Why do girls behave bitchy/obnoxious/mean in bars and nightclubs? (Page 2)
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don't worry. they don't act so tough on their way back to their car. teehee
lmao
They are their to sniff coke, suck dick and get guys to buy them drinks that is all
sounds decent in Canada i see
Because you can't be like that in the office 5 days a week.
Most of the time, girls go out, not to be hit on, but to have fun with their girl friends. So, if they get approached by men, they'll be standoffish
That's a lie cause they will be out to just have fun with their girlfriends unless a good looking guy hits on them right?
nope, even good looking guys
If only i was rich
right?
Id be slaying pussy everyday like dan bilzerian
Well sometimes they just want to have fun in their company and not deal with guys or get picked up
Unless it is a good looking guy right?
@steven7890789 even he could get refused if they all have boyfriends already and it's a girls night out
yeah but model look guys are in for a bigger chance while us average chumps have got to go through rejection on auto-pilot. How much rejection can a man take to the point of having no soul left
Yeah I hear ya, I guess you just get numb after awhile from trying so many times, it's more of a numbers game I think
What do you do to ease the pain?
Masturbate a lot is what I do, lol
I suppose thats a good enough exit for a quick release. Have you ever tried whores before?
Only on Craigslist for just a Bj
Well can't you get a high end whore and pay some money for it?
Yeah but I don't have the money to spend like that and don't want to have to sex with them, I'd rather just find a girlfriend for that eventually
Well you did say your immune to rejection so I dont see why not you can't head to a few bars to find a girlfriend i suppose.
I never felt bars were a good place to meet women, I don't really drink and don't smoke and most women there just want to have a good time with their friends, you would have to separate one of them to be able to talk to her but they have a boyfriend a lot of times so most I've my success was on the Internet , I met my wife on a chat room back in 1997 but now I'm recently divorced and just trying apps with dating sites but haven't met many but I still get some once in awhile
what actually online works? I never get a response from any of them and either does most of my friends so I just go out hoping to meet women but where do you go when women in bars are not up for it?
Well you need to make your profile interesting and put your best picture in and then it just becomes a numbers game where you just keep sending messages and likes to as many as possible. If your trying meet while out and you're a little bold , the supermarket is good or while at work in certain jobs, even on lunch breaks since they have to eat too , I see them everywhere , or activities you like that is also something they like , as in volleyball , softball, tennis and even archery
I mean if they are single man, that if they are to only spend time with friends unless it is a good looking guy right?
@steven7890789 it will still be tuff for him even when they are in their group , they are out to have a good time and not interested in getting picked at that place, they may not be as bitchy to him but they will let him know they are not interested. It's very to separate one from the group even when it's girls not out and they will give you a bitchy attitude to keep you from trying again since some guys don't get the hint
That is messed up, so they would be less bitchy to a guy at the bar or club when rejecting him if he is good looking? That is so dumb, messed up, and doesn't make sense. All the rejections towards guys at the bars and clubs should be done in a nice way, regardless how they guys look like. It is stupid to decide to reject the non good looking guy in a bad way just because he is average or ugly.
@steven7890789 that's just the way it is with any situation , attractive people get treated better while average and ugly people get treated badly
That is sad man.
Do you agree that people should be equally nice to average and ugly people?
@steven7890789 Well yeah they should Steven it would make the bars and clubs a better atmosphere to spend time in without all the hostility but you can't change nothing unless we begin reprogramming society again to alter human behavior. They have the right to say fuck off and shout abuse whether we like it or not and they no law against that.
That sucks man. Do you agree that it sucks?
@steven7890789 Yeah it does suck... it sucks like hell but some guys have ways of dealing with bullshit like that which is to go MGTOW.
What is MGTOW?
@steven7890789 Men Going Their Own Way, basically not dealing with women anymore and enjoying single life
Oh I see.
Because if you go to that kind of place you will find that kind of person. Try a park or library or the streets
It's because they probably aren't there to hook up with a guy, they are there with their friends and if that's not the case, maybe you're just creepy.
Unless the guy that approaches them is good looking right, then they would be ok with him talking to them? And regardless if they aren't there to look for a guy, if a guy is respectful towards them when approaching it is messed up to be bitchy towards them when they are nice. There is no excuse when the guy is nice. They don't have to talk to him but no excuse to reject the nice guy in a bitchy way. You seem to be ok with a woman being bitch towards guys that talk to them in bars even though they are nice.
@steven7890789 There's always a risk for women that you're a rapist. You wouldn't understand because you weren't raised being told every day how you're supposed to prevent it happening: don't walk certain places alone, don't talk to strangers online, be rude to guys so they stop bothering you.
Once again I am not saying if a guy is a jerk, I am saying if he is being NICE why are you ok with women at the club and bar rejecting him harshly?
@steven7890789 Do you think guys who want to do bad things to women approach them that way? No dumbfuck, if he's super nice that's all the more reason to be wary of him
So you assuming right away that the guy that is being nice is an asshole is sad. Not all guys in life are the same and not all guys at bars and clubs are the same. There are guys that are truly nice and not faking it that do approach women at bars and clubs, why don't you realize that you could be rejecting a guy in a bad way that is truly nice?
@steven7890789 Guys that go to bars to hit on girls are pretty much all the same, your argument is senseless. And why do I care if he's nice? Do you think women all go out to clubs together to "meet a nice guy"? No, we came to have a laugh and get wasted together. So you and your "niceness" can fuck off
I am saying what if the guy is not even hitting on you. There are some guys at bars, clubs, etc. that just start talking to someone asking them how their day was or whatever and they have no other motive. They have no motive for sex or dating. These guys even talk to guys sometimes and they are straight. These friendly chit chat guys that are talking to you, you don't have to except them, it seems you think that I am telling you to not reject them, all I am saying is to reject them NICELY. All I am saying is to reject a guy NICELY unless he is a jerk, then reject them harshly.
Get what I am saying now?
@steven7890789 No, you have literally no point. I decided not to respond because you seem to have mental disabilities.
What makes you say that?
You are a fool.
They probably just don't want advances form you...
So you think that makes it ok for them to be mean to him? They should reject a guy nicely man not harshly. I can't believe you are ok with women rejecting men harshly at bars and clubs.
@steven7890789 I don't really care how they act. Not everyone is going to get along. Sometimes you have good interactions with people, other times you have bad iterations with people. Everyone doesn't have to be nice to you and you shouldn't take it personally if someone is mean to you. As a side note, you can easily flip that on most girls that play that game... if those are the types of girl are actually want to waste time with...
By ''flip'' on most girls that play that game what are you talking about?
@steven7890789 "Bitches" are crazy insecure so they wear a mask. When your not affaid of their shenanigans they see you as strong. What do you think a really weak insecure person deep down feels they need? A rock...
Are you saying really weak insecure guys need to be tough?
@steven7890789 Nope, just saying some really insecure girls put up a bitchy front. Then when you turn the tables on them cleverly and are unaffected by their shitty attitude they change their tone... They're not the best girls to pursue anyway, just saying things aren't always as they seem.
Oh I see.
Come to England, we're much better.
Are you sure about that? I heard the women there are just like American women or in fact worse.
Haha not in clubs and bars darling. Not at all 😂
you're under 18, you don't know what you're talking about.
@steven7890789
they are indeed, probably worse.
@the_rake ahaha i just look old i've been clubbing once a week ish for about 2 years
@steven7890789 we're not fake and my friends and i are all nice but i suppose i don't really go talking to other girls in nightclubs.
Well observing most other women in the club how are they?
@Rainie_ are you talking to me?
@steven7890789 I was talking to the opinion owner.
Where on earth do you live where you get into the clubs though? ID's are really thoroughly checked in the UK when it comes to clubs. Even those outside the cities that I've been to check IDs no matter how old someone looks.
@Rainie_ alright but you made it seem that you think English women in bars and clubs are just as bitchy as American women in bars and clubs.
@steven7890789 They are lol, some can be bitchy as hell, even to me when Im just minding my own business dancing with my friends 😂
@Rainie_ you live in England?
@Rainie_ i live in london its not that hard i have a very good one
@steven7890789 I live in London😐
@Anonymous
'i just look old i've been clubbing once a week ish for about 2 years'
still you and you're friends probably won't have been hit on by many guys in that period, especially not if they can all see how young you are.
I don't know what clubs you're going to that you're not getting id'd and I seriously have a hard time believing you get into clubs in London.
I been clubbing since I was 19. Only went for one weekend at sixteen, but still I've got 5 years experience of nightclubs.
@steven7890789
'observing most other women in the club how are they'
I'm English and I can promise you
@Rainie_
'They are lol, some can be bitchy as hell'
Thank you!
@steven7890789
*I'm English and I can promise you they are.
@the_rake where abouts in England you from may I ask... if its not personal?
@Asker
Birmingham
@the_rake brummy lol
Because we can! Duh! You can! Try it sometime!
Naa i'd rather not thanks, I was brought up by a decent family with values :)
@Asker
if only I could upvote opinion comments, lol
Because, it is written in their DNAs.
Because we are drunk and horny lol
... it still dont make sense
I love bars and clubs
so do I but dont women wanna bit of fun on dancefloor ey ;-)
well if you were that horny, you wouldn't act in ways that would indicate disinterest and repel men from making further advances, lol.
because their ego is blown up bigger than saturn.
blame social media and dating sites for that... especially tinder (I fucking hate that app)
Because all that noise.
They be drinkin'.
Yes it's normal.
What's normal?
@steven7890789 women being bitchy, etc.
Lol man