Five QUESTIONS you should ask on your FIRST DATE... but probably won't! (Page 2)

[Thatgirlcvp]

I wouldn't ask any of those questions. Especially the sex one since I'm waiting for marriage. I have my set of red flag questions that I use.

Steve Harvey is old school and traditional so I resonate with his ideology a little better than some modern ideas out there. But those are some good questions to ask in a casual way without making the guy feel like you are interrogating him.

[Thatgirlcvp]

I'm not level 3 so o can't post it but if you look up steve-s-14-questions-to-ask-on-a-first-date/

[Thatgirlcvp]

Click on the Steve Harvey. Com website

[HawkPerception]

1 and 3 don't matter to me at all and never will. As of right now I'm not financially stable, but even if I was a millionaire I would never care what my partner was making or what they studied. School is no indicator of intelligence or success in life and I don't judge someone's value based on the amount of money they have. The other questions are viable.

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[Dinklex3]

I respectfully disagree 😂

I don't feel like these should all be asked on the first date.

With #1. I'm more interested in their job and what they do for a living than how much money they actually make. Dream jobs and what they want to accomplish in the future.

#3 is a nice topic as well.

[Anonymous]

I don't see a world in which asking a guy on a first date...how much money do you make...would go over well. They'd assume I was a gold digger or only concerned about money and not them as a human being. I wouldn't want someone assessing my wallet day one either. I think you can sort of kind of figure this one out on your own or somewhere down the line if it's incredibly important to you.

[ArrowheadSW]

LOL If you ask a woman on the first date, how often she wants sex, you most likely will not get a second date. No matter what the answer is... LOL

[libsaretards]

I disagree with the third point. College is not indicative of intelligence. It just means that person is capable of telling a professor what they want to hear and able to remember things someone in power says. College is A path to success, not THE path to success. There are other measures of intelligence and other ways to determine common interests.

Everything else I believe is on point.

[Phoenix98]

Some of those are the right questions but I'd personally word them differently or ask different but similar questions.

Like I don't see any scenario where someone asking how much money you make on a first date would go over very well. Instead ask a question like what do you do for a living you can get an idea of their income based on their field or career. Without having to actually ask how much they make. If it's really that big of a concern for you.

[Nalix]

These align pretty well with what I think people should try to find out through dating.

I generally recommend finding out if you have compatible long term goals and values, enjoy compatible activities or enjoy being around each other, and if you have compatible sexual drives and interests.

[Blackcosmo]

Oh wow these are very important questions. Thanks for the informative post!

[smilelots]

how much money is of no interest to me the were do you want to live is the same not really that important. college is not important as well. are you wanting kids is important yes.. and the last one is how often do you want sex , kinda lame how you put it but I would have said , Is sex or sexual adventure important to you. do you have a hig sex drive or is that not something you think of much. like my x lol

[HippieVeganJewslim]

The first one sounds kinda weird. A person is not how much dough She/He makes.

My romantic love is antinatalist. I would ask Her about adoption.

She says that She wants to live in Canada or Norway, but I think it’s cold there with a poor climate for enough fruits (We’re fruitarians). I want to live in Morocco, Indonesia, or the Philippines.

I want oral sex, and if it’s vaginal, I’d pull out before climax.

[TheHelleri]

You forgot one of the most important questions... Which way does the tp go?

[MikeInHawaii]

If a cat owner puts it under instead of over, I understand.

[CubsterShura]

Nah most of these questions are a big no on a first date, but here is one funny question I WOULD ask: Would you let a strong muscular woman benchpress you? It will make the conversation interesting and give an idea of what he thinks of women.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

Love this! Sorry for bringing my horni side into it.

[Agent_Elflord]

Is “deadlift me, muscle mommy!” A good answer?👀😂

[CubsterShura]

@Agent_Elflord it's a green flag, even though I'm the weakest person I know 😂😂😂

[Adam1978]

Disagree only the kid one, since it would be a show stopper if you aren't on the same page and you should ask what they earn. You can ask what they do for a living. It shows interest in their life. Asking what they earn is gold digging no exceptions.

[bamesjond0069]

I never ask income or job or education. Its all irrelevant and nothing i care to know about. If she brings it up then that stuff is important to her and i lose interest in a woman like that. If she doesn't bring it up, then i know its nothing she can't drop in an instant to get on my program instead.

[KelleyNice]

Maybe in a few years but, for now, none of those questions are applicable for me. About the only thing I change more often then boys I date are my clothes.

[GlassTop]

Your profile says 13. You change boyfriends almost as much as clothes huh?

[KelleyNice]

@GlassTop I don't change boys I date nearly as often as I change my clothes. However, about the only thing I change more often then boys I date are my clothes.

[GlassTop]

I just find it weird your parents let you date at all. But then again girls nowadays are drinking/smoking/screwing by age 13

[KelleyNice]

@GlassTop You have a wild imagination. Neither I nor any girl I know does any of that. And, your idea of dating must be going somewhere in a car and the boys I date are too young to drive.

[GlassTop]

Oh so you are talking about the kitty dates where it’s not really dates you are just being friends. No kissing/handholding/sex involved.

[katiesmuff]

I'm thinking that by the time on that 1st date that all those questions were dumped on someone it's very likely the last time you will be on a date with them.

[h3llfireclub]

I mean, those things are important to know, sure. But the first date is just to get to know each other, it's not a job interview. If you vibe than you can discuss that on the 2nd or 3rd date.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

It all depends on how much I like the guy. If I do it would be about sex towards the end of the date.