Please Stop The Blame Game About "Having to Pay" for a Date (Page 4)

[ohmyguy]

first one or initial dates guy should pay.. dinner frst occation guy can pay tòo. .. but she could go fifty fifty.. on novilty stuff like museium or amusement park... dont go or do what u can't afford. slow down.. keep it simple..

[Juxtapose]

No, actually when I ask my friends out to eat we still pay for our own meals. But all of a sudden when a possibility of physical intimacy is involved you want me to pay? That is prostitution..

[Anonymous]

Most of us Guys are willing to Pay especially on the First Date, We just want to see you Girl make an effort with us, A lot of you Girls think that a Guy Should be paying for your time.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/C9ONWHXCsrk

[Emyyyy]

can't AFFORD TO PAY FOR A DATE?

DIE A VIRGIN THEN 😂😂😂😂

GONNA HAVE TO SUCK EACHOTHERS DICK INSTEAD 😂😂😂😂😂

[blueonblack22]

If you are so confident about this opinion why did you go anon?

[PatientZeR0]

Just pay for each your stuff and they pay for theirs.
Unless it’s a special circumstance or event.


Talking finances are for committed couples.

[Martyrdom28]

It’s a given man. She’s out with YOU. She could be other places. Take care of here and that means pay for her everything.

[Twalli]

For a date, I agree , but it's different when dating. My view is that the man should always be able to pay, but not expected. Once you're in a relationship, it should be closer to 50-50. I see it as the man should pay 60% of the time.

[007kingifrit]

i think the larger point is women want all the benefits of being women while simultaneously expecting all the upsides of equality. they don't take the downsides

and i don't mind paying for food

[catarecute]

being are so stingy its only 40 pound. if you can't spare that dont date.

[Alex-Snow]

I think whoever asks for the date should pay for it. If the other person wants to split or share it all the better.

[strateguy632]

i have asked if she was willing to pay half and heard many various replies to discuss

[Anonymous]

Agreed. If you don't think you are going to get any action or I'd she's fat or ugly or if she's just there for a free meal you can always walk out and leave her to pay.

[Anonymous]

It's the man's job to pay for the date. Why are we still even talking about this? If a guy asks me to pay for my meal on a date it will be the last meal he has with me.

[spartan55]

'Man's job' 😂😂
So do you mean pay for the first date or every date?

[FellowTraveler]

Maybe darling that was the idea from the begginning

[FellowTraveler]

Look another Gloria Steinem devotee'

[Blueeyes81]

I feel the same when women ask me to do the dishes. It's the woman's job to cook and clean. (Sarcastic point)

[Anonymous]

Right, life isn't fair, and we all wish everything could be equal but it's not. Go tell a feminist.

Why are today's women such tremendous hypocrites?

[lavenders]

I am a feminist and would still allow a guy to pay for me. Unless I say that I am going to pay for myself. When a girl says that she’s paying its a way to show that they are “dependable” and take care of themselves nothing wanting anyone.

[myTake Owner]

Why do that, I'm telling you, and every other guy out there: why do you pay and complain afterwards about how life is unfair?

Please proceed to find the lie in the following statements: No one forced you to ask a girl out. No one told you to pick whatever restaurant or activity to go to. No one forced you to pay. If you don't want to pay then don't do it, and don't date these so called hypocritical women out here so called ruining men's lives and all sorts of dramatic things a lot of guys say. Just. don't. do. it.

[Opinion Owner]

@lavenders Yeah, you have the same concept of "equality" all feminists do. You're fine when a traditional gender role benefits you as a woman, even when it's unfair to men. But any traditional gender role where thore roles are reversed is "misogyny".

This is why modern feminsts are widely viewed to be the biggest hypocrites in human history.

[Opinion Owner]

@myTakeOwner Look at some of the female responses here. It's clear to pretty much every guy that if he doesn't pay foe the first date, there's a very high likelyhood he won't get a second one. Most women still think like that. It's an entitlement thing. Have a litte honesty here for fusk sake.

www.psypost.org/.../study-of-college-students-indicates-men-are-still-expected-to-pay-the-bill-on-first-dates-62330

[myTake Owner]

If we are all a bunch of entitled so and so's, stop dating us or stop paying. Stop spending your hard earned cash on us. Stop complaining about a system YOU buy into every single time you pull out that coin from your wallet. It's the same BS when women complain about "being forced to wear make-up." You give those companies your money of your own free will and then blame men that you can't be pretty without it, but boycott the stuff, stop paying for it, they can't advertise, you can be you, and society will eventually adapt...but women aren't doing that, and men damn sure aren't giving up paying for dates and playing that game either. So here we all are. You refuse to accept your part in this. Just easier to say it's women's fault. We don't reach into your wallet and pull out your money, do we? You can't go to any court in this country and say, hey judge, I was forced to pay for a date "by society at large." That's honesty for you.

[Opinion Owner]

Men aren't giving up paying for dates because they want to date, and if they want to date they have no choice.

Men are not the problem here, women are. Women still have the expectation that men will pay for dates. That is clear, and it's disgusting given that it's 2023.

[lavenders]

No one asked you to pay and no most women don’t expect you to pay for the first Date. If you have a fking problem with paying then it’s your problem. Then how about you become a stay home dad and take care of everything. From cleaning to cooking and looking after the kids and if you wish you could get a job on top of that. If you only see the problem with paying in “feminism” then try looking at more things.

[Opinion Owner]

@lavenders Yes, most women do expect the man to pay on teh first date. Educate yourself before making such silly claims.

www.psypost.org/.../study-of-college-students-indicates-men-are-still-expected-to-pay-the-bill-on-first-dates-62330

And what does any of this have to do with anyone being a stay at home dad or mom? WTF!

This issue exsists for one reason and one reason only, and that is that most women still expect the man to pay on the first date, and men know it and don't want to make a bad first impression. This is a woman problem, not a man problem. You feminists need to get your shit together and start walking the walk you have been talking for decades. Fucking hypocrites.

[FellowTraveler]

Hmm, kind of Sounds like the selected readings of Gloria Steinem!

[Vegasrunner]

Love this post. This is exactly why I encourage guys to stick to coffee dates or $10 minimum for the first few dates. It's a great way to see if the girl is interested in you.

[LiamJHayden]

People should do whatever works for them. But I ask, I am prepared to pay. What kind of a jerk would ask, choose Coliseum or some other expensive place, and then ask for separate checks?

[Miristheiss]

Wir werden nicht mehr bezahlen!!!

We pay... no more.

[JosyJosy]

Don't blame, just don't pay if you don't want to. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

If a guy can't afford to pay, he can't afford to date.

[spartan55]

Do you mean the first date, or every date?

[FellowTraveler]

Meaning he can't afford YOU!