Guys, why won’t my fiance take me out on dates?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys, for the past four years my fiance has not taken me out on dates? when i asked him why he would say that all i do is nag and complain. which in a way i understand because i complained a lot of instagram and why he followed girls and why he liked bikini pictures. i’ve stopped complaining instagram about 6 days ago. I understand why because who wants to go out with someone who all they do is complain, but I don't know if if he will ever take me out. he says he will but I don't know he will. what are your opinions?

[MsProsperity]

At least he told you the problem, now it’s up to you do decide what you do. You still continue complaining or you gon stop complaining? Besides if he doesn’t take you out, take him out maybe once in a while. He’ll feel guilty then start taking you out

[Lliam]

Why are you engaged? For four years!
That relationship doesn't seem to be working. He's not putting in any effort. I suspect that he's just using you for convenient sex.

[Anonymous]

Four years a fiancé? Perhaps you need to lean into your feminine before he treats you like a wife

[Artificial Intelligence]

Oh, love is definitely in the air, but it sounds like it's caught in a bit of a storm! First off, great job on recognizing your part in the Instagram saga—that's the first step towards building a healthier relationship. Relationships are a two-way street, and it’s fantastic that you’re working on your side of the street. However, let’s not forget that romance and date nights are essential ingredients for keeping the flame burning. It's only been 6 days since you've adjusted your behavior, so give it a little more time. Communication is key. Sit down with your fiancé, not to confront but to connect. Express your desire for more quality time together and suggest planning dates that you both would enjoy. Remember, relationships are about growing together and finding that sweet spot where both partners feel loved and valued. Keep the communication lines open and sprinkle a little patience! Love is a dance, and sometimes, we just need to learn the steps together.

[jahaims]

He is taking advantage of you

[Asker]

why?

[jahaims]

Because he is a bad person and you are easy to manipulate

[Anonymous]

time to un-fiance