I really tried to empathize with this one, I really did. My brain started hurting half way through, though, same as yours.
The "have a seat" meme is lost on you, Take Owner. Look it up! : )
I think this could be a solid piece if you were to boil it down to about 6 important points you want hot women to take away about finding a virtuous - but shy - man.
Why do guys always say that no girl wants a good guy. And consider good guy is not cute/handsome/sexy -_- And this whole girl falls for player BS -_- This article is quite stupid, especially the part where it says "IT'S A MEN'S JOB TO APPROACH WOMAN" Well, No! And secondly, the guy might turn out to be a creep even if he approaches you first.
God, was dealing with idiotic questions any less that GAG introduced this My Take option?
He said most VERY ATTRACTIVE women don't like good guys. Specifically talking about the young very attractive females. It is a fact that MOST don't. And let's be realistic, he never said there are no good looking guys that are good guys but most young guys that are good guys are not considered good looking by most women in general.
I guess guys need to step out of the little bubble they are living in. Every girl be it attractive/ugly/young/old wants a good guy who would stay loyal to them. Girls don't fall for player because they are player, but because they say all the right things that make girls believe they love them. They are quite charming (even though they turn out to be jerks later) so all a guy who wants to get attractive girls need to learn how to connect to her at different levels, charm her with whatever they have got and stop whining about players/badboys -_-
There's a lot of dislike in this take. It may be out of bitterness, but it's actually the truth. Most young attractive women don't want a good young guy. Most young guys that are attractive know that they are the shit and they start messing with other women. On top of that, young women likes the challenge of changing a man to get him tamed.
It's not out of bitterness. I hate it when people say there are no good guys around when there are. If there aren't, fine. I understand. But there are.
The only thing I have learnt from your take is that you are a loser than doesn't get any girl to like him and has no clue about what he is talking about.
You don't really know what you're saying! The Take Owner is right! Young girls have bad boy-jerk fever until they are old enough to become serious about getting married and starting a family! They finally realize that bad boy-jerk qualities are not good for a long term relationship. That's when they look for a genuine nice guy. The Take Owner is trying to help women who've reached that stage!
I'm not sure if this is a :troll job" or not but of the many things I disagree with is the concept that women shouldn't approach men. That's a great way for women to cut their dating opportunities by at least half.
A lot of women get hit on all the time by smooth talkers and they seem to buy it. Tragic in a way. The good guys dont knock on every door. Live and learn. Darwinism at play for foolish women.
Yeah, I do. The women who chose the wrong mate, such as one that doesn't stay with them and help raise the young, that woman's young will have less of a chance at survival. In this case , due to a higher rate of murder, incarceration (and therefore a reduced chance of resproduction), increased risk of dying through lack of medical care, lower edication levels and all that goes with that... Darwinism, dead kids, jailed kids, drug addict kids, worse off kids... due to poor father choices, Dawinism will wipe those women's offspring out and reduce that trait of stupidity in mate selection.
Promiscuous men (players) would historically have had more children than the average man, it makes sense for women to be attracted to them because it increases the chance of her sons being like that and hence spreading her genes around.
Players do notbraise their kids. In our society that puts them at a significant disadvantage. Just look at the African Amaerican community. 72% of all black babies are born to single moms. The single moms only make $24k a yearbon aberage whereas a married couple makes $81k. The son of the married coupke will have the advantages that two parents can provide including better child rearing, a smarter child as he is read to and taught, given better schools... You know, all thise things that are claimed tinbe the products of racisim lol, its just because they have two committed parents. Read this from CNN anchor on black babies being born to single moms, it applies to all single moms. Modern socienty requires more to raise a quality child than say a rabbit or a dog.
He never said that, he is just saying MOST young good guys are not considered physically attractive by MOST women. Of course there are some good guys that are considered good looking by tons of women but let's be realistic
Actually, a guy who is really nice is never very attractive to most women. A man can be tall, powerfully athletic and movie star handsome. If he shows a great deal of kindness and caring, he will NOT be attractive to women! Women will see him as soft, weak and unattractive. It is a fact that most women automatically take kindness for weakness. So NO! A guy CAN'T be attractive and nice at the same time!
I think people are weary of the "good men are unattractive looking and awkward" cliche. A guy who isn't good looking and charismatic who is super excited because he has his own hot chick doesn't make him a better partner.
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What makes you think that a good guy with few or no "notches" would even want a hot woman who is the town bicycle?
Dear Take Owner - The comment above went to you by accident! It was supposed to go to a childish female opinion owner who trashed your "Take" below! I believe your "Take" was very intelligent and brings up facts that a lot of people are too immature and egotistical to address! Nice Take! Up vote!
Hotties are portrayed as sluts; is the line he wrote. By personal experience, i can't say them sluts, but i can definitely claim that they are egocentric, rude and mean.
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*I started skimming after half-way through.*
I need a seat. Thank you very much. I have been on my feet most of the day.
I really tried to empathize with this one, I really did. My brain started hurting half way through, though, same as yours.
The "have a seat" meme is lost on you, Take Owner. Look it up! : )
I think this could be a solid piece if you were to boil it down to about 6 important points you want hot women to take away about finding a virtuous - but shy - man.
Why do guys always say that no girl wants a good guy. And consider good guy is not cute/handsome/sexy -_- And this whole girl falls for player BS -_-
This article is quite stupid, especially the part where it says "IT'S A MEN'S JOB TO APPROACH WOMAN" Well, No! And secondly, the guy might turn out to be a creep even if he approaches you first.
God, was dealing with idiotic questions any less that GAG introduced this My Take option?
He said most VERY ATTRACTIVE women don't like good guys. Specifically talking about the young very attractive females. It is a fact that MOST don't. And let's be realistic, he never said there are no good looking guys that are good guys but most young guys that are good guys are not considered good looking by most women in general.
I guess guys need to step out of the little bubble they are living in. Every girl be it attractive/ugly/young/old wants a good guy who would stay loyal to them. Girls don't fall for player because they are player, but because they say all the right things that make girls believe they love them. They are quite charming (even though they turn out to be jerks later) so all a guy who wants to get attractive girls need to learn how to connect to her at different levels, charm her with whatever they have got and stop whining about players/badboys -_-
Hey man. I think you sort of misunderstood the dating game. Luckily, this is a great resource:
thematinggrounds.com/developing-the-right-mindset/
Take care buddy.
There's a lot of dislike in this take. It may be out of bitterness, but it's actually the truth. Most young attractive women don't want a good young guy. Most young guys that are attractive know that they are the shit and they start messing with other women. On top of that, young women likes the challenge of changing a man to get him tamed.
Hey, I am just telling from what I am seeing. Let them dislike this take. Not really running for a popularity contest here.
It's not out of bitterness. I hate it when people say there are no good guys around when there are. If there aren't, fine. I understand. But there are.
Exactly dude. Most people on here know it is true what the guy said.
The only thing I have learnt from your take is that you are a loser than doesn't get any girl to like him and has no clue about what he is talking about.
Have a nice day and see you in hell.
Funny how it's almost men only who dislike my opinion, probably losers as well :(
You don't really know what you're saying! The Take Owner is right! Young girls have bad boy-jerk fever until they are old enough to become serious about getting married and starting a family! They finally realize that bad boy-jerk qualities are not good for a long term relationship. That's when they look for a genuine nice guy. The Take Owner is trying to help women who've reached that stage!
I'm not sure if this is a :troll job" or not but of the many things I disagree with is the concept that women shouldn't approach men. That's a great way for women to cut their dating opportunities by at least half.
you spent a long time writing a whole load of shit buddy O_o
A lot of women get hit on all the time by smooth talkers and they seem to buy it. Tragic in a way. The good guys dont knock on every door. Live and learn. Darwinism at play for foolish women.
You don't understand Darwinism...
Yeah, I do. The women who chose the wrong mate, such as one that doesn't stay with them and help raise the young, that woman's young will have less of a chance at survival. In this case , due to a higher rate of murder, incarceration (and therefore a reduced chance of resproduction), increased risk of dying through lack of medical care, lower edication levels and all that goes with that... Darwinism, dead kids, jailed kids, drug addict kids, worse off kids... due to poor father choices, Dawinism will wipe those women's offspring out and reduce that trait of stupidity in mate selection.
@Bysshe it is a hard lesson for some to learn but necessary,
Promiscuous men (players) would historically have had more children than the average man, it makes sense for women to be attracted to them because it increases the chance of her sons being like that and hence spreading her genes around.
Players do notbraise their kids. In our society that puts them at a significant disadvantage. Just look at the African Amaerican community. 72% of all black babies are born to single moms. The single moms only make $24k a yearbon aberage whereas a married couple makes $81k. The son of the married coupke will have the advantages that two parents can provide including better child rearing, a smarter child as he is read to and taught, given better schools... You know, all thise things that are claimed tinbe the products of racisim lol, its just because they have two committed parents. Read this from CNN anchor on black babies being born to single moms, it applies to all single moms. Modern socienty requires more to raise a quality child than say a rabbit or a dog.
www.politifact.com/.../
This is so stupid. Why was this in my email? I can't even to begin to list all that's wrong with this article.
Wait, so a guy can't be attractive and nice?
He never said that, he is just saying MOST young good guys are not considered physically attractive by MOST women. Of course there are some good guys that are considered good looking by tons of women but let's be realistic
Actually, a guy who is really nice is never very attractive to most women. A man can be tall, powerfully athletic and movie star handsome. If he shows a great deal of kindness and caring, he will NOT be attractive to women! Women will see him as soft, weak and unattractive. It is a fact that most women automatically take kindness for weakness. So NO! A guy CAN'T be attractive and nice at the same time!
I think people are weary of the "good men are unattractive looking and awkward" cliche. A guy who isn't good looking and charismatic who is super excited because he has his own hot chick doesn't make him a better partner.
What makes you think that a good guy with few or no "notches" would even want a hot woman who is the town bicycle?
The "town bicycle"? Oh that's cold, ugly TRUTH!
attractive men can be good guys too, just like attractive women can be nice, well rounded, and intelligent. shocker right?
Awwww! You're still having a bratty tantrum! "So is your stupidity!", Ohhh such a witty, biting big girl's insult! You're SO FUNNY!
Dear Take Owner - The comment above went to you by accident! It was supposed to go to a childish female opinion owner who trashed your "Take" below! I believe your "Take" was very intelligent and brings up facts that a lot of people are too immature and egotistical to address! Nice Take! Up vote!
this is so funny, hahaha. why 'nice guys' finish last, haha
Omg all of this is just so wrong. Just no.
Dude you are so right and it's funny how most people on here don't want to admit that you are right.
Why did you say that hot girls are sluts?
Hotties are portrayed as sluts; is the line he wrote. By personal experience, i can't say them sluts, but i can definitely claim that they are egocentric, rude and mean.
Sensing a troll here...
Yeah. Still doesn't work.