Does having sex too early (on the second to fifth date) ruin the relationship? Does it always make the guy lose respect for the girl and not see her as relationship material? If you've had sex too soon, can you back track and save the relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
It depends on the people in question.
I am someone who likes to take his time and settle into a relationship, so having my girlfriend push for sex early on will make me anxious about the relationship and whether or not she's in it for the right reasons.5
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, it depends on the 2 people
- I've known some that began really slowly. They were together for a year or two before they had sex (highschool). Those two (aunt and uncle) are married with children to this day. Still actually pretty happy from what I see and how they interact.
On the flip side, I know my friend (who just had her baby) started sleeping with her boyfriend on the 2nd date. They've been together for almost 2 years, are still quite happy.
I also know where having sex too early has ruined things for people. Or they waited too long and also ruined it.
- - So to be perfectly honest, do it when you feel ready. If you're ready to join the man's bones after date #2 he's doing something right. ;)1