Why he ignores me after I rejected him? (Page 2)
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He is not interested in you in a non romantic way. You rejected him for the romantic side of things, he's rejecting you for the non romantic side of things.
Have you ever been rejected by a guy you really like? what do you expect dude. for him to just be ok with it and shower you with attention? also he is not going to pursue someone who has no interest in him. Its a waste of time.
you rejected him so my guess is he was trying to be friends with you only in the hopes you would date him , he realised that isn't going to happen so he see's no point continuing getting to know you , this is dumb I realise but its my feel of things
Unless it interferes with your job I would not give it another thought. The reasons for anybody to do anything are as varied as the number of stars in the night sky. Life is too short to worry about what you can't control.
he's maybe embarrased? Why would you want him to keep paying you any atention?
Personally when people reject me I forget they exist and they become invisible to me
He's probably also going to the bar, drinking any memories of you away
Why wouldn’t he? You are a stranger and you chose to not get better acquainted. Get over it. He doesn’t owe you pleasantries any more than you owe him a date.
Lol. Because you rejected him?
All it takes for getting backstabbed via HR is an angry female claiming someone looking at her constitutes sexual harrasment/being predatorial.
And most females at work would do just that.
The fact that a Girl doesn't even want to hangout or go on a date with us makes them Unattractive to us no matter how much we liked her, Because it shows their Character and Personality and that she doesn't even care about our feelings even if we are just Friends.
You hurt his feelings. No one likes getting rejected.
He might also be immature and can’t accept it, and has decided to avoid you totally.
His feelings are hurt just your presence probably remind him of that.
This is a question asked by someone who has clearly never dealt with rejection.
He is attracted to you, made his move and you rejected him. He is simply choosing not to put himself in the friend zone. Smart guy.
Well I mean you did reject him even if it was a nice way there's no doubt that rejection hurts.
I know if I were to get rejected I'd probably give them the ignore treatment for a while.
Don't know, for me it was the reverse, my coworker asked me out and I rejected him after he acted like always and I ignored him cause I didn't want to give him hope and was awkward around him.
You rejected him. Him ignoring you is a perfectly natural way to act.
you seem bothered by it, why? just ask him, but most likely he is hurt.
Because he's a really nice, sweet guy and we got along well.
We didn't text a lot or had long conversations but still he is a really nice guy and every one love him at the office and sometimes i feel that i miss him.
If you miss him that is for a reason, why don't you just give him a fair chance. I think it's really shallow of you to reject someone while you actually seem to like him, because that just means you rejected him because of the way he looks. Ofcourse physical appearance is appealing but you shouldn't be bitching about him taking distance while you rejected him. I would do the same, why go through the pain of loving someone , pretending you don't care and offer your friendship when that persons starts dating others in front of your eyes. If you miss him so much, and i think you do like him, then tell him that. Go out take things slow, you didn't even give him a chance and your telling me that you miss him. im just some random dude from the internet, tell him , that you miss him, today tomorrow. go by his place, call him etc.. if you miss someone you can tell them, it cheers people up.
sorry if im straight forward but you really should talk to him, and just go out, have fun, and take things slow. At least then you can tell him, sorry this can't work out and you give him some time to develop a friendship with you if dating isn't going to workout for u 2.
Honestly she likes him, or else she wouldn't ask this question. She describes him as being sweet, nice and well respected at work. Sweet and good natured men, well respected at work and in this age range are typically NOT single.
I believe there is more to her story than what initially appears.
Why should he bother with you?
Do you think you deserve his attention when you express that he was not good enough for you?
What did you expect him to do after you rejected him?