Last Week I was in a car accident, and suffered two fractured in my back. My girlfriend picked me up from the hospital and took me home. She didn't come and visit me not 1 time until today. She came with 2 huge teddy bears and told me that she didn't come and see me because she hates to see me in pain. But i feel like she's lying and just didn't want to make the effort to see me.. Am I overreacting?
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Well, to be honest, hospitals do suck for both patients and visitors. Some people are very scared to go to hospitals because of all the sick people there, can be a phobia for some, so I can understand that as a reason. Also, I can also understand how about she didn't want to see you all laid up in bed. That can be very traumatic to see for a loved one and not everyone wants those images burnt into their brains. She may be having a trouble dealing with the feelings that she could have lost you and it may be hard for her to face those feelings. Seeing you at the hospital may be just too much for her to take. Personally, I don't want people seeing me all smashed up and laid up in a hospital, but still, I would like and need my SO to see me. I would let this go for now, but keep an eye out and watch her behaviour.