What do white guys think of muslim girls, and would they like to date them?

Question

I'm feeling hopeless lol. I feel only really attracted to white guys in Europe, and I'm a muslim girl. I know some are interested in me, but it's like they don't dare to approach me (Perhaps it's because of the stereotypes). Also are there white guys who are basically interested in staying with one girl for the rest of their life? #Teamforeveralone

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I wear a hijab/scarf, so I don't cover my face, only my hair.

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Phoenix98 | 4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I don't think much of them and what I mean by that is I don't particularly have positive or negative feelings towards them.

As for them in most cases the idea of dating them doesn't cross my mind, not only are they not allowed to date in general but are not allowed to be with anyone outside their own religion. Though oddly enough white christian and Arab Muslim relationships are getting more and more common despite that as well as Muslim women being with men who are not Muslim in general.

It's sad what there families and communities do to the girls though should they proceed I've seen a lot of stories and testimonies from girls about families disowning them and their communities turning on them.

Despite that I am interested in Arab girls I'm just cautious about it and yes I am only interested in being with one woman for the rest of my life even if I marry a unbeliever ( I am a Christian ) that would be the case we're not allowed to divorce a woman if she is not a christian.

Answer 2

AleDeEurope

Master

I don't like Muslim culture, so that is something that will most likely throw me off, unless she was raised in a Muslim culture, but doesn't believe in Islam, then that's different.
Also wearing a burqa, niqab, headscarf, or whatever, will also be a turn off.

What will make me like her or not, will be if she follows Islam. If she does, it's a no from me, and I know many guys in the West that think the same way.

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Clear, thanks for your input

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Asker

Clear, thanks for your input

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Anonymous

I'm a Muslim girl in the UK. All different races like me, including white. Lots more white Muslims here too these days, actually my mum is one of them. Not everywhere though, mainly like London Birmingham and cities.
And i also know white guys who do want to be with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why loads get married lol.

Answer 5

BeautifulPromisesx

Yoda

I'm a muslim girl and I've been approached by a couple but it's only after they got to know me a little. I do think that they're a little cautious because they feel we might not be interested or might get offended lmao.

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I see.. that's true. I can relate to that

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Asker

I see.. that's true. I can relate to that

Answer 7

ElissaDido

Influencer

I get a lot of attention from White guys. I'm Muslim too.

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G-Daz | 465 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Muslims girls aren't allowed to date non muslims... that's only an option for muslim guys. I would have said non muslim white guys would date a muslim that doesn't follow their religion like you are doing though. But outwordly if she looks like she does, most won't be interested

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Curmudgeon | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I'm in America, and I have seen Middle Eastern women who were just stunning. However:
1. They were of Lebanese Christian heritage, and so were not bundled up. In fact, they were "fashion plates", dress wise.
2. They were open to non-muslim men. Well, duh, being Lebanese Christian, they would be, right? :-D

I guess the question is: Can you defy your parents on this issue?

archiz

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lmfao lebanese christian here checking in XD
how you doing bb ;)
Curmudgeon

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Update: The white guy will want to undo your hijab and play with your lovely dark hair. Just saying. In fact, he many want to undo all your clothing.
Asker

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I definitely can, it's just about whether I give up or not, and of course the one I will love.
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archiz

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but asker
aren t you religious?
Asker

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I am
archiz

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so you ll have a civil marriage?

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archiz

lmfao lebanese christian here checking in XD
how you doing bb ;)

Answer 11

Curmudgeon

Update: The white guy will want to undo your hijab and play with your lovely dark hair. Just saying. In fact, he many want to undo all your clothing.

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Asker

I definitely can, it's just about whether I give up or not, and of course the one I will love.

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archiz

but asker
aren t you religious?

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archiz

so you ll have a civil marriage?

Answer 15

Daveluce

Xper 3

Most of muslim girls are coming from a very religious family, most white guys think they can't have sex with u because u ll wait to mariage, which i have respect for, but you know what i mean. Also i guess would it be hard to introduce a white christian boy as your boyfriend to your family, but if u have a liberal family there will be a guy you can get :)

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Maik567 | 667 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Kinda just ignored them all my life, I've always thought they would just marry muslim guys or something. And to be honest no I wouldn't date her if she had to wear that scarf, if she was allowed to dress like "a normal person" then I might consider it as long as they didn't expect our children to become muslim.

Asker

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That's also what I mean with stereotypes, and I got your point thanks

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Asker

That's also what I mean with stereotypes, and I got your point thanks

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uknaked

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I think that the problem is muslim clothing, and certainly a problem of understanding your culture, unless you are a western dressing girl?
There is also the fear of a muslim family having opposition to an out of faith relationship or marriage.
Personally I adore a lot of muslim ladies, many of them are very attractive.
Most guys do want a relationship for life, marriage with children, but not often when they are quite young, they settle down when they fall in love!

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That's true, so in other words the scarf keeps them away?
uknaked

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I believe it does put them off, most guys are not very religious these days, including myself.
I have a very poor opinion of all organised religious groupings, they are all controlling, self serving, self interest protecting purveyors of fear, to prolong the future of their doctrine. All religions, demand obedience, and kids being brought up with their particular dogma, with no actual basis in scientific fact.
It is true that the vast majority of armed deadly conflicts in the world are excused, or caused by, differences in religion, while most religious leaders, theoretically, teach peace!
Asker

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Thanks for your input *^*

Answer 19

Asker

That's true, so in other words the scarf keeps them away?

Answer 20

uknaked

I believe it does put them off, most guys are not very religious these days, including myself.
I have a very poor opinion of all organised religious groupings, they are all controlling, self serving, self interest protecting purveyors of fear, to prolong the future of their doctrine. All religions, demand obedience, and kids being brought up with their particular dogma, with no actual basis in scientific fact.
It is true that the vast majority of armed deadly conflicts in the world are excused, or caused by, differences in religion, while most religious leaders, theoretically, teach peace!

Answer 21

Asker

Thanks for your input *^*

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Theodorable

Xper 7

Yes, I would date a muslim girl, and I would defend her against any honor killings that might arise from her being with me... So I would buy lots of guns. I think middle eastern people can be very beautiful and kind, but I would not raise my Children Muslim because I want to be a good Jew. And I'm not very happy with Islam right now.

Answer 23

dancluj

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Do your wear traditional muslin cloths and cover your face? I don't think that helps. In rest I don't think you will have a hard time meeting a great guy.
"'Also are there white guys who are basically interested in staying with one girl for the rest of their life? '"
Probably not many guys... Especially under 18 years.

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I don't cover my face, however I do cover my hair, and don't show much form of my body.
dancluj

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I don't know what to say. Do you mind telling in what countrie you live? And also are you the only muslim girl at your school?
Asker

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The Netherlands, well yeah a minority

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Asker

I don't cover my face, however I do cover my hair, and don't show much form of my body.

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dancluj

I don't know what to say. Do you mind telling in what countrie you live? And also are you the only muslim girl at your school?

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Asker

The Netherlands, well yeah a minority

Answer 27

TripleAce | 4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

If you're beautiful it won't make a difference, as much.. But overall it would be very rare to have a white family accept a traditional islamic women. The views are two polar opposites

Asker

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I got your point. It is indeed very rare
TripleAce

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But it does work and can work. Absolutely. If you guys love each other there is no problem you can't overcome. Right?
Asker

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Yeah I believe in that and I think it's really interesting to have someone who's completely the opposite of me

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Asker

I got your point. It is indeed very rare

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TripleAce

But it does work and can work. Absolutely. If you guys love each other there is no problem you can't overcome. Right?

Answer 30

Asker

Yeah I believe in that and I think it's really interesting to have someone who's completely the opposite of me

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John_Doesnt | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

The Koran and Muslim religion clearly states that a Muslim woman can't date/marry a non-Muslim. So, even if they were educated on your religion they're not gonna bother with dating because they assume you think it's wrong.

Answer 32

zorro8888 | 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I thought Muslims women couldn't marry outside of their religion... how did you see this playing out in the long run?

Asker

+1 y
That's true, however I'm just asking a question. It's all starting with interest
zorro8888

+1 y
Well you're not really "just" asking a question you said you "only" feel attracted to white European males lol
I'm sure a lot are attracted to and would be open to dating a Muslim girl... but like I mentioned where would it lead in the long run?
Asker

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I don't know, I'm open for other religions and also people who don't believe. I believe it would work out somehow. Love is a wonder

Answer 33

Asker

That's true, however I'm just asking a question. It's all starting with interest

Answer 34

zorro8888

Well you're not really "just" asking a question you said you "only" feel attracted to white European males lol
I'm sure a lot are attracted to and would be open to dating a Muslim girl... but like I mentioned where would it lead in the long run?

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Asker

I don't know, I'm open for other religions and also people who don't believe. I believe it would work out somehow. Love is a wonder

Answer 36

ThatBritishLad | 586 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I've known some nice muslim ladies, I've also known some right tossers. I wouldn't say it's stereotypes that distance people, more uncertainty because of cultural barriers and the confusion that stuff can cause.

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RedThread | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I would if i was Muslim. I'm sometimes attracted to women who happen to be Muslim. Religious conflicts in relationships usually spell doom in my experience.

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MrAssHat | 347 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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iv had sex with a fair number of muslim women and iv got zero issues with them

Asker

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What about a relationship?
MrAssHat

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huh i would ya.. actually was seeing my terps sister for bout a year while i was in iraq the first time lol

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Asker

What about a relationship?

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MrAssHat

huh i would ya.. actually was seeing my terps sister for bout a year while i was in iraq the first time lol

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genericname85 | 6.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

nope i won´t date them. but not only muslims. any religious people for that matter. buddhist is ok, cause i can respect that believe.

Answer 42

Winter_Storm_Guy

Xper 6

Yeah, I am Protestant faith and attracted to Muslim girls i think they are pretty
and i have Middle Eastern fever. <3

Asker

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That's interesting :o Can I know why
Winter_Storm_Guy

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I just like middle eastern females i think they are gorgeous
females i love their personality too :-D :-P

Answer 43

Asker

That's interesting :o Can I know why

Answer 44

Winter_Storm_Guy

I just like middle eastern females i think they are gorgeous
females i love their personality too :-D :-P

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HonestWhiteGuy | 183 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Yea they are but many Muslim girls only date Muslim guys, so maybe they figure you won't and don't bother :(

Answer 46

Anonymous

Some Middle Eastern girls are attractive to me (I'm White) but I wouldn't ever date a Muslim. Maybe a Hindu, or something else though.
Your last question: Yes.

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Why?
Opinion Owner

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I don't trust them because of events in the last 15 years.
Asker

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You can't just generalize...
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Opinion Owner

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If there are 50 people in a group and I know that one of them wants to kill me and my family, but I don't know which one, I'd rather not trust any of them.
It's just like locking my door to my house and car. I know not everyone wants to steal from me, but I'm not just going to give them an easy chance for the ones that do.
Asker

+1 y
you need to read about Mk-Ultra, operation paperclip and the other stuff the government hides..
The people who caused 9-11 don't belong to me or my religion. It's all an act, a plan of the NWO to destroy the peace between people.
Opinion Owner

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And all of the Muslim ISIS followers that shoot and stab civilians that they don't even know?
Asker

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ISIS has nothing to do with my religion. They're not representing islam in any way. They belong to the secret organisation.
Search up: Simon Elliot

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Opinion Owner

I don't trust them because of events in the last 15 years.

Answer 48

Asker

You can't just generalize...

Answer 49

Opinion Owner

If there are 50 people in a group and I know that one of them wants to kill me and my family, but I don't know which one, I'd rather not trust any of them.
It's just like locking my door to my house and car. I know not everyone wants to steal from me, but I'm not just going to give them an easy chance for the ones that do.

Answer 50

Asker

you need to read about Mk-Ultra, operation paperclip and the other stuff the government hides..
The people who caused 9-11 don't belong to me or my religion. It's all an act, a plan of the NWO to destroy the peace between people.

Answer 51

Opinion Owner

And all of the Muslim ISIS followers that shoot and stab civilians that they don't even know?

Answer 52

Asker

ISIS has nothing to do with my religion. They're not representing islam in any way. They belong to the secret organisation.
Search up: Simon Elliot

Answer 53

Blitzkrieger

Guru

Depends. Id only date a muslim girl if she was not a barbarian.

Asker

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I don't even consider extreme muslims to be muslims and they are a minority (fortunately), but I get your point.
Blitzkrieger

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ok cool.

Answer 54

Asker

I don't even consider extreme muslims to be muslims and they are a minority (fortunately), but I get your point.

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Blitzkrieger

ok cool.

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just_here_26

Xper 2

I think muslim girls are insanely gorgeous! I wouldn't think twice about dating one.

Answer 57

Anonymous

I've no problem with them, however, she'd need to know that I'm Jewish

Opinion Owner

+1 y
Why just Europe, why not America and other countries?

Also, of course there are white guys that stay with girls the rest of their lives... my whole family is an example
Asker

+1 y
I don't think that's a problem, aslong there is understanding.
Why Europe? Because I live in Europe, and yeah I don't know about the other white guys in other parts of the world, but I do know they have a great character and an attractive face here (in general). However I'm not saying that others don't, it's just.. I'm not familiar with them
Opinion Owner

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Well, if you ever get out, you'll realize it's more than just Europe
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Asker

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I bet so
Opinion Owner

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Then why mention it as "just Europe". You never know when you might "get out"
Opinion Owner

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Also,

Why did it take me replying to your status, just for you to reply to me, after my original answer
Asker

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Well I've been abroad before.. I was busy in real life, I would have responded even without it

Answer 58

Opinion Owner

Why just Europe, why not America and other countries?

Also, of course there are white guys that stay with girls the rest of their lives... my whole family is an example

Answer 59

Asker

I don't think that's a problem, aslong there is understanding.
Why Europe? Because I live in Europe, and yeah I don't know about the other white guys in other parts of the world, but I do know they have a great character and an attractive face here (in general). However I'm not saying that others don't, it's just.. I'm not familiar with them

Answer 60

Opinion Owner

Well, if you ever get out, you'll realize it's more than just Europe

Answer 61

Asker

I bet so

Answer 62

Opinion Owner

Then why mention it as "just Europe". You never know when you might "get out"

Answer 63

Opinion Owner

Also,

Why did it take me replying to your status, just for you to reply to me, after my original answer

Answer 64

Asker

Well I've been abroad before.. I was busy in real life, I would have responded even without it

Answer 65

kingarthas | 207 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I would date or marry with a muslim as long as she isn't religious.

Asker

+1 y
The I am a muslim by name kind?
kingarthas

+1 y
i dont date or marry someone with hijab. unless i am blinded by love.

Answer 66

Asker

The I am a muslim by name kind?

Answer 67

kingarthas

i dont date or marry someone with hijab. unless i am blinded by love.

Answer 68

Anonymous

No offense but it's probably the hijab. It gives the vibe you're not interested, or your family's gonna marry you off to a Muslim guy or something.

Asker

+1 y
I see.. I think it's also because of ignorance. A conversation would probably help?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Well... why do you wear a hijab? The purpose is so guys don't look at you all wrong, right? That's what it's doing then..

Answer 69

Asker

I see.. I think it's also because of ignorance. A conversation would probably help?

Answer 70

Opinion Owner

Well... why do you wear a hijab? The purpose is so guys don't look at you all wrong, right? That's what it's doing then..

Answer 71

Anonymous

I'm white muslim, just saying that there are white muslims.

Opinion Owner

+1 y
A white muslims.
Where are you from? If you are from middle east then they will be rare to find.

Answer 72

Opinion Owner

A white muslims.
Where are you from? If you are from middle east then they will be rare to find.

Answer 73

AdamsModernMan

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Whats the point? You have different religions

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+1 y
That's what makes it even more interesting in my perspective
AdamsModernMan

+1 y
Then you don't truly believe in your religion

As in extreme comparison, if you are against abortions would you date someone who performs abortions daily?
Asker

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I can't explain myself 😂 love is a wonder.
Abortion is a personal option.
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AdamsModernMan

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You missed the point

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Asker

That's what makes it even more interesting in my perspective

Answer 75

AdamsModernMan

Then you don't truly believe in your religion

As in extreme comparison, if you are against abortions would you date someone who performs abortions daily?

Answer 76

Asker

I can't explain myself 😂 love is a wonder.
Abortion is a personal option.

Answer 77

AdamsModernMan

You missed the point

Answer 78

Anonymous

There are white Muslims. Are you honestly Muslim?

Asker

+1 y
I've never seen them and yes
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Then go for them. I don't see what is holding you back. Ask a guy out after getting to know him.
Tatanum

+1 y
My mother is Muslim, I have Arabic blood in me but we are pale af, people from North Africa (Northern Algeria, Tunisia, Maghreb) are usually white, they're all Kabyles. I don't know why people are surprised when they know it exists, damn there is a fair amount of white people here, they happen to be very attractive yet I wouldn't date a Muslim myself; Muslim men tend to be very strict, wouldn't let me do many things.

Answer 79

Asker

I've never seen them and yes

Answer 80

Opinion Owner

Then go for them. I don't see what is holding you back. Ask a guy out after getting to know him.

Answer 81

Tatanum

My mother is Muslim, I have Arabic blood in me but we are pale af, people from North Africa (Northern Algeria, Tunisia, Maghreb) are usually white, they're all Kabyles. I don't know why people are surprised when they know it exists, damn there is a fair amount of white people here, they happen to be very attractive yet I wouldn't date a Muslim myself; Muslim men tend to be very strict, wouldn't let me do many things.

Answer 82

Anonymous

Fuck yeah, some Muslim women are hot.

Asker

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Also in a relationship?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
What do you mean

Answer 83

Asker

Also in a relationship?

Answer 84

Opinion Owner

What do you mean

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mja091

Xper 4

i would yea

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Do you feel attracted to them?
mja091

+1 y
yeah. there are things that attract me to all people of different races, religions, etc. Everyone is different.
Asker

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Interesting
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mja091

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but yeah i hope to eventually settle down with one girl forever. but right now im representing team forever alone.
Asker

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H5 xD