayed virgins until marriage. I am on that site too, I have no diseases and I am a virgin waiting till marriage! Not ALL women are the same, it is time you all realize that!
@Laciandmaci Well that's good. Good on them. I never said that all women are the same. What I am talking about is Western society's hookup culture where there are people who are strangers to each other and are engaging in sexual activities. This is a risk factor for both men AND women as you can't be entirely sure whether they are clean.
@Laciandmaci. We know that some women are very different but when a person had a bad experience with men and come with lot trust issues and this why I don't even bother to try make women. I all I got was entitled women and selfish women. Yep I am one women with a learning disabilities. Some people just had harder time
@AzzaBlue Right. You're smart. Who knows the person we just met could be a criminal as well? From where I come from it's said among men "If a woman is available for free for you and you don't touch her, you are stupid." Nope. If you can't evaluate any potential risks, that's real stupidity." Self-control is important. It's not just about diseases. That woman might plan to tie you up with a baby. It happens often.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa YOu are safer fucking your cheating boyfriend than a complete stranger who may be dangerous and give you greater emotional pain and a feelings like you have disrespected yourself. its a gross feeling. with your boyfriend you would feel better emotionally. Feeling shame after sex is worse than feeling anger with your boyfriend
Women may dump you after the holidays... But, I have never had that problem. I can keep a girl for years without having to worry about her dumping me. Now, I may dump her... ya know for some strange that turned out to be better than what I had. But shit, that was on her... If she did to me what this new girl does with her (censored) I would still be with her. Just saying, Ya know?
Aside form the fact he's body shaming AND slut shaming here, he's also *checks notes* created a list of demands and expectations for women on dating apps including one that says women shouldn't make demands or have expectations of men on dating apps... lol what a f**king incel douche bag.
I agree with everything. Most of those are a swipe left reason. If I can't know what you look like or if you're too picky and entitled, it's a big no.
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Seriously? You shamed girls for being chubby or taking "slutty" photos and expect them to be down to earth super models yet they aren't allowed to have requirements? What's up with the double standard?
Everyone has preferences. That's normal. For me its how it makes you come across by posting all your preferences. It comes across as pretentious to me. You're basically trying to attract some one by giving them a snipbit of your life. You can have the same woman create two profiles with the same pics. The first has her list of demands and requirements. The second she just gives a beef bio of who she is and what she stands for. Which do you think would get more attention? Its all about how you come across.
Just because someone says they don't prefer a fat person, doesn't mean they want that person to be a supermodel. We don't have to jump to extremes here. Most people just want their partner to have a normal, healthy weight.
@TiaraGlitzNeon Thank you for bringing this up! It's like you say a general thing that applies to most people and someone wants to go to the most extreme end of the spectrum. I mean comment about how most people would like someone to be a healthy weight and it turns into "everyone can't be super models" & "your shaming people for being overweight." If your looking for a long-term/long lasting partner, it actually matters for most people lol.
I completely agree with all of these. In my experience if you put all the things that a guy MUST be then you're severely limiting your pool of potential matches.
Requirements aren't always cringe worthy, especially if they're deal breakers. They should be worded respectfully though so she doesn't sound like a bitch. Things like non-smokers, or no religious fanatics, etc, are not what I consider to be a "requirement", but more of "must NOT be". The other things listed are good advice.
I'm on the fence about the weight one. I like a skinny girl and knowing that off the bat could be a good thing. Though it could also be achieved with photos. Otherwise yeah, good points.
A skinny girl does not say she's skinny. She posts a bikini picture. A fat woman will post blobs of makeup and 4 headshot photos... then when you meet her she is 50 pounds heavier
For some reason every time I looked at "thicker than a snicker" I read it as thinner. Okay, now it makes sense, yeah. I thought you were saying the thin girl is drawing attention to herself.
A few more to add. Political groups.. that she is vegan, her preferred pronouns, Anything mentioning feminism.. All of those are a hard pass from most rational thinking men..
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I agree with it all... but, if that's how they think, instead of swiping left, I'll swipe right and teach em a lesson...
Big or small, short and tall... ill fuck em all...
Then ditch them after. Thats what i mean. They won't get a relationship
Shit noooooo!!! Who knows what kind of diseases that they are carrying. Yeah sure you can use protection but still ewww. I have a rare immune condition, and if I were to pump and dump strangers (I wouldn't though) I feel that I would need to take a very long shower as well as overdosing on anti biotics.
Excuse me my brother and his now wife met on a dating site (christian mingle) they were both virgins and stayed virgins until marriage. I am on that site too, I have no diseases and I am a virgin waiting till marriage! Not ALL women are the same, it is time you all realize that!
@Laciandmaci Well that's good. Good on them. I never said that all women are the same. What I am talking about is Western society's hookup culture where there are people who are strangers to each other and are engaging in sexual activities. This is a risk factor for both men AND women as you can't be entirely sure whether they are clean.
@AzzaBlue I agree with you, I hope I didn't come off as mean lol sorry if I did
@Laciandmaci No worries.
@Laciandmaci. We know that some women are very different but when a person had a bad experience with men and come with lot trust issues and this why I don't even bother to try make women. I all I got was entitled women and selfish women. Yep I am one women with a learning disabilities. Some people just had harder time
Both men & women that have bad experience
@AzzaBlue Right. You're smart. Who knows the person we just met could be a criminal as well? From where I come from it's said among men "If a woman is available for free for you and you don't touch her, you are stupid." Nope. If you can't evaluate any potential risks, that's real stupidity." Self-control is important. It's not just about diseases. That woman might plan to tie you up with a baby. It happens often.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa YOu are safer fucking your cheating boyfriend than a complete stranger who may be dangerous and give you greater emotional pain and a feelings like you have disrespected yourself. its a gross feeling. with your boyfriend you would feel better emotionally. Feeling shame after sex is worse than feeling anger with your boyfriend
Women may dump you after the holidays... But, I have never had that problem. I can keep a girl for years without having to worry about her dumping me. Now, I may dump her... ya know for some strange that turned out to be better than what I had. But shit, that was on her... If she did to me what this new girl does with her (censored) I would still be with her. Just saying, Ya know?
OP is a sexist idiot.
Aside form the fact he's body shaming AND slut shaming here, he's also *checks notes* created a list of demands and expectations for women on dating apps including one that says women shouldn't make demands or have expectations of men on dating apps... lol what a f**king incel douche bag.
I agree with everything. Most of those are a swipe left reason.
If I can't know what you look like or if you're too picky and entitled, it's a big no.
Seriously? You shamed girls for being chubby or taking "slutty" photos and expect them to be down to earth super models yet they aren't allowed to have requirements? What's up with the double standard?
Just slim down a little bit babe
I have no clue what you are talking about
Everyone has preferences. That's normal. For me its how it makes you come across by posting all your preferences. It comes across as pretentious to me. You're basically trying to attract some one by giving them a snipbit of your life. You can have the same woman create two profiles with the same pics. The first has her list of demands and requirements. The second she just gives a beef bio of who she is and what she stands for. Which do you think would get more attention? Its all about how you come across.
You need to be pretty dumb to have no clue
I'm just sit back and relaxing watching yo-yos go back and forth
Just because someone says they don't prefer a fat person, doesn't mean they want that person to be a supermodel. We don't have to jump to extremes here. Most people just want their partner to have a normal, healthy weight.
@TiaraGlitzNeon Thank you for bringing this up! It's like you say a general thing that applies to most people and someone wants to go to the most extreme end of the spectrum. I mean comment about how most people would like someone to be a healthy weight and it turns into "everyone can't be super models" & "your shaming people for being overweight." If your looking for a long-term/long lasting partner, it actually matters for most people lol.
I completely agree with all of these. In my experience if you put all the things that a guy MUST be then you're severely limiting your pool of potential matches.
Requirements aren't always cringe worthy, especially if they're deal breakers. They should be worded respectfully though so she doesn't sound like a bitch. Things like non-smokers, or no religious fanatics, etc, are not what I consider to be a "requirement", but more of "must NOT be". The other things listed are good advice.
I would also add that having duck face pictures, pictures with the dog filter or sticking your tongue out are nothing but irritating.
Another one is that they'll say I'M ONLY HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS
Like, if you want friends, then go to FACEBOOK, or TWITTER lol
I think dating apps are for mostly hookups. So ya know. Meh
Dating apps are not even for hooking up. Women dont want to meetbthe guy. Its about emotional validation
So like GAG?
@Apope16 nailed it.
Fakers, golddiggers, those who just want go boost self esteem, shallow ones, those who set up high demands, hookers
what? don cheadle is only 5'8 I thought he was taller lol
I tried online before deciding to steer clear... not for me thanks
I'm on the fence about the weight one.
I like a skinny girl and knowing that off the bat could be a good thing. Though it could also be achieved with photos.
Otherwise yeah, good points.
A skinny girl does not say she's skinny. She posts a bikini picture. A fat woman will post blobs of makeup and 4 headshot photos... then when you meet her she is 50 pounds heavier
For some reason every time I looked at "thicker than a snicker" I read it as thinner.
Okay, now it makes sense, yeah. I thought you were saying the thin girl is drawing attention to herself.
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Ummm... Without list of demands, we'd be settling with a lowlife guy.
But everything else seems legit.
But that's what you guys want to go over there anyway
Going in a date isn’t settling. I see demand I’ll just pass weather I meet them or not.
I'd add to that complaints about guys she's dated and hasn't had good experiences with and sounding too demanding about what you expect from a guy.
Ladies that feel called out are gonna hate, but you're absolutely right. 👍
At some point the women noticed that having a hot body speaks volumes and nothing else seems to matter. Hence the cropped face and the downward shots.
A few more to add. Political groups.. that she is vegan, her preferred pronouns, Anything mentioning feminism.. All of those are a hard pass from most rational thinking men..
And the common phrases like "live laugh love" or some unfitting inspiration quotes.