How can I ask a girl out for New Year's Eve?

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So, I have no clue how to ask a girl to go out with me on NYE. I need suggestion for this how to ask a girl for NYE out in 2 cases if knew the girl or it's a girl I just met at a public place, club... etc... How can I ask a girl out for New Year's Eve?

Jack-K · Accepted Answer

Best way to go about it is to start off talking about something unrelated to begin with. Don't spring it on them or make them feel uncomfortable. If you find that you're both getting along well, just be open and honest, by telling them that you really enjoy every moment you spend with them. From there, ask if they have any plans for the next week or so and make it clear that you'd like to spend more time with them. Personally, I tend to give a few options here: asking them if they'd prefer to do X or Y for a date, to take the pressure of choosing off of them.

Good luck, buddy! It's not easy making the first move, but often the best girls are the ones you have to prove you're willing to take a risk for. I hope it all goes well for you.

Source: Been dating for 10-years.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

You don't wait until the morning of New Year's Eve to ask a girl for a date that night!

Asking her for a date is just like asking for any other date, with one exception. There is a tradition of kissing the person who you are with at midnight on New Year's Eve. If this is a first date, she may not feel comfortable kissing you, depending on how reserved she is. Some girls might have sex on a first date; others won't even give a good night kiss.

Keyspirits · Accepted Answer

Say if she's doing anything this weekend, if not u wanna invite her out for dinner.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Accepted Answer

"Would you like to go out with me on New Year's Eve?"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hmmm well she may already have plans?  Why New Year's Eve in particular? It would be easier to get her to say yes if it's on another day.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

1) have something fun in mind  2) describe the fun idea 3) tell her she’d love it  4) invite her to this fun thing with you.

notmama546 · Accepted Answer

ITS EASY IF THERE MUTUA ATTRACTION GO FOR IT EVERY GIRL WANTS THT NYE KISS

min_emz · Accepted Answer

Just say, 'do you wanna go out for NYE?'; be straight with her.

Avicenna · Answer

It really isn't any different than any other holiday. She may already have plans, but if not, she may think, "Sure, why not?". You never know until you try.

coachTanthony · Answer

Since this question is a year old tell us what happened? LOL LOL LOL

Summeroflove · Answer

Well. You need to just approach and say whats on your mind. It could be awkward but it’s alright

Guy13 · Answer

Chat her up a little bit and ask her out like a guy with intention and a plan...

lightbulb27 · Answer

at 35 you don't know? time to watch some videos... study up on building your confidence and self esteem, make some fun changes in anyway you can

I'd suggest going out to places and strikng up conversations and having good positive discussions... with anyone. Spread joy, be a shining light to others, be witty, be positive, encouraging... everywhere you go. Then, go someplace that is very uncomfortable, and learn to be comfortable with it and try to do the same. Repeat.

Somewhere during that process, when you feel good and free, ask a girl out. If you get no, ask someone else.

There is no downside to any of this...

It will start an amazing process of discover, improvement, challenges, suffering, and growth. Good luck!

Smoothing · Answer

Along a girl out for new years eve is easy. Ask her to go watching the fireworks with you. You can even plan it together. Every girl knows what happens at mid night. If she says yes, she already knows the is a potential for both of you to kiss. So she has already accepted you. If she says no, take it on the chin like a man. She just rejected you.

New years eve is the best time to ask a girl out. If she likes you, she will definitely say yes. Because she knows the rule. At mid night you have yo kiss.

Massageman · Answer

At the end of your current date out with her, just ask: "Where would you like me to take you to celebrate New Year's Eve? "

Personally, I've never been all that interested in going on a bender and fighting the drunk crowds. We will usually go to an early supper- or late lunch, depending on how you look at it- maybe see a movie ( rent a movie, lately), spend a Christmas Gift Certificate for something - whatever. Then just get in the house before things get to messy out there and spend some quiet, quality time at home. Watch a ball drop on TV, then drop my own, er, body, in bed for some sleep. :- )

Rosexøxø · Answer

Make up a New Year’s Eve pick up line and if her reaction drifts south, tell her you know it’s cheesy but that was kind of all you had at the moment.

Follow it with “let me make it up to you.”

or

“I want you to tell me how I can make it up to you.”

Then make it up to her within reasonable and safety measures.

Best to you!

Happy 2023!

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Ask her if she has plans for New Years Eve. If she says yes it is OK to express your dissappointment , but be persistent. The earlier the better.  Testosterone that hormone that makes us attack what everyone else is scared of, all in the name of survival. Hey I just read Jack-K's response. It sounds more informative than mine. Best of Luck.

rosscore728 · Answer

Say "Wtf girl... why are your pants so fucking shiny for?" She'll say.."Shiny what they'll are you talking about." Then drop the bomb..."Because, I can see myself in them!". She'll be yours forever. Try it one time... yes it's corny but it's so corny she can't help but to laugh. That's when you strike. Ask her out and if she says no I'll delete my gag account.

Anonymous · Answer

Just keep it some, tell her face to face that you'd want her to be a date for the new year and if things go the right way, may be even for a Valentine's in the future !! 😉
Compliment her when you find her attractive. It's very simple to keep a woman happy. Just love her, care for her and be there for her when she needs you !!

ilikesnow · Answer

Try texting her and see how she responds. If she responds something like: 'Hi' or 'What do you want?' then there's not much hope, but if she says 'hey' or something friendlier approach her as a friend then try to take the next step.

MakeUpModel91 · Answer

I would ask what she is up to, If she has no plans I would suggest you ask her if she would be interested in spending it with you, Just go all out and ask.  You don't ask you don't get. Good luck 🙂

big_ben_007 · Answer

Ask her what restaurants she likes. Then say well... I would like to order something there, see if the food is good. Would u like to come and eat with me? Sounds corny but its a start.

Lovelylady92 · Answer

The big thing is come up with a plan before you ask her out, but if you’re taking her for food, give her a couple options to pick from. When you ask her, do it in person or on the phone. DO NOT TEXT! If she agrees and you finalize plans, prepare for the date by looking like you put effort into your appearance, show up a few minutes early, and show her a good time and make her feel comfortable with you. Also, don’t use the words “hanging out”. Be direct about this being a date.

Emalou · Answer

Personally I think most people may have NYE plans by now but definitely ask the question about meeting up at some point through the night, rather than for the whole evening……you may get that special kiss on the ding dong then! Also won’t make her feel bad if she already has plans?

exitseven · Answer

I hope you are talking about New Years Eve 2024 because you are kind of late for this year. Just say that you know it's short notice and if she says no you more than understand Then quickly ask her and maybe she will say yes.

SnowedIn · Answer

I'd be direct but not pushy. Just ask her, "Would you like to do [insert thing] with me on New Year's Eve?" Be specific so she can easily say yes or no.

Levin · Answer

Suggested greeting: Eh up duck. How do. Suggested 'going in for the kill': Care to hang out sometime? That'll be 200 of your dollars please.

Lynnfriend · Answer

Talk to her about what you are planning to do on new years and see if she has any plans if she doesn't have plans invite her to join you

Ninania · Answer

I don't know any girls who'd spend a holiday or big event with a stranger, unless you're inviting to something big and memorable (and not at all about you, but her experience).

Untrаnnify · Answer

Just see the horror of what happens if you pussy out. Swear to yourself that you won't fail like that.

jasco · Answer

i just bring up the question after talking to her for a while and like hey u wanna go to beach or to the movies for new years and i give her that look and them eye brows shoot up and i look her up and down and it be like u ready haha

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably just ask what they are doing NYE and if they actually don’t have plans which I doubt being this close to it then you could ask them if they would like to do something tonight with you

Texasgal95 · Answer

Be yourself and I’ll just ask her if she has any plans if not, you’d like to hang out with her

Purpul · Answer

[Don’t, she’s apparently far from being your girlfriend yet. Those types of events are for serious relationships only.]

elizamichale1 · Answer

Just be ur natural self, express yourself decently, admire her n ask if she is interested to go out with u

kespethdude · Answer

Two factors: What do you look like and how much money do you have?

_food_lover234 · Answer

just be like "hey, new year, new me, wanna go out?"

razzamatazzp01 · Answer

Be like what are you doing tonight. Let's hang out for New year's.

hismave · Answer

Well if you have known her take her out for the count down and after all the excitement in her eyes cool down that is like 5 to 10 mins after the count down ask her out. It would be cute trust me

melisaaa · Answer

Would you like to spent sometime with me? It is really simple but that doesn't change it is enough lol. Have luck

grierwrange · Answer

Don’t. No one’s going to go out with you on New Year’s Eve because we all know that you want us to kiss you by the end of the night

BJP21 · Answer

Ask where she would want to spend NYE and go from there. If she wants to do a club thats your opportunity to ask.

Kezzz · Answer

Why don't you just go to her and say... "It's new year's eve.. the beginning of a new year... would you walk into 2020 with me?"

John_Doesnt · Answer

Tell her the world is gonna end and you don't want to die a virgin.

annabananna · Answer

Hey I am go to (said event) and I would love it if you can come with me!

poneglyphs · Answer

Nope, don't even talk girl's on new years 😕😕😕

Heolurt · Answer

You just ask, it's that simple. Unless you're ugly like me, your chances of getting a date should be pretty decent.

OddBeMe · Answer

You can ask a girl out to anything. Family reunion, Christmas, New year. Really just matters when you ask. First never ask if she’s working.

msc545 · Answer

I think you say something like would you like to do something on New Year's Eve I have a few ideas for some fun plans and hope she says yes

red324 · Answer

You don't. She probably has plans with her friends.

revanthp915 · Answer

Well I was searching like u thanks for the question

JustinX9 · Answer

tell her "do you want me to explode something inside of you during new years eve"?

Anonymous · Answer

Go back in time to 1985 when it was still legal to talk to women.

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t bother asking questions like this on GAG. Men and guys are perceived as creeps or weirdos for asking out a female.

TheFirstMan · Answer

If u meet her on public... Just ask her and u get the answer...

Cassie2002 · Answer

Ask her if she go dinner for NYE just the two of you.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to her See if there are things in mutual  Build tension Break touch barrier  Kiss her like you miss her

krin_m · Answer

Ask her without any pretenses or come-on lines.

curiouscatlady · Answer

I would say are you doing anything for nye. And go from there.

JP_Man · Answer

The plate theory my friend, the plate theory. Apply it and learn to love it.

dustybiker · Answer

Wow. This question is old and pointed.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Give me her number and I'll find out for you. 😉

Games_ · Answer

Set up some situation where itll be comfortable

Mangospacho · Answer

Very soon. You only got a couple hours.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Good luck popping the question

T-roy2020 · Answer

Hand her champagne ask her on a date

JimboGB · Answer

Hopefully fast as you are running out of time.

ZenJen444 · Answer

Are u sure you won't be crushed of she says no

How can I ask a girl out for New Year's Eve?