I think it depends on the guy. I've done this a couple times before, just because I wanted a hook up, and nothing serious, and pretty much every time the guy came back (well, of course for more sex) but then strangely enough they wanted to make MORE out of our friends with benefits situation and actually pushed ME to be in a relationship with them. No joke, this happened four or five times. I ended up having to end things with each one because they became so damn clingy. So I guess it depends how good in bed you are and if you're the complete package. If you're pretty, not overweight, smart, and funny, my experience has shown that guys MIGHT overlook that you slept with them on a first date. You'll have to prove to him through how you carry yourself from here on out that you're not a skank, in other words, don't talk about all the guys you've slept with, and show that you have respect for yourself and don't sleep around with guys on the first date because of low self esteem. :) good luck!
I beileve it is possible to recover, ONLY based on how much the guy likes you. The only problem with sleeping on the first date is that the guy may think the girl is "easy". When in reality that is not always true. Have you talked about it him yet? If I were you I woud have one of those "about the other night" talks, and just tell him your not that kind of girl etc. See what he does after that. You will EASILY be able to tell his motives.
You can't. But that doesn't mean it's a bad impression. Guys want sex as much as you do. If you like him and he likes you he'll be back for more - this time don't sleep with him unless you want this relationship to be one that's purely sexual.
Recover? What the hell is it you think you need to recover from? What decade did I fall into? Look, him liking you or not liking you has nothing to do with the sex. Well I guess if the sex was really really good or really really bad it could tip the scales. But it's the prologue that will have him calling you back. I only know one guy who would not call a girl after a date because she had sex with him and he's a brainless troglodyte.
Just forget the idea that it was a mistake and carry on as you would if you hadn't had sex. It's really not that big a deal anymore.
You can't.
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Recover from what? I'm unsure what's "gone wrong" ? To me that sounds like the most awesome first date!
If, instead, you suddenly get all weird and desperate, then you're screwed.
If, like me, you don't act differently, then things will go fine. I've had plenty of first date hookups that worked out just fine.
Don't be weird and he won't either.
~ Robby
you clearly are that kind of girl since you did it
GOOD LUCK
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