He won't date me because I'm a liberal feminist, are political views really that important? (Page 2)

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I really don't understand why this would turn him away so much. Things were going well for months, but then we started talking about our political views. Turns out, he hates liberals and feminists. Well actually, he said he hated all political parties, just those two more than the others. I was like, ok cool. Then we don't have to bring up politics. but after I told him what I was for, he just up and rejected me. And he said that it was for those reasons. Are different political views really that damaging to a relationship?

Negrodamuss · Answer

Well political differences that large can cause a rift. I wouldn't mind dating a feminist but it really depends on what their particular views are. A lot of them aren't correct in my opinion on a few core issues

Anonymous · Answer

Of course when your a liberal feminist its a lot more than just political views and politics that plays a hand. Now a liberal feminist is like facing a hydra no matter how many times a head is cut off by using logic that they are not to blame another one trying to devour someone's personality into guilt tripping, depression, demonization to get to their own version of the world. Who'd want to deal with that every day of their lives.

MaiNameIsSunshine · Answer

Not really, my stats teacher is full liberal and her hubby is full conservative and they do just fine, just don't talk about politics much.

LivingLife94 · Answer

I would not date a homophobic, because I'm bi sexual

jacquesvol · Answer

If your views are that different, you might be better off without that guy.

Anonymous · Answer

If I was dating a girl who though trump was a better candidate than no one at all, I wouldn't think highly of her.

Zendrya · Answer

Yes they are. I wouldn't date you either. I couldn't date a feminist.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Well political beliefs are part of your personality, would you rather have people date you for your looks only?

Anonymous · Answer

Why would he date a man hater? Good for him, he got away early.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Yes because if your political views are too different, especially on issues that matter a lot to you, there will be too much arguing in your relationship. Even more arguing once you have kids.

Blitzkrieger · Answer

can't blame him. Its a precaution for in case you are crazy.

Saoirse_Nua · Answer

Yeah I have heard that it can happen - I don't know try talk to him, tell him you don't have to talk about politics

castratedwhiteguy · Answer

Liberal feminists are a deal breaker for me. If that's how you think than the relationship is headed straight for divorce court. Thanks but no thanks...

Anonymous · Answer

Feminist and liberal women are more likely to get divorced. He probably wanted a more traditional relationship and your views are a redflag to the future he wants.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Feminist? They're not very feminine so it's not attractive

ProbablyTooMature · Answer

Political views usually break down to a fundamental level.

CyberToothTiger · Answer

No, you shouldn't be judged for being a Liberal. I would date a Conservative and I'm a Liberal cause i am moderated Liberal.

Anonymous · Answer

You really have to ask? Both are automatic no no's.

XuR_CXV_115 · Answer

Clarify to him whether you're a real feminist or those ignorant bitches who like to call themselves feminist.

TheFlak38 · Answer

He did well. Should he apologise for not being a liberal cuck useful idiot white knight retard?

Gommers · Answer

Yeah, the short and nonoffensive to your sad little emotions, is yes they are.

AirForceOne · Answer

They can be. For example I asked out a girl once. She brought up the fact that hated guns. I told her I owned one, and was in the military.

bcromartie · Answer

What exactly is a Liberal Feminist?  Anyway, I presume as he hates all politicking he probably would have rejected you no matter what you said.

blackeagle007 · Answer

He has issues and needs to seek out help of a mental help prof.

Unit1 · Answer

Well then, he wasn't for you. Maybe someone else will accept you.

brewersfan01 · Answer

i dont think there important in a relationship. but if she constantly talks about it and makes it a constant argument then obv i will have a problem.

TheSpartan · Answer

I'd never date a woman whom wasn't a far-right conservative.

Love_Is_Eternal · Answer

Feminism is a cancer to relationships and men see liberal feminists as a danger.

backonthelist · Answer

Don't blame em. That's a combination bound to fall apart.

Noxifer626 · Answer

If he found it so unbearable, the relationship wasn't meant to work out.

Thisperson98 · Answer

It is okay, I wouldn't date a feminist either.

Anonymous · Answer

Liberal Feminist is a deal breaker for many guys, especially if you are too liberal.

Rissyanne · Answer

It would never work...

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it can be damaging. I always remember "irreconcilable differences" when I read stuff like this.

beefcake2000 · Answer

If a girl told me she liked Trump I'd say see ya later.

GoldCobra · Answer

They shouldn't be but I guess it matters a lot to people

AhGojira · Answer

Well you are a feminist after all...

Dred1614returns · Answer

I wouldn't date a radical feminist either.

bobbyxx · Answer

I wouldn't either. Feminists are the worst.

TheInvisibleMan · Answer

No offense but everybody hates feminists

Aweir · Answer

can't blame him. Most feminists are nuts

Anonymous · Answer

Yup. Im closed mineded and only like like minded people around.

Anonymous · Answer

if a girl even mentions she is a feminist i do a 180 and walk in the other direction. I'm not wasting my time on stupid women.

fitgirl2 · Answer

If he has a problem with the concept of feminism, he's probably not worth worrying over

Relentless_Hippie · Answer

Yeah it's a pretty big deal.

Pandabearpoo · Answer

He's not even worth it if he thinks women are less then men.

MrAssHat · Answer

ah i wouldn't even speak with someone like you tbh

Whaaaaa · Answer

Well liberal feminists are the worst

Waffles731 · Answer

Well you obviously weren't a good fit

Megabeauty · Answer

look I'm not ever dating no Trump voting redneck.

Anonymous · Answer

not to me cuz i don't know what any of that crap means

SoFeckinAddicted · Answer

i dont blame him

Phoenix98 · Answer

Yes to a degree.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Yes, yes they are.

bruce3 · Answer

as long as respect ıt şs not important

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i wouldn't date a liberal

BruceJender · Answer

I'm sure there's more to this.

fonduegirl · Answer

Good riddance haha

Bandit74 · Answer

I don't blame him.

HardcoreLiberal · Answer

ı would date you

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