Think of this as Part 2 to my last MyTake about the myth of the "STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN" bullsh*t.
I didn't want to make this. I wasn't going to make this. But Miss "I'm Too Good For Most Men Out There" since she likes to erase people's posts when they tell her the truth, let's like GAG decide if this is a case of "Realistic or Deluded."
"wHy dOn'T mEn tAkE aTtRaCtIvE sUcCeSsFuL wOmEn sErIoUsLy?" 👩💵
Delusional 31 year old Pink Anon:
"I find that I seem to be the person everyone wants to sleep with, but no one wants to take me seriously enough to put a ring on it. I consider myself a good woman!"
"I have a full time decent paying career, am in school full time, have my own house & vehicle, I know how to cook & clean, and essentially take care of business, but no one takes me seriously when it comes to dating & relationships. In my early 20s I dodged a few bullets by declining marriage with men who weren’t on my level or looking to get on my level as far as assets go.
But now that I am in my 30s, I am ready to build a family with someone and be with just one person. It just isn’t happening for me… Is it because I’m what society would consider attractive in looks, or is it because men are just intimidated by successful women?"
Other gems:
"I have my sh*t together! I expect the same from a man!"
['What are my weaknesses?']
(Thanks to @Fryday_Knight for finding this out.)
"1) Bipolar/ ADHD.
2) I have a daughter.
3) I’m busy all of the time.
4) I have boundaries. Red flags are acknowledged, and I will drop someone quick!
5) When I’m not working or at school, I'm gaming til' my eyes bleed."
"I’m pretty cool to be around and the life of the party!"
(I thought you said you were busy all the time and had a kid? Are you implying you're a bad mom, too?)
"I'm humble and kind! I take care of sick people, for f*cks sake!" 😡
Alright. Now here's my response:
Why don't men take so-called "attractive single (mothers) seriously? BECAUSE YOUR PERSONALITY SUCKS. But assuming this wasn't it, it's also because attractive and tall people tend to be crappy people more often than not, because the world treats them very well due to the Halo Effect, and they rarely ever have to face consequences or trouble for anything, especially attractive women and tall men, thus are way more likely to be garbage on the inside. It happens pretty often. However, some people are just SO garbage, that even their attractiveness can't save them.
The fact you said "I have a full time decent paying career" and "I have my own house & vehicle" and "[I] take care of business" implies you have no clue what men really want. Women do this all the time though; apply their criteria in attractive men (money, assets, and career success), towards men's desires, thinking men care about the same thing in a partner that women do, when more often than not, it's the opposite. I mean, it's not like any successful woman is going to share that money with the man for him to care about it, anyway. So why the hell would we?
You seal the deal by saying "men are intimidated by successful women" kinda proving why no man wants to put up with or tolerate you. You only have yourself to blame, like I already said to you in another MyTake.
You're gonna stay single with that attitude, pink anon (not that I don't know who you really are.) You're so vain, you probably think this post is about you - ♫ Don't you, don't you! ♫
No. This post is a warning. A cautionary tale to all the men still wanting to get married and all the women who think that just because they're middle-class or own a home by 32, that that makes them Hot Sh*t to a guy, let alone a quality guy who isn't a cuck and doesn't want to raise someone else's bastard kids.
THAT is really what this post is about. Well that, and she erased my original in the comments for no reason, so I'm not going to let all that typing go to waste, LOL!
And then deluded women speeding into the wall faster than Princess Di have the nerve to call all us men "incels and misogynists" for telling them the truth. Or just delete my comment like she actually did in the post. She will never learn a single thing, especially being 31 and still acting this foolish! OH WELL! 🤷♂️
Join the "Single in their 30s club" with 49% of modern men now, LOL! At least men don't have an expiration date, though! (Don't worry; the good women won't get offended by this joke; they know they're high value without being deluded.)
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