I will start by saying that this isn't a very good indication to future instances where you might need him for bigger more life events..
However, you should do a couple of things before deciding how to proceed. First I would think about this question "is this thing out of character for him to do, or does this keep happening in similar other things" this will help you by knowing whether this was a one time thing, or is it just his personality, if it was a one time thing, then you should sit him down and hear his side after telling him how it made you feel by him not being there for you, if it was something important and he has a good reason (not a lame excuse) for not Being there then you should ask him to let you know in the future and to try to be there for you even if he thinks it's a minor issue. If however this is something that happens a lot with him, then you have a choice, try talking to him explaining. That you need him to be there for you even if it seems silly to him, if he says he'll work on it, perfect.. If he still doesn't understand why this upset you and isn't willing to change his ways, you should think about how much you will be able to tolerate this quality in him on the future without it bothering you. Or you could leave him.. Its all a matter of communication and choices girl..
Good luck
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I don't blame you for being upset. I would certainly want mine with me, whether it's minor or major. I would allow for a very very compelling reason, but I can't envision what exactly that might be.
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Did he have plans beforehand and did u ask him from beforehand to look after u?
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I would be upset too if was you, kind of shows you how he would really be if it was worse , I know I would have stayed
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