So this girl I'm seeing asked me a couple weeks ago to go to her friends bday party at her friends house. I said yes at the time and with the party now 3 days away she tells me that her ex will be there and asked if I was ok with it. I asked how recent this ex was and she said November they broke up. She asked if I was ok with it and unfortunately I said yes. The more I think about this I'm pissed that she would want to go to a party her ex is going to be at and I really want to tell her I'm not ok with it. When I asked if she'd talk to him she said she might just say Hi. We've only been dating for a couple weeks and I do really like her. Do I just let this be and go with her or call her out on it and say go without me. Really at a loss here. Help.
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Honestly: I guarantee she knew long before this that he would be there and it is likely one of the reasons she wants to go... she waited until last minute to tell you so she could manipulate you if you had problems with it. This will not end well. But if you spoke your mind and told her it made you uncomfortable, she would make you the bad guy for it.
If the tables were turned, she would be completely within acceptable bullshit to tell you that she was uncomfortable, but as a male you are pretty much a dick "if you don't trust her" and when it turns out badly... you will be the sucker.2