What do white guys think of muslim girls, and would they like to date them?

[Anonymous]

I'm feeling hopeless lol. I feel only really attracted to white guys in Europe, and I'm a muslim girl. I know some are interested in me, but it's like they don't dare to approach me (Perhaps it's because of the stereotypes). Also are there white guys who are basically interested in staying with one girl for the rest of their life? #Teamforeveralone

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I wear a hijab/scarf, so I don't cover my face, only my hair.

[Phoenix98]

I don't think much of them and what I mean by that is I don't particularly have positive or negative feelings towards them.

As for them in most cases the idea of dating them doesn't cross my mind, not only are they not allowed to date in general but are not allowed to be with anyone outside their own religion. Though oddly enough white christian and Arab Muslim relationships are getting more and more common despite that as well as Muslim women being with men who are not Muslim in general.

It's sad what there families and communities do to the girls though should they proceed I've seen a lot of stories and testimonies from girls about families disowning them and their communities turning on them.

Despite that I am interested in Arab girls I'm just cautious about it and yes I am only interested in being with one woman for the rest of my life even if I marry a unbeliever ( I am a Christian ) that would be the case we're not allowed to divorce a woman if she is not a christian.

[AleDeEurope]

I don't like Muslim culture, so that is something that will most likely throw me off, unless she was raised in a Muslim culture, but doesn't believe in Islam, then that's different.
Also wearing a burqa, niqab, headscarf, or whatever, will also be a turn off.

What will make me like her or not, will be if she follows Islam. If she does, it's a no from me, and I know many guys in the West that think the same way.

[Asker]

Clear, thanks for your input

[Anonymous]

I'm a Muslim girl in the UK. All different races like me, including white. Lots more white Muslims here too these days, actually my mum is one of them. Not everywhere though, mainly like London Birmingham and cities.
And i also know white guys who do want to be with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why loads get married lol.

[BeautifulPromisesx]

I'm a muslim girl and I've been approached by a couple but it's only after they got to know me a little. I do think that they're a little cautious because they feel we might not be interested or might get offended lmao.

[Asker]

I see.. that's true. I can relate to that

[ElissaDido]

I get a lot of attention from White guys. I'm Muslim too.

[Curmudgeon]

I'm in America, and I have seen Middle Eastern women who were just stunning. However:
1. They were of Lebanese Christian heritage, and so were not bundled up. In fact, they were "fashion plates", dress wise.
2. They were open to non-muslim men. Well, duh, being Lebanese Christian, they would be, right? :-D

I guess the question is: Can you defy your parents on this issue?

[archiz]

lmfao lebanese christian here checking in XD
how you doing bb ;)

[Curmudgeon]

Update: The white guy will want to undo your hijab and play with your lovely dark hair. Just saying. In fact, he many want to undo all your clothing.

[Asker]

I definitely can, it's just about whether I give up or not, and of course the one I will love.

[archiz]

but asker
aren t you religious?

[Asker]

I am

[archiz]

so you ll have a civil marriage?

[Maik567]

Kinda just ignored them all my life, I've always thought they would just marry muslim guys or something. And to be honest no I wouldn't date her if she had to wear that scarf, if she was allowed to dress like "a normal person" then I might consider it as long as they didn't expect our children to become muslim.

[Asker]

That's also what I mean with stereotypes, and I got your point thanks

[uknaked]

I think that the problem is muslim clothing, and certainly a problem of understanding your culture, unless you are a western dressing girl?
There is also the fear of a muslim family having opposition to an out of faith relationship or marriage.
Personally I adore a lot of muslim ladies, many of them are very attractive.
Most guys do want a relationship for life, marriage with children, but not often when they are quite young, they settle down when they fall in love!

[Asker]

That's true, so in other words the scarf keeps them away?

[uknaked]

I believe it does put them off, most guys are not very religious these days, including myself.
I have a very poor opinion of all organised religious groupings, they are all controlling, self serving, self interest protecting purveyors of fear, to prolong the future of their doctrine. All religions, demand obedience, and kids being brought up with their particular dogma, with no actual basis in scientific fact.
It is true that the vast majority of armed deadly conflicts in the world are excused, or caused by, differences in religion, while most religious leaders, theoretically, teach peace!

[Asker]

Thanks for your input *^*

[G-Daz]

Muslims girls aren't allowed to date non muslims... that's only an option for muslim guys. I would have said non muslim white guys would date a muslim that doesn't follow their religion like you are doing though. But outwordly if she looks like she does, most won't be interested

[Daveluce]

Most of muslim girls are coming from a very religious family, most white guys think they can't have sex with u because u ll wait to mariage, which i have respect for, but you know what i mean. Also i guess would it be hard to introduce a white christian boy as your boyfriend to your family, but if u have a liberal family there will be a guy you can get :)

[dancluj]

Do your wear traditional muslin cloths and cover your face? I don't think that helps. In rest I don't think you will have a hard time meeting a great guy.
"'Also are there white guys who are basically interested in staying with one girl for the rest of their life? '"
Probably not many guys... Especially under 18 years.

[Asker]

I don't cover my face, however I do cover my hair, and don't show much form of my body.

[dancluj]

I don't know what to say. Do you mind telling in what countrie you live? And also are you the only muslim girl at your school?

[Asker]

The Netherlands, well yeah a minority

[Theodorable]

Yes, I would date a muslim girl, and I would defend her against any honor killings that might arise from her being with me... So I would buy lots of guns. I think middle eastern people can be very beautiful and kind, but I would not raise my Children Muslim because I want to be a good Jew. And I'm not very happy with Islam right now.

[TripleAce]

If you're beautiful it won't make a difference, as much.. But overall it would be very rare to have a white family accept a traditional islamic women. The views are two polar opposites

[Asker]

I got your point. It is indeed very rare

[TripleAce]

But it does work and can work. Absolutely. If you guys love each other there is no problem you can't overcome. Right?

[Asker]

Yeah I believe in that and I think it's really interesting to have someone who's completely the opposite of me

[zorro8888]

I thought Muslims women couldn't marry outside of their religion... how did you see this playing out in the long run?

[Asker]

That's true, however I'm just asking a question. It's all starting with interest

[zorro8888]

Well you're not really "just" asking a question you said you "only" feel attracted to white European males lol
I'm sure a lot are attracted to and would be open to dating a Muslim girl... but like I mentioned where would it lead in the long run?

[Asker]

I don't know, I'm open for other religions and also people who don't believe. I believe it would work out somehow. Love is a wonder

[John_Doesnt]

The Koran and Muslim religion clearly states that a Muslim woman can't date/marry a non-Muslim. So, even if they were educated on your religion they're not gonna bother with dating because they assume you think it's wrong.

[indissoluble]

Nope. Any person with a brain that is honest born into Islam will become an ex-Muslim. Only retarded people stay muslims.

[Lovearabgirls]

I love Muslim girls no matter what. Arab and Muslim girls are my favorite. I’ve dated many for a long time. Let them all in please.

[MrAssHat]

iv had sex with a fair number of muslim women and iv got zero issues with them

[Asker]

What about a relationship?

[MrAssHat]

huh i would ya.. actually was seeing my terps sister for bout a year while i was in iraq the first time lol

[ThatBritishLad]

I've known some nice muslim ladies, I've also known some right tossers. I wouldn't say it's stereotypes that distance people, more uncertainty because of cultural barriers and the confusion that stuff can cause.

[RedThread]

I would if i was Muslim. I'm sometimes attracted to women who happen to be Muslim. Religious conflicts in relationships usually spell doom in my experience.

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

Yeah, I am Protestant faith and attracted to Muslim girls i think they are pretty
and i have Middle Eastern fever. <3

[Asker]

That's interesting :o Can I know why

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

I just like middle eastern females i think they are gorgeous
females i love their personality too :-D :-P

[genericname85]

nope i won´t date them. but not only muslims. any religious people for that matter. buddhist is ok, cause i can respect that believe.

[Anonymous]

Some Middle Eastern girls are attractive to me (I'm White) but I wouldn't ever date a Muslim. Maybe a Hindu, or something else though.
Your last question: Yes.

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't trust them because of events in the last 15 years.

[Asker]

You can't just generalize...

[Opinion Owner]

If there are 50 people in a group and I know that one of them wants to kill me and my family, but I don't know which one, I'd rather not trust any of them.
It's just like locking my door to my house and car. I know not everyone wants to steal from me, but I'm not just going to give them an easy chance for the ones that do.

[Asker]

you need to read about Mk-Ultra, operation paperclip and the other stuff the government hides..
The people who caused 9-11 don't belong to me or my religion. It's all an act, a plan of the NWO to destroy the peace between people.

[Opinion Owner]

And all of the Muslim ISIS followers that shoot and stab civilians that they don't even know?

[Asker]

ISIS has nothing to do with my religion. They're not representing islam in any way. They belong to the secret organisation.
Search up: Simon Elliot

[HonestWhiteGuy]

Yea they are but many Muslim girls only date Muslim guys, so maybe they figure you won't and don't bother :(

[kingarthas]

I would date or marry with a muslim as long as she isn't religious.

[Asker]

The I am a muslim by name kind?

[kingarthas]

i dont date or marry someone with hijab. unless i am blinded by love.

[Blitzkrieger]

Depends. Id only date a muslim girl if she was not a barbarian.

[Asker]

I don't even consider extreme muslims to be muslims and they are a minority (fortunately), but I get your point.

[Blitzkrieger]

ok cool.

[Anonymous]

No offense but it's probably the hijab. It gives the vibe you're not interested, or your family's gonna marry you off to a Muslim guy or something.

[Asker]

I see.. I think it's also because of ignorance. A conversation would probably help?

[Opinion Owner]

Well... why do you wear a hijab? The purpose is so guys don't look at you all wrong, right? That's what it's doing then..

[Anonymous]

I'm white muslim, just saying that there are white muslims.

[Opinion Owner]

A white muslims.
Where are you from? If you are from middle east then they will be rare to find.

[Anonymous]

I've no problem with them, however, she'd need to know that I'm Jewish

[Opinion Owner]

Why just Europe, why not America and other countries?

Also, of course there are white guys that stay with girls the rest of their lives... my whole family is an example

[Asker]

I don't think that's a problem, aslong there is understanding.
Why Europe? Because I live in Europe, and yeah I don't know about the other white guys in other parts of the world, but I do know they have a great character and an attractive face here (in general). However I'm not saying that others don't, it's just.. I'm not familiar with them

[Opinion Owner]

Well, if you ever get out, you'll realize it's more than just Europe

[Asker]

I bet so

[Opinion Owner]

Then why mention it as "just Europe". You never know when you might "get out"

[Opinion Owner]

Also,

Why did it take me replying to your status, just for you to reply to me, after my original answer

[Asker]

Well I've been abroad before.. I was busy in real life, I would have responded even without it

[just_here_26]

I think muslim girls are insanely gorgeous! I wouldn't think twice about dating one.

[AdamsModernMan]

Whats the point? You have different religions

[Asker]

That's what makes it even more interesting in my perspective

[AdamsModernMan]

Then you don't truly believe in your religion

As in extreme comparison, if you are against abortions would you date someone who performs abortions daily?

[Asker]

I can't explain myself 😂 love is a wonder.
Abortion is a personal option.

[AdamsModernMan]

You missed the point

[Anonymous]

There are white Muslims. Are you honestly Muslim?

[Asker]

I've never seen them and yes

[Opinion Owner]

Then go for them. I don't see what is holding you back. Ask a guy out after getting to know him.

[Tatanum]

My mother is Muslim, I have Arabic blood in me but we are pale af, people from North Africa (Northern Algeria, Tunisia, Maghreb) are usually white, they're all Kabyles. I don't know why people are surprised when they know it exists, damn there is a fair amount of white people here, they happen to be very attractive yet I wouldn't date a Muslim myself; Muslim men tend to be very strict, wouldn't let me do many things.

[Anonymous]

Fuck yeah, some Muslim women are hot.

[Asker]

Also in a relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean

[Hijabengali]

As a muslim girl in London I've dared

[mja091]

i would yea

[Asker]

Do you feel attracted to them?

[mja091]

yeah. there are things that attract me to all people of different races, religions, etc. Everyone is different.

[Asker]

Interesting

[mja091]

but yeah i hope to eventually settle down with one girl forever. but right now im representing team forever alone.

[Asker]

H5 xD