I think girls don't like "successful guys" unless they're athletes or in a fraternity. Why aren't women attracted to successful men?

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Me and my 3 college roommates talked about this recently. 2 of the guys are in fraternities and have had several relationships with women. Me and the other roommate didn't join a frat in college and barely got girls. 4 years after graduation, it's still an uphill battle. All four of us are successful, got new cars, and make $70k+. I network and do all kinds of fun activities but can't find anyone of substance. Same thing for the other guy that didn't join a frat.

It's so bizarre to me. I've literally had women pass me up to date men that don't have their shit together. One woman passed me up to date an older guy that abused her verbally and physically. He called her names like bitch and even kicked her out of his apartment once. Like actually kicked her like a soccer ball. She just recently came back to me crying. Another one passed me up to date a guy 6 years younger. He doesn't have a job or his own car. She babies him and drives him around when they go on dates.

It's like if you don't wear letters or numbers on your shirt, then you need to treat women like shit. It's a damn shame. I'm not trying to get a criminal record just to get a girl. It's as if these girls want to make and control their "men".
I think girls don't like "successful guys" unless they're athletes or in a fraternity. Why aren't women attracted to successful men?
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