Best way to go about it is to start off talking about something unrelated to begin with. Don't spring it on them or make them feel uncomfortable. If you find that you're both getting along well, just be open and honest, by telling them that you really enjoy every moment you spend with them. From there, ask if they have any plans for the next week or so and make it clear that you'd like to spend more time with them. Personally, I tend to give a few options here: asking them if they'd prefer to do X or Y for a date, to take the pressure of choosing off of them.
Good luck, buddy! It's not easy making the first move, but often the best girls are the ones you have to prove you're willing to take a risk for. I hope it all goes well for you.
Source: Been dating for 10-years.
u You don't wait until the morning of New Year's Eve to ask a girl for a date that night!
Asking her for a date is just like asking for any other date, with one exception. There is a tradition of kissing the person who you are with at midnight on New Year's Eve. If this is a first date, she may not feel comfortable kissing you, depending on how reserved she is. Some girls might have sex on a first date; others won't even give a good night kiss.
Say if she's doing anything this weekend, if not u wanna invite her out for dinner.
"Would you like to go out with me on New Year's Eve?"
Hmmm well she may already have plans?
Why New Year's Eve in particular? It would be easier to get her to say yes if it's on another day.
1) have something fun in mind
2) describe the fun idea
3) tell her she’d love it
4) invite her to this fun thing with you.
ITS EASY IF THERE MUTUA ATTRACTION GO FOR IT EVERY GIRL WANTS THT NYE KISS
Just say, 'do you wanna go out for NYE?'; be straight with her.
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It really isn't any different than any other holiday. She may already have plans, but if not, she may think, "Sure, why not?". You never know until you try.
Since this question is a year old tell us what happened? LOL LOL LOL
Well. You need to just approach and say whats on your mind. It could be awkward but it’s alright
Chat her up a little bit and ask her out like a guy with intention and a plan...
at 35 you don't know? time to watch some videos... study up on building your confidence and self esteem, make some fun changes in anyway you can
I'd suggest going out to places and strikng up conversations and having good positive discussions... with anyone. Spread joy, be a shining light to others, be witty, be positive, encouraging... everywhere you go. Then, go someplace that is very uncomfortable, and learn to be comfortable with it and try to do the same. Repeat.
Somewhere during that process, when you feel good and free, ask a girl out. If you get no, ask someone else.
There is no downside to any of this...
It will start an amazing process of discover, improvement, challenges, suffering, and growth. Good luck!
Along a girl out for new years eve is easy. Ask her to go watching the fireworks with you. You can even plan it together. Every girl knows what happens at mid night. If she says yes, she already knows the is a potential for both of you to kiss. So she has already accepted you. If she says no, take it on the chin like a man. She just rejected you.
New years eve is the best time to ask a girl out. If she likes you, she will definitely say yes. Because she knows the rule. At mid night you have yo kiss.
At the end of your current date out with her, just ask: "Where would you like me to take you to celebrate New Year's Eve? "
Personally, I've never been all that interested in going on a bender and fighting the drunk crowds. We will usually go to an early supper- or late lunch, depending on how you look at it- maybe see a movie ( rent a movie, lately), spend a Christmas Gift Certificate for something - whatever. Then just get in the house before things get to messy out there and spend some quiet, quality time at home. Watch a ball drop on TV, then drop my own, er, body, in bed for some sleep. :- )
Make up a New Year’s Eve pick up line and if her reaction drifts south, tell her you know it’s cheesy but that was kind of all you had at the moment.
Follow it with “let me make it up to you.”
or
“I want you to tell me how I can make it up to you.”
Then make it up to her within reasonable and safety measures.
Best to you!
Happy 2023!
earlier the better. Testosterone that hormone that makes us attack what everyone else is scared of, all in the name of survival. Hey I just read Jack-K's response. It sounds more informative than mine. Best of Luck.
Say "Wtf girl... why are your pants so fucking shiny for?" She'll say.."Shiny what they'll are you talking about." Then drop the bomb..."Because, I can see myself in them!". She'll be yours forever. Try it one time... yes it's corny but it's so corny she can't help but to laugh. That's when you strike. Ask her out and if she says no I'll delete my gag account.
Just keep it some, tell her face to face that you'd want her to be a date for the new year and if things go the right way, may be even for a Valentine's in the future !! 😉
Compliment her when you find her attractive. It's very simple to keep a woman happy. Just love her, care for her and be there for her when she needs you !!
Try texting her and see how she responds. If she responds something like: 'Hi' or 'What do you want?' then there's not much hope, but if she says 'hey' or something friendlier approach her as a friend then try to take the next step.
I would ask what she is up to, If she has no plans I would suggest you ask her if she would be interested in spending it with you, Just go all out and ask.
You don't ask you don't get.
Good luck 🙂
Ask her what restaurants she likes. Then say well... I would like to order something there, see if the food is good. Would u like to come and eat with me?
Sounds corny but its a start.
The big thing is come up with a plan before you ask her out, but if you’re taking her for food, give her a couple options to pick from. When you ask her, do it in person or on the phone. DO NOT TEXT! If she agrees and you finalize plans, prepare for the date by looking like you put effort into your appearance, show up a few minutes early, and show her a good time and make her feel comfortable with you. Also, don’t use the words “hanging out”. Be direct about this being a date.
Personally I think most people may have NYE plans by now but definitely ask the question about meeting up at some point through the night, rather than for the whole evening……you may get that special kiss on the ding dong then! Also won’t make her feel bad if she already has plans?
I hope you are talking about New Years Eve 2024 because you are kind of late for this year. Just say that you know it's short notice and if she says no you more than understand Then quickly ask her and maybe she will say yes.
I'd be direct but not pushy. Just ask her, "Would you like to do [insert thing] with me on New Year's Eve?" Be specific so she can easily say yes or no.
Suggested greeting: Eh up duck. How do.
Suggested 'going in for the kill': Care to hang out sometime?
That'll be 200 of your dollars please.
Talk to her about what you are planning to do on new years and see if she has any plans if she doesn't have plans invite her to join you
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