I work with a man in his early 50s (I'm late 30s) and we're both in work for about an hour together each afternoon. He always says hello to me and at least 2 to 3 times a week he'll stop and have a chat with me for maybe 20 minutes or more. I get the feeling he only wraps up our chats because he has to get on, as he asks lots of questions and tries to keep the conversation going. I make the same effort as I'm very attracted to him but I'm struggling to be flirty as he intimidates me a little. I can talk easily to men I don't have an interest in but I feel like I'm just giving off friendly vibes to this man as I'm a bit nervous underneath my friendly (possibly boring) chat. He doesn't talk to any other women that I've seen and always gives me very strong eye contact and that alpha male pose of holding himself up straight and faced towards me. My question is, do men make this much effort with women they're not attracted to? Also any tips of what flirty things I could say would be amazing.
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Are you saying that if a man talks to you he MUST be interested?
THUD!!! Really?
No, it most likely means was wants to be pleasant and have a conversation with you.
No I'm not saying that, I'm not saying anything as I'm clearly asking a question. And I'm not asking if a man ever talks to you even once does that mean he's interested. I'm asking does a man seek you out regularly to have deep conversations if he's not interested in you. At least you got to drop a sarcastic and unnecessary comment in for no good reason though.
If he don't do it with other women then it seems like he is interested in you.
Why wouldn't we, women are half the population lol. I'd rather talk to women, topics are usually more intellectual and engaging.