How can you stop playing it safe when talking to girls?

Anonymous
My problem and the reason I am 20 and never had a girlfriend is because I cannot flirt or make the conservation with girls more sexual. I only talk about boring things like school, wheater etc.
I see some guys, forexample at parties and other gatherings they'll overstep boundaries and say things like you have a nice butt and things of that nature and the girls will just slap them back in a playful manner and flirt back. They just dont give a damn, they say what they feel and make their intentions clear wihtout any filter. At the end the girls always goes back home with them.

I just have an inherent fear of talking to a girls in that way and thats why I always end up as the guy you have nothing against as a person but that you would not want to spend any alone time with never mind date or sleep with.
How do I get over the fear of saying things I'm actually thinking to girls and not play it safe all the time?
How can you stop playing it safe when talking to girls?
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