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You do realize we whine because we got rejected. The bitterness is a consequence of what we have to go through. In highschool I was rejected by a girl for being too short, I am 5'9 and she is 5'7. If you want to know what I was told it was along the lines of "I like big tall guys because I feel safe with them".And yes I am bitter. I despise girl with height requirements, they make me sick to the stomach. Accept me for who I am, that is who I was before the bitterness started, and it will go away.
lol oook then @Asker. So in your opinion, the only 'fair' solution to end your little-bitch syndrome would be for women to abandon any standards they may have when selecting a man they want to be with, and force them to be with you?
Dont abandon any standards, just be a bit more flexible. I do everything I can to improve myself. I am in college soon to finish my masters in aerospace engineering, I speak 3 languages fluently, I play the guitar, I work out like a damn gym rat and because I am 5'9 none of thats good enough.I'll tell you what I want. I want every single girl who has a height requirement to fall deeply in love with a guy and then get told by him, eye to eye, that he won't date them because they have small boobs or small butt. Only then they'll see how unpleasant what they are doing to guys is.
Dude chillax! You're 5'9 for crissakes! There are guys that are 5'3 and they don't whine half as much as you wtf -.-
@carinerose Did I mention I was rejected because of my height, told face to face too. Its not something thats in my head, this actually happened to me. My point still stands though. Every girl with a height requirement needs to get rejected once for having too small boobs/butt so they can go home feel like they are not feminine enough, just as I felt I wasent masculine enough, so they can realize what they are doing.
Sure dude. One shallow girl rejected you and now you are this bitter whining person. Good for you. I wouldn't date a guy that insecure tbh lol. Gd luck finding a girlfriend.
@carinerose Are you saying you dont put height requirements on guys? Because if you do it makes no difference what so ever, you're just using the insecurity part as an excuse to reject the guy for being too short. So the fact that I am a bitter misogynist won't change squat, my height is a curse that will work against me, until one day, hopefully I have a succesul career. At least I have something to motivate me
Having a successful career won't fix your whiney attitude, though.
Woman are very shallow, I think you're just using the insecurity part as an excuse to reject guys that dont meet your height requirement.Having a succesfull career makes up for any physical flaw one might possess so maybe once I start feeling like I am remotely desirable to the opposite sex I can let go of the bitterness.
'women are shallow' is how you're trying to make yourself feel better because it's easier to shift the blame on us versus realizing that the problem lays in your head. Ironically enough, only digging your own grave deeper and deeper. 👌
Well they better, weight is 100% controllable. says a lot about personality if a person lets oneself go that far.Whereas a persons height is decided the moment their dna is formed and there is nothing they can do to change it, only stunt it.
Mmmmmkay... What's with the madness... O. oI'm already regretting answering your bitter ass. I always forget - anonymous guys - trolls...
I thought those were biological facts I stated
Lol what? There are so many guys who are into chubby girls. Dozens actually. They see them as "BBW" which is big beautiful women. I don't see dozens of girls liking guys shorter than them. Haha.
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I am 5'9/176cm and all my guy friends consider me short
I'm 5'8 😂 Damn I'm shorter
Do you think short guys, even tough if he works out, takes care of himself is as unattractive to woman as a fat/obese girl?
Well, guys that are short, like as in 5'5 and under, aren't necessarily that attractive to me anyway, regardless of how in shape they are.
Do you feel the same way about guys that are 5'9?
No, that would be over 5'5, would it not?
The standards girls have these days I dont think I could ever get surprised from what they require. In highschool I was rejected and told by a girl (she was 5'7) that I wasent tall enough for her to feel safe with me and some crap like that. And then ofc there were a few guy friends (not friends anymore) making snide comments about my height or lack there of.
How tall are you? Honestly, height is something that most women look for in comparison to their own. I dated a guy who was 5'8. But I'm 5'3. A girl who is 5'8 may not feel as comfortable with a guy who is 5'8.
I am 5'9/176 cm barefoot.The girl who rejected me was 5'7/170cm.She said she needed a tall guy to feel safe with and some other stupid crap
I'm not shocked she said that at all. And I can understand why she would. Most women are not going to date a man they don't feel can adequately protect them. Size matters to us. But it really does depend on what size WE are. Like I'm 5'3, so your height is perfectly fine with me. But I have a friend who is 5'9 and she wouldn't give you the time of day.
Its very painful to hear. Try to understand, you're basically telling a guy he's not man enough for he because she can't feel safe with him. Its very emasuclating.Imagine you're really in love with a guy and when you build up the courage to ask him out he tells you "I am sorry I would date you but you have small breasts and butt therefore you look like a pre-pubsescent boy and you cannot make me feel manly"How shitty would the girl feel?
Yeah, but that's called preference. It's not exactly encouraging either when men want thin women with huge boobs, yet men have no problem telling us that.
Thin woman with huge boobs, nah, I'd rather have them thick, curvy with a big round ass. But thats just a preference. Us guys have preferences, you girls have dealbreakers.I wouldn't reject a girl for having a small ass.My dealbreakers are controllable things like she can't be a smoker. And since I am at college pursuing my masters in engineering I expect a girl to also be highly educated and specialized at challenging field.
Guys do have dealbreakers that some girls can't help. I've been told before by guys that they don't date black women. I've had white boyfriends before, but again, it's preference.
Thats really harsh, there are gorgous woman of all races.But I think my standards are perfectly reasonable, I try as little as possible to judge people based on things they cannot control because I know how it feels. There is nothing I can do to change my height so I dont want to be judged by it.
Sucks, nothing I ever achieve is good enough then. At least if I was 6'5 but fat I could lose weight but since I can never change my height I'm basically stuck forever as a "fat girl".Thanks