I would comfort him, he's my son and he's in pain. I would help him any way that I can. Why should he be hurting alone when his mom is around to help him cope. No one ever helped me when I was in pain from a heart break, my mom was in the other room while I was crying my eyes out of heartbreak. I was alone and broken.
So, I think you should comfort him even if he doesn't want it. Let him know you're there.
I don't plan on having kids, but if I did have kids, I would comfort him yes. But I wouldn't treat him like a baby who needs protection. Coddling your child will only make it weak and naive. I'd comfort him but also teach him the importance of picking yourself up and moving on. I would treat my hypothetical daughter the same way if she got cheated on.
No cheater, regardless of gender would ever be welcomed in my house again. If my child were to still want to work things out, I'll support their decision at the same time let them know I'll never like the cheater.
I think parents are pretty supportive of their kids, regardless of gender.
But I don't think parents should protect their kids if they are hurt, from a break up or whatever. The kid has to learn about life, the good and the bad. Sure support them, offer advice, take them out for a pizza. But don't coddle or over protect them. How are they going to deal with life when they get older?
"Most parents are not supportivery of their sons"
I am not sure I agree with that. What makes you think so?
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Of course I would! Thats my child and someone broke his heart. I'm not gonna let him wallow in self pity. I'm gonna tell him I love him, give him time to grieve and then I'm gonna tell him to stop being a little bitch and to get out there.
Um, yes? The fuck kind of question is this?
I know I'm a girl, but every time a guy did me dirty, my mom and dad were there for me. They also told me they'd always be there for my brother and sister (I'm the youngest of 3). And I believe them. I want to be like my parents and make sure that, should I ever have children, I do right by them and they know that when all else fails, I'll always be there for them.
Protect him?
How do you protect one for love or getting hurt? Really, I'd love to know?
Protecting your child from life and love is not protecting them.
If your talking about being emotional support for him and being there? Of course. Well, I hope to be... we aren't there yet my boys are just 10 and almost 6.
Where the fuck did you hear most parents aren't supportive of their sons? What rubbish. Parents love their kids and part of that love is supporting them and caring about their lives and their future. Sons or daughters. Every guy I know has supportive parents (apart from the ones with absent Fathers) and every single parent I know loves their sons AND daughters.
I sure would, your sons need just as much comfort and support as your daughter. I wouldn't want him growing up to be a spiteful fuckboy all because I didn't help him through rough times.
I'd help him carry the bricks, that we'd go break the bitches' window with.
I would say the exact opposite of you.
Most parents are very supportive and protective of their children. Regardless of if it is a son or daughter.
You can't protect your children from life. The positives or the negatives. And you absolutely should not coddle them. They need to deal with these things so they know how to cope.
Of course. Cheating is something I do not tolerate at all, and to do that to my son? She would never be allowed in my house again.
I don't think I will. It's a men he should be always strong. Not cry over a girl who don't give a shit about him
Of course. I'll also help him get a date with someone hotter as a fuck you to his ex.
u Why wouldn't I?
yes i would, what if he becomes a bitter old man?
Yes, if he'd want me to.
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