- Yes, dating coaches are scam artists
- No, dating coaches are legit
- It depends on the dating coach
- Dating coaches aren't scam artists but they're useless.
- They're legit for men; not legit for women
- They're legit for women; not for men
- Other/Unsure (Explain)
Does anyone else agree dating "coaches" are scam artists?
What Girls Said 2
I pick D. Not all of them are necessarily scam artists, but the title "dating coach" is so ridiculously stupid. Is there a degree to dating? Is there a dating training to get you qualified to be a coach? *facepalm* they're just like those self-proclaimed messiahs.
What Guys Said 11
Not all of them.
Mostly just the ones who say things like "This will work on any girl," or "this will get you laid guarenteed."
Depends on the coach obviously. Frankly RSD is a fantastic source.
Honestly, social skills should be taught in school, but because that isn't the case these kinds of people are needed.
I think that the problem is this: the ability to date well, is mostly due to "emotional intelligence" or "social intelligence" or whatever you want to call it, that enables some people to read others and adjust their behavior "in real time." In other words, you me someone, decide you're interested, approach them, and then while interacting with them you quickly "get" whether they're interested, what they dislike, what interests them, and you successful "go" with that. Probably nothing can change that innate ability.
However, part of dating is EXPERIENCE. A good dating coach can help you develop whatever ability you have to read others, and help you come up with strategies to act and dress appropriately. To that extent, a dating coach can help.
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It's desperate peoples fault for allowing themselves to be strung along.
Instead of paying for the service I'll tell you what they actually do. They constantly just ask women out every day until they get a yes. They get rejected 40 times in a single day but they got like 4 yeses as well on that day.
this is supposed to be a joke but it actually is what most of those "dating coaches" advice comes down to.
i would need to see an ugly dating coach/PUA in action
yes, they are.
Yeah, it's all bullshit.
Some guys and gals need help with the basics!
maybe dating should be an Olympic game
If anyone can get the message through to someone that life is short, you get one chance so you might as well love yourself and go for it then they are a good dating coach. After all that it is dressing better and maybe gaining some manners and anyone with fashion sense and manners can pull that off.
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