Girls would you be willing to share a hot guy?

[Anonymous]

Obviously there are a lot more girls that want hot guys than there are hot guys, so girls would you be willing to share a hot guy rather than be alone/single?

This take gave me the idea: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/a9480-not-dating-unattractive-men-to-me-it-s-called-being-realistic

If only hot guys are adequate for you to consider a sexual relationship with them, the only realisitic option is for girls to share or go without. So which would you choose?

I'll share

I'll go without

I'm a guy/lesbian/asexual/other non-heterosexual woman

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Just wanted to say that I'm not the one down voting you all, it's probably some self-identified "alpha".

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Anyone willing to share?

[Mustachekitteh]

Nope not sharing my hot guy at all. I'm a selfish person and don't like to share things. :D

Also that take was more talking about how if you won't go on a date. With someone who isn't that physically attractive people will say your shallow. Which is fucken stupid for people to shame others for a reason like that. Each person has their own idea of a level of physical attractiveness for who they want to end up with. Plus you need like 3 things for most people to want to date another person. They have to meet what they think is physically attractive, their personality, and how comparable they are. Sadly with things like that most of the time you just know if you should give that person a try. I know there isn't anything logical about that choice but it's the truth.

Again saying someone who is physically attractive is tricky. I'll give an example of these male models I think they aren't that hot really. I know they are male models just I don't know to me something just seems off about them. For me nobody looks hotter than how my bf looks. Which is weird since i've never had that happened before. Just to me my bf is physically perfect looking. Yet he doesn't look like those guys.

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[Asker]

Those guys aren't hot enough...

Or are the guys you find attractive less stereotypically attractive?

[Mustachekitteh]

It's not that they aren't hot enough. It's like they are physically hot. Just I could never see myself being in a relationship with a guy who looked like that.

[Asker]

Regardless of personality? Just because he looks like that? Why not, it they're attractive?

[Mustachekitteh]

This is very hard to explain. Though maybe manlier faces just look off to me? Not sure how much sense that makes. Though I do like guys with cute faces. My bf has a cute face. I'll show examples of guys I think look cute.
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[Asker]

Oh okay, hopefully you're not alone in that - I've had girls tell me I'm cute, but I've assumed it's not really a good thing, as being cute's not exactly manly.

[Mustachekitteh]

Oh no saying someone is cute is a huge complement. Being manly is more of how the body looks and personality wise. So not including the face. lol I know it's weird

[spuitkaas]

Maybe for a quick bootycall if I wanted that, but I'm not. looking for that so it's a no for me. I think you misunderstood the take. Girls can be attracted to average guys. Beauty and appearance are different things. Beauty deoends on the symmetry in the face, if he has beautiful hair or eyes etc. Appearance is something subjective and can be interpreted differently by people. You can be a handsome man, but not attractive, because your appearance is bad (he looks insecure, grumpy, cocky or not like a nice person) and you can be attractive but not handsome (so looking confident, looking happy and stable and looking like a kind person). The fact is, you can change a lot about your appearance and so can a below average guy look very attractive to a girl.

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure she's talking about being physically attractive, and that most guys aren't up to par, or even hot enough to contemplate sex with them. So for girls like her I think sharing hot guys is an option.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Hell no its your mine ore you don't get me I don't share

[Asker]

Okay, fair enough.

[AleDeEurope]

Well, everyone wants a hot partner, while not everyone is hot, so should men also share the same hot woman?

I know I wouldn't, and most girls wouldn't either.

[Asker]

Have a look at the take in the link. The take owner and a lot of female commenters seem to suggesting that they can't enjoy sex with any guy except the hot guys. Whereas while men would prefer a hot girl, an average girl is still fun to be with. I'd rather settle for someone who's not hot than be single.

[AleDeEurope]

When they say hot they don't mean a 10, but someone they find attractive. I'm not gonna fuck a girl that I don't feel attracted to. I may make an exception for an average girl, but it'll depend on her personality.

[Asker]

Sure, but there not attracted to most guys, just a small fraction. Whereas guys are attracted to most young women. It makes evolutionary sense, men want to spread their genes as widely as possible, whereas women want the genes of only the best man. If they share they can all have the best genes.

[AleDeEurope]

But we're not animals, we're not just looking to spread our genes, we also want love, intimacy, and sharing a man will most likely result in a lack of these things.

[Asker]

We are animals, but I agree that we are looking for more than just a way to reproduce. I was simply pointing out an explanation for why girl's are pickier than guys.

[performerwannabe]

Joey doesn't share food and I don't share guys! That's all I know. (I don't share food either but that's another issue).

[Asker]

Joey?

[performerwannabe]

You've never watched FRIENDS or what? xD

[Asker]

Oh right. Maybe once I think, I think I might have heard the name mentioned in that context before.

[performerwannabe]

It's okay. Your loss.:)

[snuggle_bunny88]

Fuck no.
I've got a hottie and not sharing him with anyone.

[Asker]

What about other girls that want to be with a hot guy too? There aren't enough hot guys to go around, isn't it only fair to share?

[snuggle_bunny88]

They can go fuck themselves or lower their standards.

[Asker]

Have you read the take I linked? The writer and some of the female commenters seem to suggest that a relationship with a guy that's not hot to them won't work.

[snuggle_bunny88]

And that's my problem how?

[Asker]

Well it's not, I'm just saying that there aren't enough hot guys to go around, but that if girls were willing share there would be.

[snuggle_bunny88]

I get what you're saying. Good luck with that.

[Asker]

Don't wish me luck with that... I'd rather they lower standards instead, I'm not one of the hot guys that would benefit from this.

[snuggle_bunny88]

Sarcasm. That last part was sarcasm lol.

[Asker]

I know, I just felt like clarifying that I wouldn't benefit from such an arrangement.

[snuggle_bunny88]

If it was the other way around, I wouldn't benefit from it either.

[Asker]

You're don't consider yourself hot?

[snuggle_bunny88]

Lol no.

[DesiDoo]

I'll go without. I ain't got time to share what I consider mines lol

[Asker]

Would you consider dating a guy that's not hot?

[DesiDoo]

I'll take average if it means I can have him myself. I actually like when a guy is hot to me, but not anyone else. Less sharing lol

[Asker]

"I actually like when a guy is hot to me, but not anyone else."

I would like that to, with a girl instead though. I thought with girls though getting a hot guy was a social standing thing?

[DesiDoo]

No I just would to be with the guy I like before some hoe comes along and swoops him up

[Asker]

They are notorious for that aren't they...

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[Asker]

Anyway thanks for answering.

[Anonymous]

Of course not. Go without. Are we dividing men in to shares now?

[Asker]

Well if we did that all women could have a hot guy. It's not like girls want as much sex as guys anyway, it's not like the hot guy would be unable to meet the requirements of a few girls.

[Asker]

Would you settle for a less than hot guy rather than be alone?

[Opinion Owner]

I feel like you are viewing attraction in a one dimensional way. Attraction is more than just appearance. A guy can be hot af, and be unattractive if he's a complete dick. In short, I would much rather compromise on appearance if someone's personality was extremely attractive. For example, if someone is funny and intelligent they are already like a 7/10. Looks fade anyway.

[Asker]

But would you enjoy/want sex with a guy like that? (Have you read the take a linked?)

[Opinion Owner]

When I say compromise, I don't mean date someone I don't find attractive. Of course I will have to find them attractive. i'm just saying an extremely attractive personality can compensate for what he lacks in looks. There does need to be a certain amount of physical attraction for the sex to be good, but i'm not looking for a 10/10 if you understand what I'm saying?

[Asker]

I think I do. How attractive would be adequate? Top 10% your age? (www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1457228-what-proportion-of-young-people-of-the-opposite-sex-do-you-find)

[Opinion Owner]

For that question, I'd probably vote 30-40%.

[Asker]

Oh okay.

[Asker]

Anyway, thanks for answering.

[arianna15]

no way would I share!!!

[Asker]

You'd rather be single?

[arianna15]

there's more to someone than just looks, I would compromise, if he was perfect in everyway apart from looks (still good looking but not mega hot) I would still go out with him.

[Asker]

How good looking is that? Top 10% for your age? (More or less?)

Have you read the take I linked?