Honestly: I guarantee she knew long before this that he would be there and it is likely one of the reasons she wants to go... she waited until last minute to tell you so she could manipulate you if you had problems with it. This will not end well. But if you spoke your mind and told her it made you uncomfortable, she would make you the bad guy for it.
If the tables were turned, she would be completely within acceptable bullshit to tell you that she was uncomfortable, but as a male you are pretty much a dick "if you don't trust her" and when it turns out badly... you will be the sucker.
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You should be fine. She might be trying to show you off to her ex.
Be honest with her. Even though you said you were okay with it at ht ebeginning, it's not wrong to tell her you're not okay with it anymore. But I think you should still let her go to that party and why not go with her. Or trust her. Because if everything is going fine beween you two I don't see a problem in seeying your ex at a party. It might be awkward but if she just says hi that's completemy fine. Unless their past is complicated and maybe you should talk about it with her :/
Well it's not like she can't go anywhere he is. Just because he's there doesn't mean anything will happen. She'd have to never go out because he probably would go to the same places as her.
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Ehh only a couple of weeks.. I wouldn't sweat it. I know you really like her but why? Let her do her thing and give her the freedom that's rightfully hers. If you don't feel comfortable with it speak your mind and let her decide from there. If you really don't like the idea then break up with her. There are plenty out there
Go with her mate. You can say that you're a little uncomfortable with the situation. Perhaps you should trust her in any case because there is little point getting involved in her past life that really does not concern you.
Man, she's gonna try and use you to make him jealous, that's the reason for all this.
you should just go with her.
If he's her ex, there's a reason for it.
as long as he isn't why she's going.
Dude, you're getting played. Break up with her.
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