Girls, Boyfriend didn't visit me in the hospital, ladies would you be upset?

Anonymous
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years.

Yesterday I had excruciating pain and was advised to go to the ER. I have always been terrified of hospitals and have never been admitted one prior to this incident. At around 8:30 pm I told my boyfriend I was heading the ER due to my pain. He told me that he felt really sorry for me and that he loved me. I replied and told him I loved him too and was checking in at that moment. I didn't check my phone again after that. My pains turned out to be nothing too serious. I got a few shots of medicine and was sent back home shortly after. In total, I was probably at the hospital for about 4 hours before being discharged. When I got back home and was feeling better, I checked my phone and there was no further text or call from him. I didn't receive another text from until about 9:30 the next morning saying "sorry, I fell asleep. I was just so tired. I'm glad you're okay."

A part of me feels hurt that he didn't at least offer to visit me at the hospital. It is only a 15 minute drive from his house, and when I was there, I was not only in extreme pain but I was terrified. He works in the medical field so I know that it wouldn't have anything to do with him being afraid.

On the other hand I feel like maybe I'm being too sensitive since it ended up being a short visit with nothing serious.

Ladies how would you feel?
Girls, Boyfriend didn't visit me in the hospital, ladies would you be upset?
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