The question for OLDER MEN: How would you feel if your girlfriend cheated on you with your own son?

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I know it’s morally wrong and a horrible thing to imagine, I write a novel and I would like to have a man’s perspective, how would you feel and how would you keep living? Thank you 🥰

Chris7094 · Accepted Answer

I've thought about that scenario.

I've decided that I will NEVER flirt or cross any lines with any of my son's future girlfriends. I'm the dad, I'm supposed to have his back in life no matter what.

If there was ever a scenario where I caught him and one of my girlfriends together, I would basically react calmly, and I would remember that he's young, I'm still his dad and I need to be understanding. The conversation with my girlfriend might be a bit more serious. She isn't my responsibility. The relationship with her is conditional on us treating each other with respect.

vald9inches · Accepted Answer

If my girlfriend was younger or even older i think it would be normal for the girls to want to try the younger version of me especially since they would already know about my huge size lol 😂 but i would also be a bit proud of my son but i might pay him back lol 😂

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know how they would feel but this has happened to a close friend of mine. So his dad took in this kid and treated him like another one of his sons. The dad had a live in girlfriend and they all lived together in his big ass house. The kid that he “adopted” was already older (around 18-19) when they took him in and when he was 23 they caught him sleeping with the dad’s gf… no one knows how long it’s been going on but oh boy the drama was fun lol

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Wow, I think the guy's son would be as much in the fore front as the girl. He should knock both their heads together to knock some sense into them.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Doubt that would happen since I wouldn't date a woman who will be young enough to be appealing to him if I am old. If it still happened then I'll have to change my perspective and go after someone younger lol. Meanwhile I would cut off my son so the problem cannot happen again.

Anonymous · Answer

Forgive me as I don‘t quite qualify as an „older man“ but I‘m just gonna try and imagine. This situation would leave me devastated. It depends on how old the son is I suppose, if he’s a teenager it’d be a different story maybe, but if he was an adult then afterwards I would have no girlfriend and I would also have no son anymore, they‘d both be dead to me.
Perhaps losing both of them at the same time would cause me to leave them dead for real and seriously take some time to consider wether death or a life in prison would be more preferable because such actions could never be forgiven, there would be no possible way of redemption for them.

Sparkie460 · Answer

It would depend on my feelings for my girlfriend. It takes me a while to get really strong feelings for a woman. If it's before I reach that point, he can have her. I wouldn't want to keep a cheater. I'll find someone who is loyal to me

andreasderjuengere · Answer

''Older'' :D... I'd 'think' that my 'girlfriend' was a bad choice. She'll be ''out'' within the week.

AviatorTom · Answer

How I react depends on how serious my girlfriend and I are. If we're in a committed monogamous relationship, and have been for several years, I'd be very upset, and I would have a talk with both of them, together, letting them know that it cannot continue, and if it does, they are both gone from me.

If we have a casual relationship, I'd talk to my son and warn him about the potential pitfalls of a relationship with an older woman, and I would stop seeing her.

Chaser3232 · Answer

The girlfriend would be gone, all adults will be held responsible for their actions. Relationship with my son would strained for awhile, he’ll still be my son. A warning will be given, and send them both packing. Self care and moving on! Obviously our relationship, wasn’t strong enough to resist temptation.

maximumpower · Answer

I would laugh, congratulate my son, and boot her @$$ down the road for the sake of he and I. How would I keep on living? By continuing to live. This isn't a difficult situation or decision - REALLY.

globetrotter22 · Answer

How would a woman feel if her boyfriend cheated on her with her daughter? Put that into perspective.

Anonymous · Answer

This wouldn't surprise me. Girls can love young men only if said young men aren't broke and starving like i used to be. Even more so if said young man is not ugly and totally win her if he can buy her chocolate and coffee and flowers.

Old men like i will become soon become less flexible with their bodies.

Adam1978 · Answer

I would have to report that offense. I don't want her to corrupting my son. So jail time for her and independence for my son. It's incest and it's illegal for a very good reason.

Slartybartfast · Answer

If I had ether a son or girlfriend I would find it normal. I've never had a relationship that was any good to me and this would be consistent with that.

RavVid · Answer

It would be life destroying. A double betrayal. I think the son side would be the worst side. Get rid of both. Try not to think about guns.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I would be so confused. I think I'd have to make a new rule for the house or something I dunno

Anonymous · Answer

Well it goes without saying that she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore. Not sure how I'd deal with my son. I guess his age would have a lot to do with it. Young men have to learn about womenand their manipulative nature

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Lol I mean I don’t have any but let’s just say I’d disown my son and break tf up with her. Kick them both out and wish them luck on their endeavors

nawtee_me · Answer

I have been with a mother and her daughter consensually so why not a girl being with a father and son? as for as cheating when in a relationship does it really matter? cheating is cheating even if it is with the dog...

Anonymous · Answer

Well she'd have to die, and I'd do a good job framing him for it.

altdbob · Answer

well maybe i should cheat on her with her mother or sister or maybe even her brother.

bean2k21 · Answer

I would be very curious how the paternity test would turn out.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

This is hypothetical since I don’t have a son…or a girlfriend for that matter. First, I’d rewrite my will.

Vegasrunner · Answer

I'd be happy for him increasing hos body count. You can always get another girl but you can't replace a son

Guardian45 · Answer

I would kick that **** out! She's TRASH! And charge her with statutory rape and take out a restraining order against her.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol honestly I’d probably high five him then I’d kick her ass to the curb just as he would and we’d go out and celebrate.

Libertycityguy · Answer

sounds like a plot to a porn. I would be very hurt. it takes too to tango. she didn't have to sleep with him.

Shamalien · Answer

You can make up any fiction you want and you choose this depraved shit?

Exterminatore · Answer

I’d be thrilled. I’d throw them both a ticker tape parade.

Spiritofn · Answer

I’d be hella cucked up…. Nothing like watching the younger better you in action!!! 🤤🤪👍🏻🤦🏽

Texaskid1 · Answer

I would send the women to North Korea and the disavow my son for life.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I think I'd be impressed by my son's gumption. I might try to arrange a threesome. What? Too perverted?

peedy · Answer

Well thst would be a pretty good trick if probably think she had some super natural powers or something because i. dont have a son

Hanrej · Answer

To be honest I've thought about it and have absolutely no clue. It's a very difficult hypothetical scenario.

_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI · Answer

Fuck yeah. My boy got a good taste. Like father like son.

Iron_Man · Answer

They would both be banned from the property tossed out on their butt

Jamesshinobi · Answer

confused. i only have daughters and my girl is their mother.

altaboy · Answer

Ha! Now that would suck. I'd be mad at both of them. Yay single again, I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell my son I’m impressed  Make the book dirty as fuck  Kick out the girlfriend.  Go fuck her step sister and her mom  If you want to make the book raunchier make her watch

driven159 · Answer

First off doesn't matter who she cheated with she cheated now she is history

JohnK123 · Answer

Lmao @_deeznuts that’s real ince- lmaooooo

Waldoe · Answer

I am 72... I cannot even imagine it. Sorry

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Uhhhhh... Disgusted

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Don't screw your man's son lol

Alcoholic_Wannabe · Answer

She'd be gone. End of.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Wow that would be horrific in my opinion..

Shy_Steve · Answer

Devastated and probably fairly Angry.

CubaPirate · Answer

Disgust and betrayal

Jouth · Answer

I'd kill them both

MrHopper · Answer

Well played!

Anonymous · Answer

Not an older man, but that’s so messed up.

Anonymous · Answer

why are women cheaters?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yikes

Anonymous · Answer

Murder.

aliiiek · Answer

Holy shit

Anonymous · Answer

That would be hot.

Anonymous · Answer

Very bad idea

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