I used to perceive it as hard to maintain any effective communication via texts. didn't mean I dont like the girl or that I dont think about her often. It meant texting itself felt as a chore and all I wanted were personal conversations.
Only recently did I start to value regular contact no matter what or how is discussed. I dont consider a sickness as something too serious usually, so in the past, I would barely consider that worth discussing. Now I would definitely be able to react more appropriately. So I'd say he could have handled that better, no doubt about that, but I am not sure I would try to draw too many conclusions from that alone.
Maybe he doesn't want to overwhelm you?
All I know is that I'd be overwhelmingly helpful and caring to the point, it'd get annoying. Maybe he didn't want to be that? It can be annoying to some girls if they're obsessed over, and I'm just lucky I have someone who likes being cared about.
That is not idea and yes a bit inconsiderate but he did text the next day so he isn't entirely a lost cause. I don't believe this is worthy of any kind of intense reaction.
No compassion = it's a no from me. No compassion or care? That's quite inconsiderate.
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Disappointing but how far he lives from you? Do you know what's his daily routine and how often you check upon him? If he is sick or depressed about anything? Maybe he is busy but look due to this Covid thing mostly people avoid checking on people!
So it's might be upsetting fact
Well don't know what's going on with him, but that is really inconsiderate of him. I certainly would have checked, and would have seen if there would have been anything I could have done.
You're sick so he doesn't want to bother you. Maybe he wants to talk, but also wants to wait until you're better so. it isn't as tiring
Yeah, that's pretty lame. Maybe he's super busy. But he could at least reach out to you again.
He probably didn't know what to do.
Perhaps he figured he'd better let you rest?
Try communicating what you expect in those situations.
don't take it personally guys in general are not tuned into being considerate or nurturing. I am not excusing it but it is not exclusive to your boyfriend.
another entitled bitch who can't get enough attention drugs
He is only greedy of sex with you, he knows that you will not have sex, so he ignored you,
does he know you're sick? did you tell him? i know my s. o. is out of town and hasn't been feeling well mentally and i'm just worried about them.
That does sound unusual not to ask how you are doing.
u That’s very disappointing
Sounds like a jerk.
sorry?
Dump em
