If your son's girlfriend cheated on him will you comfort him?

[Anonymous]

Most parents are not supportivery of their sons but there are grest number of is that are what do you guys think ladies do you love your baby enough to protect him

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Big ups to the good parents I feel that mothers are all our boys have so it's about time we act up. Dead beat dad's man up and fight for your son's

[DandelionGirl]

I would comfort him, he's my son and he's in pain. I would help him any way that I can. Why should he be hurting alone when his mom is around to help him cope. No one ever helped me when I was in pain from a heart break, my mom was in the other room while I was crying my eyes out of heartbreak. I was alone and broken.

So, I think you should comfort him even if he doesn't want it. Let him know you're there.

[Asker]

I read a thread on how women say how they would sabotage their sons and give his girl an expensive gift if her son cheated on her. I feel that some mothers are very gender bias not all those women literally said they loved their sons girl friends more than what they lovery their sons sad that parents do that why can't we all just drop our gender bias

[lumos]

I don't plan on having kids, but if I did have kids, I would comfort him yes. But I wouldn't treat him like a baby who needs protection. Coddling your child will only make it weak and naive. I'd comfort him but also teach him the importance of picking yourself up and moving on. I would treat my hypothetical daughter the same way if she got cheated on.

[Vesuvius87]

No cheater, regardless of gender would ever be welcomed in my house again. If my child were to still want to work things out, I'll support their decision at the same time let them know I'll never like the cheater.

[Asker]

I take you don't have a little boy yet how would treat him if you had one compared to how we treat our daughters

[Vesuvius87]

I have no children but both would be treated with the same level of guidance and support they need at that moment. I don't see how a son getting cheated on and being heartbroken is different than a daughter getting cheated on.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

exactly!

[Asker]

@SweetHomicidalQueen oh please I've seen mothers putting their ten year old sons in skirts in attempt to kill off this toxic masculinity they lied to others saying their sons lived it lol but the boys hated it they hated so much that they resented their mothers one boy committed suicide small price to pay to kill madculinity

[AndyOh]

I think parents are pretty supportive of their kids, regardless of gender.
But I don't think parents should protect their kids if they are hurt, from a break up or whatever. The kid has to learn about life, the good and the bad. Sure support them, offer advice, take them out for a pizza. But don't coddle or over protect them. How are they going to deal with life when they get older?

[JuicyBrain]

"Most parents are not supportivery of their sons"
I am not sure I agree with that. What makes you think so?

[Asker]

People think boys are strong boys are emotionally weak that's why we can crush them easily when a boy cries he told to man up but when he man's up we call it toxic masculinity but we just told him to man up now we changing

[JuicyBrain]

Well, it's true that we have to learn to live with adversity and that we have to develop a thick skin, but our parents can support us without victimizing us. I know my father would support m, bt he would get all emotional about it and it's fine like that. He would probably pat me on the shoulder lovingly while saying there's plenty of fish in the sea. He won't hold me like a baby and cry with me...

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Of course I would! Thats my child and someone broke his heart. I'm not gonna let him wallow in self pity. I'm gonna tell him I love him, give him time to grieve and then I'm gonna tell him to stop being a little bitch and to get out there.

[Asker]

Your teaching him toxic masculinity by telling him to stop acting like a bitch remember we want to end masculinity

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

... OK 1. I'm not literally gonna tell him that and 2. I'm gonna support him on getting back out there, I'm not gonna let him beat himself up and be miserable for a long time because a girl can't stay loyal.

Why would someone want to "end masculinity"?

[Asker]

What would you do if he tells you that he wants to prove himself to her prove her that he is worthy of being hers like boys to men songs I'm kidding so bear with me

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Then I'll tell him I think it's a bad idea, but I'll support him on it, I'll make sure he knows I won't have any tolerance for her, and he'll know exactly what I think of her. If he wants to do that, it's up to him. It'll help him learn for the future.

[Asker]

Boys are stubborn but they keep getting hit by utilising they don't listen lol

[Asker]

Women learn from our mistakes and move on there a many fish in the sea but these days all men are taken guy etc.

[JRICHARDS1996]

"Remember we want to end masculinity"

The entire fault with the feminist movement.

Men and women are not the same so trying to force them under a common banner is impossible. Inevitably it just means demonizing the natural aspects of their sex which violate your arbitrary preconceptions.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

@JRICHARDS1996 i didn't agree with the "ending of masculinity" part, i thoughtthatwas just dumb

[Asker]

Most mothers put their sons in dress it's all part of the attempt to kill off masculinity we put convince women to put their sons in dresses and skirts so masculinity can end and women will do it because we're women

[Asker]

My feminist friend have all dressed their boys onto girls soon we will not only kill off masculinity but also turn all boys into crossdressers and if they like we could convince them that being a bit is bad you can't stop us we controle the media feminism join the feminist community and help us destroy masculity be a real women and kill all men

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

ah now i understand she's a troll or an idiot

[JRICHARDS1996]

Seems legit

[Asker]

We have already like turned boys soft we already made them weak they won't be able to survive because even though we dress them like girls we will treat them harsh as boys do dress him like a girl treat him like a boy that way he will be tormented we can just tell the cops he likes it as our defense boys can't win we girls are intouchable

[Asker]

Try stopping us we can't be stopped how can we be stored if the police the government the name hole freading system is on our side how can your son even stand a chance

[Asker]

Boys hate it but it is the only way to end madculinity I love seeing the pain on their faces

[Asker]

I'm only joking i wad only kidding however there are some womenthat do put their sons in dresses because many wanted daughters so they decide to turn of of their sons into a girl instead to get the daughter they didn't have

[EllieLexis513]

Um, yes? The fuck kind of question is this?

I know I'm a girl, but every time a guy did me dirty, my mom and dad were there for me. They also told me they'd always be there for my brother and sister (I'm the youngest of 3). And I believe them. I want to be like my parents and make sure that, should I ever have children, I do right by them and they know that when all else fails, I'll always be there for them.

[Anonymous]

Protect him?
How do you protect one for love or getting hurt? Really, I'd love to know?
Protecting your child from life and love is not protecting them.

If your talking about being emotional support for him and being there? Of course. Well, I hope to be... we aren't there yet my boys are just 10 and almost 6.

[Asker]

I read a thread on how women say they'd be at their son up if he cheated so I had to reverse the roles I guess we have to get rid of our gender bias for the sake of our children we've old protect his girlfriend why not protect your own blood too? that the thing with modern women we are too bias well guess what I refuse to be a bias woman

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't treat a girl who got cheated on any different then a boy who got cheated on... how is the gender even relevant when it comes to cheating? How to you protect a girl who was just cheated on? How is that any different?

[Opinion Owner]

What I think your question should have been was would you have been as disappointed if you daughter cheated? What your talking about is the mom of the cheater not the mom of the cheated on.

[Asker]

Would you love your son's girlfriend more than your son? I'm not a mom yet but I raise my cousins their mom passed away in 2014 I am the only person they have

[Asker]

You know reading that as a woman makes me feel disgusted as to how differently we treat our childrenched we fighting so hard for equal rights but we not treating our kids equal

[Opinion Owner]

Your not even making sense! I wouldn't treat a daughter or a son any different. You can't protect either from heart break girl or boy. Really, what are you even talking about?

[Opinion Owner]

How are people not treating their kids equal? You got mad because some woman hit her son for cheating. I think that had far more to do with being upset with her son because she felt she raised him better then that. It really doesn't have much to do with liking the girl more but expecting more from your son. Personally I would never lay a hand on one of my children. We don't do that in my house.

[Anonymous]

Where the fuck did you hear most parents aren't supportive of their sons? What rubbish. Parents love their kids and part of that love is supporting them and caring about their lives and their future. Sons or daughters. Every guy I know has supportive parents (apart from the ones with absent Fathers) and every single parent I know loves their sons AND daughters.

[jwhit]

I sure would, your sons need just as much comfort and support as your daughter. I wouldn't want him growing up to be a spiteful fuckboy all because I didn't help him through rough times.

[Kuraj]

I'd help him carry the bricks, that we'd go break the bitches' window with.

[godfatherfan]

I would say the exact opposite of you.
Most parents are very supportive and protective of their children. Regardless of if it is a son or daughter.

[Anonymous]

You can't protect your children from life. The positives or the negatives. And you absolutely should not coddle them. They need to deal with these things so they know how to cope.

[Asker]

But you can show your child you love him

[Anonymous]

Of course. Cheating is something I do not tolerate at all, and to do that to my son? She would never be allowed in my house again.

[Asker]

Does your statement still stand lol we change our minds very wuick

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely. Once I have made my decision, it's final. Been cheated on and it's such a horrible feeling. I would never cheat, and don't want someone to feel that. Especially my own flesh and blood.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I will. It's a men he should be always strong. Not cry over a girl who don't give a shit about him

[Asker]

But if your son cheated you will hate on him right? why do us women always gotta be so bias I made a decision not to be one them bias girls and to be open minded to both genders you are sexist

[Asker]

Why can't we just love our sons as we love our daughter we can love other girls that not our daughters but we battle to love our dons just because they are male why there are good women that do love their sons a lot of women but people like you divide our society

[Asker]

Also why make a baby honestly?

[Asker]

There are great numbers of good single mothers that do love both their daughters and son equally I feel sorry for half of your seed girl truly even tho I'm a girl (that hated noys as a kid) I can see the bias in our society I grew up from hating boys I'm raising my little cousins who see me a motherly figure I will always be there for my cousins because I'm the only family they got in the state you got to grow the
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k up and stop the boys are gross phase

[Opinion Owner]

Your grammar is so horrible I can barrely understand what you mean.
If my son cheated then he cheat. I will not hate him. It's his life not mine. I don't care about his girlfriend. She's not a part of the family and if my son is being cheating on. He had to move on on cry like a little girl.

[Asker]

So you don't care about your child is that it let me tell you that there many women on earth that do about theirs you are the first don't care parent I came across

[Opinion Owner]

I care about him but I want him to be able to go around hard things in life without me. I would not be here always for him. I would die before he can't come to me everytime he meet some problem.
Plus I don't want a pussy like a son.

[TacosRAwesome]

Of course. I'll also help him get a date with someone hotter as a fuck you to his ex.

[BCRanger10]

Why wouldn't I?

[anonman32]

yes i would, what if he becomes a bitter old man?

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Yes, if he'd want me to.

[Anonymous]

No...