I went on vacation a couple weeks ago and my best friend introduced me to her friend after I came home we were talking and he asked me out when I go back in 3 weeks, but I didn't realize he was asking me on a date I thought he meant all our friend would be going too. He's not that type of person that I would want to hangout with one on one even just as friends so now I don't know what to do. He has a really hard time with girls and I don't want to hurt his feelings because I was excited about it when we were making plans (when I thought all our friends would be going) so how do I get out of going out with him? Guys how would you want a girl to handle this if it were you?
Most Helpful Guy
The guy is going to get hurt no matter what in this situation, the best thing you could is just be honest with him and say you misunderstood. Way better than you lying about it, because I guarantee he will talk about it with the friend that introduced you to him.
" He's not that type of person that I would want to hangout with one on one even just as friends so now I don't know what to do."
I would definitely not tell him that part, that will utterly crush him. I feel sorry for the guy just reading you say that.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell him the truth that you misunderstood him or tell him your busy and can not go and sorry after that.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE