I know it’s morally wrong and a horrible thing to imagine, I write a novel and I would like to have a man’s perspective, how would you feel and how would you keep living?
Thank you 🥰
I know it’s morally wrong and a horrible thing to imagine, I write a novel and I would like to have a man’s perspective, how would you feel and how would you keep living?
Thank you 🥰
I've thought about that scenario.
I've decided that I will NEVER flirt or cross any lines with any of my son's future girlfriends. I'm the dad, I'm supposed to have his back in life no matter what.
If there was ever a scenario where I caught him and one of my girlfriends together, I would basically react calmly, and I would remember that he's young, I'm still his dad and I need to be understanding. The conversation with my girlfriend might be a bit more serious. She isn't my responsibility. The relationship with her is conditional on us treating each other with respect.
Respect. That’s a mature answer, most people here say they’d murder.
I think this situation is different because I love my son more than I love myself. I raised him from the day he was born, and I feel like anything he does is a reflection of the job I did as a parent.
As for the cheating girlfriend, this isn't my first rodeo. I also understand the "Hot Stepmom" fantasy that's prevalent in porn these days. In my mind I would be like "Okay, you guys had your fun, but it's gonna end now." She would be moving out and we're breaking up. I would sit down with my son like I always did and explain how his actions made me feel, and why it's an inconsiderate thing to do.
If my girlfriend was younger or even older i think it would be normal for the girls to want to try the younger version of me especially since they would already know about my huge size lol 😂 but i would also be a bit proud of my son but i might pay him back lol 😂
Wow! That’s an interesting approach!
Wouldn’t you be jealous?
It would be like being jealous of myself lmfao 😂
But in general i am not a jealous man. I used to be jealous but after i saw how toxic and poisonous jealousy i dropped that kind of negative thinking very fast
I don't know how they would feel but this has happened to a close friend of mine. So his dad took in this kid and treated him like another one of his sons. The dad had a live in girlfriend and they all lived together in his big ass house. The kid that he “adopted” was already older (around 18-19) when they took him in and when he was 23 they caught him sleeping with the dad’s gf… no one knows how long it’s been going on but oh boy the drama was fun lol
Wow, I think the guy's son would be as much in the fore front as the girl. He should knock both their heads together to knock some sense into them.
Completely off topic, I apologize. I have no idea who that woman in your profile pic is, but damn does she have some sexy legs.
@Exterminatore That girl was from the 30's so I'm sure she is not with us anymore.
Well, if by chance she were I’m
Positive those gams would not look nearly as sexy.
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Doubt that would happen since I wouldn't date a woman who will be young enough to be appealing to him if I am old. If it still happened then I'll have to change my perspective and go after someone younger lol. Meanwhile I would cut off my son so the problem cannot happen again.
Forgive me as I don‘t quite qualify as an „older man“ but I‘m just gonna try and imagine. This situation would leave me devastated. It depends on how old the son is I suppose, if he’s a teenager it’d be a different story maybe, but if he was an adult then afterwards I would have no girlfriend and I would also have no son anymore, they‘d both be dead to me.
Perhaps losing both of them at the same time would cause me to leave them dead for real and seriously take some time to consider wether death or a life in prison would be more preferable because such actions could never be forgiven, there would be no possible way of redemption for them.
You shouldn't cling to anyone or anything to the extent of abusing self or others.
I feel like I‘d have no other choice than to cling to my son
It would depend on my feelings for my girlfriend. It takes me a while to get really strong feelings for a woman. If it's before I reach that point, he can have her. I wouldn't want to keep a cheater. I'll find someone who is loyal to me
What about it’s after you catch feelings for her.
If I already had feelings I'd toss her to the curb and forbid her to come near my house
''Older'' :D...
I'd 'think' that my 'girlfriend' was a bad choice.
She'll be ''out'' within the week.
What about the son?
What son?
Your son
My reply was rather meant in a sarcastic way.
Anyhow - in my 'first' reply I had assumed that my (adult) son is not longer a member of my house. So -admittedly- I sort of forgot that detail :)
There's this abstract idea of the ''bro code'' - he would have broken the ''treaty''.
That ''unbro-ed'' him. He's out.
How I react depends on how serious my girlfriend and I are. If we're in a committed monogamous relationship, and have been for several years, I'd be very upset, and I would have a talk with both of them, together, letting them know that it cannot continue, and if it does, they are both gone from me.
If we have a casual relationship, I'd talk to my son and warn him about the potential pitfalls of a relationship with an older woman, and I would stop seeing her.
The girlfriend would be gone, all adults will be held responsible for their actions. Relationship with my son would strained for awhile, he’ll still be my son. A warning will be given, and send them both packing. Self care and moving on! Obviously our relationship, wasn’t strong enough to resist temptation.
I would laugh, congratulate my son, and boot her @$$ down the road for the sake of he and I.
How would I keep on living? By continuing to live. This isn't a difficult situation or decision - REALLY.
How would a woman feel if her boyfriend cheated on her with her daughter? Put that into perspective.
This wouldn't surprise me. Girls can love young men only if said young men aren't broke and starving like i used to be. Even more so if said young man is not ugly and totally win her if he can buy her chocolate and coffee and flowers.
Old men like i will become soon become less flexible with their bodies.
My boyfriend is broke, I loved him more than anything. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago because we were LD and he couldn’t handle the distance anymore, he didn’t have money, he wasn’t super handsome, I still loved him.
Don’t consider yourself to be a victim, even if you give your heart and soul, people want more.
I am sorry for both the break up you had and to say, that long distance relationships dont Count. I don't know of very effective ways to get a girlfriend like the most wanted men do. Its almost like a science of its own. And i sure as death dont want to impress the ladies using money, pick up lines or lying to them.
I would have to report that offense. I don't want her to corrupting my son. So jail time for her and independence for my son. It's incest and it's illegal for a very good reason.
If I had ether a son or girlfriend I would find it normal. I've never had a relationship that was any good to me and this would be consistent with that.
It would be life destroying. A double betrayal. I think the son side would be the worst side. Get rid of both. Try not to think about guns.
I would be so confused. I think I'd have to make a new rule for the house or something I dunno
Well it goes without saying that she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore. Not sure how I'd deal with my son. I guess his age would have a lot to do with it. Young men have to learn about womenand their manipulative nature
I am a woman and not manipulative at all, not all women manipulate. What if your son was the seducer?
It takes two to tango. She still made the decision to give in to his advances rather than say something to me.
Lol I mean I don’t have any but let’s just say I’d disown my son and break tf up with her.
Kick them both out and wish them luck on their endeavors
I have been with a mother and her daughter consensually so why not a girl being with a father and son? as for as cheating when in a relationship does it really matter? cheating is cheating even if it is with the dog...
So you work for PornHub?
Well she'd have to die, and I'd do a good job framing him for it.
Seriously though… How would you react?
Murdering her would ruin your life further.
Seriously. I live in a country where cops are shit and most competent murders go unsolved.
I'd be happy for him increasing hos body count. You can always get another girl but you can't replace a son
well maybe i should cheat on her with her mother or sister or maybe even her brother.
I would be very curious how the paternity test would turn out.
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