My girlfriend dyed her hair pink out of nowhere. I don't like it. What should I do? (Page 2)

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She is a natural blonde. She said she was dying it a different shade of blonde (that's fine), but she sent me a picture last night and it's pink. I understand it's her hair and her choice. I like her for who she is, first of all. I'm not going to break up with her over it. This totally took me by surprise. I actually thought she was wearing a wig in the picture. I don't like unnatural colors in hair (she knows this form a conversation we had when we started dating), though I respect her decision. However as shallow this may be, I'm very uncomfortable about it. We haven't talked since the picture (I got it this morning and she never responded, nor to any of the three texts I've sent her). Like I said, I at first thought she was wearing a wig so my first text was "I like the wig :D". What can/should I do? A friend suggested I say something like, "the pink looks cute on you, but I think you look beautiful as a blonde", but after reading another post on this site I thought I'd ask for my specific situation. This is new to me. No girl I've ever dated dyed their hair unnatural colors, and I don't know what to do.

Anonymous · Answer

Be honest with her and tell her you don't like it. NEVER lie to your girlfriend. A lie no matter how small is still a lie.

Anonymous · Answer

The only thing you can do is tell her you don't like and beg her to go back blonde. But I think you'll probably just end up having to get over it. Its something to get used to.

Anonymous · Answer

When I read "I like the wig :D." I cringed. That girl is pissed.

AmeerX · Answer

You should talk to her. And tell her don't that again. And that it was a shocker.

Anonymous · Answer

yea dont say it looks awful, support her choice but at the same time voice your feelings as well. not that it matters though you should dye yours blue

Anonymous · Answer

Just let it be, you can't really do much. Of course you can express your opinion to her, but do it right or she might get stubborn.

blondfrog · Answer

Not much you can do its her hair.

Anonymous · Answer

it's her body let her do what she wants with it. just deal with it.

Mustachekitteh · Answer

Tell her straight up that you hate it.

allahu_snackbar · Answer

Tell her to change it back.

Anonymous · Answer

First world problems.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't worry. Hair grows

Anonymous · Answer

Just let her do what she wants with her hair.

Kelfuma · Answer

I miss your blonde hair 😢

Aeon_Flux_21 · Answer

Bwhahahahaaaa! Thank god I'm single.

Jared____ · Answer

Dye yours pink too

theCatcherintheRye · Answer

Dye yours purple.

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