Kissing isn't a science, it's more of an art form in that everyone has a different style and preference. What might be good to one person will be terrible to someone else. But there usually is a general accepted idea when it comes to kissing: It doesn't matter how the kiss was if it was with the person you really like. You like this guy and he clearly likes you, so focusing on kissing him as a victory, don't muddle the lines of good and great. Everyone's first kiss is a little strange. I remember mine, I was 17 and the reason I waited so long is I had braces on since I was 15. I didn't want my first kiss to be in braces. I actually met a really pretty girl at a dance when I was visiting family across the country. I asked her if we could kiss and she agreed so we did. I still remember how it was and I honestly can tell you I've come a long way. Kissing is merely another way to express your affection for someone and a great way to connect to people. Not all kisses have to be meant for that super passion. My grandmother is Russian and always kissed us on the mouth. While all my cousins and Aunts kissed me on my cheeks. Kissing is connecting and when it comes to people you love, it's not how you kiss, it's the fact that you did and you know they care about you. The same is true with this guy and don't worry, you've got a long way to improve, because kissing, like all skills, are not meant to be mastered on the first try or it would be very boring indeed. I'm 29 now and I still feel that strange sensation when kissing a girl, because between me and her, it is Our first time. As for what you need to do, just act normal. If the opportunity comes again, you guys should kiss again and if he asks, tell him the truth, that you liked kissing him.
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My first kiss was just absolutely awful (I kind missed her lips... Yeah it was that bad) but then we tried again and it was better. By the 4th kiss I wasn't that bad. After me and that girl broke up and I got another girlfriend our first kiss wasn't bad at all but it could've been better and we kissed again literally seconds after the first kiss and it was better. Those are the only two girls that I've kissed so I remember very vividly what its like to not have had my first kiss yet. It gets better exponentially. Ideally kiss a lot on one occasion so you can learn faster. And definitely tell him that it was your first kiss.
First kisses are usually bad.
Even just a first with someone new. You aren't going to be in sync right away usually.
Plus, I think everyone builds it up way too high in their heads before hand.
Its just a kiss.
The more practice and passion, the better itll get:)
Aw! I'm so sorry you feel your first kiss was horrible. If he knows you're inexperienced, he'd understand and would be willing to 'train' you. And honestly, you'll get the hang of it the more you kiss. Kinda like math.
Just relax, it probably wasn't as big a deal to him as it was to you. You can jokingly say that you're sorry that sucked, that's fine. And trust me, it won't take tons of kisses for you to get the hang of it xD
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The trouble is you romanticise these things. It's a FIRST kiss. The first of anything is rarely amazing and let alone the best. You shouldn't over-romanticise your first kiss or first time having sex, instead focus on working toward your best kiss or best times having sex. There's no reason why these first times would be any different from every other firsts ever, like riding a bike; you're shit at first but you get better. The better you get, the better the ride becomes.
Just have another one later without the Chinese food and you'll be all fine and dandy.
You're thinking about this way too much. It's just a kiss. Do whatever you feel like doing.
Focus on your breathing. This should calm you down, leaving you free to actually ENJOY the experience, rather than worrying about technique. And the key is in the enjoyment.
A first kiss is most likely going to be bad... you guys are not used to kissing and well it's your first so it's all new to you.. don't let it stop you from dating him
trust me, first kisses are always bad, at least compared to later on. hopefully he'll understand!
If he sincerely likes you then it won't bother him much. First kisses are always awkward, but if it really bothers you then you could either ask him for tips/pointers or try online? You're not the only to have gone through that. Haha, good luck and relax a bit!
Practice makes perfect. You will get better at it
So girls lie about perfect kisses? And in fact will break up with men if there first kiss is terrible?
Nothing much you can do it happens to all of us
Your first kiss is never perfect.
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